Dear Nelly

Nelly Thomas

  • 55 minutes 49 seconds
    Solo Nelly: Raw Dogging it through the end of the year

    Final Episode of the Year: Raw Dogging it through the festive season

    This episode you get an update on Nelly's dating journey and, she spends the entire rest of the episode taking fabulous listener calls. Enjoy!


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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

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    17 December 2025, 1:00 pm
  • 1 hour 7 minutes
    Should I date my neighbour?

    Adam Richard and Nelly dedicate an episode to some juicy listener questions


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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

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    18 November 2025, 5:10 am
  • 58 minutes 35 seconds
    Harley Breen and Wade Duffin: Dudes, Dads and Fewls!

    HARLEY BREEN AND WADE DUFFIN: DUDES, DADS AND FEWLS

    The best mates are back to talk mental health, parenting, healthy relationships and other stuff. A glorious episode with two of my faves.


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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

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    16 October 2025, 2:53 am
  • 59 minutes 2 seconds
    Alicia Sometimes: neurospicy dating, marriage and car bonnets.

    Alicia Sometimes: poet, broadcaster, scientist, introvert and neurospicy queen joins us this month to talk marriage, dating and car bonnets. 

     

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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

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    17 September 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 1 hour 2 minutes
    YUGE: Good News and Bad News from Nelly!

    NELLY IS COMING AT YOU SOLO!

    This month you're getting Nelly solo - fresh on the heels of her birthday, a solo holiday and a NEW LOVE. Nelly gets into some great culture shares, she talks about what it's like to start dating again at 51, and how to holiday alone. She takes some incredible listener calls and gets into a hard but necessary discussion about abuse perpetrated by women.


    CULTURE SHARES:


    SUPPORT SERVICES:

    • Rainbow Door Family Violence support for LGBTQIA+ folks HERE
    • LGBT Domestic Violence Foundation HERE
    • 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE
    • 13YARN: 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au


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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

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    21 August 2025, 2:00 am
  • 1 hour 12 minutes
    Jacinta Parsons: I'd been to paradise but I'd never been to me!

    Jacinta Parsons: I'd been to paradise but I'd never been to me!

    Author and ABC personality Jacinta Parsons came out of a very long-term relationship a few years ago and swore off dating. Then she met a bloke in an airport lounge and now they're loving each other sick, mate! Jacinta's dating story is like a rom-com that wrote itself. We talk about this, her INCREDIBLE NEW BOOK and, we take a brilliant listener call about being taken advantage of (to put it mildly) in an awful se*ual liason. Some if it is hard stuff, but so moving and relevant. I know you will love this episode - it has lots of laughs and tears. Just like we like it around here.


    JACINTA'S WEBSITE HERE

    A WISDOM OF AGE, BY JACINTA PARSONS HERE


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    13YARN

    24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

     

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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

     

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    16 July 2025, 6:59 am
  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    Adam Richard: age is just a number ... until it's not

    Adam Richard: age is just a number, until it's not

    The Fabulous Adam Richard is back to talk about something very special - his thesis on DEAR NELLY! Nelly and Adam also talk about aging, we get an update on Adam's new adventures in Ethical Non-Monogamy, life admin and some other stuff. Nelly and Adam take a raw and real listener call about se*ual boundaries and how they are NOT NEGOTIABLE. A wonderful episode with an old friend and Dear Nelly favourite.


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    1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

     

    13YARN

    24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

     

    Nelly's website HERE

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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

     

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    16 June 2025, 11:35 pm
  • 29 minutes 13 seconds
    More Poh Ling Yeow: Freebie Teaser for yas

    Poh Ling Yeow: BONUS episode BONUS for MAY 2025!


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    1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

     

    13YARN

    24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

     

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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

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    26 May 2025, 2:32 am
  • 1 hour 30 minutes
    Poh Ling Yeow: I just can't face the bloody apps babe!

    Poh Ling Yeow: I just can't face the bloody apps babe!

    Poh joins us this month to talk about being friends with your ex, being long term single and why she can't face all the messaging and shenanigans of the apps. Nelly also takes some great listener calls. A fabulous episode with a national treasure.


    MasterChef Australia: Back to Win continues Sunday at 7pm, and Monday to Wednesday at 7:30pm on 10 and 10 Play


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    1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

     

    13YARN

    24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

     

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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

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    17 May 2025, 4:30 am
  • 59 minutes 4 seconds
    A Dyke on a Bike and Sex and The City

    APRIL 2025 EPISODE

    This month we are joined by T-Rex - the President of the Melbourne chapter of the iconic Dykes on Bikes. T-Rex and I chart her journey from dirt-bike farm-girl to two marriages, some difficult relationships and ultimately, to finding herself and her person. T-Rex's journey is that of so many of us - a long and winding road to self-discovery and happiness with some pot-holes and fox burrows in between. You'll be inspired to find your own patch.



    TICKETS TO OUR NEXT LIVE SHOW ON MAY 15TH (MELBOURNE) HERE


    Dykes on Bikes Melbourne HERE


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    1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

     

    13YARN

    24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

     

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    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

     

     

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    16 April 2025, 4:50 am
  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    It's All About You!

    IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU: NELLY COMING AT YOU SOLO WITH LISTENER CALLS AND LETTERS

    This month Nelly is going commando - no co-host - to tackle your listener calls and letters. We have everything from how to get hope back, to coercive control, to dating dilemmas.

    A solo ep with Captain Thomas at the helm. Enjoy!


    TICKETS AND INFO FOR KIRSTY WEBECK'S TOUR HERE


    Interview with Rebecca Solnit, “Hope in the Dark”

    https://youtu.be/htstajrxUIc?si=04pnJ-nlsqz3kVwB

     

    Coercive control:

    https://www.healthline.com/health/coercive-control#restricting-autonomy

     

    Non-physical abuse: 

    https://www.cnv.org.au/help/what-is-family-violence/#:~:text=Family%20violence%20isn't%20always,t%20do%20what%20they%20want.

     

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    SUBSCRIBE TO DEAR NELLY PLUS VIA PATREON HERE

     

    SEND NELLY A MESSAGE: HERE

     

    1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

     

    13YARN

    24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

     

     

    Nelly's website HERE

    Fahey's website HERE

     

    Love yas,

    Nelly xxx

     

     

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    17 March 2025, 12:18 am
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