You are not a target. Not a punching bag. Not the release valve for someone else’s frustration.

In the middle of the book tour whirlwind, I’m reflecting on a powerful review someone left for The Next Conversation and diving into the first and most foundational rule of the book: say it with control. I’ll walk you through a mindset shift that’s helped thousands of people—not just to win arguments, but to protect their peace. We talk about regulating our fight-or-flight response, how to use your breath as a pause button, and why you are never required to absorb someone else’s emotional baggage.

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Ever feel like you’re talking but not really connecting? Or maybe you’re in a conversation, and you know the other person is just waiting for their turn to talk? Well, today’s episode is about to change that.

I’m sitting down with Charles Duhigg, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and author of Supercommunicators, to talk about what the best communicators do differently. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about being the most persuasive—it’s about knowing how to ask the right questions.

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Alright, let’s do something different today.

This is a special bonus episode where you get to hear Chapter 1 of my new book, The Next Conversation.

In this first chapter, we’re setting the stage. You’ll get a feel for what’s inside the book, and if it clicks with you, you’re going to love the full audiobook. I recorded it myself, so it’s like we’re sitting down together, walking through these conversations step by step.

Take a listen, and if you're ready for more, order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today.

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Today is a big day, y’all. It’s book launch day. The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More is officially out in the world, and I could not be more excited (or honestly, more emotional) about it.

If you’ve ever gotten something valuable from my content—if even one thing has stuck with you—I'm asking you to grab a copy of this book. Because this isn’t just a book. It’s an investment in your next conversation. And if there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s that the way we show up in conversations shapes everything—our relationships, our confidence, our success.

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Ever walked into a conversation and felt like you were on the losing end before it even started? Whether it’s a tough negotiation, a disagreement at home, or just trying to get someone to see your side, there’s a right and wrong way to do it—and Chris Voss is the guy to teach it.

I’ve been a fan of Chris’s work for a long time, and getting to sit down with him was a masterclass in negotiation, tactical empathy, and human connection.

Chris is a former FBI hostage negotiator, the author of Never Split the Difference, and the CEO of The Black Swan Group. His negotiation tactics aren’t just for high-stakes situations—they work everywhere. And in this episode, he breaks it all down for us.

Buy Chris’s book, Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It

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Ever find yourself stuck in your own head, overthinking a conversation, or worrying about how someone will react? This episode is for you.

Today I sit down with the legendary Mel Robbins – NYT #1 bestselling author, speaker, and the force behind The Let Them Theory. She breaks down the power of self-communication, why the way you talk to yourself shapes your confidence, and how to stop wasting energy on things you can’t control.

Dive deeper into The Let Them Theory, and buy the book today at https://www.melrobbins.com/letthemtheory 

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How do you raise a good communicator? How do you teach kids to be kind but not a pushover? And what actually matters when it comes to parenting?

In this episode, I’m sitting down with the two people who shaped my life the most—my parents.

This is a personal one. But whether you're a parent, thinking about becoming one, or just curious about how childhood shapes the way we communicate, I think you’ll take something valuable away from this conversation.

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You’re in a conversation, and things get heated. You want to make your point—but so do they.

Suddenly, it feels like a battle. And if you "win," what have you really won?

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 truths that will change how you communicate—for good.

These simple mindsets will help you stay grounded, connect more deeply, and navigate tough conversations with clarity and confidence.

Plus, I’ll share why I’m stepping into a new studio for season 2 and what you can expect moving forward.

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Today’s podcast is a little different. It’s personal.

I’m wrapping up season 1 of the podcast, sharing some big highlights from 2024, and giving you a preview of what’s coming in 2025. And yes… I’m launching something new soon :)

2024 was full of surprises for me. Things I never saw coming. And you were a big part of that. Thank you for listening, learning, and showing up each week. I’m truly grateful to have you here.

Stay tuned for season 2 of the podcast. 

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To wrap up 2024, I’ve pulled together my top 3 podcast episodes of the year—all in one place.

You’ll get tools to handle rude comments, navigate belittling remarks, and stay calm when someone isn’t being honest.

No matter what comes your way in 2025, these tips will help you stay confident and in control.

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Small talk can be so awkward.

You’re trying to fill the silence, but the conversation just isn’t clicking. What do you do?

In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to make small talk feel natural, engaging, and even enjoyable. You’ll learn how to ask better questions, keep the conversation flowing, and avoid the awkward silence trap.

These tips will help you turn any small talk moment—whether at a party, in line at the grocery store, or before a meeting—into a real connection.

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