Women's ways of power are unique and not often embraced by women as a form of power. Yet when women embrace their unique forms of power-such as their power of relationship-their impact increases as does their effectiveness for realizing what they seek to make better.  The power of relationship begins with a woman knowing what has value and meaing for her, then partnering with her soul for creating this in her life and world. For example, do you seek more care for the world of nature? Pivoting to sharing such with your soul and spirit will create events in your life for taking action to effectively care more for nature.  This is not a linear intellectual process, but a process of relating to your inner world of values and what has heart for you. And then partnering with your soul and spirit for creating an impact with such in the 5 senses world. Impact that comes through your relating to yourself, your soul, and then your gift of action as a human being. Join me as I share my thoughts and real life experiences of how the power of relationship can empower more of what you seek in your life and your world. I look forward to sharing more about this power you have as a woman and inspiriing a more active relationship with your powers as a woman for your life and our world! To learn more about the work I do with women and their relationships, check out my website.

Life offers women more choices than ever, so why aren't women happier than ever? It's simple-more choices is not the same as knowing YOUR choices which will create the happiness and love you are seeking. It really is simple-altho not always so easy. Simple is knowing what is true for you and living with congruence to this in you choices of actions and even your words. Simple is knowing what makes you happy-and then making those your choices you commit to action. Easy? Not if you are a people pleaser and don't like to make waves. Join JaiKaur as she shares how making your life simple may not be easy but is will make you happier and more likely to have the love you desire more present in your life.  JaiKaur mentors women for embracing their power in life and love. If you would like to learn more about JaiKaur's support for women doing so check out her website or email her.

Power is a concept and energy many women are ambivalent about, feeling both a poverty of it in their life and yet conflicted in claiming more of it. Understandable as for so long, women have been subjucated to forms of power destructive, demeaning, denigrating. The good news is there is a growing awareness of this state of affairs and growing support for going from #metoo to #nomore. Power for women can be embraced as not in conflict or denial of our deepest values and truths as women-that all life is precious and worthy of our support. Yes, this is not the current form of power which is based in control, in might makes right, in power over that less able to defend itself. Embracing our power as women will require we no longer agree to be silent, to always be nice, to not make waves. And to not become a mirror of what we do not like about other forms of power. Join JaiKaur as she offers wisdom on women's ways of power, of the power of compassion, and the power of our dignity, nobility, and divinity as women. CLICK HERE to learn more about JaiKaur and her services for women and relationships. 

Challenge has gotten a bad rap in an age when "easy" is the preferred choice. Easy choices, easy relationships, what is easy (and what one can get away with) seems to have gained favor. Yet not unlike that old-fashioned virtue of courage, challenge calls to you with the promise of granting you not only more experience about yourself and life. When you greet life's challenges as empowering you-not overwhelming you-happiness awaits you. In this podcast, JaiKaur will talk about how challenge is your friend for a life happy and satisfying. And how courage, commitment, character come alongside this choice for enriching your life as well. Join JaiKaur for a show certain to be a bit provocative, but then again, change agents often are! To learn more about JaiKaur and her services for women and men CLICK HERE.  

We know how what we spend our money on creates what we have in life. Do you know the same is true for what you focus your thoughts on? And what you invest your energy in is what you create more of in your life? This is not woo-woo, it is the science that people who are succesful in manifesting a life they love know and practice. In working with women seeking to change their life, we get to a point in their process in which they must choose to embrace their courage and their faith in themselves and their Spirit- or not. The women who are willing to do so realize changes they have been seeking for some time and had failed before now to achieve. I take no credit other than knowing from my own life and the scores of people I have helped over the years, how when you want to realize true change in yourself or life, you need to reach beyond the world of your five senses. Investing in your faith instead of your fear will illuminate how your life has meaning and purpose. As Einstein was credited as saying, you cannot create change from the same place you created what you want to change. We live in times which call upon the power of our spirit and souls to create the changes we seek instead of counting on our five senses intelligence to get us out of the jambs this intelligence created. And women will lead the way for doing so through the grace and grit that is within all women. To learn more about JaiKaur and her work with women Click Here!

Every day staying silent harvests victims, for when we are silent, silence is not unlike a mortal illness. An illness that claims the dreams, the hopes, the desires of it's victims who have been told to be nice girls. Nice girls don't piss people off, nice girls don't hurt people's feelings, and nice girls for certain don't put themselves first. And being nice can kill you if not your dreams, your joys, your staying true to your life and self. In this show JaiKaur will talk about the price of your silence, a major dynamic in the #metoo movement. Time and time again women recounted how the trauma of their abuse was not only what happened but the cancer of staying silent about it. Women are often put on the defensive when they speak up in matters of violation or abuse and so often stay silent in the belief that no one will believe them or that they will face shaming and abuse as bad as the original incident. Over and over in my work with women we come upon an incident in which a violation or transgression of power occurred and they stayed silent about it, often at the behest of their mother. Years later, the shame and self-condemnation they focus on themselves is like a cancer, invading how they feel and believe about themselves and the world. Their silence grew the original incident into having so much more power and impact in their life than the original incident alone could ever have had. The price of your silence is higher than you know until you uncover it and reclaim your voice. To learn more about JaiKaur and her work with women and couples go to www,jaikaur.com.  

Intimate relationships are held by many Eastern traditions as the highest form of yoga. Intimate relationships will bring the darkness hidden within us all out, for transforming in the light of day. It is the longing within the heart of all true loves, and we are instead taught to engage each other as "commodities on demand". "You are to do/be/not do this if you love me"  or "If you loved me, you'd behave the way I want you to, agree with me", etc. To not much surprise, such relationships hit troubled waters once one person does not agree to this, or goes elsewhere for the connection and support they are seeking. Learn how to engage the true magic of intimate relationship-to be seen and loved just as you are, warts and all. To do so requires you can hold yourself with such love enough to offer it to another. Relationships otherwise will show themselves in time to be either an exchange of commodities or caretaking by one person of the other. Unhappiness and resentment, lying and betrayal the results in time, not the intimate and soul connection desired. To learn more about JaiKaur and her mentoring of women for embracing their power in life and love, check out her website JaiKaur.com.

Women at midlife are called to cross the bridge from living the expectations of others to living what is true for them in their heart and soul. Midlife is a time when marriages are called to heal or die, hormones rage so you tend to your rage, and no longer can your busyness shield your unhappiness. Having spent years fulfilling roles and to-do lists, you may have forgotten to be a woman first and confused your value with making others happy with you. Crossing the bridge of midlife is choosing to reclaim and renew yourself, giving voice to and living what your life and world is longing for. Crossing the bridge of midlife requires you renew your relationship with your spirit and soul for claiming your sovereignty and legacy as a woman. Crossing the bridge of midlife demands you no longer live by the expectations of others and buy into that your needs are selfish. For deep within you, you know the world is as healthy as women are happy and empowered. Join me for exploring being a woman crossing the bridge of midlife, gathering strength and support in community, embracing your grace and grit as a woman. To learn more about JaiKaur and her mentoring of women embracing their power in live and love with grit and grace CLICK HERE

Women know they are powerful, but too often disclaim or don't engage their power, resulting in unhappiness and undesired results. Why? Because the cultural and family messages about powerful women have not been inviting nor flattering to most women. And the results? Well, take a look around you at a world imblanced and unhealthy. In this show, JaiKaur will talk about women loving and embracing their power in their life and love. Women's power is different than how we have both been taught as well as seen it exercised by men. Different does not mean better or worse, and both women and men's ways of power are needed as they compliment each other. (Not so different from how a healthy relationship between a man and a woman requires each person to be centered in who they are). More about JaiKaur and her mentoring of women for embracing their power in life and love can be found at her website. JaiKaur offers a complimentary session for women interested in seeking relief with a challenge in life or love. Simply email JaiKaur to set up your complimentary session.  

We are taught to seek love and happiness from others and are often disappointed in others for how they love us. Yet unless you love yourself, your love for another will be seeking the wrong things from them, creating an unsatisfying relationship or even dooming the relationship. Learning to love yourself is needed for being able to love another as well as to receive love from another. Join me as I talk about how looking for another to validate you, to care for you in ways you do not do so for yourself will only create blaming the other person for the unhappiness within yourself. Self-love is a required choice and practice for being able to truly love another, for as the saying goes, an empty glass pours no water.

Your presence as a woman is a power which you can choose to engage in your life for changing the outcomes of challenges and for realizing your dreams. This is not a power women are taught about as we live in a time when men's ways have had the stage of what we pay attention to and engage. And, the lack of women's ways of power being embraced by the world has impacted both men's and women's lives in ways not for the better. Join me as I share how you can do so as the power of your presence as a women is a power women are often unaware of and not taught how to engage. It is a power which needs asks of you a willingness to engage your heart in service of your deepest values and to honor your power as a woman. No collateral damages, only a willingness to call upon your grace for meeting the grit of life.