The Slumflower Hour
Chidera Eggerue
As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
- 1 hour 37 minutes*SEASON 3 FINALE* WE NEED TO BE MORE MEAN TO MEN!
In the FINAL episode of season 3, we are joined by a fellow disobedient woman all the way from Australia!
@HorribleMeanBadWoman (real name Sarah) is the much-needed radical voice of female rage, who makes zero effort to spare men in her cultural commentary about patriarchy, male failure and why we should all be a little more horrible, mean and bad to men!
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31 October 2025, 12:00 am - 29 minutes 14 secondsTHE MAN CHILD
Are you harbouring a man child in your home and calling him a husband? Is your mother-in-law the persistent third wheel in your marriage? Does that man seem to forever be 'unable' to clean up after himself?
In this episode, join Chidera as we tackle the curious case of the man child!
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23 October 2025, 11:07 pm - 1 hour 10 minutesTRANSPARENCY?
Are women conflating oversharing with bonding? Does telling men every single thing strengthen the relationship? Is your husband truly being transparent with you?
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks all the reasons you need to be less 'transparent' with men - and why honesty constantly being expected of women, is part of the grooming process.
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17 October 2025, 4:35 pm - 41 minutes 4 secondsSO YOU'VE BEEN DUMPED!
Has he pulled the rug from under you? Did you see it coming but you tried to tell yourself otherwise? Is it time for you to start being the dumper to see what that power feels like?
In this episode, join Chidera as she embraces the so-called 'toxicity' of dumping men first - and why it's important for women to be the villain once in a while...
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9 October 2025, 11:14 pm - 27 minutes 2 secondsTOXIC FEMININITY
Can femininity be considered toxic? Should women have bigger egos? Do women have a victim mentality?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ways that femininity can be used against us, and why women need to see beyond what has been taught to us, in order to identify potentially abusive relationships.
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2 October 2025, 11:00 pm - 1 hour 7 minutesWHITE FEMINISM...
Do white women have a different version of feminism? (Yes) Is feminism serving us or holding us back when it comes to dating men? Are white women enablers of patriarchy?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses why Black women and women of colour cannot rely on white feminism...and why there are different socioeconomic ramifications Black women face when we split bills with men.
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25 September 2025, 11:00 pm - 37 minutes 2 secondsSO YOU KEEP GIVING HIM CHANCES...
Do you tend to feel bad when a man begs and grovels? Are you against holding grudges? Should we give men more chances?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she reminds you of all the reasons men don't deserve more chances, no matter how 'sorry' they are!
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19 September 2025, 6:31 pm - 41 minutes 45 secondsREJECTION?
Does rejection make you spiral? Should women stop being old-fashioned and just make the first move on a man? Should we reject men before they reject us?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the power of rejection - and how women can use it more to our advantage!
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11 September 2025, 11:00 pm - 32 minutes 28 secondsIS IT TOO LATE?
Is it too late to find 'the one'? What does it really mean when men call a woman 'expired'? Are men worth longing for?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she reminds you that it is not too late to start living for yourself - and why not finding 'the one' might just be your biggest blessing!
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5 September 2025, 12:21 am - 45 minutes 46 secondsDESIRE IS POLITICAL
Have you ever considered or questioned the politics behind your romantic desires? Is a man's attraction to you political? Do our dating preferences change with our politics?
In this episode, join Chidera as she recounts her racist experiences working in the strip club, and what dating politically means to her.
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28 August 2025, 11:12 pm - 59 minutes 11 secondsMARRIAGE IS S*X WORK
Do you see marriage for the negotiated contract that it is, or do you see marriage as a purely spiritual union, devoid of any power dynamics or transactions? Does the idea of marriage being compared to s*x work offend you, or do you see the ways women are expected to perform sexual and domestic labour as a 'duty'? Do married women actually benefit from marriage?
In a rather contentious and controversial episode, join Chidera as she dives deeper on her perspective that marriage to straight men is the lowest paid form of s*x work.
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