WHEN DATING HURTS

Bill Mitchell

A "must-listen-to" podcast for parents from Bill Mitchell, author of “When Dating Hurts”, who lost his daughter, Kristin, in June 2005. 1 in 3 WOMEN suffer serious physical violence from intimate partners in their lifetimes. Typically, it happens between 16-24 years of age. It doesn't need to happen. Bill interviews people with keen insights into dating violence: • Counselors from domestic violence agencies • Law enforcement professionals • Parents of children who were either lost or survived dating violence • Actual survivors of DV Share this with those who need to hear it.

  • 20 minutes 57 seconds
    299. End of 2025 Wrap-Up with WDH Host, Bill Mitchell

    On our "End of 2025" episode, it's just me answering your questions. I hope this is the kind of information you would like to hear.

    The questions are ones I hear most often from listeners.

    I hope you have a healthy and happy holiday season. This time of year is stressful for a lot of us–especially when we have lost loved ones.

    I try my best to focus on what is here now. I appreciate this podcast is popular, because it is a useful place where I can help people all around the world.

    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast.

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    23 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 39 minutes 24 seconds
    301. Anna Astwood - A Return Visit from a Survivor of Severe Dating Violence

    We are excited to have Anna Astwood return. Anna's first visit was in early 2025.

    Anna is a survivor of teen dating violence that occurred about 25 years ago. She has lived with this trauma every day since then. As a survivor of both sexual assault and teen dating violence from the ages of 12 to 18 years old, she knows the pain and the guilt of what relationship violence brings. She knows healing can take place.

    In this episode, Anna will tell us what she is doing now–which includes finishing her book which will be published in 2026. She also speaks about healthy relationships in elementary school classes.

    We have to say how proud we are of Anna. She has taken her pain and used it as motivation.

    Here are links to Anna's lifesaving work:

    The "Love Doesn't Hurt" Mission Statement: ⁠Love Doesn’t Hurt ⁠is a nonprofit dedicated to ending teenage dating violence and supporting those affected through education, empowerment and community support. 

    Here you can ⁠find the Trauma Journal Anna created.⁠

    ⁠You can contact Anna Astwood at this link. ⁠

    Or email Anna: [email protected].


    Thank you for listening to WHEN DATING HURTS.

    Bill Mitchell


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: [email protected]

    The ⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠The Hotline.org ⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠LoveIsRespect⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠RAINN.org⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    16 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 5 minutes 40 seconds
    300. Why I am Removing Three Interviews

    This is a very short episode. I explain why I am removing three episodes that ran recently. There were with Michael Clark and his wife, Lynn Clark.

    When I ran these interviews, it was with the best intentions and expectations. It is clear I was incorrect in what our listeners would accept.

    My loyalty and respect has to be with my listeners – first and foremost. Many are survivors and some are working their way out of abusive relationships. For that reason, I needed to remove those episodes.

    Please listen to my explanation.

    And thank you for listening to the WHEN DATING HURTS podcast.

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠⁠


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    12 December 2025, 6:15 pm
  • 1 hour 10 minutes
    277. Rereleased - "Sara" - My Cousin is a DV Survivor

    "Sara" is a domestic violence survivor. She is also my cousin.

    Sara appeared to be in a perfect marriage. A nice home and three healthy boys. But her ex-husband eventually devolved into a serial abuser. She did all she could to coerce him into getting help, but nothing seemed to work. When living with this man became dangerous, she needed to break free. 

    Listen to a narrative of patience and courage. Sara took years before she could tell her story. We applaud her for sharing it with us on the WHEN DATING HURTS podcast. 

    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠VictimsVoice⁠⁠ – Everything they do empowers people to have happier, healthier lives beyond all forms of abuse.

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared.

    We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    11 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 48 minutes 45 seconds
    296. Stephanie - A Survivor Returns with an Update on Her Life.

    This story comes with trigger warning about domestic violence with an emphasis on physical violence.

    This is a return interview with Stephanie. We are so happy to have her back with us after several years.

    For Stephanie, from the moment she was adopted, there were scant times life showed her an easy path. And yet, she has continually remained ultra-positive.

    It is clear the one person Stephanie believed in most was herself. Listening to her story, your heart will go out to her years before she ever met up with Michael. It's a good thing, because he brought pure hell into her life over three years. 

    Working together with law enforcement, she was able to turn the tables on this man who became such a despicable person and her serial abuser.

    It is exciting to have Stephanie's update. Her life is nothing like it was years ago. Now, she is happy and thriving with her husband, Neil.

    You can listen to Stephanie's previous episodes: Look for episode numbers 42, 43, and 44 on the WHEN DATING HURTS podcast.

    Bill Mitchell


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    2 December 2025, 10:00 am
  • 31 minutes 17 seconds
    295. Anne Wintemute - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Co-Founder and CEO of "Aimee Says"

    This is part two of a two-part interview with Anne Wintemute.

    Anne Wintemute is the Co-founder and CEO of "Aimee Says". Anne is passionate about transforming the conversation around intimate partner violence and for holding domestic violence perpetrators accountable.

    I am fascinated about her organization.

    Their website, ⁠⁠aimeesays.com⁠⁠, is a sanctuary of support and empowerment for people impacted by relationship abuse.

    Aimee Says is dedicated to helping individuals as they navigate the path towards safety and healing. Not just for themselves, but also for those they cherish.

    Aimee Says uses AI to help survivors gain objective advice about dating abuse and domestic violence.

    Bill Mitchell

    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    25 November 2025, 10:01 am
  • 33 minutes 17 seconds
    294. Anne Wintemute - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - Co-Founder and CEO of "Aimee Says"

    This is part one of a two-part interview with Anne Wintemute.

    Anne Wintemute is the Co-founder and CEO of "Aimee Says". Anne is passionate about transforming the conversation around intimate partner violence and for holding domestic violence perpetrators accountable.

    I am fascinated about her organization.

    Their website, aimeesays.com, is a sanctuary of support and empowerment for people impacted by relationship abuse.

    Aimee Says is dedicated to helping individuals as they navigate the path towards safety and healing. Not just for themselves, but also for those they cherish.

    Aimee Says uses AI to help survivors gain objective advice about dating abuse and domestic violence.

    Bill Mitchell

    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    25 November 2025, 10:00 am
  • 42 minutes 54 seconds
    293. Hazel - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - She was Stalked for Nearly 20 Years

    This is a story about severe stalking. This is part two of two parts.

    Whether it fits under the heading of domestic violence isleft to discussion. But I wanted you to hear it so you know how bad stalking can become.

    Hazel never had it easy. Her parents were little to no help for her and her brother. They needed to figure everything out for themselves. It was a home at full disfunction.

    Hazel had a boyfriend. And the boyfriend and Hazel used to be friends with Dee. The three became a unit. They did everything together.

    Dee didn't see the relationship as did Hazel. He was waiting for his moment to claim Hazel for himself. It's seems if he could not have Hazel, at least he could get s close as he could by stalking her. And that lasted nearly 20 years...

    Bill Mitchell


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    18 November 2025, 10:01 am
  • 48 minutes
    292. Hazel - Pt 1 of 2 Pts - She was Stalked for Nearly 20 Years

    This is a story about severe stalking. This is part one of two parts.

    Whether it fits under the heading of domestic violence isleft to discussion. But I wanted you to hear it so you know how bad stalking can become.

    Hazel never had it easy. Her parents were little to no help for her and her brother. They needed to figure everything out for themselves. It was a home at full disfunction.

    Hazel had a boyfriend. And the boyfriend and Hazel used to be friends with Dee. The three became a unit. They did everything together.

    Dee didn't see the relationship as did Hazel. He was waiting for his moment to claim Hazel for himself. It's seems if he could not have Hazel, at least he could get s close as he could by stalking her. And that lasted nearly 20 years...

    Bill Mitchell


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

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    18 November 2025, 10:00 am
  • 52 minutes 57 seconds
    291. Kailey's Sister was Murdered by Her Brother-in-Law.

    It was bad. And had Kailey Campbell not been there, it would have been much worse.

    Kailey's sister, Kadie, appeared to have everything going for her. The children. The marriage. The career. The house. Everything was just so picture perfect.

    But she and her husband disguised what was actually going on.

    Kailey had an inkling that something didn't feel right in her sister's life. Then one night, it was purely by chance Kailey was present to prevent a life-ending tragedy from becoming many times worse.

    Today, Kailey Campbell is a therapist. It's largely due to her sister's murder at the hands of Kailey's brother-in-law, Riley.

    This episode demonstrates the ripple effects that come when domestic violence hits a worst-case scenario. Untold numbers of lives are ruined by DV.

    Bill Mitchell


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

    ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WhenDatingHurts.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


    DISCLAIMER:

    The WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast is providing this platform for information to be shared. We do not state with any certainty that anything is true or untrue. Understand that what you hear is the viewpoint of the people sharing. The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only. Any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. This Podcast should not be considered professional advice.

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    11 November 2025, 10:00 am
  • 55 minutes 10 seconds
    288. "Lily" - Pt 2 of 2 Pts - Survivor of Gaslighting and Despicable Abuse

    The mission of this podcast is to allow survivors of dating abuse and domestic violence to speak their truth about what they experienced. We do this with very little editorial censorship.

    This survivor story comes with warnings about severe physical violence. The depictions are disturbing and can be triggering to some listeners.


    In part two, of this two-part story with Lily and Sam.

    At this point in this toxic relationship, Lily needs to move out of the house she was renting. Although she avoided moving in with Sam at his home, she now feels she has to do this.

    The consequences of living with this man are distressing to hear about. It is impossible to understand how someone could become so cruel. Especially to someone they claim they love.

    When listening to the story, you may be tempted to judge Lily for the unfortunate choices she made. But, having listened to many of these stories, I urge you to keep in mind that abusive offenders are predators and, over time, they become masters of manipulation over their prey.

    Lily was caught up in something she did not recognize for what it was. This is Lily's story -- part two of two parts.

    Bill Mitchell


    NOTE:

    If you are a survivor and want to share your story of abuse on the WHEN DATING HURTS Podcast, please email me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    The ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠WHEN DATING HURTS book⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (in paperback, eBook, and audiobook) can be found on Amazon.


    HELPFUL RESOURCES:

    • National Domestic Violence Hotline – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Hotline.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠– Call 800-799-SAFE

    • ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LoveIsRespect⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 866-331-9474

    • RAINN (Rape Abuse Incest National Network) – ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠RAINN.org⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Call 800-656-4673

    • SUICIDE HELPLINE: Call 988


    Thank you for listening to our WHEN DATING HURTS podcast,

    Bill Mitchell

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