Ex-Wives Undercover

Double A Productions

Female power duo, Amber and Athena, join forces to uncover the truth and expose their former husband’s dirty ways. Follow their true story as they embark on an adventure to unravel deeply hidden secrets, expose the truth, advocate for justice and rebuild their lives.Part cathartic experience / part riveting storytelling, these two won’t leave anything to the imagination. They’re spilling all the tea—identifying missed red flags, chatting about the lessons learned, interviewing special guests and more!

  • 1 hour 4 minutes
    S6E6 | From Green Flags to Red Flags | Danielle

    In today's podcast, you will meet a woman named Danielle who, in the beginning, saw only green flags regarding a handsome Italian professor named Luca, whom she began dating. Unfortunately, it wouldn't take too long before the green flags turned red.


    With Halloween around the corner and a couple of costumes picked out for the pair, Danielle would slowly unmask the many disguises her new beau was wearing. As the story unfolds, it reveals themes of deception, outrageous lies, scandal and the complexities of modern dating. 


    Danielle walks us through all the crazy, as she reveals the emotional rollercoaster of their relationship. From navigating his family issues to discovering his deceit through community support, Danielle's story highlights the importance of communication, self-empowerment, and recognizing red flags in relationships.


    This episode will remind you just how powerful community is, especially in uncovering truths and supporting one another in the dating world.


    Resources & Links:

    👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

    👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions

    👉 Watch this episode on YouTube

    👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content


    Thank You for Listening!

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share it with someone who needs to hear it.


    #ExWivesUndercover #Podcast #TrueStories #SurvivorStories #DatingApps #Healing #WomenEmpowerment #Hinge #Newyork #Lovecon

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    1 April 2025, 7:00 am
  • 3 minutes 46 seconds
    The A-Team Joins From Mrs. to Ms., Season Updates & More

    Guess what? We had the amazing opportunity to be guests on the popular podcast From Mrs. to Ms.! 🎉

    Since there won’t be a new episode of Ex-Wives Undercover this week, we’d love for you to check out our special guest appearance on From Mrs. to Ms. with Andrea. It was an absolute blast, and we know you’re going to love it!

    Tune in to Episode #82, show Andrea some love, and let us know what you think! 💕🎧


    If you still want more Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber will be interviewed on Jake Deptula's new podcast, LoveLustFear, on Friday, March 14th.


    From Mrs. to Ms.


    LoveLustFear


    We're still looking for more stories to share. If you're interested, please send us an email at ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com

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    11 March 2025, 2:00 pm
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    S6E5 | The Hidden Dangers of Dating as a Widow with Christine Baumgartner

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this special bonus episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber sits down with dating and relationship coach Christine Baumgartner to discuss the unique challenges widows face in the modern dating world. Christine, who has been both divorced and widowed, shares her personal journey, the lessons she learned, and expert advice on how to navigate dating safely and successfully after loss.

    From emotional vulnerability to financial scams, widows are often targeted by predators who exploit their grief and longing for companionship. Christine breaks down red flags to watch for, how to protect yourself online and why healing before jumping back into dating is crucial.

    💡 Key Takeaways:

    ✅ Why widows are more vulnerable to dating scams

    ✅ The psychology behind love bombing and mirroring

    ✅ How to spot a scammer before they steal your heart (and wallet)

    ✅ The importance of healing and rediscovering yourself before dating

    ✅ Safe dating strategies for widows ready to find love again

    🔥 Resources & Links:


    🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review, and follow us on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook and YouTube!

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    4 March 2025, 8:00 am
  • 57 minutes 15 seconds
    S6E4 | Ghosted | Lori | Part 4 of 4 Finale

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we dive into Lori’s shocking experience of being ghosted by her husband, Richard Ruland, who disappeared after draining their bank account and selling her belongings. Lori’s viral TikTok detailing her ordeal garnered 1.3 million views and caught the attention of the beloved influencer, Mama Tot (Ophelia Nichols), who offered her support.

    Join hosts Amber and Athena as they unpack Lori’s journey, from the moment she realized her husband had vanished to the community of strong women who rallied around her. We also hear about the web of deception spun by Richard Ruland, including multiple wives, fiancées, and girlfriends, and how Lori’s courage is helping other women escape similar situations.

    Key Moments in This Episode:

    🔹 Lori’s viral TikTok that started it all

    🔹 How Mama Tot and the TikTok community came to Lori’s aid

    🔹 The unraveling of Richard Ruland’s past and the women he deceived

    🔹 The emotional impact of narcissistic abuse and the journey to healing

    🔹 Lori’s powerful advice on financial independence and self-love

    Special Guest:

    🎙 Mama Tot (Ophelia Nichols) – The TikTok sensation shares her perspective on helping people through their darkest moments.

    Resources & Links:

    👉 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook

    👉 Join our private Facebook group for more exclusive discussions

    👉 Watch this episode on YouTube

    👉 Support us on Patreon for bonus content

    Thank You for Listening!

    If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share it with someone who needs to hear it.

    #ExWivesUndercover #Podcast #TrueStories #SurvivorStories #Ghosted #NarcissisticAbuse #MamaTot #Healing #WomensEmpowerment

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    25 February 2025, 8:00 am
  • 47 minutes 33 seconds
    S6E3 | Ghosted | Lori | Pt. 3 of 4

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this explosive episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we dive into Lori’s harrowing journey of deception, manipulation, and ultimate resilience. When Lori’s partner, Richard Ruland, suddenly vanishes—leaving behind a financial and emotional mess—she uncovers a tangled web of lies that span multiple marriages, false identities, and a shocking history of deceit.


    🎙️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

    • The red flags Lori ignored before Richard disappeared.
    • How he meticulously drained their shared finances before ghosting.
    • A deep dive into Richard’s fraudulent claims of being a New York police officer.
    • The shocking connection between Lori and Richard’s ex-wives—how they united to expose him.
    • A hilarious yet brutal poetic takedown from one of his former spouses.


    👀 More to Explore:

    • The behind-the-scenes TikTok movement to warn others.
    • How Richard’s ex-wives banded together to uncover his serial manipulation.
    • What happens when a pathological liar gets backed into a corner?


    🔎 Want More?

    📲 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and join our private true crime community on Facebook! 📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube.


    🎧 Subscribe now and never miss an episode of Ex-Wives Undercover!

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    18 February 2025, 8:00 am
  • 47 minutes 26 seconds
    S6E2 | Ghosted | Lori | Pt. 2 of 4

    [VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber and Athena dive into Lori's shocking story of deception, financial fraud, and emotional and physical abuse at the hands of her ex-husband, Richard. What started as a whirlwind romance quickly spiraled into a nightmare of manipulation and betrayal. From Richard’s dubious claims of being a former NYPD officer to his involvement in paranormal investigations, Lori soon uncovered lie after lie—culminating in a devastating financial and emotional toll.

    💔 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

    • How Lori fell for Richard’s charming facade and rushed into marriage.

    • Richard’s dubious past, including false claims of being a police officer and a ghost hunter.

    • Financial deceit, fraud, and Richard’s history of job losses.

    • The chilling moment Lori discovered he had a secret bank account and stole rent money.

    • How Richard’s lies extended into his business dealings, taking advantage of colleagues and friends.

    • The terrifying escalation of abuse, from emotional manipulation to physical violence.

    • Lori’s brave journey to escape and uncover the full extent of Richard’s lies.


    ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of financial abuse, emotional abuse, physical violence, and psychological manipulation. Listener discretion is advised.


    👉 Stay tuned for next week’s explosive continuation of Lori’s story, where more dark secrets unravel, and Richard’s past finally catches up with him.

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    11 February 2025, 8:00 am
  • 47 minutes 46 seconds
    S6E1 | Ghosted | Lori | Pt. 1 of 4

    Join Amber and Athena as they dive into Lori’s gripping tale of love, loss, and deceit in the first episode of Ex-Wives Undercover Season 6. After losing her husband Paul, Lori thought she found solace in Richard, a charming paranormal investigator with a knack for ghost tours and love songs. But the red flags—hidden secrets, financial manipulation, and unraveling lies—paint a darker picture.

    In this episode, Lori recounts her journey from love bombing to uncovering Richard’s web of deceit, including his mysterious past, suspicious job losses, and shocking health issues. How does a whirlwind romance turn into a haunting revelation? Tune in for this compelling story of resilience, heartbreak, and lessons learned.

    What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

    • How Lori met Richard and why his charm was initially irresistible.
    • The eerie ghost tours and Richard’s claims as a paranormal expert.
    • Love bombing, manipulation, and Lori’s growing suspicions.
    • Shocking discoveries about Richard’s health, finances, and past relationships.
    • Lori’s courageous steps to uncover the truth and warn others.


    Keywords:

    • Love bombing
    • Ghost tours
    • Paranormal investigator
    • Financial manipulation
    • Toxic relationships
    • Resilience
    • Love gone wrong
    • Red flags in relationships
    • Ex-Wives Undercover


    Listener Notes:

    • This episode includes sensitive topics like abuse and manipulation; discretion is advised.
    • Join the conversation in our private Facebook group or follow us on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube.


    Links:


    Don’t forget to leave us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review and share this episode with friends who need to hear Lori’s story!

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    4 February 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    S5E53 | 2024 Wrap-Up | Where We've Been & Where We're Going

    In this episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we'll reflect on everything we've accomplished in 2024 and what's coming up in 2025.

    Topics:

    • The stories we shared
    • Special guests we spoke with
    • Winning 'Best Relationship' podcast for 2024
    • Survey Says
    • New stories for season 6
    • Advertising
    • Patreon
    • Docuseries and Ben update


    Vote for us in the 2024 DiscoverPods!

    More info on our special guests:

    Jake Deptula - Strictly Stalking and LoveLustFear

    MadelinetheReal - TikTok sensation and known for her Loyalty Tests

    Kerrie Droban - Award-winning true crime author and podcaster


    Share with us your thoughts on the podcast. Take the survey here.


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    10 January 2025, 8:00 am
  • 1 hour 5 minutes
    S5:E52 | Todd Dean Update | Patreon Bonus

    Tis the season to be thankful, and we are so incredibly thankful to all of our listeners who have come on this journey with us. Here is a special bonus episode that we originally aired on our Patreon channel back in August 2024 that gives all the most recent updates regarding Todd Dean from season 5.

    There is a lot to unpack in this episode, and not only Jill but Roxie is joining us. Both women gave us some very insightful information that hasn't been shared publicly - they definitely shared all the juicy tea!

    If you want to go back and re-listen to those episodes, they begin in season 5, episode 16 [Jill's story].

    NOTE: If you want to write into the podcast we mentioned in this episode, it's called A Mental Health Break with Vincent A. Lanci. The problematic episode with Todd Dean is from the April 17, 2024, YouTube version of the show.

    Check out our Patreon page - for just $3 a month you get the following:

    • Monthly bonus episodes
    • Early release and ad-free episodes
    • Behind-the-scenes content
    • Private community and more!


    Send us a message at ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com

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    19 November 2024, 9:11 pm
  • 2 minutes 24 seconds
    Presenting | LoveLustFear

    Check out a new podcast that we think you're going to love by our friend Jake Deptula - LoveLustFear...Exposing Real Stories About Toxic Dating and Relationships.


    Host Jake Deptula (Strictly Stalking) welcomes storytellers into candid conversations, revealing the decisions they made and dilemmas they faced when better judgment got lost in a haze of desire. Every episode explores true dating and relationship stories—from the awkward and uncomfortable to the shocking and bizarre to the disturbing and downright dangerous. lovelustfear is a compelling, terrifying, but always insightful exploration into toxic dating and relationships that will have you abandoning courtesy and listening with caution.


    If you would like to share your story on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us at lovelustfearpod@gmail.com


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    19 October 2024, 7:32 pm
  • 3 minutes 22 seconds
    Presenting | NEXT REALM

    Ex-Wives Undercover co-host Amber has an all-new podcast coming out this October! NEXT REALM: Beautiful Stories from Beyond explores the profound and heartwarming stories of individuals who have experienced messages from their departed loved ones. From mysterious dreams and unexplained coincidences to undeniable signs, guests share their extraordinary encounters that go beyond the realms of explanation.

    Whether you are a skeptic or a believer, 'NEXT REALM' invites you to open your heart and mind to the possibility that your loved ones may communicate with us in ways we never imagined. Join us as we navigate the delicate intersection of grief, hope and the unspoken language that connects us to those who have crossed over.

    Subscribe now and join our community of listeners who seek solace, inspiration and a deeper understanding of the mysterious messages that bridge the gap between this world and the next. 'NEXT REALM'—where love knows no bounds and communication defies the limits of life and death.


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    Do you have a story to share? Please send an email to NextRealmPodcast@Gmail.com



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    14 September 2024, 4:18 am
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