Gabbing Gilmore: A Gilmore Girls Deep Dive

Gabbing Gilmore

If Gilmore Girls is your “comfort food,” join sisters Jackie and Catherine in this deep dive discussion of all things Stars Hollow.

  • 3 minutes 18 seconds
    73. December Bonus: Emily and Richard Crumbling

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    Today we chat about one of the strongest couples on Gilmore Girls: Emily and Richard Gilmore. (Major spoiler)… but not for long. We detail the chronology of events leading to their separation – from Pennilyn Lott to Trix’s antics to the Floyd/Jason debacle.

    Sisters and diehard superfans Jackie and Catherine each reveal their one word summary for the crumbling of this epic couple. Plus, should we have seen this coming? Grab your coffee and let’s dive in.

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    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.

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    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.



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    10 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    72. John Cabrera and the best Gilmore spinoff idea you’ve ever heard

    “I’ve got Ken Burns Jazz if you’re into that kind of thing.” Well, WE are into John Cabrera! The actor who played the lovable, slightly geeky Brian from Hep Alien on Gilmore Girls, joins us today.

    We chat about which character he thinks is overrated (brace yourselves!), what he really wants for Rory Gilmore in the revival, a fan fiction/spinoff idea you’ll love, and what he thought about guys like Dean and Christopher early on. And we do our best to stump the king of trivia, but John remembers a lot, you guys! 

    John Cabrera is also the founder and CEO of Remarkist, a fan creativity platform bringing community and storytelling together. 

    Now… let’s rock! 

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    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.

    👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram

    💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 

    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.



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    3 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 51 minutes 2 seconds
    Recap: A Deep Fried Korean Thanksgiving (Best of Gabbing Gilmore)

    Tofurkey time is here!

    Even though we’re not quite a rewatch podcast, we had to make an exception for one of our favorite episodes… A Deep Fried Korean Thanksgiving! 

    Join us in revisiting this episode from Season 1 when we break down the most epic holiday in Stars Hollow history - the time that Lorelai and Rory went to four Thanksgiving dinners! 

    This episode is chock full of humorous moments with the townies, relationship progressions, and yes, even some drama. Are you ready for your Thanksgiving “on the rocks with salt?” Come join us!

    ✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month

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    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.

    👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram or leave us a voice note

    💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 

    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.



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    19 November 2025, 10:00 am
  • 4 minutes 3 seconds
    71. November Bonus: Emotional Labor Part 2: the women who hold it all together

    We’re back for Part 2 of our deep dive into emotional labor in Gilmore Girls!

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    In Part 2 of this series, we explore how the women of Gilmore Girls -  from Emily to Lorelai and even side characters like Sasha - boost up the men around them by dimming their own light or taking on most of the emotional, care, community, and relational work.

    We also dig into the bigger picture: how women are often the ones building community, preserving important family relationships (we’re looking at you, Trix!) and carrying the emotional weight for others. From Emily helping Richard recover (it’s all about the fish) to Lorelai supporting Luke through surprise family drama, the women of Stars Hollow are constantly doing the quiet, unseen work of care and community that keep everything going.

    Grab your coffee and settle in - this is one of our favorite conversations yet about the emotional heartbeat of Gilmore Girls.

    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.




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    12 November 2025, 10:00 am
  • 53 minutes 6 seconds
    70. Rory's Bad Day

    Oof. In just 24 hours, Rory Gilmore faced two emotional gut punches - Lorelai and Christopher’s surprise marriage announcement, and Logan’s less-than-glowing reaction to her article. 

    In this episode, we unpack one of Rory’s worst 24 hours: how these moments hit us as viewers, and how we’d feel in Rory’s shoes. First, we revisit the build-up: Lorelai and Luke’s broken engagement (did anyone check how Rory felt?) and the mounting stress that came after ending her term as editor of the newspaper and contemplating life after Yale.

     We ask:

    • Were Lorelai and Christopher right to tell Rory about the marriage together?
    • Why couldn’t Rory be vulnerable in front of her dad?
    • How does this moment mirror her “ballerina” article from Season 4?
    • Was Rory completely unaware of her privilege? 
    • What was Logan unwilling to recognize about himself?

    Grab your coffee and join us for a deep dive into Rory’s stress tendencies, her arc as a Yale student and journalist, and the mother-daughter tension on our favorite Stars Hollow show.

    Episodes referenced:

    Rory and criticism: does she have Golden Child syndrome?

    Why does everyone hate Rory? Part 1


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    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.

    👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram or leave us a voice note

    💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 

    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.



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    5 November 2025, 10:00 am
  • 1 hour 10 minutes
    69. “Meet Me at Luke’s” with Kristine Eckart & Gilmore Girls trivia

    Today, Kristine Eckart joins us on the pod to share her new book, “Meet Me at Luke’s: Lessons in Life and Love from Gilmore Girls.” As the founder of Gilmore Book Club and host of the Chronicon Book Club, she is passionate about transforming lives through literature and the power of books. 

    Kristine shares how she’s connected with the Gilmore Girls fan community through this new book, one of her favorite lessons about creating a home like Lorelai, and what it was like to find out that Keiko Agena (Lane Kim) would be narrating the audio book! 

    Then Kristine gives Jackie and Catherine a Gilmore Girls trivia test created by listener Lianna. How many can you get right? 

    Learn more about Kristine’s book and tour schedule here


    ✨ For more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month

    ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop

    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.

    👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram or leave us a voice note

    💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 

    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.




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    29 October 2025, 9:30 am
  • 49 minutes 44 seconds
    68. Luke and Lorelai fall in love

    Ahhhhh, the moment we’ve been waiting for! Every viewer knows that a romance between Luke and Lorelai is inevitable. But Gilmore Girls makes us wait patiently through four full seasons to get there! 


    In today’s episode, sisters and Gilmore aficionados Jackie and Catherine cover the beginning of one of the favorite Gilmore romances - Luke and Lorelai. 


    We chat about the buildup of their physical and emotional intimacy, Luke’s infamous self-help book, how Lorelai was wooed by other boyfriends, and the exciting events surrounding their ultimate romance - Liz and TJ’s wedding and the Dragonfly Inn test run. We are ALL in, townies!


    Gabbing Episodes mentioned:

    Ep 4: Do Luke & Lorelai exist without Liz?

    Ep. 28: Weddings of Gilmore Girls 

    Ep. 32: Top 10 Romantic Musical Moments of Gilmore Girls 


    ✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month


    ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop


    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.


    👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram or leave us a voice note


    💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 


    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.





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    15 October 2025, 10:05 am
  • 3 minutes 21 seconds
    67. October Bonus: Happy Birthday, Rory Gilmore!

    Happy birthday, Rory Gilmore! In honor of Rory’s birthday today, sisters Jackie and Catherine compare the highlights of her major birthdays, including her sweet 16 and the big 21. 


    We answer questions like:


    Was Emily unreasonable not to give up her claim to Friday nights on Rory’s birthday? 


    Why did Lorelai wake Rory up early in the morning on her birthday?


    Why doesn’t Rory ever seem to be involved in the planning of her own birthdays?


    How did the men in Rory’s life show up for her birthday?


    Did Rory really want that beaded bracelet Emily gave her?


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    ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop


    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.


    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.




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    8 October 2025, 9:00 am
  • 53 minutes 19 seconds
    66. Should you rewatch Gilmore Girls? Yes, here’s why.

    It’s that time of year - leaves are beginning to fall and you’re unearthing the “Rory sweater” from the depths of your closet. It’s time to rewatch Gilmore Girls!


    Whether you watch it every fall, or you’re constant loopers like us, Gilmore Girls is a show that begs to be rewatched over and over. 


    Today, sisters Jackie and Catherine delve into the benefits of rewatching and lessons learned from multiple viewings. 


    Which characters would constantly rewatch like us? Which ones would watch it once a year? 


    Most importantly, we reveal ways that our Gilmore opinions have changed over the years - especially when it comes to Christopher as a dad, Dean as a boyfriend, and who we relate to now that we’re in our 40s.  


    Episodes mentioned:

    Emily in Stars Hollow

    Taylor Doose: Friend or Foe?

    Rory and Dean: the early romance 


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    ☎️ Call us!  Send us a voice note to share your thoughts about this episode or more topics you’d like to hear about. 


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    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.


    💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 


    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.



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    1 October 2025, 9:00 am
  • 42 minutes 25 seconds
    65. How to Throw an Epic Gilmore Girls Watch Party

    Get your coffee and Pop-Tarts ready — we’re diving into all things Gilmore party planning! 


    Back in 2016, when the reboot aired, we hosted our first-ever Gilmore Girls watch party, and nothing beats that cozy, small-town vibe with fellow fans. 


    In this episode, we walk you through our How to Throw a GG Watch Party Guide: simple steps for food, decor, activities, and watch lists to make your night feel like Stars Hollow. We’re even better than cousin Marilyn - we’ve got you covered for all of your party needs!


    If you want to throw your own watch party, our guide walks you through everything we cover in this episode.  PLUS - - it contains:

    • 7 original Bingo cards
    • 2 sets of trivia 
    • 3 drink recipes
    • 9 curated watch lists, and 
    • printable party signs to make hosting easy (and fun)

    To access the guide, become a FREE Patreon member here.


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    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.


    Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.



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    24 September 2025, 9:00 am
  • 2 minutes 52 seconds
    64. September Bonus: Emotional labor on Gilmore Girls

    Why are  the women of Gilmore Girls often the ones holding everything (and everyone) together? In this episode, sisters Jackie and Catherine - who are also moms and feminists - explore the idea of emotional labor: the behind-the-scenes effort it takes to manage feelings, smooth over conflicts, and keep relationships running.

    We’ll talk about how this shows up on the show - whether it’s Emily’s role as corporate wife, Lorelai protecting Christopher from shame, or Rory juggling expectations—and how it connects to terms like the mental load, cognitive load, and invisible work (don’t worry, we’ll explain the differences!)

    From planning social events to supporting men to have healthy, quality relationships, the women of Stars Hollow are constantly doing the emotional heavy lifting - and we’re digging into why that matters.

    Enjoy this preview. For the full episode, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month


    ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop


    🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.


    🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios.




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    10 September 2025, 9:00 am
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