That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

Emily Duncan

A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: [email protected] This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

  • 42 minutes 11 seconds
    173 Exploring Kink and BDSM with Coby Baker

    This episode features Coby Baker, a sexologist and devoted artist.

    Emily and Coby discussed:

    • What is Kink and BDSM
    • Development of kinks
    • Common practices
    • Difference between a kink and a fetish
    • How to explore kink and BDSM safely
    • Communication
    • How to talk to your partner about a kink you want to explore
    • Aftercare

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    29 October 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 54 minutes 40 seconds
    172 How to overcome purity culture and sexual shame with Lauren Elise Rogers

    This episode features Lauren Elise Rogers who is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator and Embodied Intimacy & Relationship Coach, celebrated for her warm and approachable style. Her holistic and embodied approach to education and coaching is deeply rooted in her own pain-to-purpose journey. Lauren brings an empathetic and non-judgmental approach, offering practical tools that empower her clients to take ownership of their pleasure and grow in confidence and connection. She is known for creating shame-free spaces, where she invites individuals and couples to navigate complex topics like long-term partnerships, consensual non-monogamy, life transitions, purity culture and LGBTQIA+ issues.

    We discuss:

    • What is purity culture
    • How to overcome purity culture frameworks and sexual shame
    • Why talking about sex is important
    • What if your partner also contributed to your experience of purity culture

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    Website: www.sexedforyou.com/freeconsult

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexedforyou

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/

     

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    31 July 2025, 4:00 am
  • 54 minutes 26 seconds
    171 Why people cheat and how to repair your relationship after an affair with Tarah and Ej Kerwin

    This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.

     

    We discuss:

    • What is cheating
    • Why do people cheat?
    • Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem?
    • Can a relationship survive an affair?
    • How couples can rebuild trust through couples therapy
    • Misconceptions about affairs 

    YOUTUBE VIDEO

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    28 May 2025, 8:00 pm
  • 52 minutes 31 seconds
    170 The bedroom gap, Labiaplasty and Menopause with Dr Maria Sophocles

    This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S.

    Emily and Maria discuss:

    • Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it
    • How Menopause can affect sex
    • The bedroom gap
    • Labiaplasty
    • Expanding your experience of sex

     

     

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    Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.com/patient-care/

    Instagram: @mariasophoclesmd 

    TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alYBnyxMuPk

    Erika Lust / TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9LaQtfpP_8

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    16 April 2025, 8:00 pm
  • 41 minutes 46 seconds
    169 ADHD and relationships with Niamh Mannion

    This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed. 

    Emily and Niamh discuss:

    • ADHD
    • How ADHD can have positive impacts on relationships
    • Other ways ADHD could impact relationships
    • Rejection sensitivity
    • Oversharing
    • How a neurotypical or non-ADHDer can support an ADHD partner

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    3 April 2025, 12:05 am
  • 41 minutes 1 second
    168 How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni

    How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni

     

    This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is a dating coach, ehrmony Australia’s dating expert and podcast host of Love uncensored: the modern guide to dating and relationships.  

     

    Emily and Nicole discussed:

    • Dating rules
    • How dating rules differ between generations
    • Dating advice
    • Is your type really right for you?

     

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    27 March 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 43 minutes 12 seconds
    167 Discover your erotic blueprint for better sex with Laurie Love

    This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy through the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ types framework which helps us understand how we are wired for pleasure.

    Emily and Laurie discuss:

    • Laurie's journey to become an intimacy coach
    • What is the erotic blueprint?
    • How do we discover what our erotic blueprint is?
    • Why is this helpful and how can we use it?
    • What to do if your partner has a different erotic blueprint

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    19 March 2025, 10:00 pm
  • 36 minutes 32 seconds
    166 How to talk about sex and your desires with your partner with Laura Lee

    This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the Director of Blue Space Psychology where she provides individual psychological and sexual therapy. In addition to clinical practice, Laura provides supervision, professional consultation and workshops to healthcare providers. She also offers online courses, education and coaching, and is a sought after speaker and trainer.

    Laura‘s work has been published in the Journal of Positive Sexuality, where she explored how communication impacts sexual desire & satisfaction.

    Her extensive experience, academic research and practical insights, coupled with her warm and authentic communication style, sees that she is a highly respected voice in the fields of psychology and sexuality.

     

    Emily and Laura discussed:

    • What is sexual communication and how is it different to other ways we communicate in relationships?
    • How does the relationship between communication, desire and satisfaction interact with each other?
    • How to create safety when discussing sex
    • What if your partner isn’t open to the idea of talking about sex?
    • How to stay regulated during hard conversations 
    • Creating interpersonal safety

     

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    Laura's Website: https://www.lauralee.com.au/about-1

    Blue Space Psychology: https://www.bluespacepsychology.com.au/about

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    12 March 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 45 minutes 30 seconds
    165 How society fails to support our cycles with Laura Federico and Morgan Miller

    This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice. Morgan is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice.  

    Emily, Laura and Morgan discuss:

    • What can you track in your menstrual cycle?
    • What are the menstrual phases and what can they feel like?
    • The importance of tracking your cycle
    • Why you shouldn’t digitally track your health
    • How to track your cycle
    • How society isn’t set up to support our cycles
    • How Donald Trump’s presidency is affecting Women and AFAB health rights

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    Laura and Morgan’s website: https://www.itslauraandmorgan.com/

    Buy the book in Australia HERE 

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    5 March 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 58 minutes 35 seconds
    164 Rebuilding desire and connection in your relationship with Tarah and Ej Terwin

    This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.

     

    We discuss:

    • Mismatched desire
    • How to rebuild desire in your relationship
    • Navigating conflict in relationships
    • Not trusting your partner to hold information/explore difficult issues with you

     

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    The Relationship Renovation Website

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    26 February 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 32 minutes 58 seconds
    163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr

    In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k.

    In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health aspects associated with his condition. He aims to raise awareness about his challenges, including finding suitable clothing and managing health issues related to blood flow. Matt has shared his experiences, from bizarre direct messages to unexpected date invitations. He humorously recalls requests ranging from cleaning houses naked to more unusual propositions, such as a fan wanting to draw him in cartoon form for a fetish known as macrophilia.

    Matt enjoys working with brands like Fleshy because they share his goal of promoting a positive discourse around male sexuality.

    Matt's website: https://biggestpenisbook.com/

    Fleshy sex toys: getfleshy.com

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    19 February 2025, 7:00 pm
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