We're off for the Holidays, but we wanted to gift you something from behind the paywall! One of the most recommended stores in our DMs and emails. Named to Fortune's Best Companies to Work For, the 107 year old Rochester NY-based, family-owned Wegman's Food Market.

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Bryan takes us on his 36 hour NYC Pig Bitch Tour which includes an apartment fire, "Birdboxing" himself, a coffee tour and Bergdorfs. At her convent, Sister Mary Gibson triggers some scent memory by using some Murphy Oil Soap to clean her hardwood floors. Bryan tells us about Michigan Democrats trying to gather support to end "zombie laws" which could lead to consenting adults being prosecuted for sodomy if courts go even further to the right. Erin gives us details on Dr. Rebecca Szabo's attempts to change the physiques of the standard cisgender white male CPR dummies so people are trained on how to save the lives of different body types.

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We're back from Thanksgiving and Erin is never cooking again, meanwhile Bryan had a celebrity encounter at one of New York's hottest restaurants. Erin tells us about Pastor Joel Webbon's riling up of his supporters against the 19th Amendment. Bryan is annoyed by former music video director Robby Starbuck's return - this time targeting Walmart and their DEI programs.

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Happy Thanksgiving! The discussion about our 2025 queer white water rafting trip continues with worries about whether or not we can bring full mattresses to camp on. Bryan discusses the latest attempts by the Texas Legislature to decriminalize gay sex. Erin tells us about Georgia's Maternal Mortality Committee being disbanded after findings about preventable deaths were leaked to the press.

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We're back from the wayOUT Gala where we honored Harper Steele and Bryan spent a lot of money on a joke (for a good cause). Erin shares some disturbing gender disparity details regarding drug testing in this country and how changes could improve medicine and the economy. Bryan stumbles upon Stormy Daniels' OutTV show For The Love of DILFS, and shares some positivity from newly-elected Congresswoman Sarah McBride and Governor Andy Beshear.

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After praising her performance in Sunset Blvd. Bryan is upset with the lead Pussycat Doll's recent Instagram likes and comments of conservative content, and Erin is introduced to the 1985 Alice in Wonderland with Carol Channing. Bryan teaches us how to disengage and set boundaries with our Trump-loving family members this holiday season. Erin tells us all about the Korean 4B movement (also known as the 4 No's) and its tenets: no marriage, no childbirth, no dating and no sex - which has had renewed interest in the United States after Donald Trump's election.

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Well, that happened. Erin and Bryan have a raw morning-after discussion about the Election Day results, what is going on in America, and the small victories that will help guide us into the hell that will be Trump's second term.

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Happy Halloqueen! This year Bryan dressed as the skeleton of Vincent Price and Erin is a woman who can never get warm. Erin describes her gym's trainer "bate board" of guilty pleasures, and Bryan recounts a neighbor's on-the-nose costume party. Erin tells us about Olivia Dreizen Howell's viral tweet answering the question "Can my husband find out who I am voting for in the Presidential Election?", and voting gaps between married, divorced and single voters. Bryan rips apart Log Cabin Republican Charles Moran's false claim that the 2025 GOP Platform gets rid of all anti-LGBTQ+ language when it promises to ban content from schools, rolls back legal protections for transgender people, and adds protections for Christians to discriminate against queer people.

Make sure to vote! Visit www.vote.gov to check your registration status and find your polling place.

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Bryan's back from New York where he witnessed Nicole Scherzinger's star turn in Sunset Blvd. on Broadway. Erin is back in LA and describes the generational gap between herself and the others in her workout class. Erin covers the reproductive rights propositions and ballot measures up for a vote in Florida, Maryland, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New York and South Dakota. Bryan reminds us that LGBTQ+ marriage rights are one lawsuit away from being taken away, and to vote on California's Proposition 3, Colorado's Amendment J, and Hawaii's constitutional question removing wording that only permits marriage between opposite sex couples.

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We open this week with a discussion about the matchmaking service It's Just Lunch and, following the news of Elon's upcoming Optimus humanoid army, why we'd rather have a twinkish C3PO-style robot. Bryan tells us about Grindr's newest AI "wingman" development to help users improve interactions on the app, suggest conversation starters, and even make dinner reservations. Erin updates us on former Under Secretary of the Air Force Gina Ortiz Jones' new Find Out PAC which is working to unseat anti-choice Texas Supreme Court Justices.

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Bryan is starting his own private insurance company (with many prerequisites before joining), and Erin shares details about her recent pet psychic call, and a neighbor who brings horses over to eat grass and a dog food eating child. Erin discusses Judge Robert McBurney who struck down the Georgia's six week abortion ban under HB 481, and Bryan is confounded by MAGA men's obsession with JD Vance.

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