Today we present Bryan Safi’s Series of Unfortunate Events as he attempts to fix his broken MacBook at the Apple Genius Bar, deals with a car breakdown, and realizes multiple financial mistakes from the last few years.  We also share some straight culture with a B-side Neil Young song that should never existed.  Erin tells us about a woman who took her divorce case to the European Court of Human Rights because French courts held her responsible for “breach of martial duties and obligations”.  Bryan is furious with the cowards at Target for caving to conservatives and ending their DEI programs and goals, and praises companies like Costco for pushing forward.

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We spent Inauguration Day distracting ourselves learning about the history of Kohl’s and interspersing some Martin Luther King Jr. quotes for good measure. Bryan updates us on LGBTQ+ momentum around the world including Germany’s Self-Determination Act, Denmark and Czechia allowing gay and bisexual men to donate blood and conversion therapy being banned in Mexico. Erin calls out beauty influencers including Jordan Younger and Kim Rogers aka  “The Worm Queen” for using the LA wildfires as a way to generate income. 

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We left LA due to the fires, and our thoughts are with everyone affected. Erin's back in Santa Fe having home cooked meals with the ones she loves, Bryan is going crazy with his parents in Texas. Erin shares details of five South Carolina doctors challenging the state's 6 week abortion ban. Bryan praises Costco's unwavering support for their DEI programs when other companies are caving to threats of boycotts from conservatives.

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Bryan is back with tales from his holiday trip to Italy involving Coke Zero and Christmas poems. Erin hiked, journaled, and ended up with stomach problems from grocery store sushi. Bryan gets heated about Democrat concessions in the National Defense Authorization Act which will block healthcare to trans children of military service members. Erin reads into an article from the Australian jounal Body Image analyzing the effects of TikTok's idealized bodies, and the accuracy of influencer diet and exercise videos.

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Happy New Year! We'll be back next week. In the meantime enjoy Bryan's recap of Dateline: Season 23, Episode 4. Carrollton, Texas - where there are more churches than Starbucks. The perfect "Leave It To Beaver" family, bags of Taco Bueno, crafting, scrapbooking and a murder for hire plot that breaks up a family in the strangest way.

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A post-Christmas miracle - the final Columbo from 2003! The boomer writers of the OG Columbo series asked themselves, "What's popular with the kids these days?" and the answer they came up with? RAVES. This episode has a young Matthew Rhys, murder by glass table, Columbo flirting with a girl at a warehouse party, racist maid tropes, and an excuse to say someone is sleeping with the fishes.

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We're off for the Holidays, but we wanted to gift you something from behind the paywall! One of the most recommended stores in our DMs and emails. Named to Fortune's Best Companies to Work For, the 107 year old Rochester NY-based, family-owned Wegman's Food Market.

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Bryan takes us on his 36 hour NYC Pig Bitch Tour which includes an apartment fire, "Birdboxing" himself, a coffee tour and Bergdorfs. At her convent, Sister Mary Gibson triggers some scent memory by using some Murphy Oil Soap to clean her hardwood floors. Bryan tells us about Michigan Democrats trying to gather support to end "zombie laws" which could lead to consenting adults being prosecuted for sodomy if courts go even further to the right. Erin gives us details on Dr. Rebecca Szabo's attempts to change the physiques of the standard cisgender white male CPR dummies so people are trained on how to save the lives of different body types.

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We're back from Thanksgiving and Erin is never cooking again, meanwhile Bryan had a celebrity encounter at one of New York's hottest restaurants. Erin tells us about Pastor Joel Webbon's riling up of his supporters against the 19th Amendment. Bryan is annoyed by former music video director Robby Starbuck's return - this time targeting Walmart and their DEI programs.

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Happy Thanksgiving! The discussion about our 2025 queer white water rafting trip continues with worries about whether or not we can bring full mattresses to camp on. Bryan discusses the latest attempts by the Texas Legislature to decriminalize gay sex. Erin tells us about Georgia's Maternal Mortality Committee being disbanded after findings about preventable deaths were leaked to the press.

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We're back from the wayOUT Gala where we honored Harper Steele and Bryan spent a lot of money on a joke (for a good cause). Erin shares some disturbing gender disparity details regarding drug testing in this country and how changes could improve medicine and the economy. Bryan stumbles upon Stormy Daniels' OutTV show For The Love of DILFS, and shares some positivity from newly-elected Congresswoman Sarah McBride and Governor Andy Beshear.

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