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Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

The Speech Prof

Hosted by Chesko (Mr. Pick Me) and Regan (The Manhater). Join us as we laugh (so as not to cry) at some of the most toxic aspects of dating and relationship advice on social media.

Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy): 
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Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

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Theme song by Odanis the Rapper: https://www.instagram.com/odanistherapper

  • 59 minutes 36 seconds
    TeAcHeRs WoRk FoR MEEEEE!!!

    A creator went viral for telling parents they can request IEP meetings during the summer and teachers pushed back. Chesko and Regan break down how quickly a reasonable take became an entitlement spiral, why "I'm the customer" is the wrong frame for literally any classroom, and how anti-intellectualism is showing up in spaces you wouldn't expect.

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    Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
    Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
    TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    9 July 2026, 10:21 pm
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    God of War, Incel of Hate

    Men online are furious about the new God of War installment, where you play as Laufey (Kratos's wife and the character the entire series is built around), so naturally someone made an AI game called God of Laundry where she does dishes and changes diapers. Chesko and Regan connect the outrage to a larger pattern: the same men demanding empathy for male loneliness are openly, publicly building communities around hating women.

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    Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
    Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
    TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    24 June 2026, 9:12 pm
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    ”Why Doesn’t The Left Care About Men?”

    Chesko and Regan react to a viral clip from Dr. Mike's podcast in which a guest claims the left doesn't care about men's issues (including male loneliness, depression, and declining college enrollment). They push back hard, arguing that these problems are products of patriarchy, that feminists (especially women and gay men) have been addressing them for decades, and that the real complaint isn't that no one is talking about masculinity, but that no one is centering men's feelings without context or accountability. They also dig into male friendship deficits, the myth that men and women can't be friends, the harm of gendering personality traits, and why rehabilitating men in pain isn't women's job.

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    Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
    Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
    TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    14 June 2026, 6:13 pm
  • 1 hour 46 seconds
    Politics Is a Dealbreaker (And It Should Be)
    In this episode, Chesko and Regan dig into a clip from the Modern Wisdom Podcast about men and women's differing political views in relationships, using it as a springboard to discuss how voting reflects core values and morality, the myth that ethics require religion, and why women are increasingly treating political alignment as a dealbreaker. The conversation weaves through personal stories about discovering friends' hidden bigotry, being used as someone's token minority or LGBTQ+ "reference," proximity to fame, and the predatory patterns behind large age-gap relationships which all build to the episode's central thesis that shitty behavior isn't a partisan issue. Shitty dudes exist across the political spectrum.
    29 May 2026, 8:13 pm
  • 57 minutes 48 seconds
    Tomorrowland Today, Disney Jail Tomorrow
    Regan and Chesko discuss a viral video of a woman recounting her husband's Disney World meltdown after their stroller went missing. We dig into the red flags, the privilege baked into acting that way without consequences, and the unexpected turn the conversation takes when the poster responds to commenters telling her to leave...revealing the early, fragile stages of recognizing you're in a bad situation. Plus a broader talk about rage-bait, internet pile-ons, and the responsibility creators and commenters share to leave space for the women who actually need to be heard.
    22 May 2026, 9:49 pm
  • 1 hour 8 minutes
    Is This The Most Sexist Article Ever Written?

    Regan and Chesko break down what might be the most sexist article ever written, a New York Post hit piece on Greta Thunberg with a misleading headline implying she’s caught up in a Freedom Flotilla sex scandal she has nothing to do with. The article mocks her “short stint” in Israeli prison after being kidnapped, calls her the “Swedish queen of sanctimony,” fixates on her “angry” face, and reduces her entire career to one “how dare you” moment. From there, the conversation widens into the Monica Lewinsky playbook of sacrificing women to protect powerful men, misogyny on the left, and the constant pressure to soften accountability for the sake of coalition-building.

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    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
    Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
    TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    11 May 2026, 11:50 pm
  • 56 minutes 22 seconds
    Six Foot, Six Figures, Six Excuses

    This week, Regan and Chesko tackle the strange male phenomenon of refusing feedback in the bedroom (and what speech and debate national champions can teach us about taking the note). Then a beach interview goes absurdly wrong when a woman dares to mention she likes scrawny guys, prompting the interviewer to launch into a monologue about his net worth, his anatomy, his late wife, and his daughter, all in roughly twelve seconds. Along the way, they cover the mythical "6-6-6," the impossibility of accidental cheating, and why men with zero female friends keep mistaking rejection for personal tragedy.

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    Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
    Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
    TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    4 May 2026, 10:31 pm
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    Are You Worth A Coffee Date?

    Chesko and Regan dive into the great "coffee date debate" after a viral clip from the Girls Gotta Eat podcast sparked conversation online. They break down their own opinions as to what it really means when a guy asks you out for coffee, push back on the transactional framing of dating ("are you worth the spend?"), and explore how manosphere-adjacent advice is quietly reshaping modern dating culture. In short, two long-term partnered people confidently discussing modern dating that they have never personally experienced (You're welcome).

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    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
    Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
    TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    20 April 2026, 8:23 pm
  • 1 hour 14 seconds
    The Bro Cruise (Sort Of)

    Chesko attempts to speed-run the viral "Bro Cruise" saga from Threads (a bachelor trip so chaotic it became internet legend) but naturally, he and Regan end up deep in tangents about holiday magic, parenting, privilege, and egg-laying Easter bunnies. Somehow it all makes sense...hopefully.

    Regan's Full Breakdown of the Cruise:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgiMBcv6sM8

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
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    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    14 April 2026, 12:31 am
  • 55 minutes 8 seconds
    The Metrosexual Panic of 2004

    This week, Chesko and Regan dive into a fascinating question posed by author Jason Pargin. "Why do women seem to do far fewer double-takes at attractive men in public than men do at women?" The conversations opens up into a discussion about grooming standards, the social pressure on women to maintain their appearance at all times, the "metrosexual" panic of the 2000s, and how safety concerns shape the way women move through public spaces. Along the way, they also discuss pain stims, smutty book clubs, the dad bod double standard, and (inevitably) men's hygiene habits in ways that cannot be unheard. 

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    Follow The Manhater: Regan (F the Nice Guy) -
    TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@ftheniceguy
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
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    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    6 April 2026, 8:20 pm
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    I Dress You Because I Love You

    Chesko and Regan kick off with some chaotic parent energy (haunted dolls, goblin accusations, and the recycling bin of shame) before diving into a viral video of a husband handing his wife a shirt to cover herself up. They break down why "he dresses you because he loves you" is a gateway to control, how tradwife influencers sell a lifestyle they don't actually live, and why women thriving after barriers are removed is apparently a crisis. From the manosphere as radicalization pipeline to DEI, legacy admits, and benevolent sexism, it's an episode full of pattern recognition and ranting.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/buckle.up.babes
    Podcast: https://ftheniceguypodcast.podbean.com/

    Follow Mr. Pick Me: Chesko (The Speech Prof) -
    Substack: http://www.thespeechprof.com
    TikTok: http://www.TikTok.com/@speechprof
    Instagram: https://www.Instagram.com/thespeechprof
    Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/thespeechprof
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheRealSpeechProf

    Theme song by Sara Spicer - https://www.Instagram.com/saraspicermusic
    and Tera Lynne Fister - https://www.Instagram.com/iamfister

    23 March 2026, 10:53 pm
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