- 31 minutes 43 secondsKim Frazer on Confidence, Competition and the Voice in Your Head
Should I Play or Should I Go? is a four-part mini-series about rudeness, rejection and confidence at the bridge table, created, produced and hosted by Catherine Harris.
In episode 3, Australian bridge champion, Olympian and sports psychology author Kim Frazer joins Catherine to talk about confidence, self-talk and performing under pressure. They discuss playing against stronger opponents, learning to focus on what went right as well as what went wrong, setting realistic goals, dealing with disappointment, and what to do when somebody else’s judgment gets stuck in your head.
Plus, other bridge players share some memorable encounters of their own. Thanks to Dick Kassar, Lucy Zhang, Barbara Raynor and James Southern.
Kim is the author of Gaining the Mental Edge at Bridge. The book offers simple, practical techniques to improve your mental approach to the game, allowing you to enjoy your time at the bridge table even more.
Here are a few resources on keeping bridge enjoyable for everyone:
World Bridge Federation: Laws of Duplicate Bridge
Larry Cohen: 21 Rules of Being a Good Partner
Karen Walker: Table Feel: A thoughtful look at the subtler side of behaviour at the bridge table.
BridgeBum: Bridge Table Manners & Etiquette
Next week: American bridge legend, Larry Cohen.
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10 September 2026, 9:00 am - 42 minutes 40 secondsMaggie Knottenbelt on Ego, Judgment and Just Playing Bridge
Should I Play or Should I Go? is a four-part mini-series about rudeness, rejection and confidence at the bridge table, created, produced and hosted by Catherine Harris.
In episode two, English champion and psychotherapist Maggie Knottenbelt joins Catherine to talk about what happens when ego, judgment and self-doubt creep into the game. They discuss rudeness at the table, the fear of making mistakes, caring too much about what other players think — and how to find your way back to simply playing bridge.
Plus, other bridge players share some memorable encounters of their own. Thanks to Jim Wallis, Mindy Fleder, Alan Davidson and Laura Ginnan.
Here are a few resources on keeping bridge enjoyable for everyone:
World Bridge Federation: Laws of Duplicate Bridge
Larry Cohen: 21 Rules of Being a Good Partner
Karen Walker: Table Feel: A thoughtful look at the subtler side of behaviour at the bridge table.
BridgeBum: Bridge Table Manners & Etiquette
Next week: Australian bridge champion, Olympic athlete and author of Gaining the Mental Edge at Bridge, Kim Frazer.
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3 September 2026, 9:00 am - 42 minutes 34 secondsAndrew Mill on Mistakes, Progress and Other Inconveniences
Should I Play or Should I Go? is a four-part mini-series about rudeness, rejection and confidence at the bridge table, created, produced and hosted by Catherine Harris.
A few weeks ago, something was said at the bridge table that I couldn’t let go. I’ve experienced worse, so why couldn’t I shake it?
In this first episode of Should I Play or Should I Go?, I talk to my longtime bridge teacher, Australian champion Andrew Mill, about confidence, criticism and the strange experience of trying to get better at something you love while becoming increasingly aware of how much you still have to learn.
Plus, other bridge players share some memorable encounters of their own. Thanks to Daniel Lev, Nikki Hudak, Stephanie Culbertson, Lorraine Cable and Em Barbenel.
Also, some time ago I wrote about taking bridge lessons with Andrew. You can read the article here: The Biker King of Contract Bridge
Here are a few resources on keeping bridge enjoyable for everyone:
World Bridge Federation: Laws of Duplicate Bridge
Larry Cohen: 21 Rules of Being a Good Partner
Karen Walker: Table Feel: A thoughtful look at the subtler side of behaviour at the bridge table.
BridgeBum: Bridge Table Manners & Etiquette
Next week: English bridge champion and psychotherapist Maggie Knottenbelt.
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27 August 2026, 9:00 am - 31 minutes 29 secondsLisa Berkowitz Keeps Her Cool/ReDeal
In this episode of SORRY, PARTNER, we revisit our conversation with American champion Lisa Berkowitz. Lisa talks with us about multitasking, knowing your system, and keeping cool under pressure. Plus, she shares her top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
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13 August 2026, 9:00 am - 43 minutes 35 secondsThomas Bessis Cultivates the Best of all Possible Bridge Worlds/ReDeal
In this episode of SORRY, PARTNER, we revisit our conversation with French champion Thomas Bessis. Thomas joins us to talk about bridge life and family life. Plus, he shares his top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
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30 July 2026, 9:00 am - 45 minutes 8 secondsGiselle Mundell Doesn’t Miss a Beat/ReDeal
In this episode of SORRY, PARTNER, we revisit our conversation with Australian champion Giselle Mundell. Giselle talks about passion, ambition, and having fun. Plus, she shares her top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
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16 July 2026, 9:00 am - 45 minutes 45 secondsMichael Rosenberg Knocks the Ace Right out of the Park/ReDeal
In this episode of SORRY, PARTNER, we revisit our conversation with Scottish/American champion Michael Rosenberg. Michael discusses loyalty, maintaining concentration, and the many ways that bridge mirrors life. Plus, he shares his top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
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2 July 2026, 9:00 am - 43 minutes 41 secondsCathy Baldysz Polishes her Game to a Champion Finish/ReDeal
In this episode of SORRY, PARTNER, we revisit our conversation with American/Polish champion Cathy Baldysz. Cathy discusses the Polish bridge community, her thoughts on playing with the Objectivity Team, and her enjoyment of Polish bridge lingo. Plus, she shares her top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
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18 June 2026, 9:00 am - 1 hour 38 minutesAdam Kaplan, The Young Old Soul of Bridge
American champion Adam Kaplan joins us to talk about his bridge/cruise ship origin story (the Vanderbilt’s can’t have all the fun), and how he balances bridge with his many other interests. Plus, he shares his top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
Find Adam's "interesting hands" on our Instagram
Listen to Catherine's new podcast, Pod, Actually, a podcast about people's favourite podcasts. Link here: https://pod.link/1877410393
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4 June 2026, 9:00 am - 29 minutes 59 secondsThe Great Bob Hamman/ReDeal
In this episode we revisit our conversation with American champion Bob Hamman. Bob talks with us about pacing yourself, drawing inferences, and the desire to compete. Plus, he shares his top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
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21 May 2026, 9:00 am - 37 minutes 56 secondsIda Gronkvist Keeps Her Eyes On The Prize/ReDeal
In this episode we revisit our conversation with Swedish champion Ida Gronkvist. Ida talks with us about equal playing fields, transfer bids, and the pleasure of fulfilling your potential. Plus, she shares her top tip for developing players. But first, we kibitz!
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