What if grief is not something to get over, but something meant to open us? What if the pain you are carrying is not a sign of weakness, but a doorway into deeper love, truth, and healing?

In this powerful episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I am joined by Bobbi Vogel, a psychic medium, clairvoyant healer, and soul guide, for a sacred conversation about grief, loss, and the unseen support surrounding us.

We explore grief not as a problem to fix, but as medicine. An initiation that cracks us open so we can return to who we truly are. Bobbi shares what Spirit has been communicating about this moment in time, why so many souls are crossing over, how our loved ones continue to guide us, and why allowing grief, rather than bypassing it, is essential for both personal and collective healing.

This episode includes live readings and deeply moving moments with grieving parents and loved ones, offering real-time insight into how connection continues beyond the physical body. Bobbi speaks candidly about spiritual bypassing, soul agreements, and why our loved ones on the other side are not who they were in human form, but wiser, expanded guides devoted to our healing.

We explore: 

• Why grief is sacred medicine and how it opens us to healing

• The danger of spiritual bypassing and turning pain into purpose too soon

• How our loved ones continue to support us from the other side

• What souls do after they leave the body and how roles reverse

• Collective grief and why personal healing serves the whole

• How to ask your loved ones for help and guidance

• Twin souls, soul agreements, and unfinished business

• Why grief brings us back to earlier wounds and how to heal them

If you are grieving the loss of a child, partner, parent, or loved one, or if you are carrying grief that goes beyond death, this conversation offers validation, compassion, and a reminder that you are not alone.

Remember, for private sessions with Bobbi Vogel, you can visit bobbivogel.com or find her on Instagram @bobbi.vogel. You can also explore my website for supportive resources, including the Good Grief course.

And if this conversation stirred something in you, I’d truly love to hear about it. You’re always welcome to email me at [email protected]

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What happens when your partner is kind, loyal, and on paper seems like everything you should want, yet deep down, you feel unseen?

In this Language of Love session, I connect with Elena, a listener who reached out because she feels exhausted in her relationship. She is the one holding everything together, remembering birthdays, checking in emotionally, making plans, and keeping the balance steady. She does not want to villainize her partner, but she is tired of feeling loved for what she does instead of who she is.

In this session, I help Elena unpack why this dynamic is so common in long-term relationships and how it often is not about a lack of love, but a disconnect in how love is expressed and received. We explore how love languages shape our expectations, why resentment can quietly build over time, and how to ask for emotional support without turning the conversation into an argument about chores or who does more.

In this session, I dive into:

• Why feeling unseen can slowly erode intimacy

• Why this dynamic often emerges over time, especially after major life changes like having children.

• How love languages influence what makes us feel cherished

• Why loving your partner the way you want to be loved can miss the mark

• How to clearly articulate your needs and desires

• Practical ways to ask for support, romance, and appreciation in ways that actually land

• When it might be time to consider short-term couples therapy to reset your relationship's trajectory positively.

If Elena’s story resonates, if you feel like the emotional anchor in your relationship or long to feel more deeply known, I want to hear from you. Your story could help someone else feel less alone.

You can email me at [email protected] to share your question for a future episode. For additional support, I encourage you to explore other helpful resources, including The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, which offers insight into how we give and receive love differently. You can also visit my website, where you will find expert-approved resources and my free Quantum Sex course designed to help you deepen connection with your body, your partner, and your pleasure.

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Do you know the brain is a woman’s main sexual organ? So how do you unlock her mind before you try to turn on her body? Because even when everything seems “right,” she still might not be in the mood. 

In this Language of Love Bite, we’re talking about why emotional and psychological safety are the real gateways to female arousal. Because if a woman doesn’t feel seen, connected, and at ease, her body simply won’t follow no matter how much effort you put in physically.

I break down how women experience desire differently than men, why stress and emotional disconnection shut down arousal, and how engaging her mind first can completely transform your sexual experience and sex life together. You’ll also hear the exact kind of compliments that actually build intimacy (hint: it’s not just about her looks), simple ways to check in before initiating touch, and how to create anticipation long before you’re in the bedroom.

And yes, I share one powerful sentence you can say right before intimacy that helps a woman relax, trust, and truly open to pleasure.

This isn’t about techniques or performance. It’s about presence, attunement, and making her feel safe enough to let go.

We explore:

• Why women are turned on mentally before they’re turned on physically

• The difference between spontaneous and responsive desire

• How emotional safety unlocks deeper arousal

• What compliments actually turn women on and why surface praise often misses the mark

• How to use “mental foreplay” to help her unwind instead of perform

• Subtle texts and energetic cues that build desire throughout the day

• One simple line that communicates trust, care, and connection before sex

If you’re ready to deepen intimacy and experience sex as truly connected and expansive, explore my free Quantum Sex course. It’s designed to help you elevate pleasure and create deeper emotional connection.

For a deeper dive, my book Sex Magic invites you to reimagine desire, intimacy, and self-worth, transforming sex into something conscious, sacred, and deeply nourishing. Sex should feel like coming home to yourself.

You can also take the free quiz on my website to uncover what may be blocking intimacy and explore 7 Days to Better Sex to start actively creating the passion and connection you desire.

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Do you leave social gatherings feeling utterly drained, as if you've absorbed everyone else's stress, sadness, or tension? Do you find yourself constantly over-helping or trying to "fix" others, only to end up exhausted? Or do everyday stimuli like bright lights, loud noises, or scratchy fabrics overwhelm you in ways others simply don't understand?

If these resonate, you may be navigating life as a highly sensitive person, an empath, or both.

In this episode of The Language of Love Conversations, I sit down with Dr. Judith Orloff, a UCLA-trained psychiatrist, empath, and New York Times bestselling author. Known as the "godmother of the empath movement," she beautifully bridges science, intuition, and energy medicine. Her acclaimed books include The Empath’s Survival Guide, The Genius of Empathy, Emotional Freedom, and her new children’s book, The Highly Sensitive Rabbit.

We explore what it truly means to be an empath (and how it differs from being highly sensitive), why empaths are frequently misdiagnosed with sensory processing disorder, and why this growing wave of sensitive souls is precisely what our world needs right now. Dr. Orloff shares her personal journey growing up in a medical family that dismissed her intuitive gifts and how she learned to honor them instead of suppressing them.

This empowering conversation covers practical tools to protect your energy, set heart-centered boundaries, and thrive without closing your heart. We discuss raising empathic children in an overwhelming world, the connection between unacknowledged sensitivity and issues like addiction or autoimmune conditions, and simple daily practices like breathwork, earthing, grounding, visualization, and energetic cord-cutting (when you're truly ready).

We dive deep into:

• The true meaning of being an empath vs. a highly sensitive person

• Different types of empaths and their unique experiences

• Why empaths are often misdiagnosed (with anxiety, depression, sensory processing issues, or physical illness)

• The profound gifts of empathy

• How emotional and physical energies get absorbed and how to release them

• Essential boundaries, grounding, and shielding techniques

• The power (and caution) of energetic cord-cutting

• Why there are more empaths today than ever before, including links to trauma and the rise of "adult-onset" empaths

• Raising empathic and highly sensitive children and why they need space to thrive

• How empathic children may soon lead the world

• Spotting empathic traits in kids (even though all children have some empathy)

• Coping with overwhelm through addictions vs. healthier self-care paths

• Empaths in relationships: avoiding love-bombing, narcissists, and learning to voice your needs

• Five essential daily practices to stay grounded as an empath

If you’re feeling drawn to Judith’s work, explore her classic The Empath’s Survival Guide: Life Strategies for Sensitive People (with its invaluable self-assessment quiz) and her empowering new children’s book The Highly Sensitive Rabbit, a tender story to help young sensitive hearts feel seen and strong.

Connect with Dr. Judith Orloff at drjudithorloff.com for blogs, workshops, her empath support newsletter, and more resources on intuition and energy healing.

Looking for more insight? Check out these powerful reads: The Genius of Empathy by Judith Orloff and Quantum Love.

And if you’re craving even more guidance, be sure to visit my website, where you’ll find free resources tailored to support your unique journey.

Are You an Empath? Take Dr. Judith Orloff’s 20-Question Self-Assessment

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Sometimes relationships don’t fall apart, they just grow quiet.

You’re still together, still functioning, still sharing a life, but something feels off. The conversations are. The connection feels thinner. And even though nothing is “wrong,” you miss the closeness you used to feel.

In this Language of Love Session, I answer a question from a listener who feels disconnected from her partner. They don’t fight, but they don’t really talk anymore either. Conversations feel polite and surface-level, and when she tries to go deeper, he shuts down or changes the subject.

I talk about why this kind of emotional distance is so common, especially in long-term relationships, and why trying harder to have the big conversation can sometimes create more distance instead of closeness. I also share what I’ve learned, both professionally and from raising boys, about how many men experience closeness, conversation, and emotional safety differently than women do.

In this session, I share:

• Why emotional distance can happen even when there’s no conflict

• How technology and distraction quietly interfere with connection

• Why face-to-face deep talks can feel overwhelming for some partners

• How side-by-side connection can open the door to better conversations

• The role play, lightness, and silliness can play in rebuilding closeness

• Why sex can sometimes lead to emotional intimacy, not the other way around

• How to rebuild connection before tackling the bigger relationship questions

This session is a reminder that connection often returns when there’s less pressure and more room to just be together again.

Don’t forget to visit my website and explore the resources there. They’re all designed to help you create deeper, more fulfilling love in your life. You can also take the free quiz, “What Do You Really Want in Love?” It’s a great way to get clear on what your heart’s truly looking for.

And if you have a question or want to be part of a future Language of Love session, just email me at [email protected]

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When your partner says she’s “just not in the mood,” it’s easy to hear it as rejection. But what if it’s not about you at all? What if “not in the mood” is actually a signal about what’s missing long before you ever get to the bedroom?

In this Language of Love Bite, we flip the script on low desire. I’m breaking down exactly why she’s not in the mood and how to shift that dynamic quickly, without pressure, manipulation, or guessing games. Because for most women, desire doesn’t disappear for no reason. It shuts down when her system doesn’t feel ready.

We explore:

• Why “I’m not in the mood” is rarely about sex itself and what it’s really signaling.

• The 3 things women need to feel to access desire (and what happens when one is missing).

• How true foreplay begins outside the bedroom, in everyday moments of appreciation.

• The exact words to use to initiate without pressure and create emotional safety.

• One transformative move to try when she says no.

If this episode gives you a new perspective, make sure to follow the Language of Love podcast  on your favorite podcast platform. Want to continue the conversation? Email me at [email protected] and tell me: What do you think puts someone out of the mood faster than anything else?

And if you’re ready to go deeper, visit my website and explore resources designed to help you build better sex, deeper connection, and the relationship you truly want.

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In this special Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Libby Ingram, a speech therapist, grieving mother, and a central voice from the groundbreaking podcast The Telepathy Tapes. Libby shares the extraordinary story of her son, John Paul, a non-speaking autistic man with a genius level intellect, a deep telepathic connection to his peers, and a mission that continued even after his physical passing.

Together, we step into the world of spellers, non speaking individuals who use letter boards to communicate. Libby helps us see a reality where these souls are not disabled, but differently abled, operating from a place of deep spiritual awareness. She describes how John Paul and his friends met daily on “The Hill,” a metaphysical gathering place where they shared knowledge and prepared for a purpose the world had not yet caught up to.

Libby also talks about the ways communication never stopped, through numbers, songs, red roses of protection, and even a life saving pause at a traffic light. Her story reminds us that grief and joy are not opposites. They walk side by side, with our loved ones still very much present, cheering us toward life.

We explore:

• What The Telepathy Tapes reveal when told through a mother’s lived experience

• How spelling unlocks intelligence hidden behind motor and sensory challenges

• Why non-speaking autistic children are deeply aware, connected, and conscious

• The metaphysical meeting place known as “The Hill” and how children connect there

• What telepathy looks like when it’s lived, not theorized

• How connection continues after death through signs, numbers, and symbols

• Why certain messages from loved ones arrive again and again

• How signs before a passing only make sense once you look back

• What it means to hold grief and joy at the same time without betraying love

• Why death doesn’t end love, it changes how love speaks

Remember to explore the full depth of this story by listening to The Telepathy Tapes podcast, and connect with Libby on Instagram or through her community for resources on spelling and communication methods. You can also explore The Grief Healing Collective for ongoing support, workshops, and the upcoming Love Mama Retreat. And if you need a direct line, email anytime at [email protected]. Your story matters.

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Most men don’t realize that the biggest mistake they make in bed has nothing to do with size, stamina, or technique. It is something far simpler and far more powerful. And it is the one mistake that quietly turns a woman off, shuts her body down, and keeps you from being the lover she dreams about.

In this Language of Love Bite, I break down the number one mistake men make in bed and how to fix it starting tonight. It is the difference between sex that feels rushed, mechanical, or pressured, and sex that feels electric, safe, intimate, and unforgettable.

You will learn why focusing on performance instead of connection sends a woman into her head, why she stiffens or pulls back even when you are doing everything right, and how presence rather than perfection is what actually turns her on. I share what women truly crave: a man who is tuned into her breath, her body, her pace, and her emotional temperature, not someone who is trying to win at sex.

I reveal how slowing down, literally cutting your rhythm and your touch in half, becomes the most erotic reset you can offer her. You will learn why softer warm-up touch ignites trust in her nervous system and how one simple question, What kind of touch do you want tonight?, instantly boosts her desire.

We explore:

• Why performance pressure shuts her body down
• How connection rather than technique predicts her satisfaction
• The micro cues in her breath, sounds, and movement that guide you
• The dance between slowing down, tuning in, and following her lead
• Why safety opens her body more than any bedroom move
• The exact warm-up touches that turn on her nervous system
• The simple after sex shift that makes her feel cherished
• How the way you stay afterward matters more than how you move during sex

And at the end, I share the bonus tip most men never think about. The post-sex moment that tells her, without a single word, that this was not just sex. It was connection. That is the moment she remembers. That is the moment she comes back for.

If this Language of Love Bite inspires you, follow the show on your favorite podcast platform or email me at [email protected].

You deserve to feel confident, connected, and deeply in sync with your partner. You’ve got this.

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Why does intuition feel normal, but psychic still makes people squirm? Why are so many of us feeling more sensitive, more aware, more affected by the world than ever before?

Something is shifting. People aren’t just asking for answers anymore. They’re asking about their soul, their abilities, their inner knowing. Is consciousness changing, or are we finally paying attention?

In this episode of Language of Love, I sit down with John Holland, one of the most respected psychic mediums of our time and a true pioneer in spiritual communication. For more than three decades, John has helped people understand intuition, mediumship, and the ongoing relationship we continue to have with our loved ones after physical death.

We talk about how human consciousness is changing and why people are no longer just seeking answers about the future. More and more, we are asking questions about our soul, our purpose, and our own intuitive abilities. John has a beautiful way of making these experiences feel grounded and accessible, while still honoring how sacred they are.

We also talk openly about grief, including the loss of a child, shared death experiences, and deathbed visions. John explains why no one ever crosses over alone and how communication does not end when the body dies. It simply changes form. Signs, synchronicities, numbers, sensations, and quiet knowings become the new language of love.

John shares why mediums are not meant to be a permanent bridge, but more like a jumper cable. They help us remember that every one of us has the ability to access guidance, connection, and love from the other side. At the end of the episode, he offers five simple and practical ways to strengthen your intuition, tools you can begin using right away to trust what you feel and sense.

This conversation is both comforting and empowering. It is a reminder that grief does not disconnect us from love, and intuition is not something we have to learn. It is something we remember.

We explore:

• Why intuition and psychic ability are natural to all of us
• How and why collective consciousness is changing.
• The difference between intuition, psychic ability, and mediumship
• How loved ones communicate after death through signs and synchronicities
• Shared death experiences and deathbed visions explained
• Why no one ever transitions alone
• How grief softens when we understand the soul continues
• The role of mediums and why you do not need one forever
• How sensitivity can be both a gift and something to learn how to manage
• Five ways to strengthen your intuitive connection
• Why love does not end with death, it changes how it speaks

Remember, your intuition is simply the language your soul uses to speak to you. If you feel called to explore and develop those gifts more deeply, you can dive into John’s books, including The Psychic Navigator, or join his intimate Soul Community. You can also connect with John on his Website or Instagram to stay up to date with his work.

And if you’re walking a path of grief or healing, you don’t have to do it alone. The Grief Healing Collective offers ongoing support, and you’re always welcome to reach out by email at [email protected]. Your story truly matters.

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Have you ever gone through a breakup so painful it made you question who you even are? The kind that leaves you replaying every moment, wondering what went wrong, and feeling like a stranger in your own skin? When love ends and your identity goes with it, how do you start again?

In this Language of Love session, I answer a heartfelt question from Heather, who writes in after a devastating breakup that shattered her sense of self. She’s stuck in a loop of rumination and regret, trying to figure out how to stop looking back and begin moving forward.

We talk about how some breakups don’t just end relationships; they awaken old pain that’s been waiting beneath the surface. I explain why trauma “loves an open door,” how grief and loss can resurface long after we think we’ve healed, and why true recovery starts with rediscovering who you are beyond anyone else.

We dive into: 

• How old trauma gets triggered by new loss
• The difference between self-esteem and self-worth
• Why your sense of self must come from within, not from your partner
• The power of trauma-informed therapy in heartbreak recovery
• What the Runaway Bride movie can teach us about self-discovery
• How to figure out “what kind of eggs you like,” literally and metaphorically
• Why being centered in your worth changes who and what you attract
• How heartbreak can become the doorway to your most authentic self

If you’ve ever lost yourself in love, this episode will remind you that healing isn’t about finding someone new; it’s about finding you.

Don’t forget to visit my website and explore the resources there. They’re all designed to help you create deeper, more fulfilling love in your life. You can also take the free quiz, “What Do You Really Want in Love?” It’s a great way to get clear on what your heart’s truly looking for.

And if you have a question or want to be part of a future Language of Love session, just email me at [email protected]

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Did you know you can make a woman crave you without saying a single word? Really so much of attraction has nothing to do with pickup lines, fancy outfits, or trying too hard. It’s your presence. Your energy. Your body language. It’s the way you walk into a room and the way you feel in your own skin. Confidence speaks long before your mouth ever does.

In this Language of Love Bite, I reveal how to make a woman crave you without saying a word. This is not about pickup tricks or performance. It is about the deeper masculine signals a woman feels the moment you enter a room. From the way you breathe to the way you hold your posture and your gaze, these subtle shifts create desire without effort.

You will learn how breath grounds your confidence, how stillness becomes a turn on, how eye contact creates micro tension, and the one shift almost no man knows that instantly makes you more magnetic. You will also learn how to flirt without touching her at all by using mirroring, energy projection, and true presence.

I explore:

• The way women sense your energy before they ever look at you
• How slow, grounded breathing signals calm confidence and inner control
• Why moving with stillness pulls her in more than trying to impress
• The one second eye contact rule that builds tension she feels in her body
• How to flirt without touching her through subconscious mirroring
• The power of filling the space between you with sensual energy
• How chasing weakens attraction while presence strengthens it
• The subtle embodiment shift that makes her crave you without a single word

The secret is simple. When you are fully in your body, she feels safe, seen, and drawn in. Presence is the most erotic language a man can speak without ever using his voice.

If you liked this Language of Love Bite, follow the show on your favorite podcast platform. Questions or comments? Email me at [email protected]

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