- 1 hour 5 minutesRHORI and The Valley with Mary Payne GilbertMelissa and Mary Payne start out discussing breaking Bravo news that come out at upfronts. They also discuss a 90 day fiancée star featured in “worst ex ever”, discussing the danger of lack of vetting on reality TV.
Melissa and Mary Payne discuss RHORI, starting with Jo-Ellen’s childhood trauma, including a discussion on narcissistic mothers. They discuss the red flags around Rulla’s husband Brian, outlining two key predictors of violence and death. TW: Discussion of DV and homicide.
The pair chat the Valley, focusing Danny’s psychological underpinnings, discussing DV, Addiction and verbal abuse. The duo also discuss postpartum MH, how Luke and Danny differ, and more.
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Melissa and Kristen discuss more postpartum MH issues in The Valley; outlining how Kristen and Nia deserve better than what they are getting. Melissa breaks down king baby behaviors, Mia’s trauma responses and mental health.
Melissa shares an intriguing pattern noticed on Summer House, leading to a SH reddit thread featuring YBT and the gaining traction online. Melissa discusses triangulation, manipulation and duper’s delight.
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Amy and Melissa breakdown RHOBH reunion part two discussing the Kyle, Dorit, Erika drama triangle, Kyle and Mau’s relationship, and Amanda Vs. Boz. Mental health, relational dynamics and trauma are discussed throughout.
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Melissa and Mandy are back discussing the Summer House leaked audio and red flags throughout the most recent episode. Melissa discusses how humans perpetuate unhealthy relational dynamics (eg Amanda and West and Kyle and Megan King). Melissa also discusses grief, addiction and Mandy shares excerpts from Carl's book.
Melissa and Mandy also discuss the Valley leading to a discussion on Postpartum MH, unhealthy relational dynamics, weaponizing religion and so much more.
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Melissa and Tasha talk Summer House blending psychology, astrology and intuition. Anyone interested in booking with Tasha use code BISH for 30.00 off a session
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Following this, the trio discuss Amanda and West drama giving details about what happened, why it’s a big deal, the role race plays and why Carl is a mess.
After this, the group discuss the Valley Premiere. Postpartum mental health, addiction and recovery are discussed throughout.
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M&M discuss Kyle’s king baby tantrum and the Amanda & West rumors. Mental Health and addiction are discussed throughout.
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YBT discusses social media rhetoric regarding reactive abuse and DARVO; explaining these clinical concepts and nuances to application. Melissa shares DV statistics, risk and protective factors and resources to find help. HELP IS AVAILABLE 1-800-799-SAFE, TEXT START to 88788
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