Do you live in a land full of stingy men who love to split the bill? Are you starting to lose hope that you'll meet a man who will treat you as you want to be treated? Has 'feminism' made men too lazy to provide?

In this episode garnished with a storytime, join Chidera as she discusses how to survive stingy men!

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Has the FOMO of Valentine's day got you feeling blue? Did your man 'conveniently' start a fight with you a couple days ago? Are you bored of Valentine's day?

If any of the above questions resonate with you, you'll most certainly enjoy this episode! Join The Slumflower as she discusses why Valentine's day is important - and not for the reasons we might think... ;)

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So it's finally happened...he's become carried away and comfortable enough to start coasting through the relationship...

His yearning has decreased and his ability to remain mad at you has suddenly taken precedence. Big yikes! Time to hit the brakes, I fear.

In this new episode kicking off season 3, join Chidera as she talks you through the key indicators that your man might just be too comfortable, sis!

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In this FINALE episode of season 2, we are joined by the 6 figure-earning dominatrix, OG Tierra Doll!

In this juicy episode, we discuss findom as wealth redistribution and a radical politic, the extensive library of quirky kink fetishes and femdom vs feminism.

You can find the Goddess, Miss OG Tierra Doll online via @TierraDoll_ on X.

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Should my feminism be dismissed as 'anti-feminist'? Are you really independent if you still rely on men for orgasms? Is it possible to truly be empowered while dating men?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses why 'feminists' hate sex workers, why it's radical to expect a man who loves you to put assets in your name, and what empowerment while dating men can actually look like!

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Can male friends actually play a fulfilling role of support in our lives? Is it better to sleep with men you're already friends with? What is your criteria for male friends?

Join Chidera as it all goes down in this hilarious episode! 

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Is the dick too bomb for you to use your sense? Have you found yourself roped into a 'situationship' from what was only meant to be a brief hookup? Are you hoping the sex will make him love you?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why 'being dickmatized' is of the mind - and how we can all snap out of it before we become stuck!

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Are you dating to marry or dating for money? Do women deserve to be paid to be pregnant? Is it possible to fall in love without giving away your power to a man?

These are questions that need answers and in this episode, join Chidera as she covers them!

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Do you struggle with putting your foot down when handling a situation with a guy? Are you often 'too nice' when you should be a little more dubious of men? Have you fallen into the mentality of making men's negligence about you?

In this episode, enjoy a storytime and Chidera's real-time texting conversation with a man who is now blocked!

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Do you feel like that man is romantically edging you? Is there a vibe that he 'kind of' likes you but is holding back? Are you at a crossroads of whether you should keep emotionally investing in him?

If any of the above questions resonate with you, this quick burst of an episode might give you the answers you need...while giving you a laugh!

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Do looks really matter? Should we 'dress for men'? Is it considered 'unfeminist' to use your beauty as leverage?

We cover all these questions in this episode, where The Slumflower dives into beauty as a tool - and whether feminism is helping or hindering our journeys towards the lifestyles we desire...

(Disclaimer: the use of weed as an example in this episode, is in no way a promotion of its use!)

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