Multiamory

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  • 1 hour 7 minutes
    518 - Talking to Kids about Non-Monogamy (with Evolving Love)

    Today we're answering some more listener questions, and we're also being joined by Abbey and Liam from the Evolving Love Project to get their perspectives on non-monogamy and parenting. We'll be discussing some questions about parenting, meeting like-minded people, guilt, and missing non-nesting partners.


    Abbey and Liam have been together for over twelve years and non-monogamous for over a decade. Together they started the Evolving Love Project which hosts monthly conversation nights for non-monogamous or curious folk in Canberra and Sydney, Australia and co-host the acclaimed podcast Evolving Love. Abbey also publishes weekly on Substack with her musings on non-monogamy, parenthood & sexuality. They believe that by removing the stigma from these topics, collectively we can push the culture in a positive, caring and more loving direction.


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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

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    25 February 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 56 minutes 35 seconds
    517 - Breaking the Approval Cycle

    Today we're talking about the need for approval many of us feel every day and the impact it can have on our relationships. We're discussing what approval-seeking and people-pleasing are, whether seeking approval is always harmful in a relationship, pros and cons of seeking approval, and more. As always, we'll also share some actionable tools at the end of the episode to increase self-esteem, reduce anxiety, and keep relationships healthy and happy.



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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

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    18 February 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 52 minutes 41 seconds
    516 - Is Solo Polyamory Right For You?

    This week we're focusing on solo polyamory! We'll be covering what solo polyamory is, its variations and the different forms it can take, and why you might want to be solo polyamorous. We'll also go into detail about criticism of solo polyamory and what its implications might be on your romantic relationships.


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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.

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    11 February 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 56 seconds
    515 - Romanticization: Friend or Foe?
    Today we're talking about romanticization and its role in our relationships, our lives, and more. We all idealize something, whether it's a place, a person, or a choice, but what happens when our idealized version clashes with reality? We'll be discussing whether romanticization is helpful for us and our life choices or if it ultimately hurts us in the long run.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
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    4 February 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 50 minutes 30 seconds
    514 - My Metamour is Convinced I Hate Her. Help! Listener Q&A
    We're back with another Q&A from our lovely subscribers! Today, we're discussing mono-normativity, metamour relationships, and polysaturation as we answer some questions posed by our listeners.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
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    28 January 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 17 minutes
    513 - Our Body and Brain are Not Always on the Same Page: Remastered
    We're bringing back a special conversation between Dedeker and Orit Krug! Orit is an award-winning Board-Certified Dance/Movement Therapist and Licensed Creative Arts Therapist. Orit helps individuals & couples expand their capacity for self-love and intimacy in relationships by processing past trauma stored in the body. Orit is polyamorous, partnered, and a parent to a toddler.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
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    21 January 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    512 - Before, During, and After Opening Up Your Relationship
    Today we're going back to some polyamory 101 basics and talking about opening up previously monogamous relationships. We'll be talking about some helpful things to consider before opening up your relationship, what to do during the critical period where things are shifting, and how to maintain your partnership(s) after the initial opening up.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
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    14 January 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    511 - Protecting Your Relationships from the News
    Happy New Year! We're starting back up again this year talking about negativity bias, how it affects our media landscape, and in turn, how it affects our wellbeing and relationships as well. We'll go over some research about how consuming negative or fearful news can bleed over into your relationships, and share some ways to combat the effects so you can stay informed but also have happier partnerships.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
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    7 January 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 58 minutes 24 seconds
    510 - Don't Let Envy Ruin Your Relationship
    Today we're talking about the green-eyed monster...envy! We've talked a lot about jealousy in the past, but this time we're focusing on envy, which is often conflated with jealousy. Sometimes we feel inadequate or resentful in our relationships, but it doesn't quite feel like jealousy. You might be dealing with envy! For today's episode we're going to talk about the difference between envy and jealousy in non-traditional relationships, why you might be feeling envious, and as always, and as always, we'll discuss some practical tools for transforming envy into personal growth and stronger connections.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
    Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com.

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    17 December 2024, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 56 seconds
    509 - Frank Smith Gets Real about Queer Polyamory
    Today we're welcoming back writer, director, actor, and producer Frank Arthur Smith to talk about non-monogamy in queer media.

    Frank is a queer writer/director/actor/producer originally from Boston. He was most recently staffed on children's comedy OCEAN EXPLORERS on YouTube. Previously, he wrote on Disney Channel’s RAVEN’S HOME. He also starred in Episode 5 of Emmy Award-nominated TIDYING UP WITH MARIE KONDO on Netflix.

    His LGBTQIA+ comedy series, OPEN TO IT, in which he stars, writes, directs, and Executive Produces, debuted at Outfest, the largest queer film festival in the world, and received over 1 million views online, before being acquired by OUTtv, a Canadian cable channel available in over 15 million homes, and US streaming service with over 1 million subscribers. The show can be seen worldwide at opentoitseries.com and features RUPAUL'S DRAG RACE stars Manila Luzon, Laganja Estranja, Honey Davenport, and Pandora Boxx, as well as Deaf drag queen influencers, Deafies in Drag.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
    Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com.

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    10 December 2024, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    508 - Four Steps to Stop a Conflict Spiral
    Today we're discussing conflict spirals, or what happens when you're arguing with a partner and it's no longer productive, you're exhausted, and you just want things to be over with. We're talking about how to stop that spiraling conflict, soothe yourself, and get back to a place where you can co-regulate with your partner instead of getting trapped in the same spiral again and again.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.
    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.
    Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com.

    We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network.

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    3 December 2024, 2:00 pm
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