We're looking back on the past five years of Cruising with some of our favorite stories from lesbian bars across the country. This episode airs simultaneously with the release of The Lesbian Bar Chronicles, a book adaptation of the first two seasons of the podcast. So let's celebrate with a reflection on some of the stories that are now available for the very first time in print! 

Tune in for selections from: 

1. Wild Side West | San Francisco, CA - "Thank you for the planters, but I'm not leaving" 
2. Pearl Bar | Houston, TX - "The first time I saw my sister really come out of her shell"
3. Lipstick Lounge | Nashville, TN - " All the people that touched my mom's life"
4. Nancy Valverde | Los Angeles, CA - " Sh*t come, sh*t go, I'm gonna be myself"
5. Charlene's | New Orleans, LA  - " I came in the front door and I'm damn well going out that way"
6. Les Pierres | New Orleans, LA - "We needed a place of our own" 
7. The Sports Bra | Portland, OR - "Ask for what you need" 
8. Hershee Bar | Norfolk, VA - " This place means something, and you need to know what it means"
9. Femme Bar | Worcester, MA - "The biggest hype man I've ever known" 

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This week, we're digging into the rich history activism and resistance in Minneapolis, Minnesota. Our guest, Meg Riley, is a political organizer, advocate, and Unitarian Universalist Minister. Meg first moved to the twin cities in 1976, where she very quickly started living in cooperative community housing and immersing herself in local lesbian activism. In 1981, Meg moved into what would become Sweet Willa - a cooperatively owned, lesbian home. Today, she still lives in Minneapolis, where she's settling into her new role as movement elder. Meg joins the podcast to discuss: 

-the ins and outs of community living with a bunch of lesbians 

-the local lesbian coffeehouse, bookstore, lez brunch, and more queer infrastructure

-why so many sober people come to Minneapolis

-the struggle to pass down leadership and knowledge to the next generation of queers

-her experience with ICE and local mutual aid networks 

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Mandy Carter is a long-time Black lesbian activist and community organizer. Born in 1948, Mandy spent her childhood bouncing between New York state children's homes. While that came with exceptional challenges for a young person, it also allowed her the freedom to grow into exactly who she wanted to be, without the binds of familial pressures and expectations. For Mandy, that meant being a lesbian, a quaker, and a radical agitator (at one point in jail for 90 days).

In this episode, Mandy shares stories of:  

-discovering the Quaker tradition as a teen

-sleeping in central park and hitchhiking all the way to San Francisco

-finding a home at Maud's Study

-protesting the war in Vietnam

-the impact of Harvey Milk's assassination

-reconnecting with her brother after 50 years, and continuing to search for her sister to this day

**Help us find Delores!!! It's been six decades and Mandy is still looking for her sister. Please share any leads with us at [email protected] and help us spread the word by sharing our related posts on social media (@cruisingpod)

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-Cruising is reported and produced by a small but mighty team of three: Sarah Gabrielli (host/story producer/audio engineer), Rachel Karp (story producer/social media manager), and Jen McGinity (line producer/resident road-trip driver). Theme song is by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Joey Freeman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Cover art is by Nikki Ligos.

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Franco Stevens first made her mark on lesbian history in 1990, with the creation of Curve Magazine (at the time known as Deneuve, but we'll get into that later). Curve would soon become the most successful lesbian magazine in the world, committed to lesbian visibility, community-building, and documenting our history. Its pages have featured change-makers and celebrities from Melissa Etheridge to Jenny Shimizu to the cast of the L Word and everyone in-between. But it was, by no means, easy for Franco to get there.

She joins the pod to detail: 

-coming out to her (then) husband as a teenage bride

-raising money for the project when no one else believed in it

-her controversial decision to display the word "lesbian" on the cover

-bouncing back from a devastating lawsuit 

-the real reason Franco had to sell the magazine, and how she eventually bought it back

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Browse ⁠Curve's digital archive⁠ 

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Browse the ⁠schedule for 2026 Lesbian Visibility Week⁠ (April 20-26)

Learn more about ⁠the Curve Foundation⁠

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-Cruising is reported and produced by a small but mighty team of three: Sarah Gabrielli (host/story producer/audio engineer), Rachel Karp (story producer/social media manager), and Jen McGinity (line producer/resident road-trip driver). Theme song is by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Joey Freeman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Cover art is by Nikki Ligos.

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Angeli Luz was 18 years old when she sat down to research, pen, and post the “Am I A Lesbian?” Masterdoc. Over a decade later, her work has withstood the test of time having reached millions of readers worldwide. The Lesbian Master Doc, for those that don’t already know, is a 30 page research paper asking the question that Angeli herself was parsing out at the time: How do I know if I'm a lesbian? What is the difference between actual attraction and compulsory heterosexuality (comphet) fostered by the world around us?

In conversation, Angeli discusses:

-the story behind the creation of the doc

-going viral and the backlash that comes with that

-what she would change about her writing if approaching it today

-attention from celebrities like Reneé Rapp and Kehlani

-discovering her own sexual identity and coming out, for a second time, as bisexual 

Read the full “Am I A Lesbian?” Masterdoc

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The Mary Vazquez Women's Softball League was founded in 1976 in Northampton, Massachusetts. A collection of lesbian feminists (Eileen Stewart, Jean Grossholtz, Susan Tracy, and Maryann Jennings) formed the league around their values of equity, inclusion, and community. Today, Sarah sits down with long-time player, and former league commissioner, Bernie Stark to discuss: 

-The league's history and origin story

-Unique traditions, rules, and culture

-The impact of Title IX on different generations of players

-How the league decided to define "women's" softball and include trans athletes

-Growing up in a traditional home as a girl in sports

Explore the leagues website!

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-Cruising is reported and produced by a small but mighty team of three: Sarah Gabrielli (host/story producer/audio engineer), Rachel Karp (story producer/social media manager), and Jen McGinity (line producer/resident road-trip driver). Theme song is by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Joey Freeman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Cover art is by Nikki Ligos.

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They called it "The Service," the world has called them "The Janes" - this episode follows the story of Chicago's underground abortion network. From its 1965 inception, through their devastating police bust, and the eventual legalization of abortion on the federal level in 1973. Act I features Heather Booth, a Civil Rights activist who first founded the service and trained other women in her procedures and philosophies. In Act II we meet Martha Scott, a stay-at-home mom who decides to dedicate a bit of her time to a worthy cause, and ends up a central figure in the collective. Both women help paint a chilling picture of the time: including women's oppression, treatment in the medical industry, access to birth control, and the impact of "Our Bodies Ourselves."

-Stream "The Janes" documentary on HBO

-Order the book "The Story of Jane" by collective member Laura Kaplan

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Iconic comedian Margaret Cho joins us on the podcast to discuss the ups and downs of her career, and all of the ways queerness has always been part of her life. We cover topics like: 

• discovering gay people at her parents' gay bookstore 
• working at a lesbian BDSM leather shop
• the devastating impact of HIV/AIDS in her communities
• being a self-proclaimed life-long *** hag
• starring in the first Asian-American family sitcom on television, and the eating disorder that came from that 
• racism and fatphobia in Hollywood
• why Ellen Degeneres hates her

-You can find out more about Margaret Cho and her current "Choligarchy" stand-up tour at margaretcho.com 

-Follow her on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, and YouTube

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Our friend Diane took the internet by storm this winter, when she started to tell her story of coming out and falling in love as a late-in-life lesbian. With over 5 million views, and thousands of adoring commenters, we figured it was time Sarah sat down with Diane to discuss her life in more detail. They unpack everything about Diane's 77 years of compulsive heteronormativity (she is, understandably, very excited to learn the word for that). From growing up in an abusive household, to seeking refuge at the convent (where she discovers alcoholism), and finally finding love (both romantically, and on the internet), Diane brings the same vulnerability and charm we have come to know on social media.

-If you want to contribute to Diane's vacation fund, her venmo is Diane-Markel-1 (if there is no photo, or visible transactions, you're in the right place!)

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-Cruising is reported and produced by a small but mighty team of three: Sarah Gabrielli (host/story producer/audio engineer), Rachel Karp (story producer/social media manager), and Jen McGinity (line producer/resident road-trip driver). Theme song is by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Joey Freeman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Cover art is by Nikki Ligos.

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Guest Carmen Maria Machado is a writer of queer horror, essays, and short stories. She is most well-known for her memoir, In the Dream House, which came out in 2019, and really took the queer lit world by storm. In it, she brings light to a concept often shied away from - domestic violence and abuse within queer relationships.

While writing the memoir, Carmen did a lot of research into the history of domestic abuse within the lesbian community - the ways in which it is less visible, and the stories that made it into the archives despite all odds. She speaks candidly (and wittily) about all of this, including her own  personal experience, coming out journey, and writing process.

-Find more about Carmen and her work on her website

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-Cruising is reported and produced by a small but mighty team of three: Sarah Gabrielli (host/story producer/audio engineer), Rachel Karp (story producer/social media manager), and Jen McGinity (line producer/resident road-trip driver). Theme song is by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Joey Freeman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Cover art is by Nikki Ligos.

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Elaine Stott charmed audiences back in 2019 on the 39th season of CBS's Survivor. She was a shining light on her season and proved that a lesbian could, quite easily, win over the hearts of America, as well as her fellow castaways. This is Elaine's story - one of tomboyishness, and skipping school, and fierce independence. We discuss growing up in small-town Kentucky (where she broke records for the most write-ups in school history), meeting her now-wife working at the factory, and finally achieving her dream of playing Survivor. This episode is for Survivor fans and newbies alike.

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-Cruising is reported and produced by a small but mighty team of three: Sarah Gabrielli (host/story producer/audio engineer), Rachel Karp (story producer/social media manager), and Jen McGinity (line producer/resident road-trip driver). Theme song is by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Joey Freeman⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Cover art is by Nikki Ligos.

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