In this episode of Starve the Doubts, host Jared Easley reconnects with longtime friend and guest Jason Patello, co-owner of the Patello Insurance Group and founder of MIA (Motivate, Inspire, Affirm). Jason shares how he went from being a stay-at-home dad—famously known as “Butter Dad”—to leading a successful seven-figure insurance team. He explains how personal tragedy led him into mortgage protection, details his commitment to inspiring others through positive affirmations, and highlights the pivotal mindset shifts that shaped his growth. Jason’s story is a testament to resilience, self-belief, and the power of “starving the doubts.”  

Key Topics & Takeaways 

The Origin Story 

• Jason’s early days as a stay-at-home dad and initial connection with Jared
• Transitioning from “Butter Dad” to co-founding the Patello Insurance Group with his wife, Crystal

Why Mortgage Protection Insurance Matters
 

• A family tragedy that sparked Jason’s passion for protecting others
• Adapting to virtual/phone appointments while maintaining personal connections

Mindset & Motivation
 

• How mindset, affirmations, and gratitude can combat self-doubt
• Nighttime and morning routines for staying grounded (including brushing teeth with the opposite hand)

Leadership & Team Building
 

• Viewing agents as business partners and creating a duplicable process
• Balancing family life, professional growth, and a rapidly expanding agency

MIA (Motivate, Inspire, Affirm)
 

• The “why” behind Jason’s motivational content—and how he needed it first
• Harnessing self-talk, affirmations, and positivity to shift the subconscious

Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs
 

• “Never get stuck in the paralysis of analysis”
• Staying humble and hungry, no matter how big your wins

 
Memorable Quotes
 

 
Resources & Links
 

• Patello Insurance Group
  PatelloInsuranceGroup.com
• Jason’s YouTube Channel
  “Jason Patello” for the MIA (Motivate, Inspire, Affirm) playlist
• Connect with Host Jared Easley
  Starve The Doubts

 
Action Steps
 

1. Check Your Mindset
   • Reflect on three things you’re grateful for daily.
   • Use positive self-talk and disrupt routine habits (e.g., brush with your opposite hand).
2. Evaluate Your Insurance Needs
   • If you’re a new homeowner or haven’t reviewed your life insurance, consider talking to someone like Jason.
3. Fuel Personal Growth
   • Listen to motivational podcasts or watch inspiring videos regularly.
   • Engage with content that encourages you to keep pushing forward.
4. Stay Connected
   • Visit PatelloInsuranceGroup.com or follow Jason on YouTube for more affirmations.

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Episode Summary: 

In this powerful episode of Starve the Doubts, host Jared Easley sits down with motivational speaker, author, and fitness guru Martin Pigg to discuss the transformational power of mindset, personal growth, and relentless pursuit of one’s dreams. Martin shares his incredible journey—from a successful career as a pilot to taking a leap of faith into the personal development space, despite the risks and doubts from those around him. 

Throughout the conversation, Martin dives into the core principles of his PIGG framework—Passion, Intention, Gratitude, and Grace—as a foundation for living a fulfilled and purpose-driven life. He opens up about the challenges he's faced, including the loss of his parents, financial struggles, and personal betrayals, yet explains how he has continuously found the strength to push forward by maintaining faith in himself and the greater energy that guides us all. 

Listeners will be inspired by Martin’s transformational fitness journey, his shift into executive coaching and speaking, and his insights into recognizing "God Winks"—seemingly random but divinely orchestrated moments that help guide us toward our true calling. He also shares the importance of reframing our perspective on age, pain, and circumstances, emphasizing that they are myths and excuses that prevent us from living the life we are meant to live. 

In this episode, you’ll learn: 

• Why your odds of being born (1 in 400 trillion) make you a miracle and how that realization should shape your self-worth.
• How to cultivate a mindset of gratitude, even in the face of adversity.
• The importance of surrounding yourself with the right people—those who lift you up rather than drag you down.
• How to discern a true calling or “God Wink” from fleeting thoughts or self-doubt.
• Why your passion, when pursued with intention, will either become your purpose or lead you to it.
• How to overcome imposter syndrome and take the first step toward achieving your dream life.

Whether you're feeling stuck in your current circumstances, struggling with self-doubt, or simply seeking inspiration to take bold action toward your dreams, this conversation with Martin Pigg is packed with wisdom, motivation, and actionable steps that will help you break through limitations and take flight.

Connect with Martin Pigg:
 

• Website: MartinPigg.com (For books, coaching, and speaking engagements)
• Instagram: @martinpigg

🔥 "Never allow the voices of mediocrity to silence the whispers of your own soul." — Martin Pigg
 
 
This episode is a must-listen for anyone who needs a push to break free from self-doubt, reclaim their passion, and start living a life of intention, gratitude, and grace! 🚀

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Episode Summary:
In this inspiring episode of Starve the Doubts, Jared Easley welcomes back a returning guest and now friend, Miranda Oda, for an in-depth discussion about personal growth, achieving career milestones, and maintaining balance in life. Miranda shares her journey from being a wealth management advisor in Honolulu, Hawaii, to acquiring another financial practice at 27. She reveals the secrets to her success, including her commitment to personal development, a strong "to be list," and her adventurous spirit.

Miranda also talks about:

• Her love for music and how Metallica inspired her to pick up the guitar.
• Her recent foray into personal growth through PSI Seminars and setting balanced life goals.
• How she approaches challenges, pivots, and creates positive outcomes.
• Supporting local art, like pole dancing as an art form, has enriched her perspective.

Miranda’s candid insights about managing stress, finding balance, and staying authentic will resonate with anyone striving for a more fulfilled life.

Key Takeaways:

• To Be, Not Just To Do: Miranda emphasizes the importance of focusing on how we want to be rather than just what we want to do.
• Visualization and Rituals: Developing daily rituals and visualizing success are vital to maintaining clarity and focus.
• Faith and Purpose: Staying grounded in a sense of purpose and vision helps overcome obstacles and navigate detours.
• Channeling Energy Positively: Miranda highlights the importance of turning setbacks into opportunities for growth.

Quotes from the Episode:

• "Words create worlds. To change your life, you must change how you think."
• "It's not enough to know what you want; you must follow through and take risks."
• "I have a choice: to be stressed and broke or stressed and successful."

Connect with Miranda Oda:

• Instagram: @Miranda.HM
• Professional Website: mirandaoda.nm.com

Resources Mentioned:

• PSI Seminars: Personal growth and development workshops that Miranda credits with her balanced life approach.
• Aloha Tree Alliance: A nonprofit organization dedicated to restoring native plants in Hawaii. Consider giving the gift of a named tree this holiday season.

Final Thoughts from Miranda:
"Everyone has a to-do list, but why not have a to-be list as well? Focus on how you want to be in the moment, and everything else will follow."

Thanks for Listening!
Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review Starve the Doubts wherever you get your podcasts. Connect with Jared Easley on social media for updates and more inspiring stories!

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In this inspiring episode of the Starve the Doubts podcast, host Jared Easley sits down with Azucena Garcia Ferro, the dynamic host of "Cerebral Palsy Answers." Azucena shares her remarkable journey, from facing the challenges of living with cerebral palsy to achieving success in the corporate world and ultimately finding fulfillment through podcasting. She talks about the fears and risks she overcame to create a podcast that serves as a vital resource for the Spanish-speaking community, shedding light on cerebral palsy and providing hope and support to families navigating similar challenges.

**Key Topics:**

1. **Embracing Change and Overcoming Fear:**
   - Azucena shares how she transitioned from a stable corporate job to podcasting, highlighting the importance of being bold and taking risks.
   - She reflects on the personal growth and fulfillment from embracing change and stepping out of her comfort zone.

2. **The Power of Music:**
   - Discussion on Azucena's eclectic taste in music, including memorable concert experiences such as Soda Stereo and Depeche Mode.

3. **The Meeting and the Beginning:**
   - Azucena recounts how she and Jared first met through a scholarship opportunity for Podcast Movement, leading to a meaningful connection and a chance to expand her podcasting journey.

4. **Navigating New Spaces:**
   - Azucena's experience attending her first Podcast Movement conference in Los Angeles was where she felt welcomed and gained valuable insights and connections.
   - How networking at the conference helped her establish valuable relationships and inspired her to create a niche podcasting community for Spanish speakers.

5. **Overcoming Challenges with Cerebral Palsy:**
   - Azucena provides a candid look into her life with cerebral palsy, including the struggles and triumphs she faced growing up.
   - Her commitment to breaking misconceptions and providing support to families dealing with similar disabilities through her podcast.

6. **Podcasting as a Tool for Change:**
   - The role of podcasting in giving a voice to marginalized communities and individuals with disabilities.
   - Azucena's vision for her podcast and its impact on her listeners, providing a platform for hope and empowerment.

7. **Practical Advice for Aspiring Podcasters:**
   - Azucena's insights on starting a podcast emphasize the importance of believing in oneself, focusing on strengths, and seeking out the right people to help with technical aspects.
   - Encouraging listeners to pursue their passions despite fears and challenges, using her journey as an example.

8. **Final Thoughts and Encouragement:**
   - Azucena's closing advice on being courageous, taking risks, and not being intimidated by others, urging listeners to follow their instincts and strive for personal and professional growth.

**Episode Highlights:**

- Azucena's account of her top concerts: Soda Stereo's 2007 reunion and Depeche Mode's captivating performance.
- The transformative experience at the Podcast Movement conference, including meeting influential figures and forming lasting connections.
- Insights into her journey with cerebral palsy and how it shaped her mission to support others through podcasting.
- The importance of courage, risk-taking, and personal fulfillment in pursuing one's dreams.


Guest Information:
- Azucena Garcia Ferro
- Host of "Cerebral Palsy Answers"
- Website: [azucenagarcia. com](https://www.azucenagarcia.com)
- Social Media: [Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/azucenagarcia), [Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/azucenagarcia), [Twitter](https://www.twitter.com/azucenagarcia)

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Guest: Kevin Wingate (Soundcloud, YouTube, Facebook)

Host: Jared Easley

Episode Summary:

In this inspiring episode of Starve the Doubts, host Jared Easley chats with Kevin Wingate, a multi-talented individual who seamlessly blends his passion for music, technology, and ministry. Kevin discusses his journey from being a DJ and running a vape shop to becoming a prolific songwriter leveraging AI technologies. He also touches on his transformation, commitment to faith, and dedication to building a community around music and ministry.

Key Points Discussed:

1. Introduction and Background:
   • Jared introduces Kevin Wingate, a process technician, minister, family man, and AI-driven songwriter.
   • Kevin shares his journey into music, starting with his love for various genres and early DJing experiences.
2. Musical Journey and AI Integration:
   • Kevin's transition from DJing at local events to using AI to create a wide range of music, including country, hip-hop, and Christian songs.
   • The origin of Dirty Bay Productions and the "fishing country" music concept.
3. Dirty Bay Productions:
   • Kevin's venture into creating fishing-related music and his YouTube channel showcased his DIY music and video production approach.
   • The challenges of navigating copyright issues and deciding to create original music for his videos.
4. AI in Music:
   • Kevin's experiences with AI tools, creating songs in various genres, and the potential of AI to democratize music production.
   • The significance of AI in allowing him to express his creativity and reach new audiences.
5. Ministry and Music:
   • Kevin aspires to blend his faith with his music, creating uplifting content that resonates with diverse audiences. You can listen over at Wingate Muzic! 
   • His involvement with Blast and Cast Ministries combines his love for fishing with his passion for ministry.
6. Future Goals:
   • Kevin plans to expand his music ministry, reach out through platforms like TikTok, and help others find their voice in music.
   • His dream is to have his songs featured on Christian radio and continue to innovate in the music and ministry spaces.
7. Final Thoughts and Contact Information:
   • Kevin encourages listeners to pursue their passions and use AI for creative expression.
   • He invites people to connect with him via email at dirtybayproduction@gmail.com and follow his work under AI Outlaw on various platforms.

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Introduction:

• Welcome back to the podcast! I'm your host, Jared Easley. Today's episode is unique as we reconnect with Michael Wright, a man who significantly influenced my life during middle and high school. Michael is multifaceted – a musician, artist, concert manager, talent broker, businessman, and family man.

Key Discussion Points:

God's Love and Mission:

• Michael reflects on the profound love of God and the ultimate sacrifice of Jesus on the cross.
• Encourages listeners to embrace God's love, share it with others, and intentionally love the people around them.

Michael Wright's Musical Journey:

• Michael shares his favorite concert experiences, including seeing Blackberry Smoke and Yacht Rock Revue.
• Discusses what makes a band stand out, highlighting nostalgia and memorable experiences associated with music.
• Michael's humble beginnings with his first band, Calico Road, and progression through various bands, including Soft Rocking Cow, Slow Rolling Cow, and the cover band Coconut Cowboys.
• Transitioning to Suns of March, his original music project, and the success it brought.

Influence and Memories:

• Jared reminisces about Michael's impact on his musical development, including guitar lessons and songwriting inspiration.
• Michael's experiences in boxing, his pivot to music, and the influence of his faith on his songwriting.

Transition to Music Management:

• Michael's shift from a touring musician to a talent broker and concert manager.
• Insights into the music industry, working with big names like Blake Shelton and Eric Church, and managing significant festivals and events.
• The challenges and rewards of balancing family life with his professional responsibilities.

Family and Priorities:

• Michael's dedication to his family and the importance of setting priorities.
• I am balancing professional aspirations with being a devoted husband and father.
• The dynamics of a blended family and the emphasis on supporting their children's activities and interests.

Final Thoughts:

• Michael emphasizes the importance of making disciples and living a life of obedience to God's commandments.
• The inspiration was drawn from Kyle Lance Martin's Project 52, focusing on discipleship and intentionality in daily interactions.

Closing:

• Michael's final thought: "God is love. He loved us enough to go to the cross, send his son to the cross for us, and die for us so that he could come and possess us when we finally realized we needed him. He wants us to love, he wants us to receive his love, and he wants us to share his love. Let's go out tonight and tomorrow, and let's look at people and intentionally make a point in our mind to say, Hey, I'm going to love that person."
• Jared expresses gratitude for Michael's influence and friendship and teases a future episode featuring Michael performing on acoustic guitar.

Call to Action:

• Check out Michael's music project, Suns of March, at sunsofmarch.com.
• Follow Michael's musical journey on social media through the Suns of March website links.
• Stay tuned for more inspiring episodes and reconnecting with influential figures from Jared's life.

Outro:

• Thank you for listening to this heartfelt and inspiring episode. Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with your friends and family. Until n

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In this episode, host Jared Easley talks with guests Jerry Dugan, Matt Gibson, and Russell Lolacher about their experiences at Podcast Movement Evolutions in LA. They discuss the networking opportunities, sessions attended, and overall positive experiences at the conference.

Each guest shares a few of their favorite podcasts:

• Jerry recommends LeVar Burton Reads, Based on a True Story with Dan Levesque, and Say More with Dr. Sheila
• Matt enjoys music industry shows like The Gig Gab Podcast, CD Baby's DIY Musician Podcast, The Lex Fridman Podcast, and The All-In Podcast.
• Russell likes movie industry shows such as KCRW's The Business and The Rewatchable.

In a humorous role-playing segment, the guests give each other advice. Russell advises Matt on planning the ultimate Canadian vacation, Matt counsels Jerry on modern dating, and Jerry guides Russell through the process of writing and publishing a book.

The guests also joke about what new podcast each would hypothetically launch based on their interactions that week. The episode concludes with the guests sharing where listeners can find them and their work online.

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Jared Easley interviewed Eric McCain, an accomplished musician, percussionist, and studio musician on the Starve the Doubts podcast. 

Some key points from the discussion:

- Eric shared his background, growing up related to the Pointer Sisters, getting his start in music through marching band, and being mentored by influential music teacher Reggie Andrews. This exposed him to jazz and inspired him to learn percussion.

- He has traveled the world performing at iconic venues like Carnegie Hall and the Sydney Opera House. Eric has also worked with many famous artists, such as Michael Jackson, Stevie Wonder, and Denzel Washington, though often in the studio rather than directly.

- Eric performed percussion on the original Lion King animated film and the Broadway musical for many years. 

- He emphasized the importance of constantly reinventing yourself and being open to learning new things at any age. This motivated his interest in podcasting and attending this podcast conference.

- When asked for recommendations on experiencing the real LA music scene, Eric suggested checking out smaller clubs in the arts district downtown, referenced in the LA Weekly. 

- He discussed how much the music industry and recording technology have evolved over his career, from 4-track tapes to digital. While it is easier now, he feels the abundance of music has reduced some modern music's overall quality and artistry.

- Eric advised aspiring musicians to learn piano fundamentals and music theory as a foundation. Success takes hard work and homework, not overnight stardom.

- He is launching his podcast, Eric McCain Live, in late April 2024, interviewing musicians.

- Eric closed by encouraging listeners to prioritize their health above all else.

The interview painted Eric as a passionate, accomplished musician eager to share his experience and wisdom with others through his upcoming podcast. Let me know if you want me to elaborate on or clarify any summary part.

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Stephanie Trinh owns a social media marketing agency and the jewelry brand Crowned by Stephanie. The episode delves into how artificial intelligence (AI) has facilitated rapid learning and efficiency in managing tasks across various industries, particularly highlighting its benefits in social media marketing and entrepreneurship.

Stephanie shares her journey from starting as a freelancer after working in advertising agencies to eventually hiring contractors to support her growing business, which thrives on referrals. Her ventures into entrepreneurship are highlighted by the creation of her jewelry brand, spurred by a desire to prove her capabilities after being turned down for a job due to a lack of experience. Despite initial challenges, including navigating the complexities of sourcing and pricing, her perseverance paid off with a successful launch and a significant sale at San Diego Startup Week. The COVID-19 pandemic triggered a surge in her social media business, momentarily sidelining her jewelry venture until a resurgence driven by a Lunar New Year collection went viral, thanks to social media exposure.

Throughout the conversation, AI's benefits in enhancing productivity and creativity are underscored, with tools like Jasper.ai and ChatGPT playing a crucial role in content creation and summarization tasks. The discussion extends to AI's implications in the broader context of marketing and content generation, including potential applications in blogging, podcasting, and video content creation.

Stephanie's narrative of transitioning from employment to entrepreneurship reflects broader themes of resilience, innovation, and the evolving landscape of digital marketing and e-commerce. Her story encapsulates the challenges and triumphs of pursuing one's passions in the face of adversity, leveraging technology to carve out a niche in competitive industries.

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This episode of Starve the Doubts dives into Jody Maberry’s remarkable podcasting journey and its impact on his life. Jody and host Jared Easley explore the following key themes:

• The Spark of Podcasting: Jody recounts his early days on Starve the Doubt, which was instrumental in launching his successful podcast, Park Leader Show. He discusses overcoming self-doubt with Jared's encouragement.
• The Disney Connection: Jody's collaboration with Lee Cockerell (ex-Disney executive) led to their podcast Creating Disney Magic and the Cockrell Academy, fueling personal and professional growth and lasting relationships.
• The Influence of Dan Miller: Jody pays tribute to Dan Miller, sharing valuable life lessons about relationships, marriage, and kindness. This underlines Dan's impact on both Jody and Jared.
• Unexpected Opportunities: Jody highlights how podcasting opened doors to speaking, consulting, and travel, demonstrating its power for building authority and creating unforeseen possibilities.
• Personal Connection and Innovation: Jody's daily podcast for his son exemplifies how the medium can creatively foster connection.
• Reflection and Gratitude: Jody and Jared reflect on their growth, the impact of their work, and their enduring friendship. Jody acknowledges Jared's pivotal role in his journey and exudes optimism for the future.

Key Takeaway: This podcast transcript showcases how podcasting can lead to profound personal and professional growth, foster connections, inspire others, and open doors to unexpected opportunities.

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To achieve financial success, you need to start with the right mindset. In this episode, you will learn: 1. What advice does Des Jordan have for Ashley Long, who is working towards launching her own podcast production company?
2. How did Ashley and Des Jordan meet, and what was their first impression of each other?
3. What are some of Ashley Long's goals for her career in podcast production?


Here's a breakdown of what is covered:
[00:00:00] - Don't let fear stop you.

[00:00:21] - Introducing Ashley and Dez.

[00:01:59] - Welcome to fincon.

[00:03:09] - Where's home?

[00:04:35] - First year fincon.

[00:07:09] - What popped into Ashley's mind?

[00:08:16] - What session has stood out to Dez?

[00:09:05] - What are some of your goals?

[00:09:41] - Dez' coaching advice.

[00:14:01] - Hang out with rich people.

[00:16:25] - Someone that excites you.

[00:18:31] - If a friend is stuck.

[00:20:26] - Having aha moments.

[00:24:42] - How to connect with them online.

[00:26:01] - Your final thoughts.

Connect with Ashley Long on LinkedIn and Instagram.

Connect with Dez Jordan on LinkedIn & Instagram. 

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