- 43 minutes 27 seconds316: Is Sexy Just A State Of Mind?
Looking sexy and feeling sexy are two different things, and the KS Team breaks down why. Learn how the brakes-and-accelerators work, why more lingerie won't help if your foot is still on the brake, and grab a simple exercise to try with your spouse this week! Tune in!!
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0:00 – Episode sneak peek and Welcome
0:41 – Today's verse: John 6:40
0:57 – Looking sexy vs. feeling sexy
5:48 – The myth of "I'll feel sexy when…"
9:00 – What actually makes us feel sexy (and what makes a wife feel seen)
12:17 – Finishing Well course
13:12 – The accelerator and brake analogy
15:25 – Spectatoring
16:44 – Hormones, cycles and desire
23:00 – Common brakes and accelerators
25:56 – Faith, purity culture and "Can Christian women be sexy?"
31:10 – Song of Songs and receiving a compliment
32:20 – How to feel sexier this week
38:07 – Things to do together
39:28 – Prayer and takeaways
40:16 – Closing prayer
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2 November 2026, 8:00 am - 31 minutes315: Red Flags, Green Flags, or Just Normal Marriage?
Think your spouse’s habits are a green flag, a red flag, or just a “nothing burger”? Tune in to hear the KS team chat through some scenarios that our Instagram followers once wondered, "Is this normal?" Some of them are going to surprise you...
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 – Open and welcome
00:31 – Show intro and today's verse (Ephesians 4:15)
01:02 – Instagram questions and a sponsor break
01:35 – Setting up the green, yellow and red flag game
03:12 – Sleeping in separate rooms because of snoring
04:16 – Tangent on nose strips
04:50 – Different bedtimes (11 PM vs. 3:30 AM)
07:03 – Husband plays video games after work
09:45 – Too much phone time (the daughter yelling "daddy")
10:46 – Husband cooks and preps meals, wife cleans up
11:16 – Never having an orgasm with penetration
12:00 – Couples who don't watch the same shows
14:30 – Promo for the Out of Sync course on mismatched libido
15:50 – Wife rejects intimacy before a work trip, then helps herself when he's gone
16:36 – Two king-size beds pushed together
18:38 – Trusting your husband about porn or cheating
19:20 – Wife wants to be led but won't give up control
20:12 – Wife leaves her shoes everywhere (and the shoes-in-the-house tangent)
22:19 – Couples who don't talk while eating
24:10 – Getting ready for bed at different times
24:50 – Husband loses his erection during long foreplay
25:36 – Wife doesn't know what turns her on
26:10 – Closing round: a green flag in each host's marriage
27:10 – Wrap-up and sign-off
27:41 – Closing prayer
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26 October 2026, 7:00 am - 30 minutes 8 seconds314: How To Finish At The Same Time
Ever wondered if finishing at the same time is the secret to great sex?? Or how to even do it? Tiera, Alana, and Kyle keep it real about timing, communication, and trying practical ways to get in sync- without turning the bedroom into a performance!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Intro, podcast mission, and the new orgasm course
01:25 — Audience poll on whether couples finish together
03:17 — Why do couples want to orgasm at the same time?
04:02 — Assuming everyone finishes together before marriage
05:16 — Learning each spouse’s path to orgasm
06:10 — Talking about arousal, interruptions, and cues
07:05 — Giving the slower-to-orgasm partner a head start
08:06 — Same-time orgasm is optional, not better sex
09:04 — Coordinating timing beyond penetration
10:16 — Preparing for transitions and staying present
11:35 — Communicating before the finish line
13:40 — Planning for when timing doesn’t match
14:06 — Treating it as teamwork and experimentation
15:40 — No single position makes it happen automatically
16:01 — Tips for slowing down and reducing sensation
17:44 — Using a stop signal to delay climax
19:26 — Reducing stimulation by stopping movement
20:10 — Communicating clearly and keeping what works
21:02 — Adjusting pace and reading each other’s cues
22:19 — Listener tips and real-world examples
25:25 — Learning each other’s rhythms with practice
26:30 — Why some couples take turns instead
27:15 — Final takeaway: mutual enjoyment over finishing together
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19 October 2026, 7:00 am - 53 minutes 58 seconds313: Real Marriage with Carl & Laura Lentz: Celebrity Spotlight, Betrayal, & Staying Married
This episode mentions self harm and infidelity. Please listen with care.
Carl and Laura Lentz kick off our 'Real Marriage' series! It's a raw, honest conversation about infidelity, rebuilding trust, and the hard work of healing! This is a conversation about what it really takes to rebuild a marriage from the inside out.
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Episode Hook: Facing Betrayal
00:15 — Kingdom Sexuality Podcast Introduction
01:02 — Sponsor Break
01:15 — Meet Carl and Laura Lentz
03:42 — How They Met
05:15 — Early Marriage and Sexual Expectations
08:10 — Betrayal, Infidelity, and the Breaking Point
12:45 — Choosing Healing Over Immediate Decisions
16:34 — Helping Their Children Through the Crisis
17:34 — Public Scrutiny and Starting Over
23:41 — The “Street Pharmacist” Story
25:24 — Rebuilding in Private
29:11 — Therapy, Trauma, and Doing the Work
31:59 — Rebuilding Emotional and Sexual Intimacy
39:38 — Navigating Different Desires
42:51 — Learning How to Love Each Other Better
46:10 — A Myth About Christian Sexuality
48:18 — Rapid-Fire Questions
49:21 — Where to Find Carl and Laura
49:51 — Closing Prayer
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12 October 2026, 7:00 am - 14 minutes 50 seconds312: Is It Okay To Use Toys To Help Me Orgasm?
If you have ever wondered whether a Christian woman can use a vibrator to help her orgasm, this conversation gives you a biblical framework instead of shame or guesswork! Plus Tiera and Alana even give you a sneak peek into what the toy section looks like in the Finishing Well orgasm course! (Use code FINISHING30 to get 30% off for a limited time!)
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Opening: Faith, Sex, and Orgasms
00:31 — Course Reminder, Verse, and Sponsor Break
01:03 — Is It Okay to Use Sex Toys in Marriage?
03:19 — Questions Couples Should Consider
03:51 — Communication, Consent, and Prayer
04:26 — Needing More Stimulation Is Normal
05:28 — Reassurance for Husbands
06:01 — Can Vibrators Create Dependence?
07:08 — There’s No “More Spiritual” Way to Orgasm
07:38 — Inside the Course: Toy Education and Demonstrations
09:12 — How the Course Supports Couples
09:49 — Course Sale and Enrollment Details
10:50 — Participant Testimonial
12:24 — Closing Thoughts and Prayer
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9 October 2026, 7:00 am - 14 minutes 31 seconds311: Can I Have Multiple Orgasms?
Multiple orgasms aren’t a gold standard - they’re simply one possible part of a sex life and can be a fun thing to work towards! If you can have one orgasm and you’re curious about exploring more, tune into as the KS team chats multiples and about their new Finishing Well orgasm course! Code FINISHING30 to get it 30% off!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Opening banter
00:08 — Welcome and episode introduction
00:33 — Series and course introduction
01:04 — Psalm 100:5
02:08 — Sponsor break
02:39 — What multiple orgasms are—and aren’t
03:16 — Defining multiple orgasms
04:20 — How seasons of life affect sexual exploration
05:40 — Why multiple orgasms are possible
06:45 — Creating the right conditions
07:24 — Practical ways to explore
09:03 — Communication with your spouse
09:38 — Course overview
11:18 — Prioritizing marital health
11:49 — Offer and bonus course
12:20 — Closing prayer
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8 October 2026, 7:00 am - 12 minutes 7 seconds310: How Can I Help My Wife Orgasm?
Husbands - this is the part nobody tells you: your wife’s orgasm is not a project. Because guess what? Pressure kills arousal!! Men, tune in to hear how you can support your wife in this process.
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Welcome & course introduction
01:12 — Why husbands are part of the journey
01:57 — Creating safety, not pressure
03:41 — What pressure feels like in practice
04:11 — Learning your wife’s needs and anatomy
05:52 — Celebrating progress beyond orgasm
07:13 — Showing up with a positive attitude
08:20 — How husbands can introduce the course
08:59 — Going at a comfortable pace & the guarantee
10:18 — Closing prayer
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7 October 2026, 7:00 am - 15 minutes 15 seconds309: Why Can’t I Orgasm?
"Why can’t I orgasm?" For a lot of women, the answer is not a simple fix, and it is definitely not “something is wrong with you.” This episode kicks off a limited mini-series on the female orgasm and gives you a clearer path forward if you’ve ever wondered what your body needs to get there!!
Plus, you'll hear the team talk about their new orgasm course: Finishing Well! Get it for 30% off with the code FINISHING30 for a limited time.
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:00 — Why orgasm may not be happening
00:05 — Welcome and episode series introduction
01:10 — Verse of the day
01:40 — You are not broken
02:15 — Why the course was created
02:45 — Alana’s story
04:21 — Understanding your anatomy
06:38 — The accelerator-and-brakes framework
08:44 — Identifying what may be holding you back
09:52 — What the course includes
10:55 — Why a personalized approach matters
12:02 — Time commitment and next steps
13:19 — Closing prayer
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6 October 2026, 7:00 am - 16 minutes 51 seconds308: Why Should Christians Talk About Orgasms?
Christians have been talking about sex for years, but somehow orgasm still feels like the topic we’re supposed to whisper about. But no longer. Tune in as the KS team announces their biggest project yet: Finishing Well: The Orgasm Course. Use the code FINISHING 30 to get it 30% off for a limited time!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
Opening and episode intro
01:04 — Sponsor message
01:38 — Introducing the Finishing Well course
04:27 — Why Christians should talk about orgasm
10:01 — Where to find the course and trailer
11:03 — Launch-week offer and bonus course
11:34 — Why the course is priced this way
14:27 — Final offer and closing prayer
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5 October 2026, 5:18 pm - 48 minutes 55 seconds307: What Your Spouse Really Needs Before Sex Happens
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The biggest thing sabotaging your marriage is not a lack of communication, it’s what happens when your spouse’s heart doesn’t feel safe. Josh Straub breaks down why emotional safety matters for deeper intimacy, and shares a simple daily practice couples can try to start moving closer to each other!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
0:00 — Emotional Safety in Marriage
0:35 — Welcome & Guest Introduction
1:42 — Meet Josh Straub
3:58 — What Is Famous at Home?
5:47 — Defining Emotional Safety
9:38 — Sponsor Message
10:40 — Working Through Fear and Defensiveness
14:47 — Building Emotional Awareness
17:21 — The 15-Minute Connection Exercise
21:15 — When a Spouse Is Guarded
25:31 — Why Communication Isn’t Enough
27:44 — The Intimacy “Four to Six” Trap
30:01 — Emotional Safety and Sexual Intimacy
36:25 — Different Paths to Connection
39:43 — Rethinking Purity Culture
43:26 — Rapid-Fire Marriage Advice
44:29 — Connect with Josh
44:59 — Closing Prayer
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29 September 2026, 2:13 am - 22 minutes 5 seconds306: Can Christians Swing, Say Dirty Words, Or Use Toys In The Bedroom?
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In this Q&A episode, the KS Team chats through why a wife may not orgasm from intercourse, how to think about toys in marriage, how to respond when friends think swinging is acceptable, and so much more!
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Approximate Time Stamps:
00:30 — Verse of the day & sponsor break
01:33 — Listener Q&A begins
02:05 — Orgasm during intercourse
05:11 — Finishing Well course
06:13 — Advice for difficulty orgasming
07:48 — Future episode: unusual listener questions
08:20 — Using toys during sex
14:08 — Sexual language in marriage
15:08 — Why swinging isn’t okay
18:55 — Closing prayer
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