Motherhood:Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield,Carly Harris

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges and changes one goes through and managing it around your children whilst trying to heal. Come and join us on our journey and we would love to hear anything you want to share to. Email us on [email protected] NEW EPISODE EVERY THURS! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-official Creative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

  • 39 minutes 48 seconds
    My Ex is my Guilty Pleasure | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Tash shares her news which is life changing, when you have an affair with your ex and you’re not sure what to do, when going no contact is the only way, and when your boyfriend has been hiding a whole other life for over 2 years!

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    1 April 2026, 11:00 pm
  • 42 minutes 6 seconds
    Should I Have an Affair? | Not As We Planned Podcast

    Carly shares a deeply emotional update while trying to hold everything together.


    We hear from a woman in a sexless marriage considering an affair with her boss, a chaotic dating story involving a back-door escape, and a shocking discovery that points to a partner cheating.


    Plus, a powerful anonymous confession from a mum who admits she’s been gaslighting her own son.


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    26 March 2026, 12:00 am
  • 1 hour 16 minutes
    Colin @loudsingledad: Our First Male Guest! A Man’s Perspective on Separation, Coparenting & Dating! | Not As We Planned Podcast

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    19 March 2026, 12:00 am
  • 43 minutes 31 seconds
    When Hope Ends Up Costing You A Lot | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Tash shares the hurdles she’s had to face during her break-up, when you stick by your partner through his addiction, a man shares an extremely moving explanation of his addiction, and needing the courage to walk away from a man who has allowed you to carry him through your whole relationship.

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    12 March 2026, 12:00 am
  • 1 hour 10 minutes
    Sabrina Zohar: Everything You Need to Know About Dating & Relationships | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Dating can feel confusing, frustrating and at times completely overwhelming. In this episode, renowned dating and relationship expert Sabrina Zohar joins us to answer your most pressing questions - from navigating no contact and mixed signals to building healthy, secure relationships that actually last.

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    5 March 2026, 12:00 am
  • 40 minutes 41 seconds
    I Can’t Stop Sleeping With My Daughters Boyfriend | Not As We Planned Podcast
    It’s a dating episode guys and we have delivered the goods! First up, the man that shat himself on a first date, the most shocking affair we have EVER come across, the romantic stroll along the dirty river and being the third wheel with the ‘platonic bestie’ 

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    25 February 2026, 11:54 pm
  • 42 minutes 42 seconds
    Poor Excuse of a Man | Not As We Planned Podcast
    We’ve had some shocking updates from our listeners. In one case, an affair turned out not to be just one, but two. Another story involved a man desperately trying to hide his whereabouts during a FaceTime call. One mum was excited for her family holiday, only to discover her partner had already been frolicking in the sea with another woman. Another man had an affair with someone 13 years younger and, as if that wasn’t enough, she later found out he had been visiting prostitutes… more than 40 in just six months.

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    19 February 2026, 12:00 am
  • 41 minutes 47 seconds
    You Need To Leave This Relationship NOW!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Tash gives us an update on finally going no contact but what occurred beforehand, we share some dating stories just in time for valentines day… the man who wanted to drive into a brick wall, playing hide and seek when the date isn’t going well, being presented with a penis in the car, wanting to leave your marriage but guilt is stopping you and when you get caught in the lie!

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    12 February 2026, 12:00 am
  • 49 minutes 16 seconds
    The Worst Affair Story You've Ever Heard | Not As We Planned Podcast
    When you realise you’re carrying your whole relationship, when your partner leaves you for someone else, when your baby daddy is mia for a year and then you find out the most shocking news as to why, and stopping the cohabiting with your ex!

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    5 February 2026, 12:00 am
  • 48 minutes 43 seconds
    Me & My Boyfriend Broke Up | Not As We Planned Podcast
    Tash shares the sad update that her and her boyfriend have broken up. When the man you’re with punishes you for keeping your baby, a random Facebook message that brings you the truth about your partner and the worst pocket dial confession

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    29 January 2026, 12:00 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    Nicole is this me: A Real & Raw Conversation About Her Husband's Affair | Not As We Planned Podcast
    We unpack how she found out and how she felt with it only happening 2 weeks ago!

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    22 January 2026, 12:00 am
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