If you missed this episode here's a bite-size best bit. Tijana opens up about the moment she discovered an intimate video filmed when she was 17 had been shared around her town without her consent and how the humiliation, fear and judgment ultimately changed her forever.

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On this weeks bestie advice segment... what happens when you outgrow the people you love? A listener writes in with a full life, a long list of friendships and a loneliness she can't quite explain. We're getting into reinvention, the guilt of wanting more, and how to find your people when you're not the same person you used to be.

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On this bestie advice segment... what do you do when the thing that feels right on paper doesn't look right to anyone else? A listener writes in fresh out of a long relationship, falling for someone she probably shouldn't, and doing the maths on a future she's not sure she gets to keep. We're getting into age gaps, rebounds, workplace lines and the fear of what everyone else will say.

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What do men and women really fantasize about? Where do these desires come from, and what do our fantasies actually tell us about ourselves? Most importantly, we unpack the difference between fantasy and reality.

We explore some of the most common fantasies reported by both men and women. We also look at the surprising similarities between male and female fantasies and where the differences tend to appear.

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If you missed this episode here is a bite-sized best bit. What do you do when a friendship no longer feels aligned? Ashy and Tiana unpack when to let it fade, when to have the hard conversation, and how to end a friendship with honesty, respect and closure—without taking away from what the relationship once meant.

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On this bestie advice segment... a listener writes in with something she's been holding onto for a long time. Every time things get intimate her mind goes somewhere she didn't expect, and the second it's over the guilt hits. She's dropped hints to her partner, but never said it properly out loud. Now she's heading overseas on her own and the temptation is real. How do you know if it's a genuine desire or just a passing thought? And how do you start that conversation without it costing you something good? We're getting into shame, curiosity, fantasy versus reality, and how to actually say the thing.

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On this bestie advice segment we're talking about the gap between knowing and doing. Our listener can describe the life she wants in perfect detail — she's just never been able to be that woman for more than a week. Three good days, one bad sleep, and it's gone. Then the guilt arrives and it's worse than the quitting. She shows up for everyone else without fail, every single day, but can't do it for the one thing that's actually hers. Bestie, that's not a discipline problem and we need to talk about why.

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$50,000 is a LOT of money to invest in yourself and your business - so was it actually worth it?

👀 In this episode, we unpack the decision, what that kind of investment really looked like behind the scenes, what came from it, what surprised us, our resistance and whether we’d ever do it again. No sugar-coating, just the real conversation about betting big on yourself and whether the return was actually worth the risk.

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If you missed this episiode here's a bite-sized best bit. Healing can feel uncomfortable, but carrying old pain, shame and resentment can be even harder. Ashy and Tiana talk about taking responsibility, breaking old patterns and learning how to sit with the discomfort instead of running from it.

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On this bestie advice episode we're talking about the list you keep rewriting. Our listener buys the planner every year, goes hard for a month, then quietly disappears from her own goals and doesn't notice until she finds the list again months later. She's stopped telling people what she's working on because she's tired of announcing things that go nowhere. At 32 she's still waiting to become the woman who only exists on paper. Bestie, you don't have a discipline problem.

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On this bestie advice segment we're talking about what success can quietly cost you. Our listener built the business, bought the place, sorted all of it herself and the version of her that made that happen doesn't know how to clock off. She corrects her partner constantly, won't ask him for anything, then resents him for not offering. He told her he feels more like an employee than a partner and she hasn't stopped thinking about it since. She's not being difficult. She just doesn't know how to be soft after fifteen years of hard being the only thing that worked.

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