LET IT OUT

Katie Dalebout

Long-form organic conversations with a diverse group of guests including visionary authors, musicians, entrepreneurs, chefs, comedians, and actors with interesting perspectives, careers, and stories. Here they candidly discuss everything including productivity, creativity, self-care, wellness, sex, love, body image, and more. Sometimes things get super deep and spiritual and sometimes they are funny and light because life is both.

  • 1 hour 56 minutes
    Sophie Ragir interviews me!

    This week is a little different: usually I’m the one asking the questions, but this time I’m on the other side. My friend Sophie had me on as the first guest to her new podcast, Late to the Party, where she interviewed me. This conversation ended up feeling surprisingly cathartic and was the most honest I’ve ever been while being recorded. She gave me a container to share and her genuine interest, thoughtful questions, and care gave me the confidence to open up about things I haven't.

    This episode fills in a lot of the story of what’s been happening with not only me these last several years but also tells the full story of the podcast,  from beginning to the middle, I'm still in now. Sophie’s show, Late To the Party is a perfect companion to this show, it’s for anyone who feels a little behind in love, work, or life, or is growing into something new. It was an honor to be her first guest and listen to all the episodes she's aired since.

     

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    If you liked this episode, try this one from the archive: Sacha Jones returns to interview me for a special birthday episode

    19 March 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    Desire, Dopamine, and Anticipation: Rachelle Robinett on Herbalism, Evolution and Redefining Ambition

    This week I spoke with herbalist and writer Rachelle Robinett about her new book, Naturally, and some of my favorite ideas inside it: dopamine, novelty, primal motivation and strategies to regulate our nervous systems. We also talk about how the ways we distract ourselves are often attempts at a change in state and how knowing what type of state change we’re craving can help us determine not only which herb to work with, but what the desire under the craving actually is. We get into her favorite herb, how she uses it as an alternative to alcohol, as well as how she’s evolved within wellness culture and how she’s redefining ambition now.

     

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    If you liked this episode, try this one from the archive: Supernatural Herbalism, Adaptogens, Trends, Productivity, Change + with Rachelle Robinett

    9 March 2026, 9:23 pm
  • 1 hour 32 minutes
    The Cost of Being “Good” with Savala Nolan

    This week I talked to attorney and writer Savala Nolan. Her newest book, Good Woman, which was named a Most Anticipated Feminist Book of 2026 by Ms. Magazine, is out now.

    I got to read an early copy and loved it. She writes with raw honesty about making herself smaller, both literally and metaphorically, in order to be a good daughter, a good wife, a good mother, and all the ways she allowed herself to be diminished to keep the peace, and how many others do this too. The 12 essays blend cultural commentary, personal experience, reportage, and history.

    We talked about the vulnerable process of writing a personal book of essays, including writing about divorce, motherhood, and the importance of respecting one’s appetite in every way, from creative to physical. I always love talking to Savala and loved getting to catch up with her here. Let us know if you listen.

     

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    If you liked this episode, try this one from the archive:

    3 March 2026, 6:05 pm
  • 59 minutes 2 seconds
    What’s ♥️ Got to Do With Eating? 🍽

    This week, I’m joined again by emotional eating expert Tricia Nelson. This time, we explore the intricate connection between emotional eating and romantic relationships. We talk about how emotional responsibility includes becoming aware of the ways food struggles can impact intimacy and communication in relationships.

    We also discuss how isolation can intensify emotional eating, why connection and honesty are essential to healing, and the underlying reasons food becomes a coping mechanism. Tricia shares practical ways she has helped people shift these deep-rooted patterns, including how processing, expressing, and communicating how we’re feeling is essential to changing compulsive eating behaviors. It’s an honest conversation about how long-term struggles with food can affect the people in our lives, with practical advice for how to feel and connect with others instead of numb and avoid with food.

    If you liked this episode, here's my first episode with her: Why We Eat Our Feelings (and What to Do Instead)—Tricia Nelson Explains

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    14 February 2026, 6:00 pm
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    How to Evolve On & Offline? ✷ 2026 Christine Nguyen on Pregnancy, Productivity, & Beginnings!

    My close friend Christine came over on New Year’s Day and we caught up on what’s ahead. We talk about friendship, big life transitions, and the constant evolution we all experience. She’s candid about how she’s changed creatively, professionally, and personally, including navigating freelance work amid uncertainty, and her excitement about becoming a parent and how pregnancy has unexpectedly fueled her productivity. We reflect on our last interviews, what she’s learned since, and the importance of staying adaptable. She’s quietly shown me how to move through change with poise and loved getting to have a time capsule conversation of this time in her life. It's a warm, reflective conversation about staying adaptable, new beginnings and staying on nodding terms with past versions of ourselves. Let us know if you listen!

    19 January 2026, 1:06 am
  • 1 hour 53 minutes
    Christine Nguyen on Film, Freelance, YouTube, Style, Breakups, and more! (RERUN of Ep 193) Chrissstttiiine

    *This episode originally aired in 2017. I made a new intro/ reaction to it. It's my first conversation ever with my now very dear friend. Look out for an updated conversation between us next week. 

    January 2017

    Today's conversation is one of the rare occasions where I make a friend live on the podcast. This conversation exceeded my expectation of what Christine would be like live. She was every bit as thoughtful, earnest, and wise as she comes off in the hundreds of YouTube videos she's published. Christine went to film school and simultaneously began on YouTube when she was just 18 and has been uploading to her chanel ever since. Her videos range from home decor to film photography to make-up to design to music. We get into everything from a cultivating a career as a freelancer to recovering after a tough breakup to handling aging and body image and finding a community. We also talk about  style, religion, family,  travel and more. I loved meeting her and having this meandering conversation which I think you'll love too. 

    Notes from the Show:

    -Find Chrissstttiiine on Instagram | YouTube | Twitter | Tumblr | blog

    -My book Let It Out: A Journey Through Journaling  Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble or iBooks.

    -Sign-up for my newsletter to get updates on where I'll be and what I'm loving!

    -the apartment and home tours she does

    Recs from the show: 

    -Badbutnotgood on Spotify

    -the Marco Polo tea she loves... you can also find it at Dean & Deluca in NYC (or other areas)

    -Book — anything by Haruki Murakami

    -Movie — This is England, The 400 Blows, Fight Club

    -TV - Freaks and Geeks, Vice News, Sex in the City

    -Podcast - The Daily

    8 January 2026, 9:29 pm
  • 45 minutes 40 seconds
    Why We Eat Our Feelings (and What to Do Instead)—Tricia Nelson Explains

    In this episode, I talk with author and emotional-eating expert Tricia Nelson about why we turn to food for comfort, what emotional eating actually is (it’s not about willpower), and how to build a life that makes late-night kitchen raids less inevitable. We get into compulsions, body image, aging, intimacy, the “tiger out of the cage” metaphor, and why healing has way more to do with buried feelings and stress patterns than with food itself. It’s an honest, tender conversation about breaking cycles, lowering pressure, and learning to feel instead of numb.

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    5 December 2025, 8:48 pm
  • 1 hour 53 minutes
    Grief, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Leveling Up with Jessica Gill of To Be Magnetic

    What Happens When You Actually Feel Feelings Instead of Avoiding Them? This week, I spoke with Jessica Gill about this. She's the Chief Content Officer at To Be Magnetic, about creativity, expansion, and what it really means to feel your feelings. We talked about grief, nostalgia, career ruts, rock bottoms, and how to get unstuck by doing the opposite of what you usually do. Jessica shares practical tools for raising self-worth, letting go of the past, and reconnecting to radical authenticity. If you’ve ever felt in limbo or like your old shell doesn’t fit anymore, this one will hit home.

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    If you liked this episode, try out from the archive:

    • Episode 481: (RERUN) Get Better at Feeling: The Art of Emotional Expansion - Lacy Phillips on Body Image, Style, and How To Be Magnetic (EP 212)
    6 November 2025, 4:04 pm
  • 2 hours 39 minutes
    Lacy Phillips on How To Be Magnetic (RERUN of EP 212)

    *This episode originally aired in 2018, re-airing it today in honor of Lacy's new book. And look out for an updated conversation between us later this week. 

    In late 2017, a friend mentioned a workshop she’d attended in New York led by Lacy. After hearing about her experience, I was intrigued, yet slightly apprehensive because after years of obsession and addiction to all things personal-growth, I was at a point where I was exhausted by content even in the vicinity of self-help. Despite my trepidation, I checked out Lacy's work. From her style and aesthetic to her framework and perspective, her work was incredibly intriguing. In the weeks leading up to this interview, I was a bit nervous to meet her in person. Fortunately, Lacy was warm, putting me at ease the second I walked into her Brooklyn apartment. We sipped a tea infusion she made us (Lacy’s an herbalist) and chatted for hours about everything from body image and food to design to relationships and boundaries. She was kind, charming, articulate, and I loved recording this episode and listening back to it.

    Show notes:

    - Sign up here to get a companion workbook for this episode and the next!

    - Lacy on The Web | Podcast | Instagram | YouTube | Pinterest
    >> Lacy's new book: How to Manifest

    - Katie's Substack | IG: @letitouttt + @katiedalebout  | Zine shop is here! 

    - My Creative Clinic. 
    >> book Let It Out: A Journey Through Journaling

     

    If you liked this episode, try out from the archive:

    Episode 464: Micro-Hysterical Moments: Amanda Chantal Bacon on shame, aging, dating, the myth of balance, and more!

    30 October 2025, 11:20 am
  • 1 hour 32 minutes
    Reactivity and the Romance Myth with Dean Spade

    This week I spoke with longtime activist and author Dean Spade about the complexities of relationships and the challenges we face in a society shaped by disposability culture. We discussed the fear of being wrong in public and of conflict and feedback. He spoke about why self-help often falls short in addressing systemic issues and shared some insights from his latest book, Love in a F*cked Up World, which offers practical advice on navigating personal growth and connection in a world that often feels isolating and disconnected. I loved both the book and this conversation. Let us know if you listen!

     

    Show notes:

    - Dean's books | podcast | IG: @spade.dean

    - My Substack | IG: @letitouttt + @katiedalebout

    - Zine shop is here! - My Creative Clinic

     

    If you liked this episode, try out from the archive:

    Episode 426 - Queering in Friendships: Rae McDaniel, Sex Therapist & Author of Gender Magic, Returns

    23 July 2025, 5:09 pm
  • 1 hour 32 minutes
    How to Make a Space Feel Like You - with Cooper Osinski

    This week, I talked to interior designer Cooper Osinski. He shared what makes a space feel personal, how he balances his style with client work, and how he developed his taste and style while navigating trends. We also discussed his intentional approach to growing an online presence on YouTube and how he stays thoughtful and constructive when offering design commentary. Cooper was as warm and inviting as the spaces he creates, and he offered heaps of practical, accessible tips—including small design fixes that make a big impact. Whether you're deep into design or just curious, he makes the world of interiors feel both approachable and fun. Let us know if you listen.

     

    Show notes:

    - Find Cooper on the Web | Instagram | YouTube

    - My Substack | IG: @letitouttt + @katiedalebout

    - Zine shop is here! - My Creative Clinic

     

    If you liked this episode, try out from the archive:

    Episode 425 - Mindful Space Design: Anjie Cho Returns

    25 June 2025, 11:55 pm
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