Whether you're looking to take charge in the bedroom, feel more confident in your everyday life, or learn wtf it means to be a lifestyle dom, then this episode is FOR YOU. We're talking with Mistress Damiana Chi, a legendary Dominatrix with over 25 years of experience and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology who uses BDSM as a healing modality. We cover:

• A refresher on what BDSM is and what it means to be a Dominatrix
• What it's like to be a lifestyle dom and a deep dive into the master/slave dynamic within BDSM
• The 4 Dominatrix Archetypes and how YOU can start embodying each one
• How BDSM can be used as a healing modality for both the giver and receiver
• Simple strategies you can use to come across as more confident (in and outside the bedroom)
• How to be more dominant in the bedroom as a beginner
• PLUS Damiana walks us through what a session with her looks like!

Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi HERE!

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BIG transitions are a part of life. Whether you're moving in together, getting married, having a baby or experiencing some other form of change, your relationship is bound to feel a little (or a lot) different. Cue Tarah & EJ Kerwin, two therapists on a mission to provide couples with the tools they need to GET THROUGH these transitions without giving up on one another. In this episode, we cover:

• The most common transitions couples go through and WHY they're so f*cking hard (even if they're "supposed" to be good)
• Habits to start incorporating NOW so you can navigate big transitions with ease
• A weekly check in you can do with your partner to feel seen, heard & supported
• Simple tools to help keep you on track during a fight
• Questions you can ask to reignite the intimacy in your relationship
• And at what point you should consider WALKING AWAY

Connect with EJ and Tarah:

• Listen Relationship Renovation HERE!
• Check out their website HERE!
• Follow them on Instagram HERE!
• Watch their YouTube HERE!

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We're diving DEEP into the history of PORN with our friends over at Right Answers Mostly, Claire and Tess. From the dawn of time to the creation of the internet, porn has captivated us horny little humans for basically EVER. So in this episode we're covering:

• Ancient porn (because, again, humans have been horny from the start)
• Porn in the 1800's (including erotic novels, naughty nudes & Stag Films) 
• The Golden Age of Porn
• Porn & Pop Culture
• A lesson on ethical porn (what is it, why it's cool & how to know if YOUR porn is ethical)
• The types of porn people are actually watching (in 2016, 2021 & 2024)
• PLUS a few benefits of watching porn!

Listen to Right Answers Mostly HERE!

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SEX IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN! Which is why we're introducing you to a BUTTLOAD of games you can start playing in the bedroom and beyond. We cover:

• WHY you need to start playing sex games and their MANY benefits
• Games to help you and your partner get to know each other
• Teasing games to help build the (sexual) tension
• Orgasm denial games
• Food games
• Games to play with sex toys
• Timed games
• & actual board games (including a special Honeydew Me game you can get if you subscribe to our Patreon!)

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We're diving into long term relationships with Dr. Frankie Bashan, a sex therapist and founder of Little Gay Book, an LGBTQIA+ matchmaking service!  We cover:

• Whether or not long term relationships should feel EASY + other common misconceptions about LTRs
• The tools you NEED to build a strong relationship 
• The common (and toxic) mistakes we're making in our relationships
• How to navigate with dreaded "roommate phase"
• What being "clingy" actually means and what you can do to address it
• Daily + weekly habits you can start incorporating into your life to benefit your relationship

Connect with Dr. Frankie:

• On YouTube
• Through Little Gay Book or Little Black Book 
• Watch Her Ted Talk HERE!

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In this week's episode we're answering one of YOUR questions with a combination of expert tips, personal experience, and a much needed pep talk. 

The Question: "I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now, and the sex... it’s just not great. It’s not that we don’t like each other, but it just feels off. I want to be honest, I just don't know how to approach it, so please HELP!"

We cover:

• Questions to ask yourself 
• Expert tips for talking about sex with a partner
• How to give critical feedback KINDLY
• How to give feedback *in the moment*
• Why it's actually TOTALLY OKAY (and very normal) to be bad at sex
• Permission to break up with someone if the sex is bad

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We're exploring how to navigate mismatched sexual desire with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, a Somatic Sex Therapist and Relationship Coach. Did you know it's completely normal for sexual fulfillment and desire to waiver over the course of a relationship? Luckily Susan has a buttload of tools to help get through these tricky times. We cover:

• WHY these discrepancies happen (even if it used to feel like you were on the same page)
• What the research says about HOW LONG couples struggle with intimacy issues before getting help + tips for navigating any shame associated with these issues
• Steps you can take to address desire discrepancy 
• Questions you can ask yourself or your partner to COMPLETELY CHANGE your sex life
• The skills you need to build (or rebuild) a FULFILLING sex life 

Connect with Susan:

• On her website
• On Instagram

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The journey continues as we give you OVER 50 SEX ACTS to try in 2025. From foreplay, to masturbation, to positions, to kink, we're helping you build your sexual tool kit and feel confident AF anytime you step into the bedroom. In Part 2, we're covering:

• Spicy and adventurous places to get it on
• Refresher on how to give amazing oral and hand sex
• Kinky ideas for adding spice to your routine
• Aftercare and how it enhances your intimacy
• Plus BTS stories on unaired episodes

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We're giving you OVER 50 SEX ACTS to try in 2025. From foreplay, to masturbation, to positions, to kink, we're helping you build your sexual tool kit and feel confident AF anytime you step into the bedroom. In Part 1, we're covering:

• Our favorite foreplay techniques
• Tips for dirty talk & sexting
• How to actually feel SEXY
• Exciting ways to spice up your masturbation practice
• 10 different sex positions and tips for making them PLEASURABLE AF

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This week we're diving headfirst into the world of erotic romance novels and it will absolutely CHANGE YOUR LIFE. We start off the episode by talking with the co-founders of Tempt, an erotic romance audio-book app designed by women, for women with the goal of ELIMINATING the pleasure gap. We cover:

• How listening to erotic novels can COMPLETELY change your sex life 
• The BENEFITS of listening to erotic content
• How to use erotic novels to reconnect to your desire and feel sexy AF
• How to use erotic novels to explore your interests & fantasies

Next we cover a few ways to start incorporating erotic stories into your solo and partnered play. This includes:

• Turning yourself on throughout the day
• Opportunities for roleplay
• Building up and/or acting out your fantasies

Lastly, we want you to start getting all these incredible benefits ASAP... so we're sharing a clip from an erotic novel you can find on Tempt! Stay tuned until the end of the episode for a taste of "Big Bad Wolf" by Jenika Snow. 

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Anna Goldfarb, an author and friendship explainer, is here to do just that. She teaches us the KEY to cultivating new friendships and how to lovingly maintain the ones we have. We cover:

• HOW to make meaningful friendships 
• The #1 thing you need to be doing in all your friendships 
• How to build friendships that LAST
• Supporting friends who are in different life stages
• How many friends you *actually* need according to science
• Concrete ways to SHOW UP and be a good friend

Connect with Anna:

• On her website
• Get Anna's book "Modern Friendship: How To Nurture Our Most Valued Connections" HERE! 
• On Instagram

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