Who pays on the first date? When should you talk about money in a relationship? How do you split finances with your partner — and what happens when you don't? Sabrina sits down with Jean and Cherie, the Tiger Sisters, to tackle every uncomfortable money question in dating and relationships — from first-date expectations and financial red flags to prenups, combining finances, and protecting yourself before marriage. If you've ever avoided "the money talk" with someone you're dating, this episode is your wake-up call.

The Tiger Sisters bring their Wall Street, Silicon Valley, and business school backgrounds to break down the business side of love — why financial independence matters (especially for women), how to set boundaries around money without killing the romance, and why who you choose to marry is the single most important decision you'll ever make. Whether you're single, dating, or already in a relationship, this conversation will change how you think about love, money, and building a life with the right partner.

Close the Loop: Mastering 2026 Dating

Live Practice + Q&A with Sabrina Zohar

I'm hosting a free live session on March 4, and this is the last one I'm planning for a long time. If dating keeps ending the same way and you can't figure out why, this is for you.

📅 March 4 🕘 4PM LA / 7PM NYC

SAVE MY SPOT!

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Chapters

00:00 Money & Dating: What No One Says

06:01 Should You Date a Coworker?

12:11 Date Like You're Hiring a CEO

15:24 Why Going Slow in Dating Works

20:53 Dating While Being a Successful Woman

26:20 Who Pays on the First Date?

36:08 Financial Independence for Women

42:30 When to Talk About Money & Debt

49:09 Moving In Together & Finances

54:23 Do You Need a Prenup?

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If someone keeps texting but never makes plans, says “we’ll see,” or gives just enough to keep you hooked, this episode is for you. We break down breadcrumbing and bare minimum dating, including mixed signals, strategic ambiguity, and future faking—and why inconsistency keeps your brain stuck chasing clarity instead of connection. You’ll learn how to tell the difference between someone who’s genuinely busy versus emotionally unavailable, and why ambiguity fuels anxiety and attachment loops.

We also shift the focus back to you: why accepting breadcrumbs can feel familiar, how nervous system wiring and cognitive bias keep you stuck, and what actually helps you walk away without self-abandonment. This episode gives you clear language, practical scripts, and grounded tools to choose consistency over confusion in dating and relationships.

Big announcement: For the first time ever, I'm hosting a live workshop and you're invited.

If dating feels exhausting and you can't figure out why it keeps ending the same way, this is for you. You'll be the first to learn my new 3-step framework for understanding what's keeping you stuck and how to change it. Plus you get my implementation workbook.

REGISTER HERE!

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Chapters

00:00 Breadcrumbing vs Being Busy

03:50 What Bare Minimum Dating Is

07:20 Why Mixed Signals Create Attachment

11:20 Strategic Ambiguity in Dating

15:10 Future Faking Red Flags

19:00 Why Consistency Feels Boring

22:55 How Ambiguity Fuels Anxiety

26:50 When Waiting Is Self Abandonment

30:35 What To Say to a Breadcrumber

34:20 How to Stop the Breadcrumb Cycle

Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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In this episode, Sabrina breaks down self-abandonment in dating and relationships, why losing yourself often gets mislabeled as love, and how chronic people-pleasing, codependency, and anxious attachment actually form. Using psychology, neuroscience, and attachment theory, she explains differentiation of self, emotional fusion, and how the nervous system drives self-betrayal, protest behavior, and fear of abandonment in romantic relationships.

You’ll learn how to choose yourself without blowing up your relationship, stop outsourcing emotional regulation, set boundaries without guilt, and reconnect to your intuition versus anxiety. This episode is essential for anyone struggling with relationship anxiety, overgiving, losing their voice in dating, or repeating unhealthy relationship patterns.

Big announcement: For the first time ever, I'm hosting a live workshop and you're invited.

If dating feels exhausting and you can't figure out why it keeps ending the same way, this is for you. You'll be the first to learn my new 3-step framework for understanding what's keeping you stuck and how to change it. Plus you get my implementation workbook.

REGISTER HERE!

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Chapters

00:00 – Are You Losing Yourself in Love?

03:05 – When “Compromise” Is Self-Betrayal

06:00 – Why You Fuse in Relationships

08:55 – Codependency Isn’t the Real Issue

11:55 – Anxiety vs Intuition in Dating

14:55 – Why Your Nervous System Panics

18:10 – How Self-Abandonment Shows Up

21:50 – Boundaries Without Losing Love

24:50 – How to Choose Yourself Safely

28:05 – The Fusion Check (Real-Time Tool)

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In this episode, Sabrina sits down with dating expert Damona Hoffman to unpack how fairy tales, rom-coms, and modern dating apps fuel obsession, fantasy, and anxious attachment. They break down why texting chemistry, dopamine loops, and “potential” keep people stuck in confusing dating dynamics—and how to shift from chasing sparks to choosing emotional safety, clarity, and real connection.

If you’re tired of mixed signals, hot-and-cold behavior, situationships, or questioning someone’s attachment style, this conversation reframes dating through grounded psychology and nervous system awareness. You’ll learn how to stop romanticizing unavailable partners, identify emotional unavailability early, and date with intention instead of fantasy—so you can build a healthy, secure relationship rooted in reality, not wishful thinking.

Want to have your submission appear on a future show? Send in your stories, questions, or dating profiles to [email protected] Get 'F the Fairy Tale' by Damona!

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

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Chapters

00:00 – Dating Myths & Fairy Tale Fantasy

04:18 – Obsessing Over Potential vs Reality

08:12 – Texting, Dopamine & False Intimacy

13:05 – Good Morning Texts & Anxiety Loops

18:02 – Why Sparks Don’t Equal Compatibility

23:11 – Emotional Unavailability Explained

28:07 – Mixed Signals & Hot-Cold Behavior

33:02 – Attachment Styles vs Real Behavior

38:06 – Emotional Intimacy & Secure Love

42:10 – Dating With Clarity, Not Fantasy

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When someone comes on strong early, it can feel like intimacy—but it’s often just intensity. In this episode, Sabrina breaks down love bombing, future faking, and why fast-moving connections activate dopamine and attachment wounds rather than real emotional safety. She explains what’s actually happening in your brain when chemistry feels overwhelming and why those relationships tend to crash just as fast.

You’ll learn the most common signs of love bombing, why stable connection can feel boring at first, and how anxious attachment keeps people hooked on the high. Sabrina also shares the Reality Check Pause, a practical tool to slow down, spot red flags early, and build relationships based on consistency, trust, and choice—not urgency or fear of being alone.

If you’re struggling with breakups or repeating unhealthy relationship cycles, this episode breaks down why heartbreak hurts so deeply and how healing actually begins.

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

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Chapters

0:00 Love Bombing vs Real Intimacy

3:10 Intensity Feels Like Connection

6:05 Dopamine and Dating Chemistry

9:30 Why Fast Relationships Crash

12:40 Texting, Attention, and Control

16:05 Future Faking Red Flags

19:20 Intermittent Reinforcement Explained

23:10 Why Healthy Love Feels Boring

27:00 The Reality Check Pause Tool

31:00 How to Slow Down Without Losing Them

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Heartbreak can feel like the end of everything, but it’s often the beginning of healing. In this raw episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show, Sabrina shares the three biggest heartbreaks of her life and what they taught her about anxious attachment, abandonment wounds, limerence, and self-worth. From childhood trauma to toxic relationships and loss, this episode explores how heartbreak shapes our dating patterns and beliefs about love.

If you’re struggling with breakups or repeating unhealthy relationship cycles, this episode breaks down why heartbreak hurts so deeply and how healing actually begins.

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

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Chapters

00:00 Heartbreak and Healing Journey

03:10 Childhood Trauma and Attachment

06:25 Emotional Neglect Core Wounds

09:40 How Trauma Shapes Dating Patterns

13:05 Limerence and Anxious Attachment

17:10 Toxic Relationships and Manipulation

21:45 Breakups, Grief, and No Contact

25:30 Losing Yourself in Relationships

29:00 Healing Core Beliefs and Self Worth

32:20 Choosing Emotionally Safe Love

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Three years ago, Sabrina Zohar hit rock bottom after losing everything she thought defined her. In this raw anniversary episode of The Sabrina Zohar Show, she reflects on the journey from heartbreak, identity collapse, and losing her sense of direction to rebuilding her life through self-trust, nervous system healing, and emotional growth. This episode explores grief, attachment patterns, worthiness, and what happens when the path you were certain about disappears.

Joined by her partner (romantic and business) Ryan halfway through, Sabrina unpacks anxious and avoidant dynamics, boundaries, communication, and why healing doesn’t mean never being triggered again. If you’ve ever felt lost after a breakup, attached to outcomes, or afraid of being seen, this episode is a reminder that you’re not broken. You’re becoming.

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

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Please support our sponsors!

• Go to Quince.com/SABRINA for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too.
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Chapters

00:00 – When Your Life Doesn’t Go the Way You Planned

03:12 – Losing Your Identity After a Breakup or Career Collapse

07:05 – Hitting Rock Bottom and Rebuilding From Scratch

10:48 – Why We Attach Our Worth to Relationships and Success

14:32 – Healthy Relationships Still Trigger Your Nervous System

18:10 – Anxious and Avoidant Attachment in Real Life

22:05 – Boundaries, Communication, and Emotional Safety

26:18 – Why Being “Too Much” Was Never the Problem

30:12 – Letting Go of Control, Validation, and External Approval

34:40 – Healing Without Perfection or Constant Positivity

38:20 – Final Takeaways: Self-Trust, Growth, and Becoming Yourself

Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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In this deeply personal episode, Sabrina Zohar is joined by her longtime best friend Paige Homan to reflect on Sabrina’s growth journey from anxious attachment, dating anxiety, and emotional dysregulation to self-trust, nervous system regulation, and secure love. Through honest conversation and real-life reflection, they explore personal transformation, healing patterns in relationships, emotional maturity, and what it actually takes to evolve into a grounded, emotionally secure version of yourself over time.

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

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Chapters

00:00 – Sabrina Zohar’s Anxious Dating Era and Why This Episode Matters

02:10 – Meet Paige: The Friend Who Witnessed Sabrina’s Growth Journey Firsthand

05:00 – What Sabrina Was Like During Her Anxious Attachment and Dating Anxiety Phase

08:40 – How Overthinking, Texting Anxiety, and Emotional Dysregulation Showed Up in Dating

12:30 – The Turning Point: When Sabrina Realized Her Dating Patterns Had to Change

16:15 – Childhood Trauma, Abandonment Wounds, and How They Shaped Relationships

20:10 – Nervous System Regulation, Slowing Down, and Learning Emotional Safety

25:00 – Healing vs Intellectualizing: Why Growth Only Happens in Real Relationships

30:05 – From Chaos to Self-Trust: What Secure Love Actually Looks Like Now

35:10 – The Role of Boundaries, Self-Awareness, and Accountability in Personal Growth

40:00 – What Sabrina Wishes She Could Tell Her Past Self About Healing and Love

45:10 – Proof That Change Is Possible: Reflections on Transformation and Growth

Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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In this In The Trenches listener Q&A episode, Sabrina answers real dating and relationship questions submitted by the community, covering workplace flirtation, mixed signals, age gaps, anxious attachment, and what to do when someone doesn’t say “I love you” back. She breaks down how uncertainty, overthinking, and “going with the flow” often lead to self-abandonment instead of clarity.

From navigating emotionally unavailable partners to trusting your gut and having uncomfortable but necessary conversations, this episode is a raw, no-nonsense deep dive into choosing self-respect over confusion. If you’re stuck reading between the lines, questioning someone’s intentions, or struggling to trust yourself in dating, this episode is for you.

Want to be featured on a future episode? Send in your question, your screenshots, or your dating profile to [email protected]

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

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Chapters

00:00 – Why You Don’t Trust Yourself in Dating

04:18 – In The Trenches: Mixed Signals With a Coworker

09:42 – Flirting at Work vs Real Romantic Interest

14:36 – Why “Going With the Flow” Is Self-Abandonment

18:55 – Saying “I Love You” First and Rejection Sensitivity

23:44 – Anxious Attachment, Overthinking, and Fear of Loss

28:31 – Reconnecting With an Emotionally Unavailable Ex

34:52 – When Chemistry Isn’t Intention or Commitment

40:05 – Dating Apps, Bans, and Being Honest With a New Partner

44:05 – Final Takeaways: Clarity, Boundaries, and Self-Trust

Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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Why do people who “try the hardest” in relationships often end up feeling unseen, resentful, or stuck in situationships? In this episode, Sabrina breaks down how people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, and anxious attachment patterns quietly sabotage intimacy. Drawing from psychology, attachment theory, and trauma research, she explains why fawning is not love but a nervous-system survival response, and how suppressing your needs leads to emotional disconnection, resentment, and unhealthy power dynamics in dating and relationships.

This episode dives deep into boundaries, self-abandonment, and why being willing to walk away is the most underrated relationship skill no one teaches you. Sabrina explores how fear of abandonment, low self-worth, and childhood conditioning keep people stuck accepting breadcrumbs, avoiding conflict, and performing for love. If you’re struggling with anxious attachment, people-pleasing, situationships, or feeling lonely inside a relationship, this conversation offers neuroscience-backed insight and practical tools to help you stop losing yourself and start building secure, authentic connection.

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

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Please support our sponsors!

• This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp at betterhelp.com/sabrina
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• For a limited time get 40% off your first box PLUS get a free item in every box for life. Go to Hungryroot.com/SABRINA and use code SABRINA

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Chapters

0:00 Why Being “Too Loving” Is Blocking Real Connection

2:10 People-Pleasing Isn’t Love, It’s a Trauma Response

5:10 Fawning, Anxious Attachment, and Self-Abandonment

8:20 Why the “Cool Girl / Easy Partner” Always Loses

11:30 Conflict Avoidance Is Quietly Killing Your Relationships

15:10 The Psychology of Power: Why Being Willing to Leave Matters

18:40 How Fear of Abandonment Keeps You Accepting Breadcrumbs

22:10 What Secure Relationships Actually Look Like (Repair Over Perfection)

26:00 How to Stop Self-Abandoning and Start Speaking Up

30:10 Tool of the Week: The Self-Abandonment Check-In

Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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A new year doesn’t change your dating life. Your patterns do. In this episode, Sabrina breaks down why New Year’s dating resolutions fail, why manifestation without behavior change keeps you stuck, and why “this is my year for love” doesn’t work if you keep showing up the same way.

This episode focuses on shifting patterns, not chasing outcomes. We dive into anxious attachment, emotionally unavailable partners, self-abandonment, and what it actually means to be ready for a healthy relationship. If you’re tired of repeating the same cycles and want to start the year by showing up differently in dating and relationships, this episode is your reset.

If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE!

If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE!

Get Ad free HERE!
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Please support our sponsors!

• Get started with Stich Fix today at stitchfix.com/sabrina to get $20 off your first order—and they’ll waive your styling fee.
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Chapters

00:00 – Why a New Year Won’t Fix Your Dating Life

01:55 – The New Year Dating Lie Everyone Believes

04:30 – Outcome Goals vs Pattern Change in Dating

08:15 – Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners

12:20 – Wanting Love vs Being Ready for Love

16:30 – How Self-Abandonment Keeps You Stuck

20:05 – Pick-Me Energy vs Choosing for Yourself

23:45 – What Healthy Relationships Actually Require

27:45 – The 3 Lists Exercise: Leave, Call In, Become

33:20 – Becoming Someone Who Can Keep Love

Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity.

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