The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni

  • 51 minutes 16 seconds
    Are you the only one keeping the friendship going?
    What is the recipe of reciprocation in a friendship when it comes to keeping in touch. Is it always 1 to 1 (you call, they call, repeat)? Or, is it always just you calling them? Hmm... seems one-sided, doesn't it? But, is it? Good topic to talk about.
    29 March 2026, 6:02 am
  • 36 minutes 25 seconds
    The specific steps some people take to manipulate you
    There's no end to what manipulation looks like. Some people have a gift for making you do what they want you to do. Victims of manipulation typically have something in common. Knowing what that is will keep you out of harm's way.
    22 March 2026, 6:02 am
  • 42 minutes 38 seconds
    The direct way to communicate with a passive-aggressive person
    Are you really misunderstanding everything they say, or are they just trying to get away with being mean under the radar? I address that and also talk about when someone doesn't like a gift you've given them. If that sounds good, tune in!
    15 March 2026, 6:02 am
  • 47 minutes 56 seconds
    Avoid taking on the pain and suffering of others
    It can be a struggle to be there for loved ones struggling. And the more empathetic you feel, the more you may feel yourself getting deeper into the same struggle with them. It can sometimes be a challenge to be there for someone without losing yourself in the process.
    8 March 2026, 8:02 am
  • 58 minutes 7 seconds
    The aggressive accuser blaming you for things you didn't do
    Some people accuse just to keep you busy defending yourself. Some do it because, perhaps, they like to see you suffer? That can't be true... can it? If you're constantly accused for things you didn't do, you might be a mirror more than a target.
    1 March 2026, 7:02 am
  • 48 minutes 36 seconds
    Self-hate does not come from you
    If you were taught to believe you were anything less than lovable and worthy, it's time we had an important conversation.
    22 February 2026, 7:01 am
  • 39 minutes 36 seconds
    This doesn't have to be as good as it gets
    Meaning, purpose, the pursuit of happiness... Just existing shouldn't be the only way to live. You are important - you just may not realize how much.
    15 February 2026, 7:02 am
  • 26 minutes 35 seconds
    Stop blaming yourself for your stupid decisions
    Don't get trapped in a cycle of blaming yourself for past decisions. What you did then isn't what you'll do next time. And what you did then doesn't say who you are today.
    8 February 2026, 7:02 am
  • 45 minutes 27 seconds
    The traps some people set for us by playing the victim
    If you find yourself questioning whether it's okay to step back from a someone who is always playing the victim (and perhaps blaming you for almost everything wrong in their life), you need a way out and a way back to your sanity and well-being.
    1 February 2026, 7:02 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    8 myths about life and relationships
    Are the beliefs and values that guide your life and relationships truly serving you? There are many myths that, if we don't question them, might be holding us back from happiness and fulfillment.
    25 January 2026, 7:02 am
  • 41 minutes 35 seconds
    Keeping yourself unintentionally limited and stuck
    Is work, people, or other things getting you down? Is there a way out of that holding pattern? Holding out hope for change might not be the best way forward.
    18 January 2026, 7:02 am
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