TheSwingNation
Northern guy and Southern Girl
A Podcast by swingers for swingers where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of Swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle and give a insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century
- 1 hour 12 minutesWild Love Theory with Naughty Gym
Wild Love Theory with Naughty Gym | Episode 240
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with April and Scott from Naughty Gym to talk about their upcoming book release, Wild Love Theory.
April and Scott share the story behind how the Wild Love Theory was created, what it really means, and how couples can begin applying it in their own relationships. They dive into the idea that many people slowly give up parts of their true selves in the name of keeping the peace—and how that can quietly erode connection over time.
Through their framework, they explore how couples can pursue more freedom, authenticity, and fulfillment while still maintaining strong ethics, communication, and safeguards. This conversation challenges traditional relationship norms and offers a fresh perspective on how to build a partnership that feels both secure and expansive.
If you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost pieces of yourself in a relationship—or wondered what it would look like to have more freedom without sacrificing trust—this episode is one you won’t want to miss.
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Tuesday Talks: First time Hotwife - Clubs or Connection First? | Episode 104
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering a heartfelt question from a listener stepping into the lifestyle for the very first time.
After 35 years of marriage, this listener is finally ready to explore her hotwife journey—but isn’t sure where to begin. She shares her desire to connect with a bull on a more personal level, and wonders if a swingers club is the right first step. Dan and Lacy break it all down, explaining why a club environment might not align with what she’s looking for right now, and how intention matters when entering the lifestyle.
They offer practical advice on where and how to meet single males, how to vet and build genuine connections, and what to expect along the way. And for those still curious about the club scene, they also share tips on how to make the most of the experience if she does decide to go.
Whether you’re brand new or just navigating a new dynamic in your relationship, this episode is all about starting with clarity, confidence, and communication.
🎧 Tune in now to hear Dan and Lacy’s advice and take your next step in the lifestyle the right way.
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Inside ENM Matchmaking with Victoria Joseph | Episode 239
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with a truly unique guest — Victoria Joseph, professional matchmaker, dating strategist, and founder of Birds of a Feather Matchmaking.
Victoria specializes in connecting people within the ethically non-monogamous, open, poly, and swinger communities — and she’s built a boutique matchmaking service designed specifically for those navigating love and connection outside of traditional relationship structures.
Dan and Lacy dive into the realities of dating in the lifestyle, and Victoria delivers expert advice on how to show up at events, make meaningful connections, and turn first impressions into lasting chemistry. From mindset shifts to practical strategies, this episode is packed with insight for anyone looking to level up their dating game.
To wrap things up, Victoria shares how listeners can join her exclusive matchmaking registry and take a more intentional approach to finding compatible partners within the lifestyle.
If you’ve ever wondered how matchmaking works in the ENM world — or how to date smarter, not harder — this episode is a must-listen.
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Tuesday Talks: Left Out in the Lifestyle - When Group Dynamics Change | Episode 103
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, a listener writes in with something that hits a little deeper — he’s starting to feel left out of his group dynamic. He’s being invited to play less and less, and he’s left wondering what changed, what he might be doing wrong, and how to handle it without making things awkward or damaging relationships.
Dan and Lacy tackle it head-on. They break down the importance of self-reflection (without spiraling), how to check in with your partner in an honest and vulnerable way, and how to approach conversations with friends in the lifestyle when dynamics start to shift. Because sometimes it’s about communication… and sometimes it’s about recognizing when a dynamic has simply evolved.
At the end of the day, it comes down to confidence, clarity, and open communication. Whether you’ve experienced this yourself or worry you might one day, this episode gives you the tools to navigate changing group dynamics the right way.
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Support the show7 April 2026, 9:00 am - 1 hour 16 minutesSecrets Hideaway Survival Guide: Pack, Play & Connect
Secrets Hideaway Survival Guide: Pack, Play & Connect | Episode 238
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before your first trip to Secrets Hideaway Resort.
With the next Swinger Society takeover just weeks away, they’re here to make sure you show up confident, prepared, and ready to have an unforgettable experience. From what to wear and what to pack, to understanding the daily flow of events and how the resort operates, they cover all the essentials that first-timers often overlook.
Dan and Lacy also share their best tips for making connections, navigating social dynamics, and setting yourself up for fun, sexy experiences without feeling overwhelmed. They talk about how to approach conversations, read the room, and get the most out of your time both day and night.
Whether you’re brand new to the lifestyle or finally making your first trip to Secrets, this episode is your ultimate guide to doing it right. Don’t miss this must-listen breakdown to help you get the absolute most out of your upcoming getaway.
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Tuesday Talks: Bare Necessities, A Real Conversation on Ditching Condoms in the Lifestyle | Episode 102
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, a listener writes in with a question a lot of couples are thinking but not asking out loud — when is it actually okay to go bare in the lifestyle, and how do you even start that conversation? They want to know what the rules are, who decides, and how couples navigate that level of trust with someone outside their primary relationship.
Dan and Lacy tackle it head-on. They break down the testing conversation, the trust conversation, and the "are we all genuinely on the same page" conversation — because going bare isn't just a physical decision, it's a relationship one.
At the end of the day, it comes down to communication, testing, and real mutual consent. Whether you've thought about it or never considered it, this episode gives you the framework to have the conversation the right way.Get Tickets to Electric Pleasures
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Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions | Episode 237
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their recent Electric Pleasures Alternative Lifestyle Festival in Atlanta, Georgia — and it was nothing short of electric.
From kandi-making meet and greets that brought everyone together, to non-stop DJs spinning everything from dance pop to dubstep, the energy stayed high all weekend long. Add in twerking and lap dance classes, packed dance floors, and plenty of playful, sexy moments, and you’ve got a party that truly delivered on every level.
Dan and Lacy give you all the behind-the-scenes insight into what it’s like hosting one of the newest and most high-energy events in the lifestyle space. They share their favorite moments, the vibe of the crowd, and how Electric Pleasures is carving out its own lane by blending music festival energy with lifestyle freedom.
Whether you were there, missed it, or are thinking about attending a future event, this episode gives you a front-row seat to one of the most exciting new parties in the alternative lifestyle scene.
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Tuesday Talks: Play, Pause or Pass? Periods in the Lifestyle | Episode 101
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they get a call from Chris, who’s dealing with a frustrating but very real situation — what happens when your period shows up right before a big lifestyle event? He wants to know how couples typically handle it, and whether being on your period is always a hard pass or if there are ways to still play within certain boundaries.
Dan and Lacy dive into the topic with their usual no-BS approach. They talk about some of the “home remedies” you should definitely avoid, as well as legitimate options that can help delay your cycle if timing is critical. They also break down how different couples approach intimacy during a period, and why it’s far more common — and accepted — than many people think.
At the end of the day, it all comes down to comfort, communication, and consent. Whether you’re navigating your first event or you’ve been in the lifestyle for years, this episode offers practical advice and reassurance around a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough.
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Love, Sex & Society with Katie Bogen | Episode 236
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Katherine (Katie) Bogen — a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology, scholar-activist with over 500K followers, and the debut author of Queering Him.
Together, they dive into her new book and unpack the social dynamics between monogamy and the lifestyle. Katie shares her perspective on how cultural norms, expectations, and moral frameworks shape the way people view non-monogamy, and how those ideas are evolving.
They also explore the many different ways couples and singles engage in ethical non-monogamy (ENM), from swinging to open relationships, and how individuals navigate identity, communication, and connection within those spaces.
Whether you’re curious about the psychology behind the lifestyle or looking to better understand the broader social landscape of ENM, this episode offers a thoughtful and engaging conversation that challenges assumptions and expands perspectives.
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Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns | Episode 100
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they hear from a frustrated fan who’s fed up with what they’re calling the catfishing epidemic — and it’s only getting worse with AI. From flawless skin, perfect outfits, and six-packs online to a very different reality in person, they’re wondering: how do you handle it? Do you call people out? Ask for verification pics or videos? Or just move on?
Dan and Lacy dive into the growing disconnect between online profiles and real-life expectations, sharing their thoughts on vetting, setting boundaries, and protecting your time and energy. They talk about practical ways to verify who you’re talking to without killing the vibe, and how to navigate those awkward moments when reality doesn’t match the hype.
Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with real-world advice on spotting red flags, avoiding disappointment, and keeping your experiences fun, sexy, and drama-free. Don’t miss this honest conversation on catfishing, AI, and the new reality of online connections.
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Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan | Episode 235
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 2 of their Bliss Cruise adventure, picking up right where last week’s story left off.
After finishing a wild beach party, the crew heads back to the ship where Lacy and Daphne attend a male review while Dan and Mike hit the casino. The night ends quietly for Dan and Lacy after watching some friends get busy at Dance & Play before deciding to call it a night.
The next day finally brings sunshine and warm weather, leading to a much-needed pool day before Glow Night. After the pool party, Daphne literally risks it all to sneak away and hook up with Dan before the night’s festivities. Dan begins feeling a little off physically but still pushes through the night, which eventually ends with a late-night jungle solarium playroom adventure.
By the next morning Dan is feeling terrible but manages to power through the Swing Nation meet-and-greet before spending the rest of the day in bed. That leaves Lacy flying solo to the fetish dinner, where friends gather for a night of bold outfits, playful spankings, and kinky entertainment before she heads to the top deck to officiate the wedding of Electric Pleasures DJ Sophie Vor.
From wild parties to sickness and everything in between, it’s a raw and hilarious look at the highs and lows of one unforgettable cruise adventure.
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