If you could go back to the exact moment your "Performance Folder" was created—the instant you decided you had to be perfect, useful, or invisible to be seen—what would you say to that younger you?

In this pivotal solo episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles introduces The Luma Effect: the lifelong cascade that begins when a child internalizes the truth of their intrinsic worth before the world hands them a conditional script. Building on his powerhouse conversations with Rebecca Goldstein on the mattering instinct and Daniel Coyle on the art of flourishing, John explores how we can decommission the "outdated reports" in our heads to reclaim our significance.

As we count down to the February 24th launch of his children’s book, You Matter, Luma, John explains why the window between ages four and eight is "wet cement" for a child’s soul. He reveals how the Luma Effect serves as preventive medicine against the Arrival Fallacy and the Optimization Trap, offering a practical roadmap for parents, leaders, and high achievers to move from "treasure hunting" for worth to "treasure creation" from within.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/luma-effect-performance-script-intrinsic-worth/

All links gathered here: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

Companion Reflection & Integration Resources

Inside The Ignited Life, each episode in the You Matter series is paired with guided reflection prompts and grounding practices. This week, we explore how to "re-parent" your inner child by applying the Luma Effect to your own daily self-talk.

Explore the community: https://TheIgnitedLife.net

Connect with the Ecosystem

• Pre-order You Matter, Luma (releasing February 24): https://youmatterluma.com/
• Start your ripple journey
• Support the Movement: https://StartMattering.com
• Watch on YouTube: Search for Passion Struck with John R. Miles

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• The Luma Effect Defined: The mechanics of the "truth ripple" and how it serves as the positive inverse to the speech impediment of the soul.
• Treasure Creation vs. Hunting: How to apply Daniel Coyle’s and Barry Schwartz’s philosophy to move away from a performance-based identity.
• The Wet Cement Window: Why ages 4–8 are critical for solidifying self-concept and how early affirmations strengthen executive function and resilience.
• The Bending Tree Lesson: Using affective neuroscience to build a spirit that bends with life’s storms instead of breaking under the weight of comparison.
• The Arrival Fallacy & Burnout: Why "one more win" never fills the hole in the soul and how intrinsic mattering acts as a permanent buffer.
• The Wordless Tie in Action: How the simple ritual of reading You Matter, Luma creates a dual-healing moment for both the child and the adult.
• The Pass the Ripple Challenge: Practical steps to move from internal worth to external kindness through a global initiative.

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Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed are those of the host and guests and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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What if the secret to a meaningful life isn’t "high performance" but a state of being unusually alive?

In this essential installment of the Passion Struck podcast, New York Times bestselling author Daniel Coyle joins John R. Miles to discuss his transformative new book, Flourish: The Art of Building Meaning, Joy, and Fulfillment (Feb 2026).

The author of The Culture Code and The Talent Code, Coyle has spent decades decoding the secrets of the world’s most effective groups. In Flourish, he pivots from how we perform to how we feel, exploring why some environments—from a bustling Cleveland deli to the high-stakes world of Navy SEALs—vibrate with a "shared electricity" that others lack.

Coyle argues that flourishing is not a treasure hunt we go on, but a treasure we create through intentional design. He unpacks the "science of presence," the shift from command-and-control to gardener leadership, and why mattering is the ultimate precondition for group flow. Through stories of miners trapped in Chile and strangers gathered at a long table in Paris, Coyle reveals how we can stop behaving like "attendees" in our own lives and start becoming participants in our own aliveness.

This conversation explores the fundamental human need for significance in a world obsessed with metrics. How do we move beyond just "doing fine" to feeling truly, vibrantly relevant?

If you are a leader, a parent, or anyone seeking to move from endurance to aliveness, this episode provides a powerful framework for cultivating conditions in which human significance is reinforced and flourishing becomes inevitable.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web, recognizing the show’s commitment to thoughtful, human-centered conversations like this one.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/how-to-flourish-daniel-coyle/

Download a Free Companion Reflection Guide: https://www.theignitedlife.net/p/how-to-flourish-gardener-leader-daniel-coyle

Connect with John Keynote speaking, books, and podcast: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

Pre-Order the Children’s Book You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/

Learn More About Daniel Coyle: https://danielcoyle.com

Flourish: The Art of Building Meaning, Joy, and Fulfillment is available wherever books are sold.

Thank you to our sponsors

Caraway’s cookware set is a favorite for a reason—it can save you up to $190 versus buying items individually. Plus, if you visit Carawayhome.com/PASSIONSTRUCK, you can take an additional 10% off your next purchase.

Check out Kalshi and use my code SB60 for a great deal: https://kalshi.com

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• Why life is not a "treasure hunt" but a process of "treasure creation"
• The distinction between high performance (efficiency) and aliveness (flourishing)
• How to transition from a "mechanic" mindset to becoming a gardener leader
• The science of presence: How responsive awareness serves as the "first move" of flourishing
• Why mattering is a vital precondition for flow and group dynamism
• The "view from the valley": How adversity can act as a catalyst for deeper connection and clarity
• How to design environments—from dining tables to boardrooms—that prioritize human significance
• Why the "man box" and performance-based identity prevent men from experiencing true aliveness

Support the Movement. Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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What if the most human thing about us isn’t happiness, survival, or even love but the relentless need to feel we matter?

In this profound installment of the You Matter series on Passion Struck, MacArthur Fellow and National Humanities Medalist Rebecca Newberger Goldstein joins the show to unpack her groundbreaking book The Mattering Instinct: How Our Deepest Longing Drives Us and Divides Us (Liveright, January 13, 2026).

A philosopher and novelist celebrated for Plato at the Googleplex and The Mind-Body Problem, Goldstein argues that this primal instinct is uniquely human. Rooted in self-reflection and our resistance to entropy, it propels our greatest achievements and darkest conflicts. Through vivid stories—from William James overcoming depression to a neo-Nazi skinhead’s redemption, Scott Joplin’s tragic devotion to his opera, and an impoverished Chinese woman rescuing abandoned babies—Goldstein reveals how “mattering projects” shape identity, relationships, culture, and even atrocities.

She distinguishes true mattering (an inward justification of our existence) from mere connectedness (belonging to others), explores four “continents” on the mattering map (Transcenders, Heroic Strivers, Socializers, Competitors), and offers a moral boundary: align with life and flourishing against disorder and entropy.

This conversation probes a crisis at the heart of modern life: In a world of metrics, performance, and isolation, how do we answer the question “Do I really matter?” and live with mercy toward one another’s vulnerable longings?

If you wrestle with purpose, dignity, meaning, leadership, or why humans create beauty and harm, this episode delivers a clarifying, compassionate framework for understanding ourselves and our divided world.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web, recognizing the show’s commitment to thoughtful, human-centered conversations like this one.

Caraway’s cookware set is a favorite for a reason—it can save you up to $190 versus buying items individually. Plus, if you visit Carawayhome.com/PASSIONSTRUCK, you can take an additional 10% off your next purchase.

Check out Kalshi and use my code SB60 for a great deal: https://kalshi.com

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/mattering-instinct-rebecca-newberger-goldstein/

Download a Free Companion Reflection Guide: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1dy59XSRcQgovN3N-KNbHILa9GO91Tou-/view?usp=sharing

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Pre-Order the Children’s Book You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/

Learn More About Rebecca Newberger Goldstein: https://rebeccagoldstein.com

• The Mattering Instinct: How Our Deepest Longing Drives Us and Divides Us

Available wherever books are sold.

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• Why the mattering instinct is the most peculiar and poignant thing about being human
• How self-reflection and entropy resistance turn biological survival into an existential question of justification
• The crucial distinction between connectedness (mattering to others) and true mattering (deserving our own attention)
• How the four continents of the mattering map—Transcenders, Heroic Strivers, Socializers, and Competitors—reveal our diverse responses to the same instinct
• Why this longing fuels extraordinary creation (art, altruism, discovery) and profound harm (atrocities, zero-sum competition)
• Entropy as a real constraint on meaning: ways of living that sustain order, care, and flourishing vs. those that accelerate disorder
• The vulnerability this instinct creates—and why it demands we treat one another with kindness

Support the Movement

Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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We are taught from the schoolyard to the boardroom that our value is a variable, something that fluctuates based on our last win, our latest promotion, or our ability to remain relentlessly productive. But what happens when the "doing" stops?

In this deeply personal solo episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles pulls back the curtain on a phenomenon he calls the "speech impediment of the soul." Drawing from a life-altering traumatic brain injury at age five and his subsequent climb through the ranks of the Navy and Fortune 50 leadership, John explores the quiet disorientation that follows when we trade our voices for safety and our existence for achievement.

As we approach the February 24th launch of his new children’s book, You Matter, Luma, John reveals why mattering is the "preventative medicine" the human spirit requires to stop the cycle of over-performance and invisibility. This episode is a call to end the trade and finally reclaim a sense of worth that requires no strings attached.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web, recognizing the show’s ongoing commitment to thoughtful, human-centered conversations.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/healing-childhood-trauma-feeling-invisible-adult/

All links gathered here, including books, Substack, YouTube, and Start Mattering apparel: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• The Shattered Window: How early life trauma can rewrite your reality and create a "performance trap" that follows you into adulthood.
• The Speech Impediment of the Soul: Identifying the hidden whisper that tells high-achievers they only matter if they are producing.
• The Maximizer’s Prison: Why modern life’s obsession with optimization and "best" choices actually erodes human dignity.
• The Luma Truth: How to shift from mattering through achievement to mattering through existence.
• The Wordless Tie: Practical tools for building a profound connection with others that doesn't rely on perfect words or performance.
• Mattering Mirrors: Why we must decouple excellence from worth to protect the next generation (and our own inner child).
• The Adult Mattering Audit: Four specific questions to help you diagnose and heal your own quiet disorientation.
• Preventative Medicine: How the message of You Matter, Luma acts as a shield for children ages 4–8 against the optimization trap.

Companion Reflection & Integration Resources

Inside The Ignited Life, each episode in the You Matter series is paired with guided reflection prompts and grounding practices. These are designed to help you examine where your relationships circulate care—and where they quietly extract it—to help you move from "doing" back to "being."

Explore the community: https://TheIgnitedLife.net

Connect with the Ecosystem

• Pre-order You Matter, Luma (releasing February 24): https://youmatterluma.com/
• Support the Movement: https://StartMattering.com
• Watch on YouTube: Search for Passion Struck with John R. Miles

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed are those of the host and guests and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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What happens when strength is defined as self-sufficiency, emotional restraint, and constant proof?

In this episode of Passion Struck, licensed psychologist and leadership coach Daniel Ellenberg, PhD, joins Passion Struck to explore how traditional masculine scripts shape identity, relationships, and the lived experience of mattering often at a hidden cost.

Ellenberg has spent more than four decades facilitating men’s groups and workshops, guiding thousands of men through questions of emotional intelligence, vulnerability, and relational presence. As the founder of Strength with Heart, co-founder of Relationships That Work, and a principal at the Rewire Leadership Institute, his work examines how cultural expectations around masculinity quietly teach boys and men to armor themselves against dependence, tenderness, and uncertainty.

In this conversation, John R. Miles and Daniel Ellenberg examine how early conditioning trains men to equate worth with performance, stoicism, and self-reliance and how that training disrupts connection, intimacy, and the felt sense of significance across adulthood. The discussion explores why many capable, caring men experience isolation despite success, why vulnerability often feels dangerous rather than connective, and how reclaiming “strength with heart” restores agency, belonging, and relational vitality.

As part of the You Matter series — and leading toward the February 24th release of You Matter, Luma — this episode traces how lessons about visibility, emotional permission, and worth are learned early and reinforced across families, workplaces, and institutions.

This episode invites a deeper question: What happens to mattering when strength requires concealment, and what becomes possible when presence replaces performance?

If you care about relationships, leadership, men’s mental health, emotional development, or how people come to feel significant inside cultural systems, this conversation offers a grounded and humane perspective.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is consistently ranked among the world’s top podcasts for thoughtful conversations about meaning, agency, and belonging.

Check out Kalshi and use my code SB60 for a great deal: https://kalshi.com

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• How traditional masculinity conditions boys to armor against vulnerability early in life
• Why proving strength through stoicism often undermines connection and intimacy
• How emotional performance replaces presence in many male relationships
• The difference between power as control and strength as integration
• Why vulnerability signals mattering inside relationships and communities
• How loneliness, isolation, and burnout emerge from unmet relational significance
• What “strength with heart” looks like in leadership, parenting, and partnership
• How authenticity restores agency and relational circulation

Resources & Links

Check the full show notes: https://passionstruck.com/strength-with-heart-daniel-ellenberg/

Download the Free Companion Reflection Guide:

Pre-Order the Children’s Book You Matter, Luma (Launching February 24): https://youmatterluma.com/

Connect with John — speaking, books, and podcast: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

Learn More About Daniel Ellenberg:

https://strengthwithheart.com/

https://relationshipsthatwork.com/

Books Mentioned

• Lovers for Life: Creating Lasting Passion, Trust, and True Partnership (with Judith Bell)

Support the Movement

Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter.

Wear it. Live it. Show it.

https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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What happens when the frameworks we use to make decisions no longer reflect how human lives actually work?

In this opening episode of the You Matter series on Passion Struck, renowned social psychologist Barry Schwartz joins the show to examine how modern decision-making systems—built on metrics, optimization, and rational choice theory—can quietly erode agency, judgment, and our sense of mattering.

Schwartz is best known for The Paradox of Choice, which revealed how an abundance of options often leads to dissatisfaction rather than freedom. In his new book, Choose Wisely, co-written with philosopher Richard Schuldenfrei, he extends this critique by challenging the foundations of rational choice theory itself—the economic model that assumes good decisions can be reduced to calculation, comparison, and optimization.

While behavioral economics acknowledges human irrationality, Schwartz argues that it preserves an incomplete definition of rational decision-making. Drawing from psychology, economics, and philosophy—and engaging directly with the legacy of Thinking, Fast and Slow—he proposes a richer framework grounded in framing, judgment, and what he calls a person’s “constellation of virtues.”

In this conversation, John R. Miles and Barry Schwartz explore how treating life as a spreadsheet of isolated wins distorts meaning, why judgment has been replaced by formulas, and how mattering is experienced not through utility, but through coherence, contribution, and relational significance over time.

This episode asks a central question for modern life: What does it mean to choose wisely when meaning cannot be quantified?

If you care about decision-making, leadership, autonomy, or how people come to feel significant in systems designed to optimize them, this conversation offers a clarifying and timely perspective.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web, recognizing the show’s commitment to thoughtful, human-centered conversations like this one.

Check out Kalshi and use my code SB60 for a great deal: https://kalshi.com

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/barry-schwartz-choosing-wisely/

Download a Free Companion Reflection Guide: https://www.theignitedlife.net/p/art-of-choosing-wisely-barry-schwartz

Connect with John Keynote speaking, books, and podcast: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

Pre-Order the Children’s Book You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/

Learn More About Barry Schwartz: https://www.swarthmore.edu/profile/barry-schwartz

• The Paradox of Choice
• Choose Wisely (with Richard Schuldenfrei)

Available wherever books are sold.

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• Why rational choice theory fails to describe how people actually make decisions
• How the paradox of choice leads to regret, dissatisfaction, and decision fatigue
• Why judgment has been replaced by rules and metrics—and what that costs leaders and organizations
• How framing shapes good decisions more than optimization
• Why meaning emerges from narrative coherence rather than isolated outcomes
• How treating people as interchangeable units of utility undermines mattering
• The tension between autonomy and connectedness in modern, pluralistic societies

Support the Movement

Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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We spend much of our lives searching for meaning through work, relationships, contribution, and purpose. But beneath that search lives a quieter, more fragile question, one we rarely say out loud:

Do I matter even when nothing is being made of me?

In this solo episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles moves beneath meaning itself to explore what actually holds a life together when direction, productivity, and explanation fall away. Through a deeply personal reflection on his final walk with his sister, Carolyn, he reveals how worth is not something we build or earn, but something that must first be felt and recognized.

This episode explores why meaning can feel unstable when the sense of mattering underneath it has not fully landed and why so many people feel unsettled, because worth has been quietly tied to motion, usefulness, or presence in others’ lives.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web, recognizing the show’s ongoing commitment to thoughtful, human-centered conversations like this one.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/the-question-beneath-meaning/

All links gathered here, including books, Substack, YouTube, and Start Mattering apparel:

https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• The Question Beneath Meaning: Why worth precedes purpose and stabilizes identity at a deeper level.
• Mattering vs. Meaning: How contribution organizes action, while mattering allows the self to rest without fracture.
• Quiet Disorientation: Why internal drift can emerge even when life feels externally complete.
• Why Modern Systems Can’t Register Worth: How productivity, engagement, and output crowd out presence.
• Carolyn as the Proof Point: How shared presence transmits belonging without instruction or legacy-building.
• Contingent Worth: Why motion becomes a stabilizing strategy when worth hasn’t fully integrated.
• Stillness as Recognition: How pause, silence, and rest allow worth to land without performance.
• The January Inquiry: A gentle question to carry forward without urgency or fixing.
• What Comes Next: How the upcoming You Matter series turns recognition outward into daily life, choice, and belonging.

Companion Reflection & Integration Resources

Inside The Ignited Life, each episode in The Meaning Makers series is paired with reflection prompts and grounding practices designed to help you stay with the question long enough for real integration to occur—not to solve it, but to let recognition settle.

Explore the community: https://TheIgnitedLife.net

Connect with the Ecosystem

• Pre-order You Matter, Luma (releasing February 24): https://youmatterluma.com/
• Support the Movement: https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed are those of the host and guests and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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What happens when the systems we trust most struggle to correct themselves and the cost is paid by patients, families, and society?

In this deeply consequential episode of Passion Struck, investigative journalist Charles Piller joins the show to discuss his groundbreaking book Doctored: Fraud, Arrogance, and Tragedy in the Quest to Cure Alzheimer’s. Piller, a senior writer for Science magazine, has spent years examining how Alzheimer’s research became shaped by incentives, reputation, and institutional inertia—and what that meant for scientific progress and human lives.

At the center of this conversation is a pivotal 2006 Nature paper that helped cement the amyloid hypothesis as the dominant explanation for Alzheimer’s disease. That study shaped decades of funding, drug development, and clinical trials. Years later, independent analysts and researchers began raising concerns about manipulated images and the integrity of the data—concerns that moved slowly through formal channels while the research continued to guide practice.

In this episode, John R. Miles and Charles Piller explore how systems communicate mattering through responsiveness, how delay and diffusion affect trust, and how institutional silence carries human consequences. They also examine the role of independent watchdogs, whistleblowers, and investigative journalism in preserving scientific integrity, even when doing so carries personal and professional risk.

This conversation is not about cynicism toward science. It is about accountability, permeability, and the conditions that allow truth to remain alive within powerful systems.

If you care about medical ethics, scientific integrity, or how institutions shape human mattering, this episode offers a vital and clarifying perspective.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/charles-piller-alzheimers-research-fraud/

Download a Free Companion Reflection Guide: https://www.theignitedlife.net/p/when-systems-decide-whether-people-matter

Connect with John

Keynote speaking, books, and podcast: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

Pre-order the Children’s Book

You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/

Learn More About Charles Piller

https://www.science.org/author/charles-piller

Book:

Doctored: Fraud, Arrogance, and Tragedy in the Quest to Cure Alzheimer’s

Available wherever books are sold.

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• How Alzheimer’s research became shaped by incentives, prestige, and institutional coherence
• Why responsiveness is a central signal of trust and mattering inside systems
• How a single scientific paper influenced decades of funding and drug development
• The role of independent analysts like Elisabeth Bik in protecting scientific integrity
• Why whistleblowers such as Matthew Schrag face extraordinary personal and professional pressure
• How delays and procedural diffusion affect patients and families in real time
• The human story of Stephen Price and what clinical trials represent for those living with Alzheimer’s
• What healthy systems require in order to remain open to correction and learning

Support the Movement

Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter.

Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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What if peak performance isn’t created by intensity, control, or relentless self-pressure, but by inner stability?

In this powerful episode of Passion Struck, Jim Murphy, performance coach to elite athletes and the #1 New York Times bestselling author of Inner Excellence, joins the show to explore what truly sustains excellence under pressure.

Many listeners first encountered Inner Excellence when A.J. Brown was shown reading it on the NFL sideline during a playoff game. That moment sparked a national conversation—but Jim’s work has been shaping elite performers quietly for years.

In this conversation, John and Jim examine the inner architecture that allows people to remain grounded when the stakes are high. Jim explains how fear, ego, and self-centered thinking destabilize performance, and how cultivating love, wisdom, and courage creates inner freedom that carries across athletics, leadership, parenting, and everyday life.

Rather than focusing on tactics or motivation, this episode centers on the internal conditions that allow clarity, presence, and sustained performance to emerge. It offers a framework for anyone seeking excellence that endures—without burnout, anxiety, or collapse under pressure.

If you’ve ever wondered why success alone doesn’t steady the inner world—or how to remain anchored when everything is on the line—this conversation offers a path inward.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/inner-excellence-jim-murphy/

Download a Free Companion Workbook: https://www.theignitedlife.net/p/jim-murphy-inner-excellence-pressure

Connect with John

Keynote speaking, books, and podcast: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

Pre-order the Children’s Book

You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/

Learn More About Jim Murphy

Website & newsletter: https://innerexcellence.com/

Book: Inner Excellence: Train Your Mind for Extraordinary Performance and the Best Possible Life

Available wherever books are sold.

In This Episode, You Will Learn

• What Inner Excellence really means and why inner stability precedes peak performance
• Why fear escalates under pressure and how “fear of fear” disrupts clarity and presence
• How ego destabilizes performance by creating self-centered thinking and internal noise
• The three pillars of Inner Excellence: love, wisdom, and courage
• Why the heart plays a central role in sustained performance and fulfillment
• How elite athletes remain grounded when expectations, scrutiny, and stakes rise
• How to apply Inner Excellence beyond sports—in leadership, relationships, and daily life
• What creates excellence that endures rather than collapses under pressure

Support the Movement

Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter.

Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

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What if the most important things you will ever say to those you love are the things you never speak aloud?

In this moving solo episode, John R. Miles shares a deeply personal story about a final walk with his sister, Carolyn, by Lake Austin. He explores the "wordless tie" that binds us together and explains the science of why silence often carries more weight than speech. Drawing on the groundbreaking fMRI research of Dr. Lisa Miller and her work on The Awakened Brain, John reveals how our brains are biologically wired with a "sensing system" for significance.

You will learn why success often feels hollow when we lose our wordless connection to others, and how to use the "Presence Pause" to clear the mental clutter that blocks your sense of purpose. This is an invitation to move beyond the noise of constant doing and rediscover the "mortar" that holds a meaningful life together.

Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health podcast and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web, recognizing the show’s ongoing commitment to thoughtful, human-centered conversations like this one.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/how-to-find-meaning-without-words/

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In This Episode, You Will Learn

• The Inherited Knowing: How legacy, belonging, and love are passed through presence rather than instruction.
• The Science of the Awakened Brain: A deep dive into Dr. Lisa Miller’s research (episode 532) on the high-power neural circuit that handles stress and hope.
• Quiet Disconnection: Why our brains are wired to amplify the negative and how to reset your internal "noise-to-signal" ratio.
• The Three Bricklayers: A powerful lesson on how shifting your lens transforms the daily grind into a sacred mission.
• The Presence Pause: A 3-minute practical habit to reopen your brain's channel for purpose.
• Small Acts of Resonance: How wordless gestures like a smile or a simple touch recalibrate the nervous system for safety and connection.

The Meaning Without Words Companion Resources

Download our free digital companion workbook featuring guided prompts to help you notice the silence, open to presence, and let meaning land without forcing it through words. Explore the guide

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What if the moments where you feel most "disengaged," "perfectionistic," or "paralyzed" as a parent aren't character flaws, but the result of a "Trauma App" running in the background of your brain?

In this groundbreaking episode of Passion Struck, Dr. Robyn Koslowitz, clinical child psychologist and author of the definitive guide Post-Traumatic Parenting: Break the Cycle and Become the Parent You Always Wanted to Be, joins the show. With over 20 years of experience helping more than 10,000 families, Robyn explains why post-traumatic parenting is fundamentally different from typical parenting. She reveals how "Secret ACEs" (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and hidden trauma history can hijack your nervous system, making it nearly impossible to "share your calm" with your children.

John and Robyn discuss the neurological reality of parenting after trauma, moving past the "fad" social media trends of gentle parenting to focus on the science of nervous system regulation. Koslowitz introduces her trademarked AIM Method (Acceptance, Integration, and Meaning-making) to help parents reclaim their "admin permissions" from their trauma. The conversation centers on a profound truth: your inner child cannot raise a child, but raising your real-world child can be the ultimate path to healing trauma through parenting.

If you have ever asked, "How can I give my kids a normal childhood when mine was anything but?"—this episode provides the validation, neuroscience, and practical "hacks" needed to break generational trauma and foster an earned, secure attachment.

Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/post-traumatic-parenting-robyn-koslowitz/

Download a Free Companion Workbook with reflection prompts tied to this episode.

To contact John about Keynote speaking, his books, and podcast: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles

Pre-order You Matter, Luma: https://youmatterluma.com/

For more about Dr. Robyn Koslowitz: https://posttraumaticparenting.com

Book: Post-Traumatic Parenting available wherever books are sold.

In this episode, you will learn

• Post-traumatic parenting explained: Why your body reacts to your child's behavior as a survival threat.
• The "Trauma App" Metaphor: How early experiences shape emotional regulation and override your parenting instincts.
• The 5 Subtypes of Post-Traumatic Parents: Identifying if you lean toward paralysis, perfectionism, or disengagement.
• Building Secure Attachment: How to move from trauma responses in parents to creating attachment and emotional safety.
• The AIM Method: A 3-step clinical framework for intergenerational healing and trauma recovery.
• Why "Gentle Parenting" isn't enough: The importance of structure, play, and nervous system regulation for the "cycle breaker."
• Healing the Inner Child: How to stop "Trauma Poker" and start raising emotionally secure children after trauma.

Support the Movement

Every human deserves to feel seen, valued, and like they matter. Wear it. Live it. Show it. https://StartMattering.com

Disclaimer

The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed by guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional.

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.