The Female Dating Strategy

The Female Dating Strategy

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  • 44 minutes 6 seconds
    What Is FDS: Rekindling The Communal Flame

    Welcome back, queens! We are hyped and honored to kick-start the new era of FDS, and we hope to bring back the liveliness and zest of the OG days. We shall do our best

    Buckle up for the first episode of the year. We are going to publish every other week and make sure we are consistent before getting back to weekly episodes, and ultimately open the subscriber-only content back up. 

    As we shared on Savanna's Swan Song (last pod), If you are still subscribed to the Patreon, we very much value your contribution that goes solely towards production and maintenance costs at the moment.


    FOR YOUR REFLECTION:

    pillars of FDS, or layers of the cake, or stories of the pyramid

    1. Leveling up - "who do I want to be?"
    2. Standards and boundaries 
    3. Date with intention - continuous vetting that reflects (2)


    SEND US YOUR

    • Level-up stories
    • Roast-a-scrote tales
    • Advice (tough love)
    • Guest suggestions 

    at: [email protected]


    We love you all and are super excited to restart the conversation and to keep the flame alive 👑

    10 January 2026, 5:09 am
  • 17 minutes 24 seconds
    Savanna's Swan Song

    Join the FDS hosts as they fete and say a bittersweet goodbye to the GOAT: Savannah, OG FDS Queen! We discuss her plans, the State of the Pod, and the goals for FDS in 2026!

    3 January 2026, 3:46 am
  • 44 minutes 19 seconds
    Logical Fallacies Part 2

    Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon queens, the Bonus Queens dive deeper into the manipulative tactics commonly used in debates about dating, relationships, and gender dynamics. 

    🎙️ Episode Resources & Links

    📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
    Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
    👉 Download here

    💖 Support the Podcast
    Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon!
    👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon

    🌐 Explore More FDS
    Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
    Twitter: @femdatstrat
    Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

    16 July 2025, 4:17 pm
  • 25 minutes 1 second
    How To Have A Hot Girl Summer

    Originally released as bonus content for our Patreon baddies, we're bringing this one out of the vault just in time for summer. In this episode, the Queens break down what it really means to have a Hot Girl Summer FDS style.

     

    🎙️ Episode Resources & Links

    📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
    Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
    👉 Download here

    💖 Support the Podcast
    Want more FDS content? Join us on Patreon!
    👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon

    🌐 Explore More FDS
    Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
    Twitter: @femdatstrat
    Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

    9 July 2025, 3:59 pm
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    Emotional Maturity: The Foundation of a Secure Partner

    The Queens unpack emotional maturity, why it’s the core of any functional relationship and how to recognise it (or the lack of it).

     

    🎙️ Episode Resources & Links

    📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
    Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
    👉 Download here

    💖 Support the Podcast
    Want more FDS content? Join us on our NEW and IMPROVED Patreon!
    👉 Join the Level Up Lounge on Patreon

    🌐 Explore More FDS
    Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
    Twitter: @femdatstrat
    Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

    2 July 2025, 6:00 pm
  • 1 hour 10 minutes
    Framed and Filtered: Exposing Inequality in Film with Sarah from Lainey Gossip

    Rose is joined by Sarah from Lainey Gossip to dissect the deeply embedded inequalities in the filmmaking and film criticism industries.

    🎙️ Episode Resources & Links

    📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
    Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
    👉 Download here

    🌐 Explore More FDS
    Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
    Twitter: @femdatstrat
    Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

    25 June 2025, 3:06 am
  • 47 minutes 13 seconds
    Momsplaining Love: A Mother's Day Special

    The Queens dissect the romantic, cultural and generational norms associated with Mother's Day and what this means for dating.

    📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
    Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.

    🌐 Explore More FDS
    Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
    Twitter: @femdatstrat
    Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

    18 June 2025, 9:00 am
  • 41 minutes 1 second
    Inside the Mind of Misogyny: A Conversation with Lundy Bancroft on Toxic Masculinity

    The Queens are once again joined by renowned author and domestic abuse expert, Lundy Bancroft, whose groundbreaking work Why Does He Do That? has helped millions of women recognize the patterns of coercive control and emotional abuse in intimate relationships, to discuss toxic masculinity. 

     

    Lundy Bancroft's first FDS appearance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IH7Y0rJ8Kkw 

    🎙️ Episode Resources & Links

    📘 Free Download – FDS Handbook
    Level up your dating strategy with the official Female Dating Strategy Handbook.
    👉 Download here

    💖 Support the Podcast
    Like what you hear? Help us keep the message going:
    👉 Donate via PayPal

    🌐 Explore More FDS
    Website: thefemaledatingstrategy.com
    Twitter: @femdatstrat
    Instagram: @_thefemaledatingstrategy

    11 June 2025, 9:00 am
  • 40 minutes 52 seconds
    The Tragedy of Heterosexuality: In Conversation with Dr Jane Ward

    The Queens sit down with the brilliant Dr. Jane Ward, author of The Tragedy of Heterosexuality to discuss why modern day heterosexual relationships often leave women feeling shortchanged. 

    Check out Dr Jane's book here: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Tragedy-Heterosexuality-56-Sexual-Cultures/dp/1479851558 

     

    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html  

    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat  

    Follow us!

    Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy  

    Website: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com    

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat  

    @femdatstrat

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/ 

    4 June 2025, 9:00 am
  • 37 minutes 7 seconds
    Gaslight, Deflect, Repeat: The Logical Fallacies Used to Derail Women's Standards

    Originally a bonus episode for our Patreon Queens, this  deep dive is now unlocked for the public! In this episode, the Bonus Queens break down the most common logical fallacies men and society at large use to dismiss women’s boundaries, dodge accountability, and manipulate the dating narrative in their favour.

    https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/ 

    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html 

    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat  

    Follow us!

    Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy   

    Website: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com    

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat  

    @femdatstrat

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/ 

    28 May 2025, 1:00 pm
  • 46 minutes 39 seconds
    Safety First! Non-Negotiables for Smart Dating

    The Queens discuss how you can keep yourself safe when dating. Safety first!

    Download the FDS Handbook for free here: https://pdfcoffee.com/fds-handbook-v135-pdf-free.html 

    Paypal: https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/femdatstrat 

    Follow us!

    Weekly Bonus Content on Patreon:  https://www.patreon.com/TheFemaleDatingStrategy  

    Website: https://www.thefemaledatingstrategy.com   

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/femdatstrat 

    @femdatstrat

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_thefemaledatingstrategy/ 

    21 May 2025, 1:00 pm
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