We discuss why it’s helpful actually to search for a solution, and we share an easy hack for giving yourself accountability. Plus, we explore an insight about how long it takes to feel at home in a new place.

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• Watch my ⁠Home Makeover video with Clutterbug⁠ and check out the resources we created for viewers
• ⁠Armrest covers⁠ 
• ⁠Face Washing Wrist Bands⁠
• ⁠Ikea Shoe Cabinet⁠
• Wall Street Journal article: ⁠Has your dream renovation become a nightmare? Maybe you need a ‘house therapist'⁠
• Elizabeth: Famesick by Lena Dunham (⁠Amazon⁠, ⁠Bookshop⁠) 
• Gretchen: Someone at a Distance by Dorothy Whipple (⁠Amazon⁠)
  

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Even though it’s absurd to say, there are features of everyday life that do seem oddly anachronistic.

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We talk about why clutter causes so much conflict at home—and how thinking about Clutter-Blindness, the Endowment Effect, and the Four Tendencies can help you handle it more effectively. Plus, practical strategies for living with a messy family member and saying goodbye to sentimental clutter.

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• Visit my Organization Hub for 9 practical tips for deciding what to keep

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We talk about a specific, easy way to reduce the unworn clothes in your closet, and we also share a listener’s clothes-related hack for keeping track of lost items. We explore an interesting distinction: are you a nostalgic person or an expectant person?

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Take the "Four Tendencies" quiz Check out my book Outer Order, Inner Calm Check out the I Want You To Know journal for a Mother's Day Gift Elizabeth: Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg (Amazon, Bookshop)  Gretchen: Nonesuch by Francis Spufford (Amazon, Bookshop) 
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An ancient teaching story from the Sufi tradition is a good illustration of the fact that sometimes, it’s a good idea to examine a situation closely—and sometimes it’s a good idea to look away.

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I talk with professional organizer Cassandra Aarssen, creator of the viral Clutterbug “Organizing Styles” (Bee, Butterfly, Ladybug, Cricket). In her work, she sees the same problem over and over: people can get organized, but they can’t keep it that way. We explore why—and how the Four Tendencies can help.

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At the World Happiness Summit meeting at the SXSW conference in Austin, Texas, we talk to author Jennifer Wallace about her new book, “Mattering: The Secret to a Life of Deep Connection and Purpose.”

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• Mattering by Jennifer Wallace 
• World Happiness Summit 
• Take the Four Tendencies Quiz here 

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We discuss the seven deadly sins of disconnection—the habits that push others away. We also share an easy hack for making an environment more appealing, and answer a listener's question about reality TV.

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•  Try my new "Happiness Helpline" on gretchenrubin.com by clicking the icon in the bottom right-hand corner, or find it in the Happier app.
• Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections by Anna Goldfarb (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Dimmer switches for lamps 
• Use this guide to set up your No-Spend Month 
• Elizabeth: The All-or-Nothing Marriage: How the Best Marriages Work by Eli Finkel (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• Gretchen: All My Knotted-Up Life by Beth Moore (Amazon, Bookshop) 

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By reading a novel, I learned to appreciate a celebrated piece of music.

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The One-Minute Rule is one of the most popular organization hacks ideas we've ever shared—and if you've used it, you know why. But over the years it's inspired a few other additional rules that are just as useful, including one that kept Elizabeth's closet floor clean for the first time in years. In this episode we bring them all together.

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We talk about why it’s a good idea to avoid self-diagnosis. We also suggest an easy hack for people prone to worry, and share our progress on “Design Your Year” aims now that we’ve reached Day 100 of the year.

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• Visit the Design Your Year hub 
• 26 for 2026 list
• Choose your One Word Theme
• Join the Move 26 Challenge 
• Take the Four Tendencies Quiz 
• Check out my book Forty Ways to Look at JFK here
• Elizabeth: The Client by John Grisham (Amazon, Bookshop) 
• Gretchen: Joyful Anyway by Kate Bowler (Amazon, Bookshop) 

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