CockTales: Dirty Discussions

Kiki Said So & Medinah Monroe

CockTales: Dirty Discussions is hosted by Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe. Both women are in different stages of their love lives; one single and one in a serious long term relationship. The women give uncensored accounts about their sex and dating...

  • 1 hour 18 minutes
    Ep. 466 Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum Cycle ft. Kamilla Davis
    Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 - Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 - Host Catch-Up00:05:22 - Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 - Game Time00:20:09 - Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 - The Dog Drama00:36:05 - Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 - When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 - Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 - Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.

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    Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] Sex: [email protected]/Ads/Paid Collabs: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries: [email protected] Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com





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    28 October 2025, 9:08 pm
  • 41 minutes 45 seconds
    Why Are So Many Women Accepting the Bare Minimum?
    Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered
    • 💆🏽‍♀️ Cupping, Muscle Alignment & Back Pain: Kiki’s wild story about her body going on strike and how therapy (of the physical kind) brought her back.

    • ☀️ Low Vitamin D, Hormone Health & Mental Clarity: Medinah opens up about her emotional lows and discovering that her sadness wasn’t just in her head — it was in her bloodwork.

    • 💉 Redefining “Normal”: Why “normal” test results don’t always mean healthy, and how systemic biases in medicine impact Black women.

    • 💕 Dating Culture & the Bare Minimum Epidemic: The ladies react to a shocking revelation — some women have never been taken on a real date. They discuss how to raise standards, heal from bad patterns, and stop mistaking attention for effort.

    • 💬 Community and Connection: From breast cancer awareness walks to social clubs and single-mom dinners, Kiki and Medinah highlight women-centered spaces that foster real sisterhood.

    • 😳 Weird Sex Story of the Week: An ER visit turns into an unforgettable discovery when a routine scan reveals a little… extra hardware.

    ✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates.


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    17 October 2025, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    Soft Life, Hard Lessons
    Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real.

    The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, her take on the “Winter Arc” trend, and why LinkedIn just became her new favorite social app.

    They close it out with reflections on reading more, healing from burnout, and what it means to stay authentic when life gets messy.Cocktail of the Week: Unruly — just champagne, because we’re celebrating making it through another week.


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    9 October 2025, 6:11 pm
  • 1 hour 19 minutes
    Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags
    (00:00:00) Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags
    (00:00:01) Intro Trailer
    (00:01:30) LIBRA LEMON DROP RECIPE
    (00:05:16) ANNOUNCEMENTS
    (00:07:38) KIKI'S BOOK CLUB
    (00:11:23) XOMAN PODCAST
    (00:13:47) HEDONISM WITH WORST BEHAVIOR TOUR STARTING AT $1650
    (00:17:26) LIFERX USE CODE COCKTALES
    (00:22:13) WEIRD SEX
    (00:44:19) SOAKINGWET.COM USE CODE COCKTALES
    (00:47:16) DISSAPOINMENTS 7 THE JOY OF SHOWING UP
    (01:03:15) I'M CURIOUS TO KNOW
    (01:05:01) advice - send yours [email protected]

    This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered girl chat—no guest, just us! We kick things off with a Libra Lemon Drop cocktail and dive into Libra season vibes, astrology, and friendship dynamics. From growing apart after kids to showing up for friends’ milestones, we get real about what it means to maintain connections through life’s transitions.

    We also share self-rituals, birthday traditions, and our takes on communication struggles—whether it’s boring conversations, copycat friends, or partners who just won’t open up. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without a wild story, and this week’s birthday cake incident will have you cackling. Plus, Indecisive Diane drops in with advice, and we tackle listener questions about threesomes and friend drama.

    Pour a drink, press play, and let’s talk friendships, growth, and keeping it spicy.

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    ✨ Chapters:

    00:00:00 - Intro Teaser: Growing Apart from Friends
    00:00:19 - Self Traditions and Rituals
    00:00:33 - Conversation Control
    00:00:50 - Growing Apart After Having Kids
    00:01:12 - Cocktales: Dirty Discussions Introduction
    00:01:30 - Libra Lemon Drop Cocktail Recipe
    00:02:04 - Libra Season Discussion
    00:03:07 - Friends and Astrology Signs
    00:05:16 - Announcements and Updates
    00:07:38 - Book Club Meeting
    00:11:23 - XO Man Podcast
    00:13:47 - Worst Behavior Tour Trip to Negril, Jamaica
    00:15:31 - Excitement for the Upcoming Trip to Turkey
    00:15:58 - Discussing Body Positivity and Self Sex Education
    00:16:18 - Gift of Experiences
    00:17:08 - Reflecting on Friendships
    00:17:26 - LifeRX Segment: Health and Fitness Journey with Life Rx MD
    00:22:13 - Weird S*x Story: Birthday Cake Incident
    00:26:27 - Growing Apart from Friends: Perspectives
    00:31:40 - Speaking Up in Relationships and Friendships
    00:34:10 - The Elasticity of the Heart
    00:36:26 - Self Reflection and Personal Growth
    00:39:53 - Birthday Rituals and Traditions
    00:40:30 - Appreciation for Massages
    00:44:19 - Ad: VB Health: Soaking Wet Pills
    00:46:54 - Soaking Wet Ad
    00:47:16 - Disappointments in Friendships
    00:47:54 - The Joy of Showing Up
    00:50:50 - Surprising Nephew in LA
    00:52:57 - Supporting Friends' Events
    00:55:34 - The Importance of Communication
    00:56:30 - The Struggles of Boring Conversations
    01:01:38 - The Importance of Hobbies
    01:02:15 - Dealing with Non-Communicative People
    01:02:50 - Creating Conversations and Breaking the Silence
    01:03:15 - Promoting I'm Curious to Know.com
    01:03:55 - Indecisive Diane
    01:05:01 - Advice Segment Introduction
    01:05:43 - Advice: Exploring Threesomes
    01:11:45 - Advice: Dealing with Copycat Friends

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    25 September 2025, 7:06 pm
  • 1 hour 35 minutes
    Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)
    This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.

    Detailed Show Notes:
    Marriage, Partnership & Real Love Lessons
    Topics Covered:
    • How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kids

    • What they believe are the “silent killers” of marriage

    • Why trust has to be earned but also given with grace

    • The role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship alive

    • Their wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoon

    • Adjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balance

    • Why friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriage

    • Lessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partner

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    Chapters:
    00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride
    02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*
    04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating
    09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage
    13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos
    17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh
    27:00 – Do married people miss being single?
    31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance
    37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex
    44:00 – Living together before marriage
    50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths
    53:00 – How to choose the right partner

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    18 September 2025, 11:25 pm
  • 1 hour 26 minutes
    Fashionably Late: Book Club, Boundaries & Big Virgo Energy
    We’re back—fashionably late thanks to last week’s tech gremlins—but the Virgo Vixen energy is intact. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with the Virgo Vixen cocktail, then catch up on names vs. nicknames, a quick shout to Lula’s Legacy of Love (Breast Cancer walk 10/25 in Tampa), and Kiki’s Drinks & Reads book club featuring author Kimberly Brown.

    Kiki recaps Podcast Movement (anxiety to applause), a heavenly stop at Southern Classic Daiquiri Factory, and why her birthday plan is all about volunteering with Meals on Wheels (53 friends confirmed!). We get into Hedonism plans for December, TikTok family moments, sweet-16 prep, clubbing at Revel, and a real talk segment on dating while on a “soft pop-out”—fly-outs with boundaries, bundles discourse, and why “a lot” isn’t an insult.

    Medinah opens up about Paradise & Vibe Sedona: the celebrity no-show, the lessons learned, and how an intimate Lion Babe performance turned into a tiny-desk-style moment.

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    15 September 2025, 4:31 pm
  • 1 hour 20 minutes
    Sip the Drip: Cocktails, GoPuff Drama & Wild Randomness
    After last week’s marathon two-hour episode, Kiki and Medinah are keeping it light with some good old-fashioned girl talk. The ladies crack open a can of Drippy, share a few laughs, rant about GoPuff, and let the conversation spiral into pure CockTales chaos. If you love the random, unfiltered energy, this one’s for you.

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    4 September 2025, 7:48 pm
  • 1 hour 52 minutes
    The Thirst Trap Spritz Episode: Balcony Confessions, Wills, & Wild What-Ifs”
    This week’s cocktail is the Thirst Trap Spritz—a flirty, fruity sip perfect for summer. Kiki and Medinah kick things off with book club chatter about Kimberly Brown’s If You Love Me, a suspenseful love story that sparks a wild “what would you do?” debate about missing spouses and moving on.
    From there, the ladies dive into a Weird Sex story featuring balcony sex in Mexico (and some Atlanta sightings 👀), before checking in on their health journeys with LifeRX. The conversation takes a thoughtful turn with real talk on funerals, wills, life insurance, and why Black families need to plan ahead. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without plenty of laughs, side stories, and chaotic tangents. Pull up a glass, sip your spritz, and join the discussion.


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    Contact Us!
    Advice:  [email protected]
    Cocktales: [email protected]
    Weird Sex: [email protected]
    Sponsorship: [email protected]
    Guest Request/ General Inquiries [email protected]


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    28 August 2025, 7:29 pm
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    "Hot Yoga, Hot Men & Hot Mess Advice Letters"
    Kiki and Medinah are back with a no-guest episode full of stories, laughs, and a little real talk. From church crushes and splits that should’ve stayed retired, to wild mall chaos and situationships that feel more like soul ties, nothing is off-limits. The ladies get reflective about health, stress, and why peace is work (not silence), before diving into this week’s advice letter that mixes astrology with a messy situationship. Whether you’re here for the laughs, the life lessons, or just to hear why soda is basically crack, this episode is for you.


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    📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

    🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/

    To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

    Go to brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALES at checkout to get
    30% off sitewide.


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    Chapters
    00:00 – intro & “Agua” cocktail of the week
    01:00 – Last week’s flirty fallout & church lust confessions
    04:15 – Recapping guests & male perspectives
    07:00 – Health reflections & stress talk
    10:45 – Soda = crack & healthy swaps
    11:30 – Save the Tatas Walk + travel updates
    13:00 – Travel Tribe Thailand trip plans
    14:00 – Drinks & Reads Book Club updates
    16:00 – XO Man podcast shoutout
    21:30 – Fashion chaos & mall fights
    23:00 – Sensitivity vs understanding men
    29:00 – Men who want “peace” but don’t do the work
    35:00 – Hot yoga & self-reflection
    36:30 – Advice Letter: Astrology & soul ties
    48:00 – Perfect match or perfect mess?
    55:00 – Knowing if someone’s really for you
    1:02:00 – Closing thoughts, chaos & cocktails

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    22 August 2025, 6:26 pm
  • 1 hour 32 minutes
    Ep. 457 Banter & Blushing: Jugo Alexander on Love, Lust & Laughs
    This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, things get real flirty when comedian, actor, writer, and self-proclaimed professional heartbreaker Jugo Alexander joins Kiki and Medinah. From the moment he sits down, the chemistry between him and Medinah is undeniable – and we don’t just mean a little eye contact. We’re talking laugh-out-loud banter, slick one-liners, and a few moments that might have you yelling at your headphones, “JUST GO ON A DATE ALREADY!” In this episode, we dive into:
    • Jugo’s unapologetic approach to love, lust, and relationships
    • The fine art of flirting (and when it crosses the line)
    • Why confidence is the ultimate cheat code
    • Relationship turn-ons, turn-offs, and the stories that still make him blush
    Whether you’re here for the laughs, the flirting masterclass, or just to witness the undeniable energy between Jugo and Medinah, this one’s a must-listen. Warning: You might need a glass of water after this one. 💦

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    📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZ

    🌵 Sedona Retreat Day Passes via Paradise & Vibe https://paradiseandvibe.com/

    To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info

    Visit www.soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES

    💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off. LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188

    📲 Follow Us:
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    🛒 Support the ShowFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads

    Contact Us!
    Advice: [email protected]
    Cocktales: [email protected]
    Weird Sex: [email protected]
    Sponsorship: [email protected]
    Guest Request/General Inquiries: [email protected] 


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    14 August 2025, 8:46 pm
  • 1 hour 13 minutes
    Ep. 456 "Do You Want a Title or Nah? Let’s Talk Marriage Insurance & Men Who Can’t Lead"
    This week we’re talking titles, toxic takes, and whether marriage needs an insurance policy. Kiki and Medinah are back with stories about wild traffic stops, real estate wins, cheating scandals on the kiss cam, and the exhausting emotional labor Black women carry in love and life. We’re asking:
    → Why do some men expect leadership with no labor?
    → Is marriage insurance the new prenup?
    → Do we sound bitter, or are we just done with the BS? Plus, Medina shares a major real estate milestone, Kiki wants to grow corn in her dream backyard, and your favorite THC libido gummies are back on the mic. Segments include:
    • Cocktail of the Week: Late Checkout
    • Real Estate Glow-Ups
    • The “Side Chick or Wife?” Listener Letter
    • Why Men Need Emotional Education
    • Marriage, Divorce & Soft Life Desires
    • Sponsor Highlights from LifeRX and VIIA
    🎉 If you’re 21+, try VIIA!
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    7 August 2025, 5:43 pm
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