Motherhood:Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield,Carly Harris

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges and changes one goes through and managing it around your children whilst trying to heal. Come and join us on our journey and we would love to hear anything you want to share to. Email us on notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com NEW EPISODE EVERY THURS! Producer: Tristan Hehir City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-official Creative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0) https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

  • 40 minutes 58 seconds
    83. He Had a Whole Other Family

    We talk about how you shouldn’t blame yourself for him cheating, finding out he had a whole other family, we see the definition of bread crumbing and for the first time we feel uncomfortable to give advice…..



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    3 April 2025, 5:40 am
  • 40 minutes 2 seconds
    82. My Gut Told Me To Look At His Phone

    We discuss the danger of staying in a relationship just because there’s no infidelity, when you catch your husband cheating on you, and wanting some reassurance from us about making that decision to leave!


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    27 March 2025, 6:40 am
  • 42 minutes 39 seconds
    81. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus

    We talk about the difference between mums and dads and how men get praised for doing the bare minimum, getting told your marriage is over with a letter left in the kitchen and we give advice about that first break up after divorce




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    20 March 2025, 6:40 am
  • 47 minutes 53 seconds
    80. Are They Swingers?

    We discuss the clues of trying to spot a swinger, finding out your friend was having an affair with your husband and realising it’s time to call it a day with your cheating partner!



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    Producer: @TristanHehir
















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    13 March 2025, 6:40 am
  • 39 minutes
    79. Something Is Wrong With Me

    We both deeply reflect on our previous relationships after divorce and how we came to accept they weren’t right for us, and we also discuss why it’s important to know as single mums what we offer to the table, knowing our kids are not bagge but a privilege!


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    6 March 2025, 6:40 am
  • 41 minutes 33 seconds
    78. His Accountant Sent Him Vagina Pictures

    Finding out your husband is having a fling with his accountant! Having to come clean to your ex about your secret new partner and learning to finally DO THE WORK!


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    Producer: @TristanHehir








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    27 February 2025, 6:40 am
  • 42 minutes 16 seconds
    77. Me and My Boyfriend Broke Up

    Carly opens up about her break up, we explain how to move forward and let go of feeling attached to your ex, and managing someone with an addiction.


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    20 February 2025, 6:40 am
  • 36 minutes 57 seconds
    76. Are We Dating The Same Guy?

    Carly shares an emotional update, we hear from the woman who cheated, we get a lovely update from a listener and the dreading question of are we dating the same guy?



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    13 February 2025, 6:40 am
  • 40 minutes 21 seconds
    75. Get the F*ck Out

    Would you go back to a relationship where there’s no trust? Learning to set boundaries when coparenting, how to help your children handle big emotions about your divorce and finding pills for herpes.




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    6 February 2025, 6:40 am
  • 40 minutes 49 seconds
    74. He Was Messaging Other Girls On OnlyFans

    We talk about managing your kids emotions and feelings after a break up, having to watch an affair unfold in front of your eyes and catching your partner on ONLY FANS!





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    30 January 2025, 6:40 am
  • 50 minutes 32 seconds
    73. He Has 6 Girlfriends

    Trigger Warning: Rape


    When a man gets caught with 6 girlfriends, hitting rock bottom after finding out about your husbands infidelity and trying to work out if you’re the toxic one!



    Producer: @TristanHehir


























































































    City Lights by Ghostrifter Official | https://soundcloud.com/ghostrifter-officialMusic promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.comCreative Commons / Attribution-NoDerivs 3.0 Unported (CC BY-ND 3.0)https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/3.0/

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    23 January 2025, 6:40 am
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