The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

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  • 15 minutes 11 seconds
    How to Never Struggle with Small Talk

    Small talk can be so awkward.

    You’re trying to fill the silence, but the conversation just isn’t clicking. What do you do?

    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to make small talk feel natural, engaging, and even enjoyable. You’ll learn how to ask better questions, keep the conversation flowing, and avoid the awkward silence trap.

    These tips will help you turn any small talk moment—whether at a party, in line at the grocery store, or before a meeting—into a real connection.

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    17 December 2024, 11:00 am
  • 17 minutes 52 seconds
    How to Handle People Who Dominate Conversations

    You’re in a conversation, and someone turns it into their personal monologue.

    They just keep talking and talking—totally dominating the conversation.

    It’s frustrating. But you don’t have to sit through it.

    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to handle people who dominate conversations.

    You’ll learn how to interrupt confidently, redirect the conversation, and set clear boundaries to protect your time and energy.

    These strategies will help you take charge and create space for everyone to be heard.

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    10 December 2024, 11:00 am
  • 14 minutes 8 seconds
    What to Say to a One-Upper

    You’re excited to share something you’re proud of, and then someone jumps in with, “Oh, that’s nothing—I’ve done [insert bigger, better thing here].”

    It’s like they can’t help but make it a competition. Every win you share becomes their chance to one-up you.

    At first, it’s just annoying. But over time, it starts to wear on you.

    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple strategies to deal with one-uppers.

    You’ll learn how to protect your peace, set boundaries, and stop letting these moments steal your joy.

    If you found this helpful, be sure to subscribe and leave a 5-star review :)

    This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Visit cozyearth.com/jefferson and use my exclusive 40% off code JEFFERSON to give the gift of luxury this holiday season. If you get a post purchase survey, say that you heard about Cozy Earth from The Jefferson Fisher Podcast!

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    3 December 2024, 11:00 am
  • 15 minutes 28 seconds
    What to Say to Dismissive Replies

    Someone brushes off their rude comments with, “It was just a joke.” Or they tell you, “Don’t take it personally,” or, “You’re too sensitive.” 

    These comments might seem small. But they can slowly tear down your self-esteem. 

    The good news? You don’t have to let them shake you. 

    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple ways to respond to dismissive comments.

    These strategies will help you protect your self-esteem, stand your ground, and respond to dismissive comments with confidence.  

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    This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Visit cozyearth.com/jefferson and use my exclusive 40% off code JEFFERSON to give the gift of luxury this holiday season.

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    26 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 17 minutes 28 seconds
    How to Not Get Defensive

    Someone says something that hits a nerve, and before you know it, you’re on the defensive. 


    Defensiveness is a normal reaction. But it can quickly escalate arguments and make things worse. Good news: there’s a better way to handle it.


    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to stay calm and not get defensive—no matter how heated the conversation gets.


    These strategies will help you stay composed and avoid escalating the situation. So you can turn difficult conversations into productive ones. 


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    This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Visit cozyearth.com/jefferson and use my exclusive 40% off code JEFFERSON to give the gift of luxury this holiday season.

    If you get a post purchase survey, say that you heard about Cozy Earth from The Jefferson Fisher Podcast!


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    19 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 12 minutes 13 seconds
    How to Accept a Compliment

    Ever feel awkward when someone compliments you? You’re not alone. It’s easy to downplay, dismiss, or deflect compliments.

    But there’s a better way to respond to compliments. A way that shows appreciation, self-respect, and kindness.

    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 simple strategies to respond to compliments.

    Here’s what you’ll learn:

    #1: How to accept compliments without feeling the need to dodge or downplay them

    #2: Why a simple "thank you" can make you and the other person feel great

    #3: Ways to acknowledge compliments that strengthen your self-worth (and don’t involve saying “oh, I got it on sale”)

    These strategies will help you feel more comfortable accepting compliments, boost your confidence, and build stronger connections with those around you.

    This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Visit cozyearth.com/jefferson and use my exclusive 40% off code JEFFERSON to give the gift of luxury this holiday season. If you get a post purchase survey, say that you heard about Cozy Earth from The Jefferson Fisher Podcast!

    If you enjoy this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review. 

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    12 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 15 minutes 6 seconds
    How to Respond to Gaslighting

    Ever been in an argument where someone twists your words, denies things that happened, or makes you doubt your own reality?


    Gaslighting can be one of the most frustrating and confusing behaviors to deal with. It leaves you questioning your memory, feeling blamed, and wondering if you’re the problem.


    But here’s the good news: you don’t have to play by their rules.


    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 strategies to take back control when dealing with gaslighters.


    These aren’t just words. They’re practical tools to keep you calm, grounded, and in control when someone tries to distort the truth.


    If you’re ready to handle gaslighting with confidence, this episode will show you how.


    This episode is sponsored by Cozy Earth. Visit cozyearth.com/jefferson and use my exclusive 40% off code JEFFERSON to give the gift of luxury this holiday season.

    If you get a post purchase survey, say that you heard about Cozy Earth from The Jefferson Fisher Podcast!


    Pre-order my new book, The Next Conversation, today! 

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    5 November 2024, 11:00 am
  • 16 minutes 8 seconds
    How to Handle Liars

    Ever had that nagging feeling that someone isn’t being honest with you?

    It’s frustrating when you know something’s off, but you’re not sure how to address it. Especially without things getting messy.

    Here’s the good news: You don’t have to call someone out directly to get closer to the truth. In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 subtle ways to handle conversations when someone isn’t telling the whole story.

    These 3 strategies will help you keep your cool, let the other person’s honesty (or lack of it) reveal itself, and avoid getting tangled up in their story.

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    29 October 2024, 10:00 am
  • 15 minutes 32 seconds
    How to Handle Inappropriate Questions

    Ever been caught off guard by a question that feels too personal, invasive, or just plain inappropriate?

    You’ve probably found yourself scrambling for the right way to respond—without getting flustered or defensive.


    Good news: You don’t have to answer those questions, and you don’t have to let them derail your confidence.


    In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 ways to deal with inappropriate questions that put you back in control, without causing a scene.


    These 3 approaches will help you respond with confidence, keeping the conversation in your hands and on your terms.


    Whether it’s at work, with family, or in social situations, these tips will help you handle those uncomfortable questions without missing a beat.


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    22 October 2024, 9:12 am
  • 17 minutes 8 seconds
    How to Respond with Confidence

    Find yourself using filler words like “um” or “uh,” or ending your sentences with uncertainty? You want to sound more confident, but you’re not sure what to do.


    Good news: There’s an easy way to sound more confident in every conversation.


    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 ways to respond with clarity and confidence, even in high-pressure situations.


    You'll learn how to eliminate filler words, control the tone of your voice, and use phrases that make you sound assertive—without coming across as unsure or hesitant.


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    15 October 2024, 10:00 am
  • 12 minutes 41 seconds
    How to Argue with Strong Personalities

    Ever found yourself in a heated argument with someone who just won't back down?


    Arguing with strong personalities can feel like you're constantly being overpowered, but there's a way to stay in control.


    In this episode, I’m sharing 3 strategies to help you navigate tough conversations with dominant personalities, without feeling powerless.


    These strategies will help you stay calm, keep the conversation productive, and confidently handle even the most forceful personalities—whether it’s at work, with friends, or around the dinner table.


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    8 October 2024, 10:00 am
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