Kingdom Sexuality
Kingdom Sexuality
Join Alana, Kyle, and Tiera as they journey into the mission of uncovering God's truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They're going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex, and how couples years into their marriages can find wholesome ways to spice things up. From interviews, to "sex-timonies", and everything in-between- this is the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
- 38 minutes 27 seconds265: Christmas Q&A: Making Christmas PJs Sexy, Disagreeing About Family Time, and The Post-Holiday Letdown
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Christmas is all fun and games until you realize you haven’t had sex since the Elf on the Shelf showed up. In this special Q&A we dive into holiday stress, low desire, full houses, and how to actually prioritize each other during the chaos. Cozy up, this episode is real and super helpful!
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(00:00:00) Introduction and Episode Overview
(00:03:00) Impact of Family Dynamics on Intimacy
(00:09:00) Managing Holiday Stress and Expectations
(00:15:00) Creative Ways to Maintain Connection
(00:21:00) Balancing Family Obligations and Personal Traditions
(00:27:00) Post-Holiday Letdown and Planning Ahead
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8 December 2025, 7:00 am - 47 minutes 22 seconds264: Less Phone, More Intimacy - with Joey Odom
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Is your phone stealing more from your marriage than you realize? Joey Odom from Reclaimwell joins us to unpack the data, the spiritual side of self-control, and how couples and churches can use tech without losing intimacy. Such a needed conversation in a world that never stops buzzing.
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Approximate Timestamps:
(0:00) Introduction
(1:31) Verse Discussion
(3:01) Guest Introduction
(4:01) Joey's Story
(10:01) Reclaimwell's Journey
(15:01) Cultural Impact
(20:01) Spiritual Implications
(30:01) Practical Advice
(40:01) Impact on Relationships
(50:01) Final Thoughts and Prayer
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1 December 2025, 7:00 am - 56 minutes263: She Got Her PhD in Purity Culture with Ashley Hudson
Purity culture shaped a lot of us… but what happens when those old messages start showing up in your marriage? In this episode, therapist Ashley Hudson breaks down how shame, fear, and performance pressure sneak into intimacy and what healing can actually look like. If you’ve ever wondered why sex still feels complicated even though you’re married, this one’s going to hit home.
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- Ashley’s book
- Pearl In Process Website
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24 November 2025, 7:00 am - 54 minutes 41 seconds262: Can One Weekend Transform Your Marriage?
Tune in as we share our experience from the Weekend to Remember marriage retreat! We answer the questions you sent in on Instagram like: - what actually happens at a retreat? - how much does it cost?, - what if your spouse doesn't want to go? - how were our marriages impacted from this weekend away?
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- Family Life website
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17 November 2025, 7:00 am - 37 minutes 51 seconds261: How Often Are Couples Having Sex?
In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest questions couples ask: how often should we be having sex? We’ll break down what research actually says about sexual frequency, why comparison steals joy, and how to find a healthy rhythm that fits your marriage and season of life. This conversation will help you let go of “normal” and focus instead on connection, communication, and grace.
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10 November 2025, 7:00 am - 48 minutes 3 seconds260: Surrendering Sexuality with Dr. Juli Slattery
In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins Alana and Tiera to talk about what it really means to surrender our sexuality to God. They unpack why so many Christians struggle to trust Him with their desires, how intimacy points to something deeper, and what surrender looks like in everyday life.
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3 November 2025, 7:00 am - 31 minutes 6 seconds259: How Stress Impacts Your Sex Life
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Can stress really kill your sex life? Yep- but the flip side might surprise you. We’re breaking down the science of stress, the power of intimacy, and God’s design for connection in hard seasons.
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- Awaken Love
- Men are from Mars Women are from Venus
- Garden City
- Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
- Habits of the Household
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27 October 2025, 6:00 am - 32 minutes 15 seconds258: Breaking The Vanilla Cycle
Feeling like your sex life’s stuck on repeat? In this episode, we’re talking about how to break out of the “vanilla cycle” and bring excitement, creativity, and fun back into the bedroom. Let's make intimacy feel adventurous again!
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20 October 2025, 6:00 am - 44 minutes 10 seconds257: Testosterone: How It Affects Sex For Men and Women
Think your testosterone levels are off? Tune in as we unpack how this powerful hormone affects sex drive, energy, and connection- for both men and women. Learn the signs of imbalance, what testing looks like, and how hormones impact your marriage and intimacy!
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Resources Mentioned:
- Everlywell
- My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
- BeLovedFertility.ca: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package
- Mira Fertility: Use code KINGDOM for $40 off your order!
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13 October 2025, 6:00 am - 1 hour 6 minutes256: Overcoming Sexual Trauma with Psychotherapist Erin Walsh
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In this powerful and tender conversation, we sit down with therapist Erin Walsh to unpack how past sexual wounds can affect intimacy, marriage, and faith. Whether you’ve personally experienced trauma or love someone who has, this episode is a gentle reminder that God’s healing reaches even the most broken places- and that real intimacy is still possible!
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Resources Mentioned In The Episode:
- Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot by Mo Isom
- The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire
- Scientific American Book of Love, Sex, and the Brain by Judith Horstman
- Erin’s email: [email protected]
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6 October 2025, 6:00 am - 31 minutes 46 seconds255: Does More Sleep = More Sex?
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Does being well-rested really boost your desire? In this episode, the KS team will dive into what science and Scripture say about the link between sleep and sex. You’ll learn how prioritizing rest can fuel connection, joy, and even desire in your marriage!
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