Audience faves Trystan and Biff are back… and they’re having a baby! We talk about what it’s like to be a pregnant man, and to share that news with your parents, your children, and the world.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on May 31, 2017 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Holly Schechter always knew she wanted to be a mom. But getting there was a journey. After a car crash and two major spine surgeries, she struggled with infertility. Today, Holly shares her remarkable story of IVF… with a hopeful ending.

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Recommendations from the archive

• Infertility got you down? Maybe you need to laugh about it with infertility sketch comedy in our episode Awkward Adventures in Infertility.

• Our early episode The Longest Longest Time is about one woman’s struggle with miscarriages for 11 years… and how she eventually came to have a baby.

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Episode resources

• Holly is now head of education at Conceive, a digital platform that provides 24/7 medical and emotional support for people trying to get pregnant.

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We pick up where we left off with Trystan and Biff, and their passive-aggressive standoff.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on May 3, 2016 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Hot flashes! Weight gain! Headaches! Rage! If these symptoms sound familiar, you may be in perimenopause. But who among us actually knows what perimenopause is? Menopause specialists Dr. Rebecca Dunsmoor-Su and Dr. Amy Voedisch offer an informative and irreverent primer.

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More episodes about clinicians as patients

• #183 Postpartum House Arrest

• #230 Secrets from the Vagina Whisperer

• #38 Pediatricians, They’re Just Like Us

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More from the docs

• Rebecca and Amy’s podcast about perimenopause: OvaryActive

• Rebecca and Amy’s book: Estrogen Interrupted: A Guide to Surviving and Thriving in Perimenopause (purchasing/pre-ordering through our link helps support LST!)

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Episode resources

• Find a provider through the Menopause Society

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Audience faves The Accidental Gay Parents return. This time Trystan is pregnant.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on April 26, 2016 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Is The Summer I Turned Pretty romantic or toxic? Is Heartstopper sweet or cringe? Hillary talks with pop culture critic Kristen Meinzer and sex educator Shafia Zaloom about love stories in YA TV, old classics teens are into, and why so many of these shows end with a dude chasing a woman down in Paris.

Do you want to talk about these shows with Hillary? You can, on our new Discord! All you need to do is join LST+.

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Shows discussed

• The Summer I Turned Pretty

• K-Pop Demon Hunters

• Heartstopper

• Heated Rivalry

• Friends

• Sex and the City

• Sex Education

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Recommendations from the archive

• #241 TV to Spark Conversations with Adolescent Kids

• #238 Shafia Zaloom’s Playful Approach to Sex Ed

• #237 YOU KNOW WHAT: An LST Spinoff

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More Shafia

• Sex, Teens, and Everything in Between

• Getting Real About Sex Ed

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More Kristen

• The Nightly - a bedtime podcast for pop culture lovers

• Happy to Be Here - featuring a My So-Called Life rewatch

• How to Be Fine

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The "accidental gay parents" return. This time with John's side of the story.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on July 17, 2015 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Check out the entire series!

We’ll be airing the entire 6-part Accidental Gay Parents series every other week. Or, binge the entire thing here. The story takes so many twists and turns. It’s heartwarming at times; heartbreaking at others. Super relatable always.

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Maia Molina-Schaefer is a boxing champ and combat veteran. But nothing has exhausted her like raising a kid. Today she shares her remarkable story of making history in the military… and pumping in a closet like any working mom.

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Recommendations from the archive

• #77 Behind Family Lines

• #87 The Mortality of Motherhood

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One weekend Trystan and his boyfriend were clubbing in Vegas; the next they were steeped in diapers and Legos. The story of how two twenty-somethings became parents.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on June 19, 2015 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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Check out the entire series!

We’ll be airing the entire 6-part Accidental Gay Parents series every other week. Or, binge the entire thing here. The story takes so many twists and turns. It’s heartwarming at times; heartbreaking at others. Super relatable always.

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As the daughter of an OBGYN, Danielle Bezalel learned all about vaginas — but pleasure wasn’t part of the conversation. Now she’s on a mission to help people prioritize pleasure. Today, she shares the incident that motivated her to become a sex educator, her own struggles with birth control, the orgasm experiment she did on herself, and tips for getting in the mood as a busy parent.

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Recommendations from the archive

Sex & Parenthood Series

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Episode resources

• Danielle’s podcast: Sex Ed with DB

• Find your shortcut to getting in the mood with Danielle’s smut quiz

• Danielle’s personal Magic Wand experiment

• Official Magic Wand study

• Planned Parenthood birth control quiz

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Alex was itching to ask her partner Ben whether he’d be up for having kids one day — a question that felt scary and extra complicated because she has Cerebral Palsy. To muster some courage, she turned to an unexpected ally: a tiny stuffed lamb that can see the future.

⭐️ This episode originally ran on August 16, 2017 and is a favorite from the archives. We hope you enjoy, and we’ll be back next week with a brand new episode.

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