What happens when you say you want a relationship yet act in ways that drive away the exact thing you want? Introducing relationship chicken...which we think is one of THE biggest traps of modern dating. We're discussing why our dating culture often promotes unhealthy dynamics, the reason trying to protecting ourselves doesn't ultimately protect us in the end, and how to embrace your vulnerable side head-on so you don't fall for this trap.

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Ever feel like you just can't move past those first couple dates or actually get into a committed relationship? You're not alone. Join us this week as we discuss why it's so common to feel this way – even when the reality is that most date's don't turn into more! We're discussing what metrics to focus on when quantifying dating "success", why dating apps have changed the dynamics of dating, and how you can shift the focus so you're more realistic (and optimistic!) about finding love.

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This is a big one y'all. We're talking about all the states, beliefs, and feelings that make dating oh so hard – and end up really getting in our way if we let them. We're so excited to be joined by Sabrina Zohar who shares her candid journey with anxiety and dating – and how she's learned to manage these emotions as they come up, We're discussing the differences between anxiety and intuition, how to to feel and process your emotions so they don't take over, and why healing is a continuous process – even in a relationship. 

PS: While there are heavy topics, this one is actually quite light-hearted and fun so we think you'll really enjoy it! 

Follow Sabrina@thesabrinazoharshowand, check out her podcast 'The Sabrina Zohar Show' wherever you listen to podcasts, and learn more about her here: https://www.sabrinazohar.com/

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Have you ever had the thought...am I being too much? Am I too interested? Too excited? Just too much personality for this person? Let's stop the rumination once and for all in this week's #brunchtalk where we can confidently say: you are not too much! We discuss where this anxiety comes from in the first place, what to do when these thoughts start to creep in, and a reminder that the right person will appreciate you for who you are.

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What if instead of searching for the random meet-cute, we could share another way to meet IRL that actually yields more relationships? We're chatting with Brandon & Harrison about their own experiences building connection through their networks of community and friends – and how they bring that same energy to their live dating show updating. We discuss the importance of building rapport while dating, how to find environments that connect you in your most authentic state, and why sometimes the best relationships take some time and a friends-first-approach to develop into more.

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You finally found someone you're into who is also into you. Until out of nowhere – it all blows up. If you've been here before, you know how painful it feels when it seems like the the rug was just pulled from under you unexpectedly We're breaking down the reasons this may happen and how to handle the emotional turmoil that comes from this. We discuss how to get closure without necessarily needing to know why this happened, the benefits of relationship check-ins expediting underlying issues, and ways to learn but not let these situation hold you back.

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Are you feeling a bit dating fatigued? Have no fear, with the holidays around the corner, it's the perfect time for a reset. And what better way than to hear us chat with Jemma about her dating detox and – how it led to a different approach when dating (which ultimately resulted in meeting her partner!). We're discussing the 12 stages of dating burnout, the need to take breaks from dating, and how you can bounce back stronger than ever before.

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With Thanksgiving right around the corner, it can be the most joyful...and stressful time of year. Not everyone wants enjoy their turkey dinner with questions about your relationship status! But have no fear, we're going to break down some of the most frustrating questions that can come your way over the holiday season – whether you're single AF, in a new relationship, or headed towards marriage (and beyond). And also share a reminder of where this is coming from and how to embrace the holiday season with a mentality of abundance and love.

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We're meant to do life with other people. So then, why is dating so damn hard? Yue's sharing why dating feels so difficult these days – and how we can start to shift our mindset to think about things differently. Because being with another human you love is natural, yet dating is not. And it's about time we change how we approach it altogether.

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There's so much pressure when dating....so much that dating becomes more about measuring up than actually finding the right partner. We're diving into one of the biggest things that got in our way – and that we see stifle so many of you too – when we let dating define our worth and make it a lot more personal than it actually is. We're discussing the mindset of being the chooser vs. being chosen, how our ego can overtake love, and ways to make the shift from needing someone to wanting to be with someone.

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So you told a couple of white lies. Or the person you're dating did. Is this ground for the budding relationship to be over? In this week's brunchtalk, we're discussing what happens when white lies accumulate and lead to trust issues – and what you can do about it. We're discussing looking beyond the lie to why it's being told, how to learn from past mistakes to move forward, and why it's important to reflect on the impact of our words.

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