Ask Women Podcast: What Women Want

Marni Kinrys & Kristen Carney

What do a female comic and a professional wing girl have in common? The realistically raw and hilarious perspectives on what women ACTUALLY want in a man. Prepare to be offended and awed as Marni Kinrys &amp; Kristen Carney take you through the uncensored and often ridiculous mind of a woman to help you better understand, appreciate, and avoid getting punched by the next girl you come across. Wanna Ask The Girls A Question? Send your questions to [email protected] and check out our other dating tools and advice: https://www.winggirlmethod.com and Kristencarney.com/datinghelp Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/AskWomen/support">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/AskWomen/support</a>

  • 46 minutes 20 seconds
    What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

    🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit


    📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM


    What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention?

    Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest.

    Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why.

    The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it.

    In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account.

    If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes


    IN THIS EPISODE:

    ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to

    ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women

    ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss

    ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection

    ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think

    ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more

    👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod

    youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys

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    9 March 2026, 4:45 am
  • 46 minutes 3 seconds
    (Video) What the top 1% of men do differently that attracts all women (and it's not looks or money)

    🔥 FREE: Flirting Cheat Sheet — The exact tactics that make women feel attracted to you: 👉 https://winggirlmethod.com/kit


    📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/Fd8bOguTFpM


    What makes a woman choose ONE guy over the thousands competing for her attention?

    Today I'm sitting down with Kit Barrus — a top 0.1% OnlyFans creator with degrees in mathematics and psychology. She gets hit on thousands of times a day. Literally thousands. And she's tracked the data on what makes her lean in versus instantly lose interest.

    Most men think attraction is about looks, money, or the perfect line. So they try to impress. They compliment. They show interest. And then... nothing. She pulls away. She picks the other guy. And they have no idea why.

    The truth? Most men are doing things that actively push women away — and they're completely blind to it.

    In this episode, Kit and I break down the specific behaviors that create attraction versus the ones that kill it instantly. We talk about the biggest mistakes men make when approaching women, signs of interest most guys miss completely, and what actually makes a woman want you — none of which has anything to do with your age, your looks, or your bank account.

    If you've ever wondered what the guy who "gets the girl" is doing differently than you, this episode will open your eyes


    IN THIS EPISODE:

    ✅ What a woman who gets hit on 1000's of times per day actually responds to

    ✅ The biggest mistakes men make when trying to attract women

    ✅ Signs of interest most men completely miss

    ✅ What creates instant attraction vs. instant rejection

    ✅ Why looks and money matter way less than you think

    ✅ What to say to women that makes them lean in and want more

    👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod

    youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys

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    9 March 2026, 4:45 am
  • 28 minutes 11 seconds
    How He Became Confident With Women in Just 5 Weeks

    🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr


    📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application


    📺 Watch this episode on YouTube → https://youtu.be/jpyiooEg9qo

    Most men know that confidence is the key to attracting women. But here's the problem — confidence is almost impossible to fake. Women see right through it instantly.

    So what do you do if you're just... not there yet?

    In this episode, you'll hear from Marcel — a man who walked into my Inner Circle program without an ounce of real confidence. And I could feel it. I'll be honest with you — when I first met him, I felt superior to him. Which is something I feel with most men who come to me for help.

    But then something happened.

    Just 5 weeks into the 8-week program, Marcel shifted. The man I was looking at wasn't the same guy who showed up on day one. Suddenly I was seeing him as an equal — as a man any woman could feel genuine attraction for.

    Not fake confidence. Not "techniques." A real, internal transformation that changed how women experienced him.

    In this conversation, Marcel walks you through exactly what shifted — the mindset changes, the inner work, and how he went from feeling small and unnoticed to believing in his core that he's a great catch.

    If you've ever wondered whether real confidence is something you can actually BUILD (not just fake), this episode will show you it's possible — and faster than you think.


    🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD: "Name Your Animal" Exercise: https://winggirlmethod.com/grrr

    This is the same exercise I give to every man in my Inner Circle program. It's designed to help you identify and step into your most confident, authentic masculine energy — so you can show up with presence and power in every interaction with women.

    📞 Ready for your own transformation? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://coachingwithmarni.com/application

    👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod

    YouTube: youtube.com/marnikinrys


    IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN:

    ✅ Why faking confidence never works — and what to do instead

    ✅ The internal shift that transforms how women experience you

    ✅ How Marcel went from feeling invisible to choosing the women he wants

    ✅ What actually changed in just 5 weeks (it's not what you think)

    ✅ The difference between surface-level techniques and real confidence

    ✅ How to believe in your core that you're a great catch

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    2 March 2026, 2:45 pm
  • 17 minutes 13 seconds
    The Biggest Female TURN ON of ALL Time? (Over 10,000 Women Surveyed)

    Become A Man Women Want NOW (Go Here): https://becomeamanwomenwant.com/

    Do you know the one thing that turns a woman on… MORE than anything else? It’s NOT status, money, height or good looks. In fact, it’s NOT even confidence, sense of humor, intelligence or game.

    Those are all nice. But the single biggest turn on for women is something very specific… that 99% of men are completely unaware of.

    Once you know this secret, you will be able to attract more women than ever before. You will instantly multiply your dating options and have women craving to be with you. And that’s a guarantee.

    In this episode, Marni reveals the biggest female turn on of all time — and how you can use that to attract the women you desire.

    MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com

    Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!

    Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnKiL462Dng

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    26 February 2026, 10:30 pm
  • 11 minutes 54 seconds
    How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect

    Learn to do AFTER the attraction phase to keep the girl here: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/beyond_attraction_skills

    In this episode, Marni reveals 3 scientific reason why SIZE doesn't matter to women. It is a false belief that so many guys have that the bigger you are, the better you are in bed BUT that is 100% not true. This video shows you the truth about size and how to use what you got so you can be an amazing in the bedroom with women ;)

    MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com

    Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!

    Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAA104g1ZVA

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    23 February 2026, 10:30 pm
  • 27 minutes 51 seconds
    Here’s Why Flirting FAILS on 90% of Women

    🔥 Download the FREE DISC Chart Here: https://winggirlmethod.com/downdisc


    📞 Ready to get personal help? Book a FREE call with Marni and her team of Wing Girls → https://winggirlmethod.com/bookcall


    Why does the same flirting move work on one woman but completely fail on another?

    It's not random—it's because there are 4 distinct types of women, and each one responds to a completely different approach.

    In this episode, Wing Girl Nadia breaks down our DISC chart that categorizes women into 4 personality types. You'll learn how to quickly identify which category a woman falls into, and exactly how to approach, flirt, and connect with her based on her type.

    Once you understand this framework, you'll never waste time using the wrong tactic on the wrong woman again. You'll know within minutes of meeting her exactly how to create attraction.

    If you've ever wondered why "being yourself" works sometimes but not others—this episode explains everything.


    📺 Watch this episode on YouTubehttps://youtu.be/G4cXVFxabO4

    👋 Follow Marni: Instagram: @winggirlmethod

    👋 Youtube: youtube.com/marnikinrys


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    23 February 2026, 11:45 am
  • 17 minutes 41 seconds
    How To "Attract" Women WITHOUT Saying A Word | The "Natural" Effect

    Want to flirt like a pro with women? Get the F Formula NOW: https://www.winggirlmethod.com/get-flirty-now

    Did you know that it's possible to attract women WITHOUT saying a single word? It's true and it's doable by ANY man... YES even you ;).

    In this episode, Marni reveals exactly how to attract women without saying a word using the NATURAL effects of your body language. Body Language is the quickest and easiest thing you can alter to actually change how women see you.


    MORE TIPS, ADVICE & SECRETS ABOUT WOMEN: http://www.winggirlmethod.com

    Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!

    Youtube video version of this podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QdXCidXhNSw

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    19 February 2026, 10:30 pm
  • 6 minutes 30 seconds
    Private Message From Marni

    The Ask Women Podcast is getting a little facelift.  Moving forward our show will be called What Turns Women On and we’ll air 2 episodes a week.
    Same heart. Same purpose and same goal of helping amazing men get the women they want and become the men they’ve always want to be.
    Marni will be your host, your best female friend and your own personal Wing Girl.  She’s heard it all before and will deliver the best of the best insider information to help you turn women on.
    New episodes every Monday and Thursday.
    Help us by leaving a review and sharing our podcast!
    It’s time to turn women on!

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    17 February 2026, 8:14 pm
  • 1 hour 17 minutes
    Ep. 563 Misconceptions Of What Women Want

    What women want is one of the most misunderstood topics in dating and this episode proves exactly why. In this throwback conversation Marni sits down with comedian Graham Elwood for a candid funny and sometimes controversial discussion about dating attraction and the stories men tell themselves about women.

    They break down the biggest misconceptions that keep men confused frustrated and stuck including why common advice misses the mark how mixed signals get misread and what women actually respond to versus what men think they do.

    This episode is part debate part reality check and packed with insights that will challenge how you see dating and attraction.


    >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.>>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide


    >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty 

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    3 February 2026, 12:00 pm
  • 1 hour 21 minutes
    Ep. 562 A Bad Boy Women Want

    The friend zone does not get you in the end zone. In this throwback episode we break down what women actually mean when they say they want a bad boy and how to embody those traits without being arrogant cold or disrespectful.

    We talk about the difference between being nice and being attractive how confidence boundaries and emotional leadership create desire and why trying to please everyone usually kills attraction.

    Dating and attraction coach Nadine Piat joins us from Australia to share expert insight during Analyze This and help you understand how to show up as the kind of man women are naturally drawn to.


    >>> If you feel boring on dates, you're not imagining it. The issue isn't your personality—it's the conversational structure. Kristen created a FREE GUIDE that breaks down the exact tools that create chemistry instead of job interviews.

    >>>Grab it here: kristenandchilldating.com/free-guide


    >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty 

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    27 January 2026, 12:00 pm
  • 1 hour 7 minutes
    Ep. 561 How to Escape the Friend Zone

    Dun dun dunnnn. The dreaded friend zone. We have all landed there and it can feel like the Bermuda Triangle of dating. Once you are in it feels nearly impossible to get out.

    In this throwback episode we break down why the friend zone happens in the first place what mistakes keep you stuck there and what actually shifts attraction so a woman starts seeing you differently. You will learn how to change the dynamic without awkward conversations pressure or gimmicks.

    If you have ever been told you are such a great guy but felt invisible romantically this episode will help you understand what is really going on and how to finally escape the friend zone for good.

    >>> Become the most magnetic, witty and attractive version of yourself. Apply for Kristen's transformative coaching here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠kristenandchilldating.com/coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty 

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    20 January 2026, 12:00 pm
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