The Pocket with Chris Griffin

Chris Griffin

  • 1 hour 25 minutes
    #116: Danny Morel: Why Real Love Terrifies Men

    Danny Morel joins me on The Pocket!


    This conversation goes deep into emotional wounds, fear, commitment, masculine and feminine energy, and how childhood experiences shape the way men show up in relationships. We talk about why men avoid vulnerability, how chasing success can be a form of avoidance, and what it actually takes to experience real intimacy and freedom in love.

    This one is confronting, honest, and powerful.


    Key Discussion Points

    • Why men are emotionally disconnected
    • How childhood wounds shape adult relationships
    • Fear, commitment, and avoidance in men
    • The difference between boy energy and man energy
    • What real intimacy and love actually require

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    Learn more from Danny: https://link.me/dannymorel


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    Chapters:

    00:00 Why men are emotionally behind

    03:10 Masculine vs feminine energy explained

    07:40 Unconscious fathers and emotional suppression

    12:50 Pain as the trigger for awakening

    18:30 Childhood wounds and relationship patterns

    23:40 Victim consciousness vs creator consciousness

    28:20 Real intimacy and telling the truth

    33:10 Men, commitment, and fear of freedom

    37:55 The phases of love and why couples get stuck

    43:20 Why dependency is not love

    48:10 Knowing when it is right to commit

    52:40 Awareness, healing, and transformation

    57:15 Fear, courage, and emotional growth

    01:01:20 Enlightenment and living without fear

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    13 December 2025, 4:38 am
  • 1 hour 12 minutes
    #115: Miki Agrawal: Why The Most Taboo Ideas Make The Most Money

    Today's episode is with Miki Agrawal. 


    Miki was so amazing. She is the founder of Hiro Diapers, Tushy and Thinx, to name a few.


    A leader in women's business and an inspiring, passionate voice. I loved this.


    Find out how the most Taboo ideas, make the most amount of money, how women can succeed in business (and if that should be the goal), learn what soft power is, and much much more.


    Follow Miki: https://www.instagram.com/mikiagrawal/

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    6 December 2025, 7:04 pm
  • 1 hour 56 minutes
    #114: Michael Smoak: The Harsh Truth About Love Men Fear To Admit

    Big claim: one of my favourite episodes of the year. Michael Smoak (@higherupwellness) returns to the show. 


    If you liked the first time Mike came on, you wont be disappointed with this one. Completely different conversation, yet an absolute banger.


    Something about the synergy we have together is one I’m beyond blessed about.


    This episode was all about relationships, love, overcoming hardship, the battles that a man has and so much more.


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    https://www.instagram.com/higherupwellness/


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    Chapters:

    00:00 A man’s biggest challenge

    11:00 An explanation of a mans biology

    16:00 Defining lust

    20:00 What a man and women need to be intimate

    29:00 Difference between confidence and ego

    35:00 The difficulty of submission when you’re winning

    39:00 Inaction is selfish

    44:00 The new drug

    53:00 Why your body is screaming at you

    59:30 Impacts of suppressed emotions

    1:06:00 The key to deep connection

    1:14:00 Zooming out the time horizon

    1:30:00 The gap between you and happiness

    1:35:00 Why do we keep suffering on purpose?

    1:38:20 Imposter syndrome 

    1:45:00 Losing someone you gave your all to…

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    28 November 2025, 11:02 pm
  • 1 hour 12 minutes
    #113: Todd Anderson: Your Sleep Problem Isn’t Sleep

    In this episode, we break down why most people don’t have a sleep problem at all…
    They have a stress problem, a purpose problem, or a life-awareness problem.

    Todd Anderson is one of the sharpest voices in the world of sleep, human psychology, and high performance.
    He’s worked with elite athletes, Fortune 500 teams, and high performers who want to feel better, think clearer, and stop sabotaging themselves.


    Key Discussion Points:

    • Why most sleep problems are actually stress and life-awareness problems
    • The fear of losing momentum and the psychological cost of high performance
    • Presence, flow state, and how elite performers access their best self
    • Childhood patterns, identity, and the hidden roots of adult stress
    • How to fix your relationship with sleep without becoming obsessive or rigid

    Follow Todd:

    https://www.instagram.com/toddanderson42_/


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    https://www.instagram.com/morechrisgriffin/


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    Chapters:

    00:00 Why sleep really matters

    03:02 The culture shift around sleep

    06:18 Morning routines vs efficiency

    09:41 Stress disguised as sleep problems

    12:28 How life stress stacks silently

    15:17 Fear of losing momentum

    18:49 Childhood wiring and identity

    21:47 Todd’s upbringing and purpose

    24:43 Overcoming insecurity

    27:36 Why most people never start

    31:05 Highs, lows, and perspective

    36:42 When optimization becomes harmful

    41:20 Presence and flow state

    47:50 Why people feel worse than they think

    53:40 How Dream Recovery began

    58:55 Presence as the real superpower

    01:09:26 New recovery tech

    01:11:10 Final reflections

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    24 November 2025, 11:58 pm
  • 1 hour 23 minutes
    #112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm

    Today’s episode is with Chris Petkas, former Navy Seal turned VC investor. It was a powerful conversation around grit, determination and the willingness to fail.
    Chris’ marriage with Codie Sanchez inspires me, Chris’ well rounded success inspires me and Chris’ calm nature inspires me.


    I loved this conversation. We also recorded this in a horse stable just out of Austin with 5 real horses behind us.


    Key Discussion Points:

    • Why calm men are often the most dangerous
    • How military training builds composure under chaos
    • Naivety as a superpower when starting hard things
    • The biggest risk in life: choosing who you marry
    • Jiu-jitsu, humility, and learning through losing
    • Patriotism, perspective, and seeing the world
    • Australia’s tall-poppy mindset vs America


    Follow Chris Petkas:

    https://www.instagram.com/chrispetkas/


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    Chapters:

    00:00 Why Calm Men Are the Most Dangerous

    05:20 Military Recruitment

    10:40 Naivety, Risk and Starting Before You’re Ready

    15:55 Failure, Ego and Learning Through Pain

    21:00 Suffering in Training vs Real Combat

    26:15 Leaving the Military and Entering Business

    30:30 The Competence Ladder

    33:45 Long Distance Love

    36:50 Choosing a Partner is your biggest risk

    39:40 Building Marriage and Business Together

    46:30 The Loneliness Myth

    49:40 Patriotism, Perspective and Seeing the World

    53:50 Australia vs America: Ambition and Tall Poppy Culture

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    21 November 2025, 6:58 pm
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    #111: Sage Bender: Leaving Home, Losing Himself, Finding Brotherhood

    Welcoming Sage Bender to The Pocket.


    We dove deep, shared untold stories and revisited places he hasn't been in a while, sharing stories that have shaped him into the man he is today.


    Also, enjoy the horses in the background. We recorded this in a horse stable just outside of Austin. 


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    https://www.instagram.com/sxgebender/


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    Chapters:

    0:00 Why friends make or break you

    3:00 Growing up with the wrong influences

    5:00 Getting caught in the wrong crowd

    7:00 How Sage met the Austin boys

    9:00 Stop chasing people, build yourself

    11:00 Leaving his old life behind

    13:00 Masculinity, integrity, intention

    15:00 Vulnerability and humility

    17:00 Fighting, presence, and peace

    20:00 Confidence vs ego

    23:00 Weak identities and fragile men

    26:00 Why jiu-jitsu humbles everyone

    29:00 Community, discipline, and respect

    32:00 Rock bottom and drug use

    36:00 Losing a friend and the wake-up call

    40:00 Moving cities and outgrowing people

    45:00 Faith, rebellion, and rebuilding belief

    50:00 Sage on responsibility and self-awareness

    55:00 Becoming the man you want to be

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    18 November 2025, 2:31 am
  • 1 hour 25 minutes
    #110: Adam Lamb: The Gift of Being Too Dumb To Quit

    In this episode, I chat with Adam Lamb, an entrepreneur, investor, and business advisor who’s built and sold multiple companies in healthcare, finance, and consulting. 


    We dive into what it really means to be “too dumb to quit,” unpacking the role of stubbornness, fear, and confidence in success. Adam opens up about his rough upbringing, how his beliefs about money and success evolved, and what it’s like raising kids in a completely different world than the one he grew up in.


    Key Discussion Points:

    • The mindset behind being “too dumb to quit”
    • How stubbornness can either serve or sabotage you
    • Breaking old beliefs about money, worth, and success
    • Navigating ego vs. confidence in leadership and life
    • Raising grounded kids in an abundant world
    • What true intimacy means in marriage and relationships


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    https://www.instagram.com/adamlamb33/


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    Chapters:

    00:00 Too Dumb To Quit

    06:00 Stubbornness explained

    12:00 Running for office

    18:00 Fear of being seen

    24:00 Confidence vs experience

    30:00 Vulnerability as strength

    36:00 Break the belief walls

    42:00 Growing up broke

    48:00 The turning point

    54:00 Comfort kills growth

    01:00:00 Parenting without entitlement

    01:06:00 Parenting Sons & daughters differently

    01:12:00 True intimacy

    01:18:00 Confidence vs ego

    01:24:00 Faith and legacy

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    11 November 2025, 12:48 pm
  • 1 hour 20 minutes
    #109: Inside the Mind of a Dictator’s Right-Hand Man (Cillian Dunne)

    I sat down with a man that lived with the dictator of Panama’s right hand man… Fascinating to hear what goes behind the scenes regarding global corruption, the relationship between the USA, Panama and China and how what we think is going on, is actually a lie.


    Key Discussion Points:

    • Living with a dictator’s right-hand man trained by the CIA, Mossad, and Fidel Castro
    • How the U.S. created and then destroyed its own dictator
    • What “evil” really means after you live with it
    • Quitting his job, broke, and sleeping in cars to chase his dream
    • The lessons in conviction, confidence, and courage learned from a killer


    Follow Cillian:

    https://www.instagram.com/dunne.cillian/


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    Chapters:

    00:00 – Living with a dictator’s right-hand man
    02:10 – Walking on eggshells in a house of secrets
    11:00 – The morality question: is killing for a cause still murder?
    17:00 – The CIA’s dark partnership with Noriega
    23:00 – The mysterious death of Omar Torrijos
    25:00 – How the U.S. installed and later removed Noriega
    42:00 – Writing with gangs and the Bloods & Crips
    47:00 – Panama: a third world country with a golden crown
    49:00 – Why the U.S. never took over Panama
    50:30 – China, BlackRock, and control of the canal
    54:00 – The Japanese plan to bomb the Panama Canal
    56:00 – What the U.S. government hides from civilians
    59:00 – The cost of power, money, and human self-interest


    AND MORE. Enjoy

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    7 November 2025, 7:56 pm
  • 58 minutes 2 seconds
    #108: TheTinMen: Why Modern Men Are Struggling (and What No One Admits)

    An important discussion with George from TheTinMen about men and the challenges they face daily. We went back and forth, providing differing views, yet both with deep care for the same mission of helping men live lives with more peace, joy and fulfilment. Follow George: https://www.instagram.com/thetinmen/ Follow Chris: https://www.instagram.com/morechrisgriffin/ Chapters: 0:00 Why George Started The Tin Men 2:00 How Schools Are Failing Boys 4:00 The War on Testosterone and Masculinity 6:00 Why Men Can’t Win Anymore 8:00 The Truth Behind “1 in 3 Men Are Violent” 10:00 How False Statistics Erase Male Victims 14:00 When Abuse Against Men Gets Ignored 18:00 Suicide, Silence, and Losing Hope 22:00 The Hidden Bias in How We See Men 26:00 Redefining What It Means to Be a Man 31:00 The Pressure to Provide and Find Purpose 36:00 Outrageous Headlines About Masculinity in Australia 40:00 When Society Stops Caring About Boys 45:00 Why Therapy and Mental Health Systems Fail Men 51:00 The Fight for Men’s Health and What Needs to Change

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    4 November 2025, 1:13 am
  • 57 minutes 3 seconds
    #107: Chris Griffin: Struggling to Find Meaning? Start Here.

    This is an important episode. I hope you can feel the passion ring through the microphone. I meant every word I said. If you're in a rut or you don't know what to do with your life, then this episode is for you. Follow Chris: https://www.instagram.com/morechrisgriffin/ Chapters: 00:00 What is the meaning of life? 04:30 The best part about no one believing in you 09:00 You can do whatever you want in your life 14:00 My story when things changed 20:00 The more you learn the less you know 25:00 Take the risk… 29:00 Poem 1: Tunnel Vision 33:00 A profound realisation about greatness 38:30 Poem 2: Are you on the right path? 44:40 Poem 3: Lonely nights 50:00 The quality of connection comes down to this

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    31 October 2025, 5:00 pm
  • 1 hour 26 minutes
    #106: Charlie Rocket: The Power of Delusional Optimism

    A perfect balance between inspiration, motivation and education. An episode for the people struggling to go all in on their dreams.


    Charlie has lived a million lives, from touring the world with some of the most famous people of our generation, to building multi million dollar companies, to being in a superbowl ad with Lebron James, the list goes on and on and on.


    This episode with Charlie Rocket was a good one! 


    Enjoy fam x


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    Chapters:

    0:00 What it means to be a delusional optimist

    3:00 The imagination behind success

    5:40 Seeing the impossible before it’s real

    8:00 Speaking your dreams into existence

    10:30 The goldfish story that changed his brain

    13:00 Training your mind to dream bigger

    17:00 Turning pain into gratitude

    20:30 Losing his scholarship and needing a miracle

    24:00 His mom’s life-changing advice

    28:00 Getting fired and learning to serve others

    31:30 Why negativity is an addiction

    35:30 The contagious energy of winners

    39:30 When no one believes in you

    48:30 How he manifested his Nike commercial

    59:30 The truth about unrealistic dreams

    1:09:00 Living proof that delusion creates destiny

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    27 October 2025, 8:23 pm
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