One of the main challenges we see with men is that they confuse bonding with love. They tell me that they love their partner, despite a lot of conflicts, and when I ask why? The answer is usually well, I miss her when she's not around, we've been together for a few years, etc. In the next few weeks we are going to post a video series on 9 characteristics of Love.

the video can be found here. Any questions? email us.

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Emotional intimacy can be difficult for men to grasp. This audio track deals with men and how we can get better in touch with our emotional identity.

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Kids need positive motivation too. The use of rewards for good behavior rather than just using punishment for bad behavior is more motivating for the child and encourages a positive bond between the parent and child. Dr. Pilet speaks about establishing a system of rewards for your child and why it is so effective. This works

Are You a People Person? 6 min mp3
So many people really do not understand what it takes to be a people person. Unfortunately, too many people are lonely through their misunderstanding of what it takes to be a "People Person".

When it is time to say NO! 7 min MP3
Often people that are taken advantage of have a difficult time telling the difference between when they are being appreciated "or" being used. Be a part of the Solution and Not part of the Problem!

Listen to the short discussion about setting limits and establishing boundaries, here

Dr. Pilet gives some great tips on how to deal with life as it comes. You can find it at the website InterventionsInc.com.

Listent to the audio seminar here.

We hope you enjoy.

Hey everyone, we hope you had a great holiday. Now, back to work. The second edition of the book is now published and available here you can check out the first chapter and scan the table of contents, and of course purchase it online.

This weeks audio clip is from Dr. Pilet in the anger management class and we were talking about stress and positive motivation. We hope you enjoy!

Postive Effects of Motivation: Distinguishes constructive and destructive stress; makes suggestions that detail how to self-regulate and promote prosperity.

Dumpers versus Dumpee: Explains the difficulties in recovering from a broken relationship. The challenges of the person "jolted" by the "Secret Dumper" are huge at times. Yet, the reckless Dumpee continues their destructive path with little remorse. Dr GAP

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The Idiots Around Me Make Me Angry?

"If you knew the people I dealt with you would understand why I am crazy." So many of people I work with express their frustration that it is "others" that force them into being Angry. See what I have to say. Dr GAP

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Parenting Styles: Many parents confuse discipline with punishment, while others confuse generosity with enabling. I would like you to gain an understanding of both extremes, and see what I believe is the middle ground. This lecture briefly discusses the range of styles from Autocratic, Emotionally-Enmeshed Parent to the Permissive, Emotionally-Disengaged Parent.

11:20 Minutes Downloadable MP3