Late To The Party - a podcast on Autism

Bianca and Dan

A podcast about late diagnosed and self diagnosed autistics.Each episode we will cover a topic that looks at how an autistic person makes their way in the world after not being aware of their autism most of their life. Hosts Dan and Bianca bring a more personal and lived approach to the table and hope that their stories can help others along the way.

  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    Episode 60 - Understanding the Mask: Navigating Aggression and Anxiety with Andy Drewitt

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    Join Dan and guest Andy Drewitt in this eye-opening podcast as they delve into the complexities of emotional masking, aggression, and anxiety. Drawing inspiration from Andy Drewitt's thought-provoking article 'How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Making Penis Ladders' as well as his upcoming exhibition 'THIS IS YOUR FAULT', we explore the different types of masking behaviors that lead to emotional blowouts.

    They discuss the challenges of acting tough and masking pain or anxiety with a facade of calmness. They also delve into how cultural and societal norms influence aggressive behavior and the unique struggles faced by neurodivergent individuals in expressing their emotions.

    From the unsettling experience of not understanding or communicating feelings to the alarming rates of suicide among those on the autism spectrum, this podcast will shed light on these critical issues. We'll also offer insights on choosing a kinder path to self-understanding and dismantling the scaffold of fear and shame.

    Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how aggression often stems from self-directed emotions and learn strategies for managing anxiety and emotional turmoil in healthier ways.

    Find Andy Drewitt at Andy Drewitt (@andydrewitt) • Instagram photos and videos

    'THIS IS YOUR FAULT' will be shown at the No Vacancy Gallery, Melbourne, March 11 to April 5. Opening night March 13, with a performance by burlesque sensation Evana De Lune @evanadelune

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    Public Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/latetothepartypodcast
    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    26 February 2025, 4:00 am
  • 1 hour 25 minutes
    Episode 59 - Autistic Inertia and Creative Flow with musician David Hosking

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    Dan chats with musician David Hosking about success, creative flow, and the challenges neurodivergent individuals face in their creative pursuits. David shares his journey and insights on releasing eight albums despite these hurdles.

    Key Topics Discussed:

    • David's evolving definition of success and the role of personal fulfillment.
    • Techniques for maintaining creative flow and productivity.
    • Challenges like autistic inertia, rejection sensitive dysphoria, and demand avoidance.
    • Practical tips for neurodivergent individuals to manage creative projects.

    Call to Action: Help support the podcast via Patreon and follow David Hosking's music journey on his website. And if you are in Melbourne get your tickets for the live podcast event

    Guest Information: David Hosking is an Australian singer-songwriter known for his soulful melodies and evocative storytelling. With influences like Nick Drake and Tom Waits, Hosking has released eight albums, captivating a dedicated following in Melbourne and Northern Ireland. His music explores themes of love, observation, and humor, making him a unique voice in the indie music scene. 

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    Public Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/latetothepartypodcast
    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    4 February 2025, 1:00 am
  • 1 hour 34 minutes
    Episode 58 - Embracing Neurodiversity with Kathy Isaacs

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    Podcast Episode: Embracing Neurodiversity with Kathy Isaacs

    Hosts: Dan Kerr and Kathy Isaacs

    Summary: In this episode, Dan Kerr and Kathy Isaacs dive into a rich conversation about neurodiversity, focusing on autism and ADHD. They discuss their personal experiences, challenges, and the importance of self-identification and diagnosis. Kathy shares insights from her work with the Sylvia Roger Academy governance program and her involvement in various autism advocacy organisations.

    Key Points:

    • Diversity and Inclusion: Dan, as a diversity and inclusion ambassador, emphasises the value of neurodivergent minds in the workplace.
    • Autism and ADHD: Kathy explains the intersection of autism and ADHD, noting the growing minority of autistic individuals without ADHD.
    • Self-Identification: The legitimacy of self-identifying as autistic is highlighted, with Kathy supporting this approach.
    • Challenges and Coping: They discuss the difficulties of masking and the importance of finding ways to unmask and be authentic.
    • Empathy and Understanding: The concept of double empathy is explored, emphasising the mutual effort required for understanding between autistic and allistic people.
    • Work and Advocacy: Kathy's involvement in autism advocacy through various boards and organisations is discussed, focusing on amplifying autistic voices.
    • Personal Reflections: Kathy shares her experiences in palliative care and how her autistic traits helped her excel in the role.
    • Special Interests: Kathy talks about her passion for sewing, Salesforce, and the joy of engaging in special interests.
    • Music and Creativity: The hosts discuss their love for music that blends genres and the use of writing prompts for creative inspiration.
    • Future Plans: Dan shares his plans for a live podcast event focused on the journey of autism discovery and connecting with local services.

    Conclusion: The episode concludes with a heartfelt discussion on the importance of community and support in the autism journey. Dan and Kathy's conversation is a testament to the power of embracing neurodiversity and finding joy in being authentic.

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    Public Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/latetothepartypodcast
    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    1 January 2025, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 23 minutes
    Episode 57 - author Rini Puccetti's daily planner for neurodivergent individuals

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    On this episode, Dan speaks with author and perfumer Rini Puccetti about her groundbreaking planner, designed to merge logical layout with emotional well-being. This planner is a game-changer for anyone seeking to bring clarity and balance into their daily routine. 

    Key Topics:

    • Rini's inspiration behind creating the planner.
    • The unique integration of a logical layout with an emotional well-being focus.
    • Introduction to the exclusive Emotional Vocabulary Chart, which helps users track their moods, identify triggers, and articulate feelings with precision.
    • Practical tips from Rini on how to use the planner effectively.

    Dan also welcomes a surprise guest you may know quite well.

    Guest Information:
    Rini Puccetti: Author and perfumer known for her innovative work.

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    Public Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/latetothepartypodcast
    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    19 December 2024, 3:00 am
  • 53 minutes 49 seconds
    Episode 56 - The Autistic and Neurodivergent brain on beliefs

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     In this episode, we explore how our brains form and hold beliefs, even when they aren't factual. We discuss good vs. bad evidence, Autism and Identity Theory, and how personal experiences shape our beliefs. We also have fun with a fake product and read listener comments.

    Consider supporting the podcast via Patreon for the price of a coffee once a month. It goes a long way to help cover the costs. 

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    Public Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/latetothepartypodcast
    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    21 November 2024, 9:00 am
  • 53 minutes 42 seconds
    Episode 55 - Neurodivergent task management and organisation hacks

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    Welcome to episode 55 of Late To The Party! On this episode we are exploring essential online tools and strategies to enhance executive functioning for neurodivergent individuals. From time management tips to organisational hacks, we’ll cover some practical online and app solutions to help you thrive. Plus, we’ll be sharing listener feedback and addressing another heartfelt apology from Bianca. Tune in for an insightful and supportive discussion!

    Help support the podcast via Patreon.

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    We very much want you to share your stories and opinions. Join our public and private pages to start the discussion.
    Public Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/latetothepartypodcast
    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    28 October 2024, 6:00 am
  • 56 minutes 15 seconds
    Episode 54 - A BIG announcement OR Autistic people do not like change

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    In this episode of “Late To The Party,” Bianca and Dan drop a bombshell with a shock announcement that you won’t want to miss! But that’s not all—we dive into a fascinating meme about mental health professionals that has been making the rounds over at Spectrumy, sparking some insightful and tense discussions.

    We also share an incredible piece of Listener Feedback explaining imposter syndrome that really hit home. Plus, our popular segment “Autistic Moments” features a hilarious and identifiable story from one of our listeners.

    Tune in for an episode packed with surprises, laughs, and shocks. This one is all about the big reveal, and trust us, it’s a game-changer!

    Check out memes author Dr Glenn Patrick Doyle here.
    Is there evidence to support red cordial and hyperactivity? Check this article.

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    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    17 October 2024, 5:00 am
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    Episode 53 - Animal-Assisted Therapy with Maggie Broom

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    Host Dan chats with Maggie Broom about the benefits of equine therapy. Maggie explains how working with horses can improve physical, mental, and emotional well-being. We talk about -:

    • How does animal-assisted therapy with horses differs from traditional therapy methods?
    • The difference between how a mental health professional uses this therapy compared to a provider that just happens to be good with animals.
    • We also explore what a session would look like for an adult who was late diagnosed.

    Maggie's business Grey Horse Growth and Learning offers both personal development and therapy through the medium of horses.  Clients can attend Equine Facilitated Learning sessions for personal growth and social skills development, or one hour sessions for counselling/psychotherapy.

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    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    4 October 2024, 6:00 am
  • 54 minutes 43 seconds
    Episode 52 - the relationship between Alexithymia and Autism

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    Welcome to another episode of Late To The Party with your hosts, Bianca and Dan! 🎉 Today, we’re diving into a fascinating and important topic: the relationship between autism and alexithymia.

    Join us as we explore how these two conditions intersect, what it means for those who experience them, and the impact on emotional awareness and communication. We’ll be breaking down the science, sharing personal stories, and discussing strategies for better understanding and support.

    So, grab your headphones and get ready for an enlightening conversation. Let’s get this party started!

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    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    10 September 2024, 4:00 am
  • 1 hour 11 minutes
    Episode 51 - Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria

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    Welcome to today’s episode, where we delve into the often misunderstood world of Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). This condition, closely associated with ADHD, manifests as an intense emotional response to perceived or actual rejection or criticism.

    We are joined by writer and editor Lindy Ralph as we explore the nuances of RSD, its impact on daily life, and strategies for managing this challenging aspect of emotional regulation.

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    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    14 August 2024, 12:00 am
  • 52 minutes 30 seconds
    Episode 50 - Austism camp and celebrating our fiftieth episode

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    In this milestone episode, hosts Bianca and Dan reflect on getting to our 50th episode relatively unscathed and with a troupe of Party Poopers joining the party (in their own time of course). Thanks to you all for your continuing support and encouragement.

    Remember, the Late To The Party podcast offers a unique perspective on autism, blending personal stories with informative discussions. For more episodes and engaging content, check out their public Facebook page and private Facebook group. Happy listening!

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    We very much want you to share your stories and opinions. Join our public and private pages to start the discussion.
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    Private Facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/1168470233702726
    Email us at [email protected]
    Instagram page - https://www.instagram.com/latetothepartyasd/
    Website at https://latetotheparty.buzzsprout.com

    22 July 2024, 6:00 am
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