The Slumflower Hour
Chidera Eggerue
As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
- 50 minutes 25 secondsABOUT BEING A GIRLS GIRL...
Does the 'girls girl' really exist?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the complexity of female empowerment, expectations placed on women to like each other within feminism - and enjoy a juicy storytime of a situation where a woman tried to 'steal' a guy she was dating...on national TV!
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28 February 2026, 2:13 am - 48 minutes 23 secondsBITTERNESS
Should women be bitter? Is bitterness an emotion we can alchemise? Should we reclaim the word 'bitter'?
In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses what pushes a woman to become bitter - and why men weaponise the word against us.
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20 February 2026, 10:27 pm - 30 minutes 37 secondsSO YOU WENT THROUGH HIS PHONE...
Should you go through a man's phone? Is there a silver lining to catching a man cheating? Are you prepared to walk away or would you prefer to punish him?
In this short and sweet episode, join Chidera as she discusses her opinion on whether you should look in that man's phone, and why as a woman it's always important to remain a few steps ahead emotionally!
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13 February 2026, 10:04 pm - 1 hour 7 minutesSO YOU'RE GOING ON A GIRLS NIGHT OUT...
Is the club really the place to find love? Should we be charging men to talk to us in the club? How do we keep safe and vigilant in the function?
Join Chidera for a funny episode where she discusses the tactics of using your looks, your wit and your discernment to have fun without losing yourself!
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6 February 2026, 4:04 pm - 1 hour 44 minutesTHE POLITICS OF P*SSY POWER FT. PAMELA BLONDE
In the first episode of season 4, we are joined by dominatrix, social campaigner and all-round powerful woman: the one and only Pamela Blonde!
Join us for a conversation where we discuss sex work decriminalisation, castration kinks, needle play fetishes, being estranged from our mothers, being vulnerable as a dominant woman and being truly loved in all your layers as a sex worker.
Find and support Pamela online via @ServePamela
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30 January 2026, 11:14 pm - 1 hour 37 minutes*SEASON 3 FINALE* WE NEED TO BE MORE MEAN TO MEN!
In the FINAL episode of season 3, we are joined by a fellow disobedient woman all the way from Australia!
@HorribleMeanBadWoman (real name Sarah) is the much-needed radical voice of female rage, who makes zero effort to spare men in her cultural commentary about patriarchy, male failure and why we should all be a little more horrible, mean and bad to men!
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31 October 2025, 12:00 am - 29 minutes 14 secondsTHE MAN CHILD
Are you harbouring a man child in your home and calling him a husband? Is your mother-in-law the persistent third wheel in your marriage? Does that man seem to forever be 'unable' to clean up after himself?
In this episode, join Chidera as we tackle the curious case of the man child!
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23 October 2025, 11:07 pm - 1 hour 10 minutesTRANSPARENCY?
Are women conflating oversharing with bonding? Does telling men every single thing strengthen the relationship? Is your husband truly being transparent with you?
In this episode, join Chidera as she talks all the reasons you need to be less 'transparent' with men - and why honesty constantly being expected of women, is part of the grooming process.
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17 October 2025, 4:35 pm - 41 minutes 4 secondsSO YOU'VE BEEN DUMPED!
Has he pulled the rug from under you? Did you see it coming but you tried to tell yourself otherwise? Is it time for you to start being the dumper to see what that power feels like?
In this episode, join Chidera as she embraces the so-called 'toxicity' of dumping men first - and why it's important for women to be the villain once in a while...
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9 October 2025, 11:14 pm - 27 minutes 2 secondsTOXIC FEMININITY
Can femininity be considered toxic? Should women have bigger egos? Do women have a victim mentality?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ways that femininity can be used against us, and why women need to see beyond what has been taught to us, in order to identify potentially abusive relationships.
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2 October 2025, 11:00 pm - 1 hour 7 minutesWHITE FEMINISM...
Do white women have a different version of feminism? (Yes) Is feminism serving us or holding us back when it comes to dating men? Are white women enablers of patriarchy?
In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses why Black women and women of colour cannot rely on white feminism...and why there are different socioeconomic ramifications Black women face when we split bills with men.
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