You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.
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The most valuable lessons I'm taking with me at 33 years young
In this birthday episode, I’m taking a moment to look back on the last year and everything it’s taught me. I’m sharing the biggest lessons I’ve learned about self-worth, raising my standards, trusting my intuition, and truly understanding how manifestation works. I also introduce my new masterclass, Manifest Overnight, and talk about why inner shifts are what actually change your life. This episode is all about growth, letting go of what no longer fits, and stepping into what’s next.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Birthday vibes & reflections
02:16 Why I created the Manifest Overnight masterclass
03:30 The biggest lessons 33 years has taught me
05:02 How identity plays a huge role in manifestation
07:20 Getting clear, building routines, and staying grounded
09:13 Trusting your intuition & raising your standards
12:37 Growth sometimes means subtraction
21:16 Being intentional about who you let in your life
21:58 Self-containment, habits, and personal discipline
24:04 Final thoughts & what I’m excited about next
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unlocking the power of your identity
HOW TO BE IN THE TOP 1%
in this episode, i’m getting into why committing to yourself is the biggest power move you can make — especially heading into 2026. this year isn’t about doing more, forcing more, or hustling harder. it’s about deciding who you are and moving like it’s already done.
i talk about the launch of my new masterclass manifest overnight and why identity is the missing piece for most people. the top 1% don’t have more time, luck, or talent — they have decisiveness, self-trust, and a strong sense of who they are. they move fast. they don’t wait for permission. and they’re not afraid to be polarizing.
we get into:
this episode is for anyone who knows they’re meant for more but keeps feeling stuck in old patterns. manifest overnight is designed to help you reprogram your identity so manifesting stops feeling hard and starts feeling inevitable.
timestamps:
00:00 why this year is different
01:15 manifest overnight masterclass details
04:25 what actually separates the top 1%
07:21 confidence, polarization, and self-trust
08:34 decisiveness and moving faster
16:16 living authentically and dropping the rules
29:45 final thoughts
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see you there ;) <3 xx
unlocking your best self in 2026: your blueprint
masterclass waitlist > tap here to join now. doors open jan 19.
link > https://stan.store/lyssboss
in this episode, i’m welcoming you into 2026 and honestly just sharing how excited i am for this next chapter!! for the podcast, for my life, for all of us. i talk about spending new year’s in dubai, why real change always starts internally, and why your self concept is the key to manifesting.
i break down the actual hacks i’m using to make 2026 my best year yet: setting intentions that actually stick, protecting your energy like it’s your job, and fully leaning into a “delusional” mindset (because that’s where the magic is). i also share details about my manifest overnight masterclass launching on my birthday, january 19th.
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this episode is all about practical, real-life ways to magnetize success, upgrade your self-concept, and move through challenges without spiraling - just trusting that everything is working in your favor.
timestamps
00:00 welcome to 2026
00:24 new year’s in dubai
01:39 why audio is underrated
02:52 manifesting your best year yet
06:51 my 2026 success hacks
08:20 mood, music, and why vibes matter
11:34 manifestation techniques i actually use
17:18 embodying your future self now
18:57 window shopping for your dream life
21:09 visualizing abundance + collapsing time
22:07 muting negativity and protecting your mental space
24:02 blessing other people’s success (yes, really)
25:55 becoming your future self through action
27:21 career + money mindset shifts
29:11 making space for love and relationships
32:15 a new way to think about taxes (wild, i know)
35:54 using boredom intentionally
36:55 the power of delusion (trust me)
39:08 closing thoughts + stepping into your next level
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It was quite the year, indeed.
Claim it. Comment on this episode and follow me on instagram @lyss if this episode resonates with you. Love you so much. - Lyss x
In this episode, I dive into what it really means to speak your truth and own your voice, even when it’s uncomfortable. I’m sharing personal stories about finding the courage to say what I actually feel (in relationships, business, and online) and how doing that completely changed my life.
We talk about healing, using your voice as your superpower, and letting go of that fear of judgment that keeps you small. I also open up about a recent karmic connection that pushed me to set stronger boundaries and taught me what authentic communication actually looks like.
This one’s a vibe. It’s about being real, standing tall in your truth, and realizing your voice is the magnet for everything meant for you.
00:00 Intro: Finding Your Power
00:27 Getting Over the Fear of Speaking Up
01:37 Why Your Voice Matters
03:05 Using Your Platform with Intention
08:15 My Own Struggles and Growth
13:33 A Karmic Connection and What It Taught Me
16:17 Communication = Self-Respect
28:56 Closing Thoughts: Be Loud. Be You. Always.
In this episode, I’m getting real about intimacy, sex, and casual dating—and how my perspective has shifted over the years. Now that I’m in my 30s and way more tapped into my feminine energy, I’ve become super intentional about who I share myself with. For me, sex is sacred—it’s not just physical, it’s an energetic exchange. I talk about how cords form, why choosing someone who matches your vibe matters, and how past experiences can carry into present relationships. I also share how I cut cords energetically, heal old wounds, and embody the energy of my future husband so love flows in effortlessly.
Where your attention goes, energy flows.
RELATED SUBSTACK ARTICLE - https://lyssboss.substack.com/p/id-take-him-back-again-if-it-meantDETACHMENT MASTERCLASS - https://stan.store/lyssboss/p/daretodetachGoing backwards is necessary to move forwards Let’s be real — sometimes, you have to go back just to finally walk away for good.In this episode, I open up about the relationship that broke me open — the one that made me start my podcast. I used to think going back meant I was weak. But now I know it was part of my divine plan. That heartbreak forced me to meet myself, build everything I have now, and become the woman I was meant to be.If you’ve ever blamed yourself for going back, this will change how you see it. You’ll learn why the “wrong” person was actually your biggest teacher!! :)And if you’re ready to finally detach and reclaim your power — my Substack article and masterclass Dare to Detach are both live. Trust me, this is the moment you start choosing you.
KNOW YOUR WORTH!!! :) protect your power, and never ever settle! xx LYSS
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