In this inspiring episode, Ash sits down with TEDx speaker and award-winning author Melo Calarco—a man who has quite literally cycled to the edges of the world in search of meaning, resilience, and himself. Over 30,000 kilometres across five continents, Melo has learned that the most transformative journey is always the one within.

He shares how meditation and mindfulness became the quiet anchors behind his extraordinary adventures, and how facing grief, uncertainty, and physical limits on the road ultimately deepened his understanding of what it means to truly live. Together, Ash and Melo explore the tension between ambition and contentment, and what it looks like to pursue big goals without losing yourself in the chase.

Drawing on Eastern philosophies and real-life transformations he has witnessed through his coaching work, Melo offers grounded, practical tools for bringing more presence, flexibility, and fun into everyday life. The conversation is a reminder that growth doesn't always look like pushing harder—sometimes it looks like slowing down, checking in with your values, and choosing joy as a practice. Melo's story is equal parts adventure and wisdom, and a powerful invitation to live more fully, freely, and in alignment with what matters most.

Episode chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Melo Carlaco

01:41 A Day in the Life of Melo

05:54 The Importance of Fun and Play

06:55 Hiding Behind a Smile: Personal Stories

10:02 Navigating Grief and Adversity

13:04 The Journey of a Lifetime: Cycling Around the Globe

17:47 The Seeds of Meditation

20:25 Cultivating the Pause: Reaction vs. Response

24:31 Life After Adventure: What Now?

27:37 The Aftermath of Achievements: TEDx Experience

29:26 Setting Hard Goals for Personal Growth

32:06 The Balance of Flexibility and Discipline

34:08 Integrating Eastern Philosophies into Coaching

39:48 Real-Life Transformations through Mindfulness

44:01 The Importance of Presence in Daily Life

46:40 Practical Tools for Mindfulness and Presence

50:45 Living by Non-Negotiables for a Fulfilling Life

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Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026 

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

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This week you’re invited to listen in as Ash sits down with her lifelong friend Edwina, to explore what it means to remake your life in the wake of loss, motherhood, and big internal change. Edwina opens up about the sudden death of her brother, how grief reshaped her sense of self, and the quiet, courageous decision to question her relationship with alcohol.

She shares what happened when she chose an alcohol-free life, not just on the surface, but in her identity, her friendships, and the way she shows up as a mother and a woman. Ash and Edwina dive into the role of therapy on this path, unpacking powerful modalities like EMDR, and how these practices helped her meet the younger parts of herself with compassion instead of criticism.

Together, they talk about the fears that come with sobriety and the unexpected gifts that arrive when the noise of drinking is stripped away. The conversation shines a light on how retreats, community, and intentional healing practices can open space for self-discovery, deeper connection, and true emotional safety.

Episode Chapters:

​​00:00 Introduction to Retreats and Self-Discovery

01:35 Meet Edwina: A Journey Through Life

03:34 Navigating Grief and Vulnerability

06:44 The Impact of Injury on Identity

09:11 Finding Purpose in Adversity

11:01 Hiding Behind a Smile: The Photo Story

21:17 The Unfairness of Life and Loss

23:00 Alcohol: A Coping Mechanism

35:13 Healing and Understanding Family Dynamics

35:48 Therapeutic Journeys: Exploring EMDR and Internal Family Systems

38:02 The Alcohol-Free Awakening: A Personal Journey

42:09 Facing Fears: The Terrifying Decision to Quit Drinking

46:14 Redefining Relationships: Alcohol and Authentic Connections

50:21 Building Deeper Friendships: The Shift in Social Dynamics

55:12 The Power of Vulnerability: Authenticity in Relationships

01:01:05 Embracing Change: The Journey of Self-Discovery

01:07:52 Investing in Self: The Importance of Personal Retreats

01:12:30 Non-Negotiables for a Fulfilling Life: Community, Nourishment, and Movement

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Upcoming Workshops:

Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026 

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

Watch Ash’s TEDx Talk here!

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In another deeply honest solo episode, Ash reflects on the six biggest mistakes she’s made across six years of sobriety and how each one became a turning point for growth, self-trust, and real transformation. She takes you back to the day her life changed, then walks you through the lessons that followed, from expecting others to change, to trying to squeeze her new self into her old life, to giving her power away to people who didn’t have the best intentions. 

She opens up about people pleasing, outgrowing relationships, chasing what’s next instead of appreciating what’s now, and the humbling realisation that healing has no finish line. These are the truths she learned the long way, the kind that only come through lived experience, deep reflection, and choosing honesty over comfort.

If you’re navigating change, questioning your path, or learning how to stand in your truth even when it costs you, this episode will feel like a conversation you didn’t know you needed.

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Upcoming Workshops:

Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026 

Reset and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

Watch Ash’s TEDx Talk here!

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In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, Ash is joined by her mentor and high performance advisor, Mark “Dobbo” Dobson, for a thought-provoking exploration of what it truly takes to grow, evolve, and rise after life challenges you. Together they dive beneath surface level success and unpack the real work behind clarity, purpose, and personal expansion.

Dobbo shares hard-earned wisdom on defining your values, sharpening your vision, and having the courage to live in full alignment with who you really are. They also explore how adversity can become a catalyst for transformation, and why the relationships we choose play a pivotal role in shaping the person we become.

This conversation is a powerful reminder that meaningful growth is not built on perfection, it is built on honesty, resilience, and the willingness to turn life’s hardest moments into the foundation for something greater.

You can connect with Dobbo through his website www.dobbo.com.au.

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Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

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In this episode, Ash is joined again by her dad, Rod, for a candid conversation about the real complexities of love and relationships. They unpack topics many people experience but rarely talk about openly, including love addiction, love avoidance, codependency, and what healthy communication actually looks like in practice.

Drawing on both personal experience and honest reflection, they explore how family dynamics shape the way we love, the patterns we repeat without realising, and what it takes to change them. Ash also opens up about a deeply personal crossroads, her uncertainty around motherhood, and the inner questions that come with choosing a path that feels true rather than expected.

Their father daughter conversations are always listener favourites, and this is exactly why they continue to shine a light on the honest, nuanced conversations that many people are thinking about, but few feel safe enough to say out loud.

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In this episode, Ash has a raw conversation with husband, father, and sober human Vim Verma as they discuss addiction, identity, and what happens when you finally stop running from yourself. Vim opens up about growing up in a mixed-race culture where drinking was normalised, emotions were rarely spoken about, and asking for help felt almost impossible.

Together, they unpack the quiet pressures of family expectations, the heavy emotional charge of the holiday season, and the stigma that keeps so many people suffering in silence. There are moments of grief, moments of clarity, and Vim’s classic humour, that remind us how human this journey really is.

Vim also shares how his recovery program, meditation, and spiritual practice became a turning point, helping him strip back the noise and reconnect with who he is beneath the coping mechanisms. This is a conversation about breaking cycles, choosing courage over comfort, and discovering that real healing starts on the inside.

If you’ve ever questioned your relationship with alcohol, felt trapped by expectations, or wondered what life could look like if you truly listened to yourself, this episode will land.

Episode Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Retreats and Self-Discovery

01:34 Vim Verma's Journey to Sobriety

03:45 Navigating Sobriety During the Holidays

04:54 Cultural Influences on Drinking

07:24 The Impact of Family Dynamics

07:53 Getting to Know Vim: Daily Life and Fun

14:06 Hiding Behind a Smile: The Photo Story

16:20 The Progression of Alcoholism

19:05 Consequences of Drinking: Crashing and Bashing

28:18 The Turning Point: Seeking Help

31:44 Experiences in Early Recovery

38:47 Finding Hope in Recovery

41:54 Life After Sobriety: Changes and Growth

47:50 Navigating Life's Challenges in Recovery

51:23 The Role of Support in Recovery

59:46 Non-Negotiables for a Happy Life

You can connect with Vim through his Instagram here. 

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Upcoming Workshops:

A Return To You | One Day Retreat 

Sunday 22nd February, 2026

Tickets available here. 

Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026 

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

Watch Ash’s TEDx Talk here!

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In this special episode, Ash is joined by her longtime friend Ash Murray. For years, both women battled addiction silently, only sharing the full depths of their stories with one another after coming into recovery. Today, Ash Murray is the Eating Disorder Lead and Therapist at The Wave Clinic in Malaysia, with her expertise grounded not just in study, but in lived experience.

Ash opens up about her personal journey through eating disorders and alcohol addiction, sharing what recovery has truly looked like beyond the surface. From the isolating depths of illness which nearly took her life, to the slow rebuilding of trust, self-worth, and connection, she reflects on the pivotal role that rehab, honesty, healing and self-care have played in finding lasting freedom.

Together, they explore the intersection of therapy and lived experience, how vulnerability and empathy can become powerful tools for healing both self and others. They unpack the mental health challenges that intensified during the COVID-19 pandemic, and the importance of ongoing support in maintaining balance and wellbeing.

Episode chapter:

00:00 Introduction to Ashley Murray's Journey

02:57 Life in Malaysia and Work at the Wave Clinic

05:46 Navigating COVID-19 in Treatment

08:21 The Impact of COVID-19 on Mental Health

11:08 A Photo that Represents Struggles

13:55 The Super Yacht Experience and Its Consequences

16:27 The Turning Point: Seeking Help

19:22 Life in Bali and the Struggle with Addiction

22:16 The Rock Bottom Moment

24:49 Desperation and the Path to Recovery

27:08 The Turning Point: Reaching Out for Help

31:53 Childhood Struggles: The Roots of Eating Disorders

44:03 Escaping Reality: The Need to Hide

48:25 Facing the Truth: A Journey of Self-Discovery

54:28 The Struggle of Surrendering Control

57:02 The Complexity of Eating Disorders

59:13 The Power of Intervention

01:00:41 Transformation Through Therapy

01:04:11 Building Trust in Recovery

01:06:15 The Importance of Honesty

01:08:57 Setting Boundaries for Recovery

01:13:03 Non-Negotiables for a Fulfilling Life

Connect with Ash through:

https://thewaveclinic.com/

https://www.instagram.com/thewaveclinic/

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Website⁠ www.ashbutterss.com

Upcoming Workshops:

A Return To You | One Day Retreat 

Sunday 22nd February, 2026

Tickets available here. 

Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026 

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

Watch Ash’s TEDx Talk here!

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In this episode, Ash sits down with husband, father, and business owner James Date to explore what life looks like after addiction—and how recovery has reshaped the way he moves through the world.

James shares how community, service, and genuine connection became the anchors of his sobriety, transforming what once felt like isolation into a life rich with meaning and purpose. He speaks openly about the power of vulnerability, the role of daily routines and prayer in keeping him grounded, and how embracing honesty has deepened his relationships at home and beyond.

Together, Ash and James confront the lingering stigma around addiction and discuss the strength it takes to ask for help. Through moments of reflection and gratitude, James reveals the quiet joy found in showing up authentically each day—a reminder that recovery isn’t just about living without substances, but about rediscovering who you are underneath it all.

Episode Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to James Date and His Journey

02:54 The Importance of Connection and Community in Recovery

05:52 Daily Routines and Spiritual Practices

08:58 The Role of Surrender in Recovery

11:58 Compassion and Kindness in Daily Life

15:01 Finding Joy in Service and Helping Others

17:57 The Impact of Sponsorship in Recovery

21:03 The Struggles of Identifying as an Addict

24:03 Behind the Smile: A Photo Reflection

26:53 The Journey to Acknowledging Addiction

30:08 Understanding the Roots of Addiction

32:54 The Ongoing Journey of Recovery

36:18 Understanding Alcoholism and Addiction

38:30 Rock Bottom Moments

42:14 Finding the Right Rehab

49:34 The Journey of Outpatient Recovery

51:23 The Importance of Vulnerability

56:54 Reconnecting with Self and Family

01:02:25 Non-Negotiables for a Fulfilling Life

Connect with James below:

Instagram: @slayingsober

Podcast: Slaying Sober - listen on Spotify 

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Website⁠ www.ashbutterss.com

Upcoming Workshops:

A Return To You | One Day Retreat 

Sunday 22nd February, 2026

Tickets available here. 

Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026 

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

Watch Ash’s TEDx Talk here!

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In this solo episode, Ash challenges the myth that hustle creates happiness and asks a better question: what if the dream life is built through alignment and embodiment instead of force?

Through her own transformation from corporate burnout and addiction to sobriety, surrender and spacious success, she explores why achievement without fulfilment leaves us empty and how co-creating with life can deliver breakthroughs hustle never could.

She unpacks the Law of Least Effort, the power of nervous system safety, and the practical habits she’s using to set up 2026, including her word of the year and a new manifesto that prioritises alignment, presence, ease and self trust. If you’re tired of pushing, proving or performing, this episode shows you how to create more by doing less and build a life that feels good on the inside.

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Website⁠ www.ashbutterss.com

Upcoming Workshops:

A Return To You | One Day Retreat

Sunday 22nd February, 2026

Tickets available here.

Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

Watch Ash’s TEDx Talk here!

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After years of living with a debilitating condition, Rick Watson has learned what it truly means to face fear and find freedom on the other side. In this episode, the holistic coach and gestalt therapist in training opens up about the profound transformation that followed his diagnosis, the trauma of constant uncertainty, and the life-altering decision to undergo brain surgery.  

Rick shares how recovery from both the physical and emotional toll of his condition sparked a deeper journey toward authenticity and self-understanding. As he describes his transition into therapy, he unpacks the core principles of gestalt work: presence, honesty, and the courage to be seen as you are. The conversation explores how health challenges can reshape identity, relationships, and purpose and how taking full responsibility for our emotions becomes the key to freedom.  

Together, Ash and Rick reflect on themes of vulnerability, generational patterns, and the importance of truly listening to ourselves and others. They discuss burnout in helping professions, the meaning found in midlife transitions, and the art of mapping one’s inner world to reveal clarity and connection. 

Episode Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Rick Watson and His Journey

02:58 Living with Epilepsy: The Hidden Struggles

05:55 The Impact of Brain Surgery and Recovery

08:57 Life After Epilepsy: Embracing Freedom

11:54 Transitioning to Therapy: A New Path

15:02 Gestalt Therapy: Understanding the Modality

18:05 The Importance of Being Present

20:48 Personal Growth Through Therapy Retreats

23:58 Authenticity: The Journey to Being Yourself

32:01 The Power of Vulnerability in Men's Circles

35:56 Unpacking Core Wounds and Generational Patterns

39:48 Navigating Burnout and Protecting Energy

44:04 The Importance of Listening and Emotional Responsibility

49:00 Finding Meaning in Midlife Transitions

55:53 Mapping the Inner Self for Clarity

01:00:59 Non-Negotiables for a Fulfilling Life

You can connect with Rick through:

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rickwatson_/

Website: https://www.rickwatson.com.au/

Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3r8QaWJYgB73pOF9b0Hi0t?si=76e4b44b93864ba0

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To kick off the new year, Ash sits down with holistic psychologist Laura Corcoran for a soulful and grounded conversation about how to truly create a powerful year ahead.

Together, they explore the practice of letting go, not as something you think your way through, but as something you feel, embody, and live. They speak candidly about surrender, emotional release, and the subtle moments where growth asks you to slow down, soften, and trust yourself more deeply. Woven throughout is the importance of authenticity and the role of community in supporting real, lasting change.

As they reflect on the year that’s been and turn their attention toward what’s possible next, Ash and Laura invite you to reconsider what it means to thrive. Less hustle, more presence. Less force, more space. A year shaped by rest, reflection, and joy, rather than pressure or perfection.

The episode closes with an exciting announcement about The Embodied Woman, their upcoming retreat created for women who are ready to reconnect with their bodies, reclaim their worth, and step into the next chapter feeling grounded, supported, and deeply embodied.

Episode Chapters:

00:00 New Beginnings: Embracing 2026

01:38 Letting Go: The Journey of Self-Discovery

04:29 The Power of Surrender: Trusting the Process

09:54 Finding Strength Within: The Role of Emotional Release

14:30 The Simplicity of Self-Connection: Embracing Stillness

18:57 Redefining Success: From External Validation to Inner Peace

23:22 The Importance of Community: Navigating Transformation Together

26:26 Embracing Self-Worth and Authenticity

27:20 Breaking Free from Co-dependency

29:56 The Power of Presence and Self-Expression

31:21 Navigating Loneliness and Connection

35:30 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Embodiment

37:27 Setting Intentions for 2026

43:11 The Embodied Woman Retreat

49:39 Taking Action Towards Change

You can connect with Laura on her IG @hersuccessfulmind 

Upcoming Workshops:

A Return To You | One Day Retreat 

Sunday 22nd February, 2026

Tickets available here. 

Join Ash on retreat in 2026!

The Embodied Woman Retreat | Gold Coast | May 2026 

Rest and Renew Holistic Retreat in Bali | August 2026

Watch Ash’s TEDx Talk here!

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.