Sex With Emily

Dr. Emily Morse

  • 51 minutes 44 seconds
    Talk Your Way to Better Sex

    Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos.

    Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot more free.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • How to confidently speak up about your needs in the bedroom
    • Why communication is the ultimate lubricant for better sex
    • The secret to navigating relationship dilemmas—whether it’s mismatched libidos, feelings for a friend, or trying non-monogamy for the first time.


    Show Notes:


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    19 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 50 minutes 16 seconds
    Out of Your Head and Into Bed w/ Nikki Glaser

    On this episode, I sit down with the hilarious Nikki Glaser, comedian, and host of The Nikki Glaser Podcast. We discuss how to take oral sex to the next level, why a great orgasm can lead to an intense connection, and the power of tapping into a person’s “energy” on a date.

    Nikki also shares her go-to sex toys, favorite types of porn, experience with squirting, and personal journey with mental health and body acceptance. We also dive into the hidden pleasure of canceled plans, why feeling horny can be like being drunk, and why your flaws DON’T make you a bad person.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    •  How taking charge of your orgasms can boost your connection with partners and why having a vibrator isn’t “cheating"
    • Explore the journey of accepting yourself fully—flaws, quirks, and all—and learn why self-confidence is the ultimate turn-on.
    • Get real about setting boundaries in relationships, from balancing power dynamics to knowing when to wait before taking things to the next level.


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    15 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 50 minutes 52 seconds
    Hotline Calls: Better Oral & Honeymoon Sex

    On today’s show, I am answering all of your pressing calls from the Sex with Emily hotline! We get into some great topics like how to start enjoying receiving oral sex, ways to spice up your honeymoon sex without actual penetration, and what to do if you aren’t getting as wet as you used to during sex. Plus, new methods for giving oral sex to prevent discomfort and how to decide if it’s worth staying in your relationship after seven years (and three children).

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Oral sex tips to prevent discomfort
    • How to make your wedding night intimate without penetration
    • How to build confidence with communication


    Show Notes:


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    12 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 52 minutes 54 seconds
    Prostate Play & All Things Pleasure w/ Dolly Josette

    In this episode of Sex With Emily, my friend and somatic sexologist Dolly Josette, The Pleasure Muse, returns to help us reconnect with our bodies and unlock deeper pleasure. She shares how to pleasure yourself and communicate those desires to your partner. You’ll walk away knowing how to heal trauma in your genitals, access the prostate for an epic orgasm (for all bodies!), and deepen intimacy with yourself and your partner to enhance your life.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why embodiment is the key to unlocking deeper pleasure and connection.
    • Why releasing stored trauma (yes, even in your genitals!) can transform your sex life and help you feel more during intimacy.
    • How to access the prostate for mind-blowing orgasms and greater sexual fulfillment.


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    8 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 35 minutes 11 seconds
    How Social Media is Blocking Your Intimacy

    Social media is becoming the “third'' partner in so many of our relationships, but it’s not the threesome most of us are craving. Sure, it’s a great way to connect, but it can take a major toll on our sex lives.

    Today’s episode gets into the good, bad, and questionable impacts of social media. I answer your top questions like, what does it mean if my partner follows a bunch of Instagram models? If my partner is paying for Only Fans, does it count as cheating? And is it okay to check my partner's phone? (We surveyed our listeners and you might be surprised how many of you have snooped.)

    Also, how does all the endless scrolling affect your confidence? I offer advice on how to manage the relationship with your phone, so you can stop the “compare and despair” mindset and build stronger relationships with yourself and others.


    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • How Social Media Becomes a “Third Wheel” in Relationships
    • The Sneaky Ways Social Media Can Undermine Your Confidence
    • Micro-Cheating, Doomscrolling, and the Need for Digital Detox


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    5 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 57 minutes 42 seconds
    Prenups & Breakups w/ Laura Wasser

    You may think of her as divorce attorney to the stars, and Laura Wasser is certainly that. But Laura is also a sharp thinker on marriage and communication, and is here to tell us what every couple needs to know before saying "I do." She says that couples who have the prenup conversation are actually more likely to stay together than those who don't, and that money is an even bigger conversational taboo than sex. She also tells us what it's like repping actor clients vs. musician clients, why we're seeing a celebrity-led trend of "gentle separations," and how social media has changed the game for divorce cases.

    Plus, I take your divorce questions! When is it time to say "I don't," and get the hell out? Or how about if you're single, and have a tendency to hook up with older, separated men -- are they just your type? Or...are there some deeper conversations you need to be having, with them, and with yourself? Let's talk dating as a divorcee: when is it OK to tell the kids you've met someone new? And finally, after being married for so long, how do you tell the difference between love and lust, when you're back on the scene? All this and more, on today's divorce show.


    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why open conversations about finances are just as crucial as discussing intimacy in relationships
    • The power of the “prenup conversation” for a stronger relationship
    • Why understanding each other’s relationship expectations can prevent major conflicts down the line


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    1 November 2024, 10:00 am
  • 43 minutes 55 seconds
    Hotline Calls: Troubleshoot Your Orgasms

    How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner?

    Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mystery. And that’s why today's call in show is devoted to all things O. First up: she fears a loss of control while climaxing, which derails her arousal altogether. Can she relax and stay present? Next, he’s fit and athletic, with a girlfriend who loves sex. The problem? It takes him a long time to finish – maybe too long. Finally - when you’re with a partner who loves giving you oral, but it’s not exactly getting you off…what gives? I answer these questions and more on todays episode. 

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • How to get out of your own head and finally let go for a better orgasm
    • Why pleasure is a right, not a reward
    • Practical tips for tackling delayed orgasms and performance pressure


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    29 October 2024, 10:00 am
  • 52 minutes 44 seconds
    Getting Bi-Curious w/ Jen Winston

    How do you know if you’re bisexual? Author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes From A Bisexual Who Wants Too Much, Jen reveals how she came to terms with her bisexuality, in a world that loves to slap stereotypes on it: greedy, slutty, and constantly confused.

    Whether you’re a vulva owner in a heterosexual partnership who wants to explore same sex fantasies, or a penis owner who has recently come out as gay but still has thoughts about the opposite sex, Jen helps us all understand why sexuality is about so much more than who you’re sleeping with. Because after all, your sexuality is less about the destination and more about the journey to get there. 


    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Labels like bi or pan are for you to explore your identity, not to please others
    • Communication is everything. Talk openly with your partner about desires and fantasies to strengthen intimacy
    • Bisexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all: It’s a personal journey, and questioning your sexuality is part of it


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    25 October 2024, 10:00 am
  • 38 minutes 16 seconds
    How to Have a Playful Date

    Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “how about dinner? Usual spot?”

    Planning a creative date requires thinking outside of the box. That’s why I’ve done the legwork for you of helping you create playful dates that are as unique as they are arousing. From role playing sexy strangers to planning out a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market, these date ideas will give you a break from the norm - while also building sexual tension and enhancing intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Tips on how to align your dates with your unique arousal style, whether it’s through touch, adventure, or conversation, to keep things fresh and fun
    • Fun, creative date ideas—like role-playing as sexy strangers or planning a sensual dinner at the farmer’s market—that spark connection and curiosity
    • How to break free from routine and create exciting, playful dates that build sexual tension and enhance intimacy


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    22 October 2024, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    Sex Gets Better With Age w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

    It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells us the exact opposite is true. Today, anthropologist, bestselling author and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin and I lay out the facts, which is fitting: we’re both in our fifties! 

    If you’re not in your fifties yet, here’s what you can look forward to. It’s the decade many of us hit the reset button on our sexual desires. It’s the decade you start purely having sex for pleasure. And it’s the decade your confidence and communication get even better because you’ve honed your relationship (and career!) skills. Wednesday and I talk about why your fifties are so sexy, the signs of perimenopause and menopause and how to treat both, and our best advice for younger women.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why your 50s are a time for empowerment, confidence, and embracing your desires.
    • Tips for navigating bodily changes and maintaining intimacy in midlife.
    • Understanding the impact of menopause on your body and libido, and how to adapt for a fulfilling sex life.​


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    18 October 2024, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 15 minutes
    Confidence, Communication & Sex w/ Lisa Bilyeu

    Housewife turned billion-dollar co-founder Lisa Bilyeu is the picture of confidence: she’s got a thriving business, a partner she adores, and basically, is a literal boss. But she also overcame illness, insecurity, and massive relationship challenges to get where she is today.

    In her book Radical Confidence, Lisa shares the lessons that changed her life, and helped her become the hero of her own story. On today’s show, I ask her about keeping the sexual spark alive in a long term relationship, the “purgatory of the mundane,” and how to have a growth mindset with your partner.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Radical confidence is built by taking action, even when you’re scared.
    • How to escape the “purgatory of the mundane” by making small changes and stop waiting for the perfect moment.
    • All about validating yourself—don’t rely on others for approval, celebrate your own wins.


    Show Notes:


    See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

    15 October 2024, 10:00 am
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