Kingdom Sexuality
Kingdom Sexuality
Join Alana, Kyle, and Tiera as they journey into the mission of uncovering God's truths and design for sexual freedom within marriage. They're going to be tackling some big questions. Things like why couples go into marriage feeling ill-equipped about sex, and how couples years into their marriages can find wholesome ways to spice things up. From interviews, to "sex-timonies", and everything in-between- this is the Kingdom Sexuality podcast.
- 31 minutes 23 seconds281: When He Finishes Too Fast: A Shame-Free Conversation
Struggling to last as long as you'd like to? In this episode, Kyle walks us through practical techniques and emotional shifts that help sex feel more connected, enjoyable, and unhurried. If performance anxiety has been stealing your joy, this conversation is for you!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:23
Today's Verse - 1:18
Sponsor Break - 1:30
Main Topic Introduction - 1:38
Premature Ejaculation Discussion - 2:17
Strategies and Techniques - 5:59
Pelvic Floor Exercises - 10:30
Mindfulness and Breathing - 13:25
Relational Dynamics - 18:24
Foreplay and Time Management - 22:32
Professional Help and Devices - 24:27
Conclusion and Prayer - 27:28
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30 March 2026, 7:00 am - 47 minutes 48 seconds280: How To Have Great Sex During Perimenopause & Menopause
Let’s talk menopause and perimenopause- and the things no one warned us about. Tiera does a beautiful job of unpacking the physical and emotional shifts women experience, how it can impact sex, and what’s actually helpful in this season. We want to help you feel equipped and encouraged as you enter this time of life!
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- Better Sex Through Mindfulness book
- Sex Toys: Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
- Tiera’s Fertility/Menopause Doula Info: Use discount code: KSFOLLOWER for $50 off any package
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Overview - 0:00
Discussing Menopause - 0:30
Understanding Menopause Terms - 2:06
Perimenopause Symptoms - 4:19
Hormonal Changes and Effects - 6:13
Blood Work and Diagnosis - 11:00
Common Symptoms and Treatments - 14:20
Vaginal Changes and GSM - 17:09
Libido and Hormone Therapy - 23:15
Testosterone Therapy Discussion - 27:34
Positive Outlook on Perimenopause - 35:04
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23 March 2026, 7:00 am - 38 minutes 39 seconds279: Q&A: Morning Erections, My Wife's Body Hair, & Do Pillows Improve Sex?
Tune in as the KS team tackle real questions straight from IG followers- everything from body hair preferences and pursuing your spouse, to what’s actually going on with things like morning erections. Don't miss it!
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Our Episodes:
- Level Up Your Sex Life
- Add A Little Bit Of Spice episode
- Setting Up Your Future Marriage For Success
- Dispelling Wedding Night Fears
- Breaking Down Newlywed Barriers
- Birth Control episode
- Foreplay episode
- Lindsey Maestas episode
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- Unite & Ignite
- 5 Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life Freebie
- It’s Getting Hot In Here Sex Challenge
- His Pleasure Sex Challenge
- Starting Life Together Bundle
- Engagement Guide
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- Flirtation Experiment book
- Passionista book
- Intimately Us app: If you want the Just Between Us , the couples messaging app, open Intimately Us and tap ‘Chat’ in the bottom right.
- Married Dance: Use the code KINGDOMSEXUALITY for 10% off
- Christian Friendly Sex Positions
- My Counselor Online
- Better Help Counseling
- The Penis Book
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Overview - 0:12
First Question: Body Hair Discussion - 1:31
Spicing Up Marriage - 10:19
Lift Pillows and Positions - 15:16
Helping Newlyweds Feel Comfortable - 16:59
Family Planning During Engagement - 19:18
Foreplay in Long-term Marriages - 21:41
Edging Explained - 24:03
Divorce Trends Discussion - 26:13
Morning Erections Explained - 32:50
Closing Prayer - 35:24
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16 March 2026, 7:00 am - 47 minutes 2 seconds278: Is The Mental Load Killing Your Sex Life? with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
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Ever feel like you’re carrying the invisible to-do list for your entire household? Tune in as Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins us to unpack the mental load in marriage- why it causes so much tension and how couples can start sharing it better to make sex great again!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Opening and setup — 0:00–1:12
Sponsor break and guest intro — 1:12–2:04
Guest background and motivation — 2:04–7:01
Defining the mental load and its three domains — 7:01–12:54
The triple threat and implications for home life — 12:54–15:58
Externalizing the mental load and renegotiation as a team — 15:58–16:56
Mental load and sex dynamics — 16:56–23:07
Practical fairness conversations and communication — 23:07–28:03
Narration experiments and practical tools (appreciation, storytelling, and experiments) — 28:03–41:13
Closing, resources, and prayer — 41:52–44:27
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10 March 2026, 4:07 am - 48 minutes 35 seconds277: Sex Saved Our Marriage with Lindsey Maestas
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Tune in as Lindsey Maestas opens up about her journey through the ups and downs of marriage, sharing real-life tips on how to reconnect with your spouse and keep the spark alive. Lindsey's insights are super practical, so whether you're looking to strengthen your relationship or just need a little encouragement, this conversation is for you!
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Resources:
- Living Easy with Lindsey podcast
- Don’t Burn Your Own House Down
- Ruthless Elimination of Hurry
- Atomic Habits
- @livingeasywithlindsey
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Approximate Timestamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Sponsor Break - 0:28
Introduction of Guest: Lindsey Maestas - 0:34
Lindsey's Background and Book Introduction - 1:25
Discussion on Marriage and Relationships - 2:04
Lindsey's Personal Story and Challenges - 4:27
Marriage Challenges and Overcoming Them - 6:15
Importance of Intimacy and Connection - 12:24
Practical Tips for Marriage - 13:12
The Role of Prayer in Marriage - 16:54
The Impact of Technology on Relationships - 37:18
Final Thoughts and Closing Prayer - 47:56
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2 March 2026, 8:00 am - 31 minutes 27 seconds276: Patron's Choice! Sex When You're Mad At Each Other
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Can having sex when you're in the middle of a disagreement be a helpful tool...? Is "make-up sex" actually better than normal sex? Tune in as the KS team explores how heart posture affects intimacy and practical ways to foster connection amidst ongoing conflicts.
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Episode Title and Listener Engagement - 0:35
Verse of the Day - 1:03
Disclaimer on Conflict and Abuse - 1:28
Setting the Scene: Conflict and Intimacy - 2:19
Initial Reactions to the Episode Topic - 2:37
Discussion on Sex During Conflict - 3:05
Story from "Awaken Love" - 4:01
Personal Experiences and Reactions - 5:14
Exploring Anger and Intimacy - 10:38
Physical and Emotional Responses - 11:07
Conflict Resolution Strategies - 18:21
Compromise and Communication - 20:48
Makeup Sex and Emotional Intensity - 23:32
Sex as a Relationship Glue - 26:48
Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 27:46
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23 February 2026, 8:00 am - 58 minutes 58 seconds275: Be The Husband God Calls You To Be with Landon Hairgrove
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Tune in as Landon Hairgrove shares his personal journey of healing from trauma, balancing leadership in church planting, and intentionally leading his family. He shares practical advice on nurturing emotional health, fostering deep relationships as men, and becoming the man God has called you to be!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Podcast Introduction by Kyle - 0:39
Introduction of Guest, Landon Hargrove - 1:27
Landon's Background and Story - 1:36
Journey into Church Planting - 4:01
Challenges and Personal Struggles - 7:31
Realization and Change - 9:21
Importance of Family and Personal Health - 10:19
Balancing Career and Family - 12:05
Leading from a Place of Identity - 13:06
Steps for Men to Start Leading - 18:10
Finding Balance and Managing Tension - 22:32
Importance of Community and Friendship - 40:10
Closing Thoughts and Prayer - 52:27
Where to Find Landon and Resources - 54:29
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16 February 2026, 8:00 am - 1 hour 49 seconds274: Sex, Generational Sin, and Breaking the Cycle in Your Family’s Legacy with Brook Mosser
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In this episode, we explore how generational patterns and wounds impact our understanding of sexuality, marriage, and family life. Brook Mosser shares insightful perspectives on recognizing these cycles, involving God in the healing process, and practical steps to create a legacy of health and wholeness for the next generation!!
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- My Counselor Online: You get $25 off your first month when you sign up with our link
- Habits of the Household
- Ronald Rolheiser Sacred Fire
- Brook Mossers prayer book
- Intentionalparents.org
- Intentionalfatherhood.org
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Approximate Episode Timestamps
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Guest Introduction: Brooke Mosser - 1:02
Discussion on Generational Patterns - 2:41
Brooke's Personal Story and Family Background - 3:10
Understanding Generational Sin and Curses - 5:21
Epigenetics and Trauma - 8:09
The Importance of Open Conversations About Sex - 10:16
Creating a Healthy Sexual Culture in Families - 12:01
Balancing Parental Influence and Personal Responsibility - 24:16
Practical Steps for Healing and Involving Christ - 31:17
The Role of Therapy and Overcoming Financial Barriers - 38:09
Supporting a Spouse Through Generational Challenges - 40:54
Advice on Changing Legacy and Staying Committed - 47:42
Recommended Books and Resources - 50:24
Final Thoughts and Encouragement - 53:36
Closing Prayer - 57:12
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9 February 2026, 3:51 pm - 50 minutes 51 seconds273: Christians Are Missing God's Design for Sex, Food, and Rest with Justin Whitmel Earley
Unlock the secret to growth with Justin Whitmel Earley as he reveals how everyday physical practices like breathing and eating can transform your spiritual life! Dive into this episode to discover how your body can teach your soul, leading to a life full of gratitude and joy.
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- Habits of The Household
- Made For People
- The Body Teaches The Soul
- JustinWhitmelEarley.com
- @JustinWhitmelEarley
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Approximate Time Stamp:
Introduction and Welcome - 0:00
Guest Introduction: Justin Whitmel Earley - 1:34
Discussion on Habits and Spirituality - 2:38
The Importance of Physical and Spiritual Disciplines - 5:09
Breathing and Its Spiritual Significance - 8:06
The Metaphor of the Body as a Garden - 15:16
Feasting as a Spiritual Discipline - 20:28
Date Night and Its Importance - 27:35
Ordinary Fare and Eating for Love - 30:14
Discussion on the Chapter about Sex - 35:05
The Importance of Sleep - 40:41
Closing and Prayer - 46:25
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2 February 2026, 7:00 am - 47 minutes 29 seconds272: The Love Language That Matters Most with Dr. Gary Chapman
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Join us for an enlightening episode with Dr. Gary Chapman as we explore the profound impact of the Five Love Languages on relationships worldwide. Discover how personalizing how you love on your spouse can transform your connection, and why his latest book is set to be a game-changer for couples everywhere!!
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Approximate Episode Timestamps
Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast - 00:45
Getting to Know Dr. Gary Chapman - 11:02
The Origin of the Five Love Languages - 23:05
Impact and Reach of the Five Love Languages - 43:13
Understanding Love Language Fluency - 58:55
Exploring the Five Love Languages - 78:27
The New Book's Central Premise - 92:58
Final Thoughts and Closing - 109:20
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26 January 2026, 7:00 am - 47 minutes 35 seconds271: Have A Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
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In this episode, Dave and Ashley Willis join the KS team to discuss the importance of prioritizing marriage during the many seasons of life. They share insights on maintaining intimacy, debunk myths about marriage, and so much more. Want a marriage that is naked in every way? Tune in!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Introduction to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast- 00:45
Special Guest Introduction- 01:05
Guest Background and Introduction- 01:38
Discussion on Marriage Ministry- 02:48
Origin of Naked Marriage- 05:55
Current Challenges in Marriages- 07:32
Addressing Spiritual Differences in Couples- 09:32
Myths in Christian Marriages- 11:28
Changes in Marriage Over Time- 18:37
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