Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick | Dating & Relationship Podcast hosts

An insiders look into modern dating

  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    S19E16: Overcoming Anxiety, Overthinking & Imposter Syndrome (When Dating) w/ Sabrina Zohar

    This is a big one y'all. We're talking about all the states, beliefs, and feelings that make dating oh so hard – and end up really getting in our way if we let them. We're so excited to be joined by Sabrina Zohar who shares her candid journey with anxiety and dating – and how she's learned to manage these emotions as they come up, We're discussing the differences between anxiety and intuition, how to to feel and process your emotions so they don't take over, and why healing is a continuous process – even in a relationship. 

    PS: While there are heavy topics, this one is actually quite light-hearted and fun so we think you'll really enjoy it! 

    Follow Sabrina@thesabrinazoharshowand, check out her podcast 'The Sabrina Zohar Show' wherever you listen to podcasts, and learn more about her here: https://www.sabrinazohar.com/

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



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    10 December 2024, 1:00 pm
  • 14 minutes 3 seconds
    #brunchtalk: Am I Being Too Much?

    Have you ever had the thought...am I being too much? Am I too interested? Too excited? Just too much personality for this person? Let's stop the rumination once and for all in this week's #brunchtalk where we can confidently say: you are not too much! We discuss where this anxiety comes from in the first place, what to do when these thoughts start to creep in, and a reminder that the right person will appreciate you for who you are.

    Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



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    8 December 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    S19E15: Bringing Back Organic Connections IRL w/ Harrison Forman & Brandon Berman of Updating

    What if instead of searching for the random meet-cute, we could share another way to meet IRL that actually yields more relationships? We're chatting with Brandon & Harrison about their own experiences building connection through their networks of community and friends – and how they bring that same energy to their live dating show updating. We discuss the importance of building rapport while dating, how to find environments that connect you in your most authentic state, and why sometimes the best relationships take some time and a friends-first-approach to develop into more.

    Follow Updating @updating and check out their upcoming show schedule: https://www.updatingshow.com/

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



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    3 December 2024, 1:00 pm
  • 16 minutes 34 seconds
    #brunchtalk: When Your Relationship Ends Abruptly...

    You finally found someone you're into who is also into you. Until out of nowhere – it all blows up. If you've been here before, you know how painful it feels when it seems like the the rug was just pulled from under you unexpectedly We're breaking down the reasons this may happen and how to handle the emotional turmoil that comes from this. We discuss how to get closure without necessarily needing to know why this happened, the benefits of relationship check-ins expediting underlying issues, and ways to learn but not let these situation hold you back.

    Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



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    1 December 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 58 minutes 7 seconds
    S19E14: Recovering From Dating Burnout w/ Jemma Sbeg of The Psychology of Your 20s

    Are you feeling a bit dating fatigued? Have no fear, with the holidays around the corner, it's the perfect time for a reset. And what better way than to hear us chat with Jemma about her dating detox and – how it led to a different approach when dating (which ultimately resulted in meeting her partner!). We're discussing the 12 stages of dating burnout, the need to take breaks from dating, and how you can bounce back stronger than ever before.

    Follow Jemma @thatpsychologypodcast and listen to 'The Psychology of your 20s' wherever you get your podcasts.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



    WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

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    26 November 2024, 1:00 pm
  • 21 minutes 14 seconds
    Special Edition Pre-Thanksgiving #brunchtalk: Are You Seeing Anyone Special + Other Awkward Thanksgiving Questions:

    With Thanksgiving right around the corner, it can be the most joyful...and stressful time of year. Not everyone wants enjoy their turkey dinner with questions about your relationship status! But have no fear, we're going to break down some of the most frustrating questions that can come your way over the holiday season – whether you're single AF, in a new relationship, or headed towards marriage (and beyond). And also share a reminder of where this is coming from and how to embrace the holiday season with a mentality of abundance and love.

    Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



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    24 November 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 11 minutes 4 seconds
    Quickie w/ Yue: Dating Shouldn't Be This Hard

    We're meant to do life with other people. So then, why is dating so damn hard? Yue's sharing why dating feels so difficult these days – and how we can start to shift our mindset to think about things differently. Because being with another human you love is natural, yet dating is not. And it's about time we change how we approach it altogether.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



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    21 November 2024, 1:00 pm
  • 47 minutes 33 seconds
    S19E13: The Validation Trap

    There's so much pressure when dating....so much that dating becomes more about measuring up than actually finding the right partner. We're diving into one of the biggest things that got in our way – and that we see stifle so many of you too – when we let dating define our worth and make it a lot more personal than it actually is. We're discussing the mindset of being the chooser vs. being chosen, how our ego can overtake love, and ways to make the shift from needing someone to wanting to be with someone.

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



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    19 November 2024, 1:00 pm
  • 14 minutes 6 seconds
    #brunchtalk: Are A Couple Of White Lies A Deal Breaker?

    So you told a couple of white lies. Or the person you're dating did. Is this ground for the budding relationship to be over? In this week's brunchtalk, we're discussing what happens when white lies accumulate and lead to trust issues – and what you can do about it. We're discussing looking beyond the lie to why it's being told, how to learn from past mistakes to move forward, and why it's important to reflect on the impact of our words.

    Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



    WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

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    17 November 2024, 3:00 pm
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    S19E12: Decoding Dating & Human Connection w/ Jeremy Hurewitz

    Curious about how to read people better and understand their behavior when dating? Want to build deeper connections with more trust and EQ? We have a very interesting convo this week with espionage expert, Jeremy Hurewitz who shares how his work with real-life spies relates to dating, building relationships and understanding each other. We're diving into it all from understanding verbal and non-verbal cues, why emotional intelligence is an absolute necessity when dating, and ways to build more trust (even in the early stages of dating) to connect better with others.

    To learn more about Jeremy Hurewitz check out his book 'Sell Like a Spy' and website: https://www.selllikeaspy.net/

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



    WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

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    12 November 2024, 1:00 pm
  • 15 minutes 38 seconds
    #brunchtalk: When They Won't Commit...

    So you met someone awesome...but...they aren't ready to define the relationship or stop seeing other people. Do you wait? Date other people? Hold back sex or other intimacy? We're diving into how to handle one of the biggest challenges in dating – when one person is ready to have a relationship and the other isn't quite there We're discussing why it's essential take what people say at face value when dating, how to move forward with clarity and purpose, and ways to prioritize your needs so you don't settle.

    Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

    Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.



    WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/

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    10 November 2024, 3:00 pm
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