What an amazing conversation with Gemma Matoesian and Rebecca Ritter about an awesome Personality Typing system called "Objective Personality System" that's SO helpful, useful, and fun to dive into!

I do not like "labelling".

I don't like being categorized, and absolutely don't categorize anyone else - yet, this system is so subtle, nuanced, and wide ranging (512 types!) - and so based on how we each operate in all kinds of situations, I've found it deeply helpful personally, and helpful when working with clients.

To listen to my fun interview on their InSite podcast (we go into a lot of personal stuff!):

 https://open.spotify.com/show/3KCtwwFnjaShleQfgkK1sf?si=4e72093cf42348b2

link to objective personality on youtube: Objective Personality - YouTube

Official OPS membership site (paid): Home | Objective Personality

Getting officially typed: OFFICIAL Objective Typing

Contact Gemma or Rebecca: [email protected]

Free OPS info: OPS Starter Kit – Subjective Personality (wordpress.com) Love, Rori

When you feel angry, sooner or later, you want to sit down on your floor and lay down and cry and let out or scream, let those feelings out.

When you're mad, you want to shake it out. When you're tense, you want to cry it out. 

You want to pleasure yourself and have an amazing orgasm and fly around the room all by yourself when you want to release that. 

This is your playground -- You are your being.

You are your person. You are your experiment. 

You are the experiment.

So spend as much time as you possibly can exploring you!

To get individual attention, live classes and tons of exclusive materials and Tools to help you be in your creative Feminine Energy - even when things feel rough - check out the unique warmth of the Siren Island Course & Community here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/

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What we usually do is when we're full of anger, we turn it against ourselves.

We get depressed, we put the lid back on ourselves, or we hurt ourselves, cutting, literally screaming, and ending a relationship deliberately by something in our brain doing something that automatically takes away what it is we want.

Anger is a great thing - it doesn't have to start a fight!

It's just a circuit board thing that's happened to almost all of us as a pattern.

Anger turns to self-destruction for women, for men too these days.

Men have it really hard around anger - little boys in school, have you ever seen them?

They're railroaded into who they aren't. It's just a sad society trying to keep violence under control and barely succeeding.

The way to keep your violence under control (and when you're angry, you have violent feelings!). You want to kill, smash, hit.

So instead of going the old route of throwing plates against the wall and hitting something - try LOVING something - and moving! - walk it out, dance it out! Open your fingers, dance it out, shake it out, and find something immediately that you love...

To get immediate help from my "From Anger To Love" Masterclass Program, go here: https://www.coachrori.com/from-anger-to-love/

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To be a woman and actually have power means to embrace your feminine energy.

In the workplace, if you want to run for president, for example (and we're seeing that now!), you can’t stand on the podium and act like a masculine energy man—no one will hear you.

You have to be soft, present, and connected to your power source.

There’s power in creating, co-creating, and harnessing energy, but we often block it, as we've been trained to brush ourselves aside.

Accepting how powerful we truly are is key.

Our energy radiates like an aura, and we can make that energy huge...

...When we allow our feminine energy to flourish, we tap into our deepest power.

To get weekly live classes, my monthly Masterclass -Workshop, exclusive Rori Raye materials and personal help whenever you need it - Join me and brilliant Siren School coaches (most are pretty famous, and you know them already!) on The Siren Island Official Course & Community here:

https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/

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Rori has a spin on ‘Femifesting’ and how to bring what you want to you: the love of a man, the love of the world, love in all its beautiful forms.

How do we get from ‘wanting what we want’ to having it?

We can get so lost and confused in even thinking that what we want is what we want.

It's actually deeper territory!

The Rori Raye Feminine WANT process, is a shortcut to the entire Modern Siren system. Actually - It's a shortcut to everything!

The Feminine WANT Masterclass is here:

https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-masterclass/

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So: what if you work someplace where there are attractive men, gloriously gorgeous men? 

Can you, should you, use your feminine energy wiles to pull them in?

Can you bring a man in like that at your workplace?

And what’s even appropriate?

This is a conversation topic that comes up every once in a while, and it's all like: what's appropriate… what should we do…. what shouldn't we do…. and can we handle it…?

These are huge questions - because we all spend so much of our time at work!

In this podcast, you'll find answers, and if you'd like to learn more about how to stay in your Feminine Energy, no matter where you are (even at work!), with your personal, unique style and situation, join me in The Siren Island Official Course & Community here:

https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/

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There are so many ways for you to be powerful, and at the same time, you can have your life the way you want it. And we have wanted to call ourselves women, not girls, but women - because "girl" has always felt derogatory, right? It's always felt derogatory in the world of men. It's like the feminism that I was so deeply committed to, long ago - that we now feel some regret for, because that early feminism was such a masculine energy enterprise. To learn how to be powerful at work AND in your relationship - without ever losing your Feminine Energy spark, softness, and passion for what you Want, get the Business Siren Masterclass/Workshop here: https://www.coachrori.com/the-business-siren-boss-babe-masterclass/ Love, Rori

"An angry man is a powerful man. An angry woman is somebody you want to stay away from." True or not true? True. We spend our lives as women trying not to be angry women, and so we've completely demolished this anger, violence, all those feelings that we have rage, which we are entitled to! - based upon the way we have existed on this planet since the beginning. This videocast will open up the powerful energy you have (and are likely trying to stuff down, all the time...) and give you so many new ways to access your "Dark Feminine Energy" (I talk a bit about what that actually "is"!) so you can get everything you want! To have access to live classes and personal coaching around all the "Dark Feminine" aspects that are powerful and helpful - join me on Siren Island, here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

The word “brand” is being used a lot right now - you’ll see it in Forbes, you see it in the Harvard Business Review, all over the place and you maybe don't think it applies to you, and yet it does! Your brand as a girl: you may want to be a tough cookie or a smart ‘this’ or clever ‘that’ or a great dancer or something you wanted to appear as and it becomes part of an unfulfilled, icky feeling, not because you can't get there, but because it's not you when ‘the real you’ is something completely different and feels completely different. So what we're all about here in all of Siren School is to help you feel more like YOU so that you feel like you and believe it or not, you can recognize that at every moment.

To get help with your Feminine "brand" - come to The Siren Island Course & Official Community here: https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-program/ Love, Rori

Ultra triggering things, commitment and finances. Commitment alone can be a really scary thing and yet in relationship and the love world, this is the gold we WANT. We start out saying, all right, I want a commitment, I want a relationship. Do you want the same thing as me? We're trying to find out if we vibe, if we're on the same page or trying to figure out if we can make a good team together while not sacrificing any of the good feelings. When you're moving into more serious relationships and you know he's got a past, he's got children from a different relationship, he's got an ex-wife, who’ll be part of his life forever there may be a lot of triggering feelings that come up -- So how do we navigate this space? If you'd like wonderful and fast help with all of this, we're here for you on The Siren Island Course & Official Community - and I'd love to see you and work with you on my live, monthly Masterclass/Workshop (you'll have total access to the video recording!) - - I'll be working with you on tough topics like Commitment, loyalty, how a man devotes his attention, what to do with a naturally "non-attentive" (and more self-concerned) man, literally "How To Date", "How To Save Your Relationship" and "How To Empower Your Feminine"... plus answering your personal, urgent questions directly! Here's the link to join me, along with live classes with brilliant Siren School coach superstars every week and tons of exclusive materials: https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/ Love, Rori

How do we go back into our body after we've been in our head?

Remember when I said when I go out for a walk and then I all of a sudden realize that I've missed the whole last hundred yards that I've walked? I stop, and my first feeling is of loss - I lost that time where I wasn't aware, and the second I feel that, I can feel the difference.

I can distinguish in my head.

Thinking about things, future things, going over things in the past, and the reality of the grass and the snow that's blanketing everything right now and each individual leaf, the leaves that are still on trees.

All of that fascinates me! And I am well aware if I'm in a sad frame of mind, right now I’m in a very sad frame of mind... I've noticed I'm wearing my dog's collar on my wrist.

I just said goodbye to him last week and I never know when I'm going to be overcome by major ugly crying, major beautiful crying, major let go of feelings. Feeling your feelings and getting familiar with how they cycle through you, and what thoughts come up with them - and how you react or respond with them - this incredible knowledge of yourself automatically leads to amazing things! You’ll suddenly, without any affirmations or input, start to appreciate and love yourself more! You’ll start to take a breath before you react. And, SO important, you’ll start to realize, and feel all the awesomeness of finally knowing what you WANT, and how to express that to a man - and to ANYONE! - so you can finally, really get what you want.

To get a super shortcut to this, get the Feminine WANT Course - it will change everything for you within weeks!: https://www.coachrori.com/the-feminine-want-course/ Love, Rori