Is that man using you as an ego boost? Is he really 'just shy' or is he waiting for you to chase him? Do men deserve our friendship?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the ways men steal our energy for their own empowerment...

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Is your loneliness starting to become obvious? Do you secretly fear that you're not going to find your person? Are you losing hope?

It's okay! Let's chill out, take a deep breath and reground ourselves.

In this episode, join Chidera as she talks you through your FOMO and debunks your fears.

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Are you a strong woman who takes pride in being independent? Do you secretly wish you knew how to receive support without 'losing' your strength? Do men praise you for being 'strong'?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why being strong doesn't mean you have to struggle! Besides, what's the man there for?

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Has your poor coochie management led to your demise? Are you in denial about the ripple effect your sexual decisions have on the quality of your life? Are men onto something when they tell us sleeping with them makes us 'impure'?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ramifications of being sexually careless - and why we all ought to step up the pussy security IMMEDIATELY!

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Have you ever been accused of being 'toxic' for holding a man accountable? Do your friends consider you 'too harsh' in your dating decisions and conclusions? Is there something you enjoy in giving men a taste of their own medicine?

If so, you'll definitively enjoy this episode. Join The Slumflower, as she reclaims the term 'toxic' and flips the script once again! 

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Do you live in a land full of stingy men who love to split the bill? Are you starting to lose hope that you'll meet a man who will treat you as you want to be treated? Has 'feminism' made men too lazy to provide?

In this episode garnished with a storytime, join Chidera as she discusses how to survive stingy men!

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Has the FOMO of Valentine's day got you feeling blue? Did your man 'conveniently' start a fight with you a couple days ago? Are you bored of Valentine's day?

If any of the above questions resonate with you, you'll most certainly enjoy this episode! Join The Slumflower as she discusses why Valentine's day is important - and not for the reasons we might think... ;)

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So it's finally happened...he's become carried away and comfortable enough to start coasting through the relationship...

His yearning has decreased and his ability to remain mad at you has suddenly taken precedence. Big yikes! Time to hit the brakes, I fear.

In this new episode kicking off season 3, join Chidera as she talks you through the key indicators that your man might just be too comfortable, sis!

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In this FINALE episode of season 2, we are joined by the 6 figure-earning dominatrix, OG Tierra Doll!

In this juicy episode, we discuss findom as wealth redistribution and a radical politic, the extensive library of quirky kink fetishes and femdom vs feminism.

You can find the Goddess, Miss OG Tierra Doll online via @TierraDoll_ on X.

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Should my feminism be dismissed as 'anti-feminist'? Are you really independent if you still rely on men for orgasms? Is it possible to truly be empowered while dating men?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses why 'feminists' hate sex workers, why it's radical to expect a man who loves you to put assets in your name, and what empowerment while dating men can actually look like!

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Can male friends actually play a fulfilling role of support in our lives? Is it better to sleep with men you're already friends with? What is your criteria for male friends?

Join Chidera as it all goes down in this hilarious episode! 

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