That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

Emily Duncan

A sex positive podcast that provides a shame free perspective on all things sex. Nothing is off bounds in this uncensored podcast, delving into all the juicy and taboo topics you can imagine. Most importantly this podcast aims to break down the stigmas surrounding sex and provide the tools to create a liberating sexual experience for everyone. Disclaimer: the educational information within this podcast does not take place of professional or medical advice. FOLLOW US on instagram @thatsorgasmic. Email your questions, stories and comments to: [email protected] This podcast is created on the land of the Wadawurrung people, the traditional custodians of this land. I pay my respects to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander Elders past and present. I acknowledge that it always was and always will be Aboriginal land.

  • 58 minutes 35 seconds
    164 rebuilding desire and connection in your relationship with Tarah and Ej Terwin

    This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.

     

    We discuss:

    • Mismatched desire
    • How to rebuild desire in your relationship
    • Navigating conflict in relationships
    • Not trusting your partner to hold information/explore difficult issues with you

     

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    The Relationship Renovation Website

    Tarah and Ej’s Instagram

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    26 February 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 32 minutes 58 seconds
    163 The worlds largest penis with Matt Barr

    In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k.

    In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health aspects associated with his condition. He aims to raise awareness about his challenges, including finding suitable clothing and managing health issues related to blood flow. Matt has shared his experiences, from bizarre direct messages to unexpected date invitations. He humorously recalls requests ranging from cleaning houses naked to more unusual propositions, such as a fan wanting to draw him in cartoon form for a fetish known as macrophilia.

    Matt enjoys working with brands like Fleshy because they share his goal of promoting a positive discourse around male sexuality.

    Matt's website: https://biggestpenisbook.com/

    Fleshy sex toys: getfleshy.com

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    19 February 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 32 minutes 48 seconds
    162 Twenty five things I have learnt about sex as a Sexologist

    Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist.

     

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    12 February 2025, 7:00 pm
  • 29 minutes 12 seconds
    160 Four steps to overcoming anxiety in your relationship with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 1

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof 

    Emily and Nicole discuss:

    • What is anxiety?
    • Why do we experience anxiety?
    • Difference between being diagnosed with anxiety and experiencing anxiety
    • How does anxiety impact romantic relationships?
    • Inner child work
    • Communication between the brain and your body during an emotional response
    • How to regulate during a fight with four steps
    • The vagus nerve

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    LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/

    Dr Nicole Cain's links

    IG: drnicolecain

    FB: Dr. Nicole Cain

    Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA

    Website: https://drnicolecain.com/

    Buy Panic Proof: https://www.amazon.com.au/Panic-Proof-Holistic-Solution-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B0D262P23G

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    9 October 2024, 7:00 pm
  • 27 minutes 53 seconds
    161 How to have hard conversations, boundaries and anxiety with Dr. Nicole Cain - Part 2

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Dr. Nicole Cain who is a clinical psychologist, holistic anxiety expert, and author of Panic Proof 

    Emily and Nicole discuss:

    • How to have a scary conversation with someone 
    • Boundaries
    • How a lack of boundaries can impact anxiety
    • relationship check-ins
    • Flop and fracture response
    • what to do if your partner is dissociating 
    • What to do if your partner is overstimulated

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    To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

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    LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/

    Dr Nicole Cain's links

    IG: drnicolecain

    FB: Dr. Nicole Cain

    Youtube: DrNicoleCainNMDA

    Website: https://drnicolecain.com/

    Buy Panic Proof: https://www.amazon.com.au/Panic-Proof-Holistic-Solution-Anxiety-ebook/dp/B0D262P23G

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    9 October 2024, 7:00 pm
  • 54 minutes 31 seconds
    159 Why you may be experiencing a lack of pleasure during sex, exploring the connection to fascia with Anna Rahe

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Anna Rahe.

    Anna is the founder of GST Body and a somatic expert with over 25 years of professional experience. 

    Emily and Anna discuss:

    • What is fascia/connective tissue system
    • Why fascia is important and how it impacts our sex lives
    • Sexual pain and fascia
    • Why you may be experience a lack of pleasure during sex
    • How to support the pelvic floor muscles
    • Sexual trauma and pelvic pain
    • Reflective systems in the body (throat to pelvic floor)

     

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    LIFELINE: https://www.lifeline.org.au/

     

    Anna’s Links:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gstbody/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annaraheofgst/ 

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GSTBody

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCixVSo4ZACweqBpZZ_AZJ0A

    Website: https://gstbody.com/pages/our-story

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    2 October 2024, 8:00 pm
  • 53 minutes 16 seconds
    158 Who you date doesn't define your sexuality - honouring bisexuality with Mim Kempson [REVISIT]

    This episode explores different ways that bisexual women in monogamous relationships can connect to their sexuality while respecting and honouring their partnership. Featuring Mim Kempson a dating and relationship coach.

    Emily and Mim discuss:

    • What is a dating and relationship coach?
    • When should you see a relationship coach?
    • Biphobia 
    • Common bisexual myths
    • How can a bisexual woman honour her sexuality with a cis-gendered heterosexual man when polyamory and opening the relationship isn't on the table
    • If a man feels threatened by their partner's sexuality in this relationship, what can they do to break down that fear and instead support their partner?

    Mim's website: https://www.mimkempson.com/

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    25 September 2024, 8:00 pm
  • 25 minutes 17 seconds
    157 Lost in love: Navigating identity loss in relationships and reclaiming your individuality

    In this episode, Emily explores losing your sense of self while in a relationship and how you can reclaim your individuality. Emily explores six signs that you may be losing your sense of self and then provides six strategies to overcome this phenomenon. 

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    18 September 2024, 8:00 pm
  • 28 minutes 28 seconds
    156 Supporting your penis and erections after cancer Melissa Hadley Barret - part two

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett.

    Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever.

    Emily and Melissa discuss:

    • Prostate cancer
    • How cancer can affect sexual function
    • Penis rehabilitation project
    • Treating erectile difficulties after cancer
    • Prevalence of erectile difficulties after prostate cancer
    • What penis owners can do during prostate cancer treatment to support their penis and sexual function

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    To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

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    Melissa's links

    The Penis Project Podcast:

    Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/

    Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com

    • Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/
    • All genders

    Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount.

    Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/

    TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett

    YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett

    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/

    TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA

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    11 September 2024, 8:00 pm
  • 33 minutes 22 seconds
    155 How to have a healthier penis, wonky willy’s and erectile difficulties Melissa Hadley Barrett - part one

    In this episode, Emily is joined by Melissa Hadley Barrett.

    Melissa Hadley Barret is a sexologist, nurse practitioner, podcast host, founder and clinical director of the Restorative Sexual Health Clinic and creator of programs such as the Penile Rehabilitation Program for Prostate Cancer and Peyronies program. All of Melissa’s programs go beyond addressing sexual well-being; they offer a solution for men to reclaim intimate connections and rediscover a part of themselves they may have thought was lost forever.

    Emily and Melissa discuss:

    • The most common concerns in Melissa’s clinic
    • Peyronies disease
    • Erectile dysfunction
    • How to treat erectile dysfunction
    • Tips for if you lose your erection during sex
    • Tips for a healthier penis

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    To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

    Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

    Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)

    Melissa's links

    The Penis Project Podcast:

    Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Podbean, Audible and at https://melissahadleybarrett.com/podcast/

    Websites: https://melissahadleybarrett.com

    • Men’s health only https://rshealth.com.au/
    • All genders

    Use the code MHB10 at the checkout on all the programs (penile rehab, erectile dysfunction and Peyronies) for a 10% discount.

    Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/p/Melissa-Hadley-Barrett-100085237672685/https://www.facebook.com/Restorativeshealthclinic

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissahadleybarrett/https://www.instagram.com/rshealth_perth/

    TikTok: @melissahadleybarrett

    YouTube: Melissa Hadley Barrett

    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissa-hadley-barrett/

    TEDX: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjHj1YTmLoA

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    4 September 2024, 8:00 pm
  • 36 minutes 23 seconds
    154 Is it normal to never orgasm? Do women like get dick pics? Why does it hurt to have sex? How to talk about non-monogamy? Answering your questions part 2

    In this episode, Emily answers your sex and relationship questions. 

     

    • Where does the line get drawn between respecting someone’s personal boundaries and expanding their sexual horizons?
    • Do women like dick pics?
    • Connection games for lovers
    • What do I do if sex starts to feel dull?
    • Why does it hurt when I have sex?
    • Is it normal to have never orgasmed?
    • How to bring up non-monogamy with a partner

     

    FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic
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    To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/

    Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology.

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    28 August 2024, 8:00 pm
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