As a listener, you know I rarely record bonus episodes. But I’m too excited to share this so I had to turn on the mic.

Today I'm introducing you to "INITIATING," my program for educated successful men who want more and better sex.

Are you ready to learn the game-changing strategies that will completely change the dynamic between you and your wife? 

Join me, starting this Monday, April 7th for INITIATING. Details at alexandrastockwell.com/initiating

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Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

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People often talk about the importance of “prioritizing your marriage,” but what does that actually mean? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell addresses the common tendency to overlook nurturing emotional intimacy, amidst busy careers and family life. She emphasizes that making time to spend together as a couple is essential, but it’s only the beginning of what it takes to create and maintain a deep, uncompromising intimate bond.

Dr. Alexandra explores how couples can overcome challenges, when it comes to prioritizing their marriages, emphasizing a commitment to cultivating emotional intimacy and improving communication skills. She introduces the concept of marriage as a third entity and explains the significance of attending to its needs. She discusses how more emotional intimacy can seamlessly transition into enhanced erotic vitality and sexual fulfillment. 

Dr. Alexandra gives practical steps for couples to implement today. She also discusses teachings from the Aligned & Hot Marriage Program, which offers specific techniques and exercises to deepen marital intimacy.

 

Tips in this episode:

• Prioritizing your marriage goes beyond merely spending time together; it involves actively nurturing emotional intimacy and connection.

• Couples should view their relationship as a 'third entity' that requires dedication and care to flourish and thrive.

• Emotional intimacy acts as a powerful catalyst for enhancing sensual and erotic connections within a marriage.

• Dr. Stockwell's Aligned & Hot Marriage Program provides actionable tools, and education, to foster emotional and sexual intimacy in relationships.

• Even skeptical partners can transform their views and experiences when intentional efforts are made to prioritize the marriage.

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and her husband, Dr. Rodd Stockwell, discuss ways men successfully initiate intimacy with their wives. Drawing on their own experience being married for 29 years, they share how their intimacy dynamics have evolved over the years, and what changed for it to become as wonderful as it is now. They also discuss how their communication skills have been refined over time, and why this is important to the quality and frequency of sex.

You’ll learn a lot from this vulnerable episode as Rodd candidly shares his journey, learning how to initiate sex in ways that Alexandra responds to, and his own personal struggles with maintaining intimacy and navigating feelings of rejection, and incompetence 

 

Tips in this episode:

• Despite a lack of helpful guidelines in personal development, growth is achievable through collaborative efforts and shared communication, and guidance.

• Overcoming feelings of incompetence in initiating intimacy involves changing self-talk, and separating thoughts from facts.

• Applying skills and confidence from one’s professional life improves romantic relationships.

• Leadership and decisiveness in a relationship should be balanced with respect and attunement to a partner's needs.

 

Read Dr. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl   

 

Sign up for the Masterclass “How to Ask Your Woman for Sex (so she’s more likely to say YES)” www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

There is a nuanced art to cultivating intimacy in relationships, and in this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell speaks specifically on the topic of how men can initiate sex and intimacy with their women in ways that foster connection and increase passion.

Emphasizing the qualities of confidence and leadership, Dr. Alexandra discusses effective ways for a man to initiate sex with his wife so that she’s more likely to say “yes.” These tips help increase the frequency of sexual encounters while also deepening the overall emotional connection between partners. 

Drawing from her own experiences in her personal life and her work with hundreds of married couples, Dr. Alexandra explores common challenges couples face, such as libido mismatch and ineffective communication. She shares practical strategies for men to improve how they approach the topic of sex with their partners, ensuring their methods are inviting rather than off-putting. 

 

Episode highlights:

• Emotional intimacy is essential for long-term sensual and sexual satisfaction in relationships.

• Addressing and dispelling myths around libido mismatch empowers couples, with a focus on women taking responsibility for their pleasure.

• How men approach the topic of sex with their partners can significantly influence their partner’s receptiveness and response.

• Confidence and attunement are key when asking for sex; it’s important to let go of entitlement and resentment from previous rejections.

 

Read Dr. Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl   

 

Sign up for the Masterclass “How to Ask Your Woman for Sex (so she’s more likely to say YES)” www.alexandrastockwell.com/yes

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify

Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Making assumptions impacts intimacy and connection in marriage in crucial ways. In this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell discusses why assumptions are dangerous; she teaches that the act of getting curious and asking questions is a small but powerful alternative to making potentially inaccurate assumptions. 

Opening up about true feelings and desires will create clear communication with your partner, thus avoiding invisible barriers in your marriage brought on by making assumptions.

This episode teaches you to recognize your assumptions, in order to uncover the real truths about your and your partner’s feelings, preferences, and love languages. Embracing this honest communication will transform your marital bond and lead you toward true passion and uncompromising intimacy.

 

Tips in this episode:

• Assumptions lead to misinterpretations of a partner's desires and intentions, which causes unnecessary conflict.

• Address assumptions by engaging in open conversations in order to accurately understand a partner's thoughts, feelings, and preferences.

• Directly discussing love languages provides significant insights and helps you tailor your actions so they resonate with your partner.

• Recognizing and questioning internal assumptions elevates personal understanding and fosters genuine connection with self and others.

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Affection is one of the most valuable ways to connect in a relationship, and in this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell talks about its importance and how couples can revive affection in marriage. Whether affection in your marriage is dwindling, or you're looking to establish it for the first time, this episode provides a roadmap to enhance your emotional and physical connection through reviving affection. 

Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of clear communication, discussing desires openly as a couple, and stripping affection of any transactional nature, especially tied to sexual intimacy. She shares insightful, effective strategies to reinvigorate touch and tenderness in your marital relationship. 

 

Tips in this episode:

• Don’t wait for your partner to read your mind. Be the first to extend affection in a calibrative, gentle manner that suits your current relationship dynamic.

• Have a conversation with your partner about wanting more affection, ensuring you both are aligned so it doesn't come as a surprise when you start touching more.

• Redefine affection as an end in itself, not just a prelude to sexual activity. Enjoy the intimacy of simple, non-sexual touches.

• Engage in an exercise where each partner showcases the type of affection they prefer, promoting mutual understanding and harmony in touch.

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

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Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell and Pamela Madsen dive into the complexities of maintaining passion in long-term relationships. They explore the crucial components that are required to rekindle desire and excitement in marriage, especially when things have grown stale over time.

Pamela Madsen shares her expert insights on why nurturing your own body and desires is foundational to enhancing erotic vitality with your partner. Addressing the common misconception that both people need to change for the relationship to improve, Pamela advocates for personal exploration of erotic needs and learning how to communicate them effectively with your partner. They address the importance of maintaining "fire" in a relationship through spontaneity, and unpredictable yet intimate gestures. They discuss actionable strategies for couples to explore sexual dynamics, such as using date nights to creatively explore sensual desires through games and shared experiences, all with the aim of rekindling intimacy and passion.

 

Tips in this episode:

• Begin by understanding your own body and desires before attempting to change or influence your partner. This self-awareness creates a more erotic and confident presence in your relationship.
• Learn to express what you need erotically without expecting immediate changes from your partner. Effective communication and small, actionable steps lead to increased intimacy.
• Use games or selected tools like intimate shopping excursions to understand and fulfill each other's sexual needs and desires, ensuring a safe environment where both partners feel comfortable to express their yearnings.
• Reflect on personal erotic discoveries and integrate them into daily life, maintaining boundaries and ensuring your personal sensual growth benefits your partnership.

 

About Pamela Madsen:

Pamela Madsen, a somatic wellness educator, has captivated women worldwide with her transformative approach to self-discovery and intimate connection. Combining both her master’s degree in education and her certificates in sexological bodywork, Pamela's expertise extends far beyond conventional boundaries, earning her the title of a true trailblazer in the realm of women's wellness. As the brilliant mind behind Back to the Body™, Pamela has dedicated over a decade to helping women reclaim their bodies and reignite their desires. What sets Pamela's retreats apart is her unique formula of immersive, week-long experiences that revolve around bodywork and somatic healing. Through her work, she has witnessed women emerging from the shadows of eating disorders, liberating themselves from toxic relationships, and embarking on profound spiritual journeys. 

Learn more About Back to the Body: https://backtothebody.org/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/backtothebodyorg

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BacktotheBody/

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

 

 

In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores the complexities of mismatched sexual desire in long-term relationships. Highlighting the power of emotional intimacy as a pathway to sexual connection, Dr. Alexandra emphasizes that deep emotional bonds can enhance and elevate sexual experiences in committed partnerships. She also highlights the power of non-sexual foreplay in deepening emotional connections, laying the groundwork for more fulfilling sexual intimacy.

This episode encourages listeners to become curious and proactive in discovering and nurturing responsive desire, which can often bloom with the right approach and understanding. 

 

Highlighted in this episode:

• Emotional intimacy acts as a foundational bridge to sexual intimacy in committed relationships.

• Differentiating between spontaneous and responsive sexual desires is crucial in aligning mismatched sex drives.

• Enhancing emotional connection can lead to more satisfying sexual experiences.

• Slowing down and focusing on the partner’s comfort can create more fulfilling sexual encounters, especially where desires mismatch.

• Addressing performance anxiety through open communication can improve intimacy and connection.

Learn More About Uncompromising Intimacy: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book/

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Dr. Alexandra Stockwell's husband, Dr Rodd Stockwell, is back on the Intimate Marriage Podcast for a lively discussion on the challenges, and delights, of loving and supporting a strong, powerful woman. 

Listen as Dr. Alexandra opens up about her transformative journey from conforming to societal pressures to embracing her full, powerful self within her marriage. Dr. Rodd adds to the conversation by detailing his own evolution, emphasizing the critical role of fostering a safe and supportive environment for his partner. Together, they explore the delicate balance of personal expression and connection, underscoring the significance of mutual support in nurturing a thriving marriage.

Throughout the episode, you’ll learn about personal responsibility, societal expectations, and the unique dynamics involved in supporting a powerful woman in her professional and personal realms. Join Drs. Alexandra and Rodd as they share their insights on how embracing individual growth within a relationship profoundly enhances marital intimacy.

 

Tips in this episode:

• Personal growth is essential in maintaining a supportive and authentic relationship, as is encouraging partners to embrace their full selves.

• Navigating societal expectations and fears is critical for women seeking to express their power and ambitions, both personally and professionally.

• Providing a stable, internal sense of security can reshape relationship dynamics and foster an environment where both partners thrive.

• Recognizing and overcoming gender stereotypes enables couples to create a harmonious balance, enhancing intimacy and connection in extraordinary ways.

 

Contact Dr Alexandra: https://alexandrastockwell.com/contact/

Apply for Relationship and Intimacy Coaching: https://alexandrastockwell.com/apply-for-coaching/

Read Uncompromising Intimacy: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl   

 

Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Are you ready to transform your Valentine's Day from ordinary, even disappointing, to unforgettable? In this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell unveils the secrets to enduring intimacy in your relationship, just in time for the holiday of love. She focuses on two unique and actionable strategies that will help you curate celebrations that are not only memorable but deeply fulfilling.

Valentine’s Day sometimes creates a sense of pressure on a couple, as they each have different expectations and hopes for their celebration. Some couples exchange gifts, some plan a romantic dinner, some go out, some stay home. In this Valentine’s Day episode, Dr. Alexandra will show you that it doesn’t really matter what you do on Valentine’s Day, so long as you are both on the same page, feeling connected. 

Get ready to rethink the conventional ways of celebrating Valentine’s Day as Dr. Alexandra empowers you to create moments that are as pleasurable as they are meaningful.

 

You’ll also learn why:

• Valentine's Day is a profound opportunity for couples to deepen their intimacy and connection.

• Preparing and planning creatively for Valentine's Day will make the celebration far more enjoyable and fulfilling.

• Genuine relationship transformation comes from intentional actions and mutual enjoyment.

 

Make your Valentine's Special with Dr Alexandra’s Free Course: https://alexandrastockwell.com/valentines/

 

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  Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact

Communication is the key to a long and healthy marriage. That’s why in this week’s episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell explores communication strategies for a stronger marriage.

There are many challenges when it comes to successful communication in marriage, including misunderstandings and mismatched intentions. Dr. Alexandra emphasizes the importance of being clear about the type of conversation you’re about to have with your partner in order to create a win-win outcome.

You’ll also learn the pros and cons of different conversation types—whether it's logistical planning, venting, or vulnerable sharing—and how each one contributes to a healthier relationship. Through relatable anecdotes and actionable insights, you will gain practical tools to enhance the communication in your marriage, deepening your connection with your spouse.

 

Specific tips in this episode:

• For couples where one partner tends to be more expressive, setting a clear timeframe for discussions can prevent feelings of being trapped.

• Stop conversations while in a harmonious state, rather than waiting for things to become contentious, to better foster trust and openness for future discussions.

• Recognize that communication needs vary among couples depending on life stage, such as having young children or business co-ownership.

  Subscribe To The Intimate Marriage Podcast:

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Connect With Alexandra Stockwell, MD:

Website | Linkedin | Instagram

 

Get your copy of “Uncompromising Intimacy” by Dr. Alexandra Stockwell here: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl Download the first chapter of Dr Alexandra’s bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book

Cultivate your intimacy skills (without compromise) in Aligned & Hot Marriage, Dr. Alexandra’s proven method for smart couples ready to love more fully:  www.alignedhotmarriage.com

Join Dr. Alexandra’s email list to stay connected. She shares inspiring stories, her latest insights and opportunities to learn with her:  https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe

 

This Podcast Is Produced, Engineered & Edited By:  Simplified Impact