It’s time for a gem from the archives, settle in for another Background Check! On this week’s Intimacy Coordinator, Joel Kim Booster talked to one of our all-stars, the hilarious Zach Noe Towers, so we’re throwing back to his appearance last year, when he told Joel and fellow guests Mano Agapion and Oscar Montoya about the time he attempted a threesome with the textbook threesome couple (the hottest man you have ever seen in your life, and his troll doll boyfriend). Enjoy this rollercoaster of a clip, and don’t miss this week’s Intimacy Coordinator with Zach, Brendan Scannell, and Dr Evan Goldstein!

Zach Noe Towers: @zachnoetowers on Insta, Good Morning Sodomites podcast

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This week Joel Kim Booster brings in a real specialist, as anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein (Bespoke Surgical, Butt Seriously) joins Zach Noe Towers (Twink Death, Good Sod) and Brendan Scannell (Bonding, The Abyss) for a full hour on bottoming. Zach tells the story of getting examined by a handsome older doctor and his even hotter doctor in training, and Dr. Goldstein breaks down the three types of bottoms and what’s actually true about fiber supplements, what’s in your lube, and safe douching. Then the panel gets into butt plugs versus anal dilators, Botox in the booty, why a direct hit on the prostate can make you feel like you have to pee, and what straight couples should know before pegging. 

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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)

Dr. Evan Goldstein: @drevangoldstein · Bespoke Surgical · Future Method · Author of Butt Seriously

Zach Noe Towers: @zachnoetowers · Twink Death (YouTube) · Good Sod Podcast

Brendan Scannell: @bscan · The Abyss · TikTok

Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.

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This week gets spirited as Joel Kim Booster is joined by Adam Conover (Adam Ruins Everything, Big Divorce Energy), Dewayne Perkins, (The Studio, The Blackening) and relationship coach and author, Allison Raskin (Compulsively Yours, I Do (I Think)). They confess all the ways they’ve been nightmares to date—from Allison staking out a guy's apartment behind a frat house, to Joel blaming every unanswered text on a man's "text rhythm”—before getting into a lively debate on whether or not you should date with a goal in mind, and the morality of ghosting. Plus, a listener asks whether testing her new boyfriend counts as due diligence or sabotage.

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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)

Adam Conover: @adamconover · Big Divorce Energy Special (YouTube) · On Tour · Factually! Podcast

Allison Raskin: @allisonraskin · Author of Compulsively Yours · Starter Marriage Podcast · Emotional Support Lady Substack 

Dewayne Perkins: @dewayneperkins · I Swear We're Friends (YouTube) · How Being Black and Gay Made Me Better Than You (NY Comedy Festival November, 9) · Hector on The Upshaws (Netflix)

Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.

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It’s time to dip back into the archives for another Background Check! Skyler Higley was on Intimacy Coordinator this week, so we’re throwing back to the classic Bad Date story he told Joel and fellow guests Punkie Johnson and Josh Gondelman. Skyler finds himself in expert mode, but he’s more quickly than Higley. Enjoy this tale of Mormons, cigarettes, and Target parking lots, and don’t miss this week’s Intimacy Coordinator with Skyler, Asif Ali, and Femi Abe!

Skyler Higley: @skylerhigley, Help Me Be Black Podcast

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Joel Kim Booster's first all-straight panel–Asif Ali (Deli Boys, WandaVision), Skyler Higley (The Onion, After Midnight) and Fumi Abe (The Tonight Show, The Late Show)–finally get to ask the potentially career-ending questions that keep them up at night. From why gay men are so mean and what happens when the bottom finishes first, to the male loneliness crisis, the upsides of toxic masculinity, and why Spider-Man makes a better role model than Batman.

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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)

Asif Ali: @alicomedy · Deli Boys (Hulu)

Skyler Higley: @skylerhigley · Help Me Be Black Podcast

Fumi Abe: @thefumiabe · Tour Dates

Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.

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What's the most masculine thing about two of drag's most decorated queens? This week, Joel Kim Booster is joined by Monét X Change (Drag Race All Stars 4 winner, The Traitors) and BenDeLaCreme (Drag Race All Stars 3, The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show) to talk about all things masculinity—from GAY-ming and bar fights, to fatherly lessons involving studs. Plus the perils of hooking up in drag, mismatched sex drives in marriage, and the little known practicality of tennis balls in pools.

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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)

Monét X Change: @monetxchange · RuPaul's Drag Race All Star Season 4 Winner (Paramount+) · Monét Talks Podcast · Sibling Rivalry Podcast

BenDeLaCreme: @bendelacreme · The Jinkx & DeLa Holiday Show Tour · Jinkx & DeLa - How the Queens Made Christmas · RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars Season 3 (Paramount+)

Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.

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It’s time for another Background Check! This week, Brooks Wheelan was on Intimacy Coordinator, so we wanted to replay the classic Bad Date story he told to Joel and fellow guests Ali Kolbert and Jared Goldstein. The original description for his story was: “Brooks can overlook the scabies, but can the scabies overlook Brooks?” and that’s still all you need to know. Enjoy revisiting this Bad (question mark?) Date, and don’t miss this week’s Intimacy Coordinator with Brooks and ace stand-up (slash his girlfriend) Katherine Blanford!

Brooks Wheelan: Watch Along For The Ride on Outside TV, new special Alive In Alaska on YouTube, check out his podcast Entry Level, @brookswheelan, Brookswheelan.com for tour dates

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Joel puts comedy couple Brooks Wheelan and Katherine Blanford on the couch for live couples therapy, starting with the eggs Brooks ate, the all-caps text Katherine sent about it, and why laughing at that text was not the move.

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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)

Brooks Wheelan: Along for the Ride (Outside), coming soon · Entry Level with Brooks Wheelan

Katherine Blanford: New special coming soon · Catholic Cowgirl (YouTube) · Coastal Idiots

Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.

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Danielle Perez was on Intimacy Coordinator this week, so it’s time for another Background Check! Join us as we revisit two hilarious and harrowing tales that Danielle told Joel and fellow guests Bonnie McFarlane and James Tom back in the Bad Dates era! First off, this man is simply too close and his lips have not been deemed ADA accessible, and in the second story her date goes full Shark Week. Catch up with Danielle’s tales from the trenches, and don’t miss this week’s Intimacy Coordinator with Danielle, Tien Tran, and Solomon Georgio!

Danielle Perez: @divadelux on socials, check her out in Ballard on Amazon

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Joel Kim Booster convenes a panel of (at least) double minorities — Danielle Perez, Solomon Georgio, and Tien Tran — to dig into how intersectional identities shape who we date, who we marry, and who keeps asking us to role-play. The panel trades the backhanded compliments they took as wins, sheepishly admits to dating white people, and unpacks the bedroom requests that went too far, from a breaking-and-entering fantasy to a "spicy Latina" audition. Plus: the fight that ended with Joel totaling his car, and advice for a 60-year-old listener wondering just how age-appropriate she has to be.

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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)

Danielle Perez: Overcompensating (Prime Video), Season 2 coming soon

Solomon Georgio: Survival of the Thickest (Netflix) · Shrill (Hulu)

Tien Tran: How I Met Your Father (Hulu) · Mr. Throwback (Peacock)

Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.

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Joel Kim Booster assembles three of the world's most famous liars — Bob the Drag Queen, Meatball, and Rheeqrheeq Chainey — to settle what's fair game to fib about in sex and dating. Then Bob hands over her phone, and the panel puts her Grindr profile on trial: photo by photo, verdict by verdict — is Bob catfishing America? Plus: the smoothest bad-date escapes), the official wiggle room for height and weight, and why Bob only filters for 6'6" and up.

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Joel Kim Booster: @ihatejoelkim · Loot Season 3 (Apple TV+) · Fire Island (Hulu) · Psychosexual (Netflix)

Bob the Drag Queen: Now Clap! Tour on sale now

Meatball: Sloppy Seconds with Big Dipper & Meatball · Fat Slut, every third Friday at Precinct DTLA

Rheeqrheeq Chainey: The Sex Lives of College Girls (HBO Max)

Produced by Brian Baldinger and Anne Harris. Associate Producers are Maddie McCann and Katherine Calligori. Editor is Jacob Vaus. Executive Producers are Will Arnett, Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Robert Cohen, Richard Korson and Bernie Kaminski.

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