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If you’re thinking about quitting your job in 2026 and finally starting your own business, this episode is your practical roadmap. I’m joined by lawyer-turned-entrepreneur Sam Vander Wielen, who left corporate law with multi-six-figure student loans, built a multi-seven-figure digital products company, and learned firsthand what entrepreneurship can and cannot do for your happiness. We’re talking about how to financially plan your exit from a 9-to-5, what legal steps you need (LLC, contracts, trademarks), and how to stop tying your worth to income, vanity metrics, or job titles. If you want a sustainable, smart plan for quitting your job and building a profitable business in 2026, this conversation will show you how to do it without burning your life down in the process.
Sam’s links:
Get Sam’s book: https://www.samvanderwielen.com/book/ Listen to Sam’s podcast: https://www.samvanderwielen.com/podcast
Sign up for Sam’s newsletter: https://www.samvanderwielen.com/easy-emails
Visit https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod to see the show notes and read the transcript of this episode!
0:00 Intro
01:15 The Happiness Myth
04:30 Why We Tie Happiness to Milestones
07:30 What a Business Can (and Can’t) Give You
11:00 Money as a Tool for Safety and Choice
15:00 Sam’s Corporate Law Wake-Up Call
20:00 The Stability Myth of Corporate Jobs
25:30 Planning a Real Exit From Your 9–5
30:30 Legal Basics for Starting a Business
36:00 Why Entrepreneurship Doesn’t Fix Your Life
41:30 Redefining Success Before You Leap
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Millionaires don’t just buy things––they buy time. And if you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly busy but somehow never getting closer to the life you actually want, this episode is for you. In our second installment of the millionaire mindset series, I’m breaking down what I call time wealth. The idea that real wealth isn’t just about how much money you make, but how much of your life you get to keep. I’m sharing exactly how millionaires think about time, the sneaky ways you’re leaking it without realizing, and the small but powerful shifts you can start making right now to buy back your evenings, your energy, and your future—even if you’re not rich yet.
Visit https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod to get your free time audit worksheet!
Catch up on episode 1 of millionaire mindset: https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/millionaire-mindset-taking-risks/
00:00 Intro
00:44 What the millionaire mindset series is about
01:22 Time wealth: buying back your time
02:11 Time is your greatest asset, not money
05:15 Time leaks: where you're wasting time
05:36 Decision fatigue - spending too much time deciding
10:00 Doing $10 tasks with $100 goals
12:43 Reactive living - letting others' urgency dictate your day
14:26 Unpaid emotional labor
15:50 How millionaires audit their time ruthlessly
19:58 Delegating before you're ready
25:23 Habit stacking to maximize your time
30:17 Saying no early and often
33:25 Time wealth is self-respect
35:14 This week's wealth move
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If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the “right” money things on paper but still feel anxious, stuck, or behind, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation, I’m joined once again by Mimi Bouchard––trailblazing entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and author––to break down how to shift your money mindset in 2026 by changing your identity, your beliefs, and the way you relate to yourself long before the numbers change. We talk about the psychology of money, why not all of your thoughts are true, how to stop bracing for financial disaster, and how small, daily mindset shifts can completely transform your financial behavior. Tune in to learn how to rewire your brain to see opportunity, rebuild trust, and start showing up like your future wealthy self so you can create lasting financial security and freedom this year.
00:00 Intro
01:40 How your brain filters opportunity
03:50 Why mindset matters more than being good at math
06:10 How beliefs drive behavior before numbers ever do
08:30 Not all of your thoughts are true
11:50 The "why not me?" mindset shift
17:30 Women and the fear of wanting more
20:50 Identifying limiting beliefs in everyday moments
28:20 Bracing for impact - the low-grade money anxiety trap
35:10 The bounce back rate vs. perfectionism
42:50 Building trust with yourself around money
47:30 Adding positive habits instead of restricting
50:30 Getting comfortable with having more money
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If you’re making good money and still feel broke, stressed, or behind, something is off and it’s not you. Today, I’m joined by my friend Vivian Tu, former Wall Street trader, CEO and founder of Your Rich BFF, and New York Times bestselling author of Well Endowed, to talk about what it really takes to get rich and stay rich. We’re calling out why paying your bills and saving is not the finish line, how optimization culture keeps high earners trapped in a constant game of “never enough,” and how to start using your money as a tool to buy time, freedom, and real security instead of status symbols. This episode is about ditching performative wealth, building systems that quietly grow your money, and finally feeling powerful, calm, and in control of your financial life.
Vivian’s links:
Website: https://www.yourrichbff.com/
Grab your copy of Well Endowed: http://richbffbook.com/
Visit https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod to stay up to date and find any resources mentioned on our show!
00:00 Intro
00:51 Money traumas from childhood & the Chinese buffet story
03:17 How money narratives dictate everyday decisions
06:16 Knowing the price of everything but the value of nothing
08:14 Money as a tool to buy your best life
10:47 What comes after financial basics (Finance 2.0)
13:01 Building infrastructure vs. working harder
15:38 Strategic spending: "Do I want this or do I want people to know I have it?"
18:33 The sleep investment story
24:48 Why HENRYs (High Earners Not Rich Yet) feel stressed
28:21 The B-plus life trap & lifestyle inflation
31:24 Wasted opportunity, potential, and time
33:20 Kids will make you poorer - childcare costs
36:10 The prenup with built-in raises for childcare
37:34 Unpaid labor & the "good mom" trap
38:53 Cooking as unpaid labor vs. celebrity chef art
40:06 Speaking kindly to yourself about money
42:31 Making peace with your own financial timeline
45:07 The all-or-nothing mindset is killing progress
49:56 15 minutes is better than no minutes
50:17 Book takeaway: Chase security, stability & freedom
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If you’re over 35 and constantly feeling like you’re behind financially, you’re not alone. In today’s episode, I’m joined by Jean Chatzky––longtime financial journalist, bestselling author, and founder of HerMoney––whose work has shaped generations of women’s financial literacy, including my own. Jean opens up about starting over at 40 after divorce, job loss, and losing a parent. She shares exactly what she learned about saving, investing, and rebuilding confidence when time feels limited. We talk about why so many women feel behind no matter their age, the biggest money mistakes women 35+ make, how to course-correct without panic, and how to use tools like retirement accounts, HSAs, and investing strategies to build a future that still works, even if you didn’t start early.
Jean’s links:
Investing Club: https://join.investingfixx.com/
Website: https://hermoney.com/
HerMoney Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hermoney-with-jean-chatzky/id1098802558
How She Does It Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-she-does-it/id1691787429
Visit https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod to stay up to date and find any resources mentioned on our show!
00:00 Intro: Never too late to save
00:42 What "owning your money" means
02:00 Jean's story: Starting over at 40
03:49 What to prepare for & do differently
06:36 Biggest mistake: Too much cash, not enough invested
10:56 Why Gen X women feel behind
16:32 Financial boundaries with aging parents & adult children
21:06 HSAs as investing vehicles
27:15 Why "feeling behind" is universal
34:20 Quick-fire Q&A
42:29 Advice for women feeling paralyzed
45:51 Where to find Jean
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If money conversations keep turning into fights, it’s not because you’re bad with money, it’s because you were never taught how to talk about it together. In today’s episode I’m joined by Andy Hill, award-winning family finance coach, host of Marriage, Kids & Money, and author of Own Your Time, to talk about why money fights are rarely about money, how invisible labor and emotional labor quietly erode relationships, and what it actually takes to build a life that feels aligned instead of exhausting. We unpack how to stop repeating the same financial arguments, how to communicate more equitably with your partner, and how to redefine success so time (not just money) becomes your most valuable currency. Whether you’re partnered, parenting, or just rethinking what “having it all” really means, this conversation will help you build a life you don’t need to escape from.
Andy’s links:
Website: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com
Book: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/book/
Visit https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod to stay up to date and find any resources mentioned on our show!
00:00 Intro
00:47 Why You Need to Dream About Your Time
01:49 The Mailbox Exercise: What Would You Stop Doing?
03:09 The FaceTime Birthday That Changed Everything
05:15 Karaoke Duets & Life Priorities
06:03 Debunking "Keep Your Head Down Until 65"
08:53 When Money Becomes Your Currency vs. Time
11:45 The Identity Crisis of Leaving Corporate
14:27 How to Know When a Role Isn't Working
16:30 Emotional Labor & Equity in Marriage
20:30 The Volcano Fight: When Money Arguments Aren't About Money
33:10 Financial Abuse & Protecting Yourself as a Stay-at-Home Parent
38:27 Prenups, Postnups & Why You Need One
41:27 The Expense That Saved Thousands Without Changing Happiness
43:38 Why Traditional FIRE Didn't Work for Our Family
48:36 The Power of Pivoting & Financial Confidence
50:26 First Steps Toward Time Freedom
55:03 Small Steps to Reclaim Your Life
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If you’ve already fallen off your New Year’s goals, or you feel like you’re constantly fighting yourself when it comes to money, health, or habits—this episode is for you. Today on Financial Feminist, I’m joined by returning guest Thais Gibson, a world-renowned expert on the subconscious mind, to explain why willpower alone doesn’t work, and what actually does. We break down how 95% of your behavior is driven by subconscious programming, why “self-sabotage” isn’t real, and how you can rewire limiting beliefs and build goals that stick in just three minutes a day. If you’re ready to start creating habits that actually stick, this conversation will completely shift how you think about motivation and success.
Thais’s links:Website: http://university.personaldevelopmentschool.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/?hl=en
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ
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00:00 Intro
00:47 Intentional Goal Setting
01:54 Understanding Your Subconscious Mind
04:27 How Subconscious Blocks Prevent Goal Achievement
07:18 Step 1: Converting Goals into Subconscious Language
14:05 Step 2: The 21-Day Rewiring Process
20:32 Step 3: Linking Goals to Your Subconscious Needs
28:44 Step 4: Discovering Your Personal Subconscious Needs
38:38 Why Routine & Structure Matter for Habit Formation
51:00 Removing Limiting Beliefs: The 3-Step Framework
54:27 Why Avoiding Money Actually Creates More Stress
57:19 Your 3-Minute Morning/Evening Routine
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If you’re waiting for the “right time” to invest, I need you to hear this––the right time is now. In this final part of my Personal Finance Cheat Sheet series, I’m breaking down exactly how to start investing in 2026 — step by step, without the jargon and without gatekeeping. Investing isn’t just for rich people; it’s how many people become rich, and I’m walking you through how compound interest, long-term strategy, and simple systems can help you build real wealth even if you’re starting with very little. If the stock market has felt confusing, intimidating, or downright scary, this episode will show you how to finally get off the sidelines and start making your money work for you.
00:00 Intro
00:22 What Investing Really Is
01:40 Why Investing Works Long-Term
03:00 Debunking "It's Too Confusing"
08:11 Time in the Market vs. Timing the Market
10:00 Step-by-Step Investing Roadmap
17:30 Where to Set Up Your Account
18:37 Biggest Mistakes New Investors Make
21:34 Long-Term Wins Over Short-Term Gains
Missed an episode in our Personal Finance Cheat Sheet series? Get caught up:
The 3 Mistakes You’re Making with Your Money Resolutions (Personal Finance Cheat Sheet Pt. 1): https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/money-resolutions/
How To Budget & Pay Off Debt (Personal Finance Cheat Sheet Pt. 2): https://herfirst100k.com/financial-feminist-show-notes/how-to-budget/
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If you’ve ever avoided budgeting because it felt stressful, restrictive, or shame-inducing, this episode is going to change everything. In part two of my Personal Finance Cheat Sheet series, I’m breaking down how to budget in a way that actually works and how to use that budget to finally pay off your debt without shame, stress, or tracking every single penny. We’re talking about why most budgeting methods fail, how to reframe your budget as a permission slip instead of a punishment, and the exact system I use to help you make real progress on credit cards, student loans, and more. If you want actionable clarity around budgeting and debt payoff in 2026, get ready to take notes!
Visit https://herfirst100k.com/ffpod to join our 5 Day Debt Challenge and find any resources mentioned in the show!
00:00 Intro
00:15 Why Budgeting Feels Restrictive
01:48 The Gas Gauge Analogy & Why Budgets Matter
03:11 Why Most Budgeting Methods Fail
04:14 The 50/30/20 Rule Explained
05:36 Why the 50/30/20 Rule Isn’t Perfect
06:56 Introducing the Three Bucket Budget
08:24 How to Automate Your Financial Goals
10:50 Progress Over Perfection: Flexible Budgeting
12:19 How to Prioritize Debt Payoff
14:39 Understanding Different Types of Debt
16:39 The High Cost of Credit Card Debt
18:08 The Snowball vs. Avalanche Method
19:47 Free Five-Day Debt Challenge Resource
20:22 How to Find More Money in Your Budget
21:44 Negotiating Your Bills & Saving More
23:41 You Are Not a Bad Person for Having Debt
24:59 Final Thoughts & What’s Next in the Series
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If your New Year’s financial resolutions already feel shaky, you might be sabotaging yourself without even realizing it. In this episode, I’m breaking down the three biggest ways people wreck their money goals before January is even over, from setting vague, emotionally disconnected goals to falling into an all-or-nothing mindset and failing to track progress. This is the first episode in our brand-new Personal Finance Cheat Sheet series, and I’m giving you practical, realistic tools to finally follow through in 2026 — without burnout, perfectionism, or shame.
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Science Backed Goal Setting Episode: https://play.megaphone.fm/vtgw675btq6fuky50hmoeg
00:00 Intro
01:57 Why New Year’s Resolutions Often Fail
03:56 Mistake 1
08:44 How to Anchor Your Financial Goals
13:34 Reflection Prompts for Goal Setting
15:35 Mistake 2
24:14 Shiny Object Syndrome & Chasing Novelty
27:54 The Power of Consistency and Bare Minimums
30:08 Free Personalized Money Plan Resource
31:54 Mistake 3
36:34 How to Track Progress & Build Motivation
41:06 The Money Date Practice
43:46 Building Self-Trust and Accountability
47:06 Closing Thoughts & What’s Next in the Series
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If you thought “hacking” your money meant clipping coupons or extreme budgeting, today’s episode is going to blow you away. Earlier this year, I sat down with Chris Hutchins, of the All the Hacks podcast, to talk about how to maximize value in every area: spending, saving, earning, and traveling. Chris spoke to us about real, actionable hacks that go way beyond clipping coupons—including side hustles that don’t require starting a business, ways to “game the system” to cut costs on everything from groceries to luxury hotels, and how to rack up credit card points without going into debt. If you want to stop overspending, learn to travel smarter, or create extra income on the side, pull up a chair.
Chris’s links:
Website: https://allthehacks.com/
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00:00 Intro
07:01 Side Hustles and Creative Money-Saving Strategies
20:03 Travel Hacking and Credit Card Points
24:59 Advanced Travel Hacking Tips
43:14 Negotiating Airbnb and Hotel Upgrades
46:58 Finding Unclaimed Money
55:51 Credit Card Application Strategies
01:00:16 Teaching Kids About Money
01:09:23 Bora Bora Travel Deals
01:12:36 Non-Money Related Life Hacks
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