Anyone else seen this phenomenon where people on dating apps are checking that they're looking for something fun/casual and also serious/long term? So which one is it? Or does it need to be an either or? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing how to have conversations to clarify someone's intentions, how to not get so hung up on reading between the lines on someone's profile, and ways you can better understand someone's desires and motivations.

Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

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We're not talking about what to wear or how to look, but rather how to elude that contagious energy that just attracts someone to you. And what better expert than Mat Bogs, who shares his own turning point and all the knowledge he's gained in his 20+ years of dating coaching. We're discussing the turn offs and turn ons that either kill attraction or spark it, how to understand what type of vibe you're sending on a date, and ways you can build attraction not just in the early stages – but for a lifetime.

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Sure you want someone interested but can they be too interested? Or has anyone every told you that you come off too eager? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing the perception of interest in dating, how to move forward if someone shares this type of feedback with you, and ways that you can evaluate your own approach to dating based on how you evaluate interest levels.

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What's better than coming across letters you wrote to your ex(s) years later? Julie's diving into how this practice has helped her process the past so she can move forward. No, you don't need to send the actual letter (in fact, it's recommended you do not). And yes, this absolutely will give you the closure and clarity you need. And one day, you'll be able to see how far you've come and how none of this was time wasted. If you're looking for a dose of optimism and tactical tips, tune in for this one. Plus she'll share a bit from the letters on air.

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If dating like a feminist means embracing your desires while also valuing independence and equality....then sign us up! Whether you identify as a woman or not, this is a must-listen discussion with the incredible Lily Womble about breaking dumb dating rules and shifting the current societal expectations filled with shame and pressure. We're discussing all the ways the patriarchy has messed with our love lives for both women AND men, why you should actually be MORE picky, and how to create joyful AF dating experiences.

To learn more about Lily, visit https://www.datebrazen.com/ and follow her on instagram @datebrazen. Make sure to check out her book 'Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love."

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What happens when someone wants to date you (or even be in a relationship!) yet there's something going in their personal lives that's preventing you from being together? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing how to navigate this tricky situation, when it's more of an external factor keeping your relationship from progressing. We discuss the pros/cons of waiting for someone to get their sh*t together, how to reframe the situation to focus on your prioritizing your own needs, and ways to let someone go (even if it's incredibly difficult!) to find the person that's ready and able.

Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

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With the feeling that dating is harder than ever before and people outright giving up on love, we believe we're in a love crisis. But what does that even mean? And better yet, what do we do about it? Have no fear, as we're discussing the 5 most prominent – and some surprising– cultural shifts that got us to where we are today, why daters are feeling an increased sense of disillusionment around dating (nope, you're not alone!), and some actions you can take today to rise above the current state of modern dating.

Related Episodes:

The Reason You Don't Need To Be Good At Dating

The Paradoxes Of Modern Dating

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If you feel like you've been falling into the friend zone, or looked as someone more 'casual' yet you want something real, we're breaking down why people may not be taking you as seriously when dating. In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing the impressions formed quickly when dating, ways to take stock of the vibe you may be putting off, and how to show a more 360 picture of your personality, story, and what you're looking for.

Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

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You've heard the theories about the first 6 months of a relationship and how it's a marker if the relationship will last. Yue's breaking down what she's learned about the 6 month period – what typically happens and how she's doing things differently this time around. Also, she's sharing some updates about her 'new' relationship after crossing that 6 month barrier and what's unfolded in that time.

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If you're looking for a raw, real, non-sugar coated look into dating and relationships, we got you. We're chatting with Todd Baratz – therapist, author, eharmony relationship expert, and IG account you're probably already following – about why you will lose your mind when it comes to love (and how this is totally normal). We're discussing the reality of relationships, a different way to evaluate if you're with the right person, and why the question is no longer 'should you stay or should you go' (and what it is instead!).

Other similar episodes:

The Truth About Relationships

To learn more about Todd, visit https://www.toddsbaratz.com/ and follow him on instagram @yourdiagnonsense

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When you just start dating someone and you really, really, REALLY like them, it may even feel like love...but is it? And what happens when one of you says those three big words early on....did you actually mean it? In this week's #brunchtalk episode, we're discussing how to differentiate between love and infatuation, ways to navigate these conversations, and why it's more important at the start of the relationship to focus on the bigger picture of building connection and less on the time or labeling of love.

Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected]

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