Does the idea of 'dating to marry' resonate with you? Are men using 'wifey material' as a way to lure you in? What even is 'husband material'?

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How can we explore rebellion in a way that keeps us safe and aligned with our standards?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the importance of rebelling against the rules men have assigned us - and why collecting money from men is a form of rebellion!

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Is it time to step away from him?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the cons of breaking up with him - and why frequent breakups might not be the worst thing in the world...

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They say men love the chase but women love being chased too!

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she talks about the ways women can leverage the chase - and why we should be more selective of the validation we give men.

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So you finally let it rip on him...I guess he deserved it!

In this rather validating episode, join Chidera as she talks about why crashouts can sometimes be beneficial for you - and why every man deserves the wrath that comes from provoking a bleeding woman!

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Has a man ever called you his muse? If so, did you know you may be entitled to compensation?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the invisible cost of being a man's muse - and why women deserve money when men use us as their artistic inspiration!

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Have you found yourself trapped in his sob story? Has that broke man got you going 50/50 as a way to 'ease his load'? Does your desire to save men come from a place of procrastination?

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Does falling in love tend to have you forgetting yourself?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the reasons we must always prioritise ourselves as women - no matter how much the lovebombing is beginning to work!

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Should we bring back the 90 days period of 'waiting'? Should we start making men audition for our affection? Are men better partners when we put them through probation first?

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Does the 'girls girl' really exist?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the complexity of female empowerment, expectations placed on women to like each other within feminism - and enjoy a juicy storytime of a situation where a woman tried to 'steal' a guy she was dating...on national TV!

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Should women be bitter? Is bitterness an emotion we can alchemise? Should we reclaim the word 'bitter'?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses what pushes a woman to become bitter - and why men weaponise the word against us.

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