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Today's episode is a little different from our normal format. It's my conversation with Jasmine Star on The Jasmine Star Show, and we're sharing it here because it goes deep into something I don't usually get asked about on my own show: the actual business mechanics behind Her First $100K. We talk about the $49 coaching sessions that started it all, the money story I inherited from my parents (and had to unlearn), the exact logic I used the night before I quit my job, and why "done is better than perfect" has become my whole content philosophy. If you're building something of your own, or thinking about it, this one's for you.

Jasmine’s links:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jasminestar 

Website :https://jasminestar.com/ 

00:00   Intro & the story behind the name "Her First $100K"

02:25   Documenting the money journey publicly — and why that built accountability

04:27   Rebranding to Her First $100K, and her dad's reaction

06:30   The $49 coaching sessions that started it all

08:01   From coaching, to a $97 workshop, to a course

10:30  Tori's money story: safety, risk, and her parents' fear

14:19  Why women are conditioned to avoid risk

15:35  The night before she quit her job

18:54  "Give your dollars a job": the psychology of scaling income

24:21  Her First $100K's revenue model today

28:33  What's stayed the same (consistency) vs. what she let go of

31:58  Building an email list early, and current team structure

33:53  What Tori loves doing vs. what she's delegated

42:04  The "chin video" strategy: why imperfect content wins

44:54  "Done is better than perfect": hiring, imperfection, 2026 content trends

50:05  Owning success without performing false humility

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Almost everything you've ever been told about working out was tested on men. Today's guest is here to hand you the actual playbook for your body. The one that accounts for your hormones, your cycle, and your life stage instead of pretending you're just a smaller man. In today’s episode we’re talking to Dr. Stacy Sims––exercise physiologist, nutrition scientist, and one of the leading voices on training women's bodies––about why lifting heavy protects your brain (not just your muscles), why "toning" isn't even a real thing, how to actually train through menopause instead of white-knuckling it, and why your smartwatch might be lying to you about how tired you really are. If you've ever felt like the fitness industry wasn't built with you in mind, you're absolutely right, and Dr. Sims is going to tell you exactly what to do instead.

Dr. Stacy’s Links:

Website: https://www.drstacysims.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstacysims

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00:00 Intro

00:50 The Fitness Industry's Blind Spot

02:14 When the Research Is Only About Men

04:16 Why Women Need Heavier Weights

05:42 Lifting Heavy Protects Your Brain

07:26 Strength Over Thinness

10:36 100 Healthy Years, Not Just 100

16:27 Why Women Fear Lifting Heavy

17:04 Pushing to Failure Is the Point

21:35 Where to Start: At Home, 10 Minutes

24:58 Why You Shouldn't Train Fasted

30:03 What to Eat Before You Lift

31:52 Training for Menopause, Not Against It

35:41 The Hormone Therapy Pendulum Swing

38:16 Why Girls Really Quit Sports

40:36 Your Smartwatch Is Lying to You

45:35 Relearning Your Body's Signals

46:57 Fitting Fitness Into a Busy Life

52:22 What Successful Women Know About Health

54:36 The 80/20 Rule for Life

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Today I'm answering your biggest questions about investing, retirement, and what to do with your money when the headlines start screaming recession. I get these questions constantly in my DMs, so I'm pulling the most asked — mortgage payoff vs. investing, the actual logistics of retirement withdrawals, what to do with an old 401(k) you've been ignoring, and how to finally get out of Edward Jones — and giving you real answers. My advice doesn't change based on who's in office or what the market's doing this week. It changes based on math, and I'm walking you through the math.

Additional resources:

How to Start Investing: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-invest/

What You Need to Know About Mortgages with NerdWallet’s Kate Wood: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-get-a-mortgage/

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00:00 Intro & Investing Mindset

04:41 Paying Off Your Mortgage vs. Investing

09:56 How to Withdraw Money in Retirement

16:51 Rolling Over Old Retirement Accounts

21:02 How to Leave Edward Jones

30:31 Wrap-Up & Credits

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I recently sat down on a couch in beautiful Laguna Beach with four women who've made over $100 million combined. And what they have to say will change the way you think about business. This episode is different from our usual format. It's a live panel conversation recorded at a seven-figure entrepreneur mastermind, where I'm joined by Adley Kinsman (founder of Viralish, Vanessa Marin (licensed sex therapist and co-founder of Vanessa and Xander), Maria Wendt (entrepreneur and educator who's sold over $21 million in low-ticket products), and Natasha Willis (co-founder of School of Bots). Together we get into the self-sabotaging beliefs that keep people from starting a business, what money actually buys beyond the sexy parts of entrepreneurship, whether ambition and rest can coexist, and the money beliefs each of us had to unlearn to get here.

Links:

Adley Kinsman (Viralish) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adley

Vanessa Marin (Vanessa and Xander) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/VanessaandXandr

Maria Wendt Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maria.wendt

Natasha Willis (School of Bots) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/NatashaTWillis

Learn the exact strategies to save money, pay off debt, improve your money mindset, and increase your net worth. Get your personalized plan: ⁠https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod⁠.

00:00 Intro

01:30 Self-sabotaging narratives and startup myths

04:25 From therapist to entrepreneur: overcoming the "business is dirty" belief

05:35 Making money is easier than you think

08:30 What entrepreneurship gives you beyond money

12:17 Identity before proof: what successful entrepreneurs know

14:55 The volume and obsession success requires

18:55 Ambition vs. rest: finding your version of "enough"

23:15 The moral responsibility to scale your business

29:43 Boundaries: what to share publicly

34:05 Money beliefs you had to unlearn

37:22 The ostrich effect: why you avoid your money

39:30 Making money vs. building a business

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If there’s one piece of info to take away from today’s guest, it’s that there’s no "perfect" moment to buy a home. It's about timing your life, not the market. In today’s episode, I sat down with repeat guest Daryl Fairweather –– Chief Economist at Redfin and author of Hate the Game: Economic Cheat Codes for Life, Love, and Work. We got into the real, updated math on buying a home in 2026: mortgage rates, whether prices have already peaked, the climate risk nobody's pricing in correctly, and the creative paths (co-buying, ADUs, house hacking) more people are turning to because the old rules just don't work anymore. If you've felt priced out, behind, or like homeownership might not be "in the cards" for you, this episode will change how you think about the whole decision.

Daryl’s Links:

Website: https://www.redfin.com/

Hate the Game book: https://www.hatethegamebook.com/

Daryl's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fairweatherphd/?hl=en

Learn the exact strategies to save money, pay off debt, improve your money mindset, and increase your net worth. Get your personalized plan: ⁠https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod⁠.

00:00 Intro

01:06 Is it too late to buy a home?

03:00 What winning looks like when the system feels unwinnable

04:27 Smart next moves for stuck renters and would-be buyers

06:34 Why housing may get more affordable over the next decade

08:21 Climate change and the coming insurance crisis

11:22 When does buying actually make sense? (the 5-year rule)

14:53 How job stability and housing go hand in hand

17:05 Preparing to buy: talk to a lender early

19:58 Rethinking the 20% down payment

21:16 Creative paths to homeownership: co-buying, ADUs, house hacking

25:07 Starter home vs. waiting for the dream home

27:39 How housing costs will reshape households and family life

28:58 Will the housing market crash?

32:29 Misconceptions keeping people stuck

35:54 What to do if you're priced out right now

37:24 The mindset shift: timing your life, not the market

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There's a sentence I hear from women more than almost any other: "I'm bad with money." Today's guest spent six years proving that sentence isn't a fact — it's a belief, and beliefs can change. Nir Eyal, author of Beyond Belief, breaks down the science of why we get stuck telling ourselves the same money story, and exactly how to write a new one. In his new book, Beyond Belief, he digs into why the words that follow "I am" are so dangerous, and why getting comfortable with discomfort is the real skill behind almost every financial win. We get into identity, self-trust, why you can't see your own limiting beliefs (but can spot everyone else's), and the research that proves belief can override biology. This one will change how you talk to yourself about money.

Nir’s Links:

Free Belief Change Guide: www.nirandfar.com/beyond-belief-live 

30-Day Belief Transformation Journal: nirandfar.com/beyond-belief 

Website: http://nirandfar.com 

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/nireyal/ 

Learn the exact strategies to save money, pay off debt, improve your money mindset, and increase your net worth. Get your personalized plan: ⁠https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod⁠.

00:00 Intro 

03:00 Facts vs. beliefs vs. faith 

05:00 Identity and the danger of "I am" statements

06:00 Belief can override biology

09:00 Self-trust and building your own track record

12:00 The evolutionary reason your brain resists change

16:00 The mindset shift behind getting comfortable with discomfort

22:00 Byron Katie's four questions for examining a belief

26:00 Building a "portfolio of perspectives"

30:00 Naming systemic barriers without using them as an excuse

33:00 Choosing the belief that serves you

35:00 Locus of control — why believing you have agency changes outcomes

42:00 Challenging your thinking without tipping into toxic positivity

44:00 Why manifesting backfires (and what works instead)

49:00 Mental contrasting 

52:00 Why chaos and struggle mean you're alive

54:00 Tori's own story of choosing to feel pain instead of avoiding it

55:00 The rat study — how belief in possible rescue changes persistence

1:00:00 Persistence over intelligence — the real predictor of success

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In this episode, I sat down with the “godfather of financial independence,” aka JL Collins,  to demystify investing in the most approachable way possible. JL has been in the game for over 50 years and wrote The Simple Path to Wealth—a book that’s helped nearly a million people understand how to grow their money with confidence. And today, he’s breaking it all down for you. We get real about what investing actually is, why you don’t need a finance degree to build wealth, and how the entire financial industry has tried to gatekeep this information. JL shares why index funds are his go-to, how to avoid common investing mistakes, and why market dips aren’t disasters—they’re opportunities. Whether you’re brand new to investing or just want a no-BS refresh on the basics, this conversation is for you.

JL’s Links:

The Simple Path to Wealth: https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Simple-Path-to-Wealth-(Revised- Expanded-Edition)/JL-Collins/9798893310474

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00:00 Intro

03:24 Personal Finance Beginnings

06:44 The Birth of a Financial Blog

14:26 Understanding Index Funds

28:31 The FIRE Movement Explained

36:02 Calculating Financial Independence

40:28 Market Volatility: Should You Change Your Strategy?

44:48 Adjusting Investment Strategies Near Retirement

53:44 Ethical Investing: Pros and Cons

01:01:21 The Role of Financial Advisors

01:06:53 Key Insights for Successful Investing

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College is expensive, but there's money on the table that most families never touch. Today's guest walked away from college completely debt-free, not because she was a straight-A student or a star athlete, but because she treated scholarships like a system instead of a luck-based lottery. Jocelyn Pearson, founder of The Scholarship System, has since helped families across the US secure almost $17 million in scholarships. We get into the myths keeping families from even trying, why the small-dollar scholarships matter more than the $100K ones, how to build reusable application materials so you're not starting from scratch every time. If you've got a student headed to college (or you're the student), this one is required listening.

Jocelyn’s links:

Free webinar: https://thescholarshipsystem.com/financialfeminist 

Scholarship Superpower Quiz: thescholarshipsystem.com/financialfeministquiz 

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00:00 Intro

01:18 Jocelyn's $126K Scholarship Story

03:41 Why Strategy Beats Luck

04:13 The 4 Biggest Scholarship Myths

07:18 The Real Reason Families Don't Apply

10:51 The "All or Nothing" Mindset

13:43 Building a Reusable Essay System

16:32 Other Reusable Application Assets

17:13 What Committees Are Really Looking For

21:05 How to Talk About Your Major

21:59 Who Wins When Two Finalists Are Equal

23:31 How (and How Not) to Use AI

27:35 The Overlooked Small-Dollar Scholarships

33:28 Department Scholarships & Asking for More

33:30 When Your Financial Situation Changes

35:21 Navigating the Middle-Income Gap

47:47 The Student Loan Forgiveness Reality Check

49:52 The True Cost of Co-Signing

52:54 The #1 Trait of Successful Scholarship Families

54:53 Jocelyn's Free Resources & Quiz

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What does it mean to live a truly “rich life?” This is a re-release of one of our favorite conversations: Tori sits down with Ramit Sethi, New York Times bestselling author of I Will Teach You To Be Rich and host of the Netflix show How to Get Rich. They get into what it actually means to build a rich life, why renting can beat buying even when you can afford to buy, how to negotiate literally everything (including your rent), and what couples are really fighting about when they fight about money — hint: it's never actually about Target.

Ramit’s Links:

Website: https://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ramit/?hl=en

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/money-for-couples-with-ramit-sethi/id1577864998

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00:00 Intro: What Is a Rich Life?

01:13 Ramit's First Money Memory

05:01 It's Expensive to Be Poor

05:20 Playing the Game While Changing the System

07:25 Why High School Finance Classes Don't Work

11:13 The Case for Renting Over Buying

17:21 How to Negotiate Your Rent

22:38 Building a Course Business

24:44 What Couples Actually Fight About

27:58 Defining Your Rich Life

35:50 What Women Are Taught About Money

37:17 The Money Dial Exercise

38:37 The Michelin Star Story

40:38 Money & Marriage: Ramit's Personal Experience

42:30 The Monthly Money Date

44:03 Gendered Fears in Relationships

51:44 Women Out-Earning Their Partners

52:05 The $400K Debt Couple

53:02 Your Feelings About Money ≠ Your Balance

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If you’ve been struggling to break free from credit card debt––you’re in the right place. In this episode, we’re replaying one of our most commonly requested topics: credit card debt. We’ll uncover how sneaky interest rates can chip away at your hard-earned money every single day and explore powerful strategies to help you tackle that high-interest debt so you can finally breathe easy.

As someone who’s dedicated to helping women save money, invest, and feel financially confident, I firmly believe that understanding your debt is the first crucial step in breaking free from it. When we take back control of our finances, we collectively fight the patriarchy—by making ourselves richer, savvier, and fully in control of our money. 

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00:00 Intro

00:48 Understanding credit card debt

02:26 How debt and interest work

07:20 Strategies for paying off debt

08:32 Using credit cards responsibly

14:53 Emergency funds vs. debt payoff

19:16 Debt payoff methods: snowball vs. avalanche

22:36 The role of personal loans

32:30 Setting financial goals and staying motivated

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This week, we’re bringing you a special replay crossover episode with Lucie Fink — podcast host, video producer, digital educator, and host of “The Real Stuff with Lucie Fink.” In this insightful conversation, Tori details her journey to becoming a multimillionaire, demystifying the concept of "coast FIRE" and the significance of reaching that initial $100,000 savings goal. Tori generously shares her knowledge on effective investment strategies and highlights the power of financial literacy. This discussion goes beyond building wealth — it's a call to normalize conversations about money, sex, societal norms, and navigating the balance between privacy and openness in our personal lives.

Lucie’s links:

The Real Stuff Podcast: https://lnk.to/TheRealStuffWithLucieFink 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/ 

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00:00 The power of financial stability

07:16 From her first $100K to multi-millionaire

29:41 Navigating the challenges of financial transparency and safety 

39:12 Authenticity, success, and mental health online

40:17 Addressing internet trolls and financial transparency

41:42 Navigating body image 

47:50 Exploring confidence, pain, and self-care

50:07 Discussing future plans and personal growth

51:57 The realities of publishing and achieving milestones

54:39 Personal relationships and privacy boundaries

01:03:17 The importance of financial conversations in relationships

01:11:00 Understanding prenups and financial independence

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