Sharing our kids online can feel completely normal. It’s how we connect, document memories, and stay close with family and friends.

But what does it actually mean for our kids to grow up with an audience?

In this episode, JoAnn is joined by journalist and author Fortesa Latifi, who has spent years researching influencer families and the real impact of growing up online. This conversation goes beyond screen time and into identity, trust, and how sharing affects our kids long-term.

This isn’t about guilt. It’s about awareness—so you can make decisions that feel right for your family.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why kids growing up online may struggle with identity as they get older
• The difference between consent and informed consent—and why it matters
• How sharing content can impact your relationship with your child
• The emotional cost of turning everyday moments into public content
• Why even casual sharing contributes to your child’s digital footprint
• Simple ways to set boundaries around what you share online

Why This Conversation Matters

Today’s kids are growing up in a world where their lives can be documented before they even understand what that means.

This episode helps you take a step back and consider:

• Would my child feel okay about this in the future?
• Am I sharing for connection or something else?
• What boundaries feel right for my family moving forward?

There’s no perfect approach—but there is a thoughtful one.

Resources Mentioned

• Like, Follow, Subscribe: Influencer Kids and the Cost of a Childhood Online by Fortesa Latifi

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You know that feeling when your to-do list never actually ends… it just resets the next day?

And somehow, even when you’re doing everything right, you still feel behind.

In this episode, I’m talking with Christine Landis about something that can feel both incredibly logical and deeply uncomfortable: buying back your time.

Because let’s be honest—most of us were never taught that we’re allowed to get help at home. We’ve been conditioned to believe that doing it all is what makes us a “good mom.”

But what if doing it all is actually what’s draining your joy?

Christine, a former CEO and founder of Proxy, shares how delegation at home isn’t about being “extra” or “bougie”—it’s about creating space for the life you actually want to live.

We dive into the emotional resistance, the guilt, and the real cost of trying to handle everything yourself—and how small shifts can completely change how you experience your days.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why moms struggle more with delegating at home than they do at work
• The difference between physical tasks and mental load—and why both matter
• Signs you’re not buying back your time (even if you think you’re “managing”)
• How control and perfectionism keep you stuck doing everything yourself
• Simple ways to start outsourcing without feeling overwhelmed
• The truth about “mom guilt” when it comes to paying for help
• Why knowing how you’ll use your free time makes letting go easie
  

Why This Episode Matters

So many moms are running on empty—not because they’re doing something wrong, but because they’re doing too much.

And the hardest part?

We’ve been taught to see that overload as normal.

Buying back your time isn’t about doing less for your family.

It’s about creating more space for connection, energy, and joy—with your family.

Because your kids don’t need a mom who does everything.

They need a mom who isn’t completely drained by everything.

Resources Mentioned

• Proxy (Christine’s text-based thinking partner for mental load and decision-making). She's giving you 3 months free! Here's how to get it:
• 1.  Select the 3 month plan here and input code NGM (it will ask for a CC number, you will not be charged ever).
  2. Complete the profile (takes ~5 minutes)
  3. S ave Proxy as a contact in your phone (820-732-2625)
  4. Text it when you need to vent, research or help making a decision in the moment (you can send a voice memo, voice to text, or say "Hey Siri, text Proxy...")
  5. We respond in real-time, in under 1 minute, with exactly what we would do, if we were you.

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You know those days where you wake up already tired… and by the end of the day, you’re completely drained—even though nothing that big happened?

And somehow, the hardest part isn’t even the exhaustion. It’s the voice in your head telling you that you should have handled it better.

In this episode, we’re shifting that narrative completely.

Because the truth is—you’re not bad at managing your time. You’ve just never been taught how to manage your energy.

We’re diving into spoon theory (a concept that completely changed how I see my own burnout), and how understanding your unique energy limits—especially as a mom, and especially if you’re neurodivergent—can help you stop the constant cycle of overdoing it… crashing… and then blaming yourself.

This isn’t about doing more.

It’s about finally working with yourself instead of against yourself.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• What spoon theory is and why it explains your daily exhaustion so clearly
• Why moms carry an invisible mental load that drains energy just as much as physical tasks
• How neurodivergent moms (ADHD, autism, and more) experience energy differently
• The “boom and bust” burnout cycle—and why it keeps repeating
• Why traditional productivity advice doesn’t work for women’s energy cycles
• How to identify your personal “spoon categories” (like focus, decision-making, and sensory input)
• Practical ways to plan your days around your energy instead of pushing through

Why This Matters

So many overwhelmed moms are stuck thinking:

“Why can’t I keep up?”

“Why am I so tired all the time?”

“Why does this feel so much harder for me than everyone else?”

But your energy is not a reflection of your worth.

When you start seeing your energy as something finite—something to budget and protect—everything changes. You stop shaming yourself… and start making decisions that actually support you.

And that’s where real relief begins.

Resources Mentioned

• 1-on-1 Coaching
  

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If your tween or teen son has started getting quieter, pulling away, or shutting down when emotions run high, it can feel personal fast.

One minute he’s talking freely, and the next, every answer is one word, every hard moment gets handled behind a closed door, and you’re left wondering if you’re losing your connection.

In this episode, I’m joined by Heidi Allsop, founder of Raising Boys, Building Men, master certified life and parenting coach, and mom of five sons. We talk about what’s actually going on when boys get quieter in adolescence, why that shift is often developmental rather than relational, and how moms can stay connected without overpursuing, overanalyzing, or panicking.

This conversation is such an important reminder that your son’s silence is not automatically rejection. Sometimes it’s his brain trying to stay efficient, avoid discomfort, and figure things out in the only way he knows how right now. And when we understand that, we can respond with a whole lot more calm, confidence, and connection.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What’s happening in a tween or teen boy’s brain when he goes quiet, acts impulsive, or seems emotionally distant
• The two common ways boys tend to respond during adolescence: pulling inward or acting outward
• Why moms often panic when behavior shifts, and how that panic can lead to overparenting or underparenting
• How boys’ need for efficiency and independence affects the way they communicate
• Why deep emotional talks can sometimes backfire with tween and teen boys
• Simple ways to test and build connection that do not rely on talking
• How physical proximity and nonverbal affection can reveal emotional safety
• Why letting boys build emotional muscles matters for resilience later in life
• How to support your son’s emotions without taking over responsibility for them
• The link between connection and influence during the teen years

Why this episode matters

So many moms assume that when a son starts pulling away, something is wrong with the relationship. But Heidi shares a powerful reframe: the relationship may be changing, but that does not mean it is broken.

When we stop interpreting silence as rejection and start seeing it as part of normal emotional development, we can parent with a lot more steadiness. That steadiness helps our sons feel safe, respected, and connected, even when they are not opening up in the ways we hoped they would.

This episode will help you better understand your son, stay grounded in the hard moments, and protect the connection that matters most.

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If you’ve ever caught yourself snapping at your kids and then immediately wondering, “Why am I like this?”—this episode is for you. Many moms struggle with reactive behaviors and the mom guilt that follows, but understanding the reaction pattern behind these moments is the first step to overcoming overwhelm and burnout.

In this episode of the No Guilt Mom parenting podcast, you'll gain valuable parenting tips and self-care tips designed specifically for moms navigating the chaos of family life. We explore what’s really happening in your brain when you react, why these responses feel automatic, and how to start breaking the cycle with strategies that work without relying on willpower alone.

Join parenting coach JoAnn Crohn, M.Ed. as she guides you through mindset shifts and practical advice to help you move beyond feeling overwhelmed and reactive to becoming a calmer, more empowered mom. This episode offers insight and support for moms seeking lasting change and renewed confidence in their parenting journey.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why labeling yourself as a “yelling mom” keeps you stuck (and what to say instead)
• How reaction patterns are formed—and why they feel so automatic
• The simple shift that can immediately change how you respond in stressful moments
• Why your kids’ behavior isn’t what’s causing your reaction
• How to interrupt your interpretation before it turns into yelling
• The truth about motivation (and why it’s not enough on its own)
• Why accountability is the missing piece in breaking reaction patterns

Why This Matters

When you believe your reactions are just “who you are,” it can feel hopeless to try to change them.

But when you understand that your reactions are learned patterns—not fixed traits—you open the door to something really powerful: choice.

You don’t have to stay stuck in the cycle of reacting, regretting, and repeating. There is a way to respond differently—and it starts with shifting how you interpret what’s happening around you.

Resources Mentioned:

The Regulated Mom Experience (April–June cohort, limited to 10 women)

No Guilt Mom Inner Circle

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Raising a strong-willed child can feel relentless.

You’re not just managing behavior. You’re managing intensity. Big emotions. Sudden escalations. Transitions that turn into full-body meltdowns. And somewhere in the middle of all of that, you’re trying to stay calm, steady, and kind.

If you’ve ever wondered why traditional parenting advice seems to make things worse with your child, this episode is going to bring so much clarity.

I’m joined by Mary Van Geffen, international parenting coach, author of Parenting a Spicy One, and mom to a grown “spicy one” herself. Mary shares what actually works with emotionally intense, strong-willed kids—and why so many common approaches backfire.

We also talk about something that doesn’t get discussed enough: what happens between the adults when your child escalates. Because often, the tension between co-parents becomes just as overwhelming as the behavior itself.

This episode is about parenting with emotional intelligence, staying calm without becoming passive, and building connection without losing your authority.

In This Episode, We Cover:

• What makes a child a “spicy one” (and how to know if yours fits the description)
• Why strong-willed kids escalate during transitions and time pressure
• How traditional control-based parenting fuels more resistance
• Why gentle parenting can feel confusing—and what authoritative parenting really looks like in real life
• The simplest regulation tool you can use when you feel yourself seeing red
• What to do after you react before you pause
• How to stay united with your co-parent when parenting styles clash

Why This Conversation Matters

Parenting a strong-willed child can make you question everything. Your patience. Your skills. Your marriage. Your ability to stay calm when you’re constantly being tested.

But here’s the truth: your child isn’t “too much,” and you’re not failing.

Spicy kids often grow into deeply connected, thoughtful, independent adults—especially when they’re parented with calm, kind, and firm leadership. The goal isn’t to crush their intensity. It’s to guide it.

Mary brings both professional expertise in child development and hard-earned personal experience. She shares how emotional regulation isn’t about being perfectly calm all the time. It’s about repair. It’s about consistency. It’s about staying steady even when your child doesn’t “deserve” it.

And if you’re navigating family dynamics where one parent stays calm and the other comes in hot, this episode will give you language and perspective to approach those conversations without triggering defensiveness.

Resources Mentioned:

• Parenting a Spicy One by Mary Van Geffen

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You love your kids. You’ve read the parenting books. You know the strategies.

And yet… there are moments when the noise is relentless, the fighting won’t stop, and it feels like every single thing is on you.

That’s when something snaps.

In this episode, we’re digging into something deeper than “just stress.” Because stress alone doesn’t cause the reaction. What actually fuels those yelling moments is the meaning your brain assigns to the chaos — and for so many overwhelmed moms, that meaning is: I’m completely alone in this.

We’re talking about how that interpretation turns normal kid behavior into a full nervous system emergency — and how to interrupt it before it spirals.

If you’ve ever wondered why you still yell even though you “know better,” this episode will help you understand what’s really happening inside your brain — and how to create change that actually lasts.

What We Cover in This Episode

• Why chaos at home can feel like abandonment — even when no one is actually abandoning you
• How your brain assigns meaning to situations faster than you can consciously catch it
• The neuroscience behind emotional regulation and neural pathways (and why yelling becomes a habit)
• Why yelling “works” in the short term — and why that’s exactly why it repeats
• The three practical steps to interrupt the “I’m alone” narrative in the moment
• How relationship building starts with taking responsibility for only your 50%

Why This Matters

Mom mental health isn’t about becoming perfectly calm all the time. It’s about understanding what’s happening under the surface so you can respond differently.

When your brain interprets chaos as proof that you’re alone, it activates survival mode. And in survival mode, you don’t access parenting strategies — you access fight-or-flight.

But interpretations can be questioned. Neural pathways can be rewired. Emotional regulation is a skill that grows with awareness and practice.

You are not broken. You are not failing. Your reactions aren’t random. They’re patterned — and patterns can change.

This episode will help you see how your interpretations shape your stress response and give you parenting strategies that support both relationship building and self-care in the real moments that matter most.

Resources Mentioned

• The Courage to Be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi
• The Regulated Mom Experience (priority waitlist link)

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So many moms tell me some version of this: “I know I need to let go of control… but I can’t.”

And here’s what I want you to hear right away — that doesn’t make you controlling. It makes you someone who cares deeply.

You’re not trying to micromanage everyone’s lives. You’re trying to prevent disappointment. You’re trying to keep the peace. You’re trying to make sure nothing falls through the cracks. Because when you’re the one who sees all the moving pieces, it feels irresponsible not to step in.

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with licensed marriage and family therapist Kati Morton to unpack what control is really about. And what we uncover might surprise you.

Control isn’t a personality flaw.

It’s often a safety strategy.

Kati helps us understand why control can feel like agency — like the only way to avoid helplessness. We also dive into how people-pleasing quietly becomes control in disguise, and what it actually takes to stop carrying the emotional weight of everyone else’s feelings.

If you’ve ever thought, “If I don’t handle it, no one will,” this episode is for you.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

• Why letting go of control feels unsafe (even when you logically want to)
• How people-pleasing turns into subtle control in relationships
• The connection between anxiety, perfectionism, and emotional weight
• Why control can feel like the only way to avoid conflict or disappointment
• The deeper relationship patterns that keep you stuck
• What healthy boundaries actually look like in real life

Why This Conversation Matters

When you’re constantly managing everyone’s moods, schedules, and reactions, you don’t just feel tired — you feel responsible for everything.

That emotional load is heavy.

And the harder you try to keep everything steady, the more pressure builds inside you.

This episode helps you see that your need for control isn’t random or irrational. It developed for a reason. Understanding that reason is what creates space for change.

Because once you realize what control is protecting, you can start building something stronger than control: emotional safety, boundaries, and real partnership.

Resources Mentioned

• Why Do I Keep Doing This by Kati Morton
• Follow Kati at her YouTube channel

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You’ve read the parenting books.
You’ve saved the Instagram posts.
You know you don’t want to yell.

And yet… it still happens.

In this episode, we’re talking about why you still yell at your kids even though you know better — and why that doesn’t make you a bad mom. It’s not a willpower issue. It’s not a knowledge gap. And it’s definitely not proof that you’re failing.

What’s actually happening is much deeper — and once you understand it, your reactions start to make a lot more sense.

I’m sharing personal stories (including a few I’m not proud of), the hidden “meaning problem” behind emotional reactions, and one powerful tool you can use in the moment to help you pause before you explode.

If you’re tired of the shame spiral after you lose your cool, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on — and give you a practical way to respond differently.

In This Episode, We Cover:

• Why yelling isn’t a discipline problem — it’s a meaning problem
• The hidden beliefs moms assign in the moment (like “They don’t respect me” or “I’m doing this all alone”)
• How resentment builds quietly and explodes later
• Why shame makes yelling worse — not better
• How emotional intelligence and self-awareness shift your parenting
• A simple anchoring technique to interrupt automatic emotional reactions

Why This Matters

When you yell, it’s rarely about the shoes on the floor, the spilled cereal, or the backtalk. It’s about what you’re making that moment mean.

Understanding your emotional reactions gives you back your power. Instead of spiraling into guilt, you can get curious. Instead of stuffing down resentment, you can address it before it builds. Instead of relying on breathing exercises alone, you can use a tool that helps your nervous system shift in real time.

This is stress management for real-life mom parenting — not perfection, not suppression, but awareness.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Best Mom Is a Happy Mom by JoAnn Crohn
• Join the No Guilt Mom Inner Circle

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If you’ve been feeling burnt out, emotionally exhausted, and quietly assuming that must mean you’re failing… I want you to hear this clearly:

You are not failing.

You’re capable. You’re invested. You’re doing a lot right.

And if motherhood still feels heavy? That heaviness often shows up as guilt—guilt for being tired, guilt for wanting space, guilt for not enjoying every single moment the way you think you “should.”

In this episode, I’m joined by Josh Davis, a cognitive behavioral psychologist, co-author of the USA Today bestseller The Difference That Makes the Difference, a master practitioner and trainer in NLP (neuro-linguistic programming), and founder of the Science-Based Leadership Institute. Josh teaches the science of how people actually change—not by trying harder, but by updating the beliefs and mental models driving our reactions.

We dig into the specific beliefs that quietly fuel mom guilt and emotional exhaustion… and what shifts when you start updating them.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why moms default to “I’m failing” when they struggle—and how that belief fuels shame instead of change
• The NLP presupposition “There is no failure, only feedback” and how it instantly creates more options for what to do next
• Why you’re not reacting to “reality”… you’re reacting to your internal map of reality (and how that explains overwhelm)
• The powerful reminder: “The map is not the territory”—and how it helps you stop treating feelings like facts
• How to “earn the right to influence” your kids (or anyone) by understanding the reality where their behavior makes sense
• Why telling your kid “it’s not a big deal” usually backfires—and what to do instead
• The belief “All the resources I need are already within me” and how it helps you stop outsourcing confidence to the next system, script, or strategy
• A practical mindset shift: treating change like an experiment instead of a life sentence
• How to define success in a way that’s actually within your control—so you stop evaluating yourself with impossible standards
• Why incremental change is often the fastest way to create lasting transformation

Why This Episode Matters

So many overwhelmed moms don’t need more discipline, more hustle, or another productivity hack.

What you really need is to identify the beliefs running in the background—because when those beliefs go unseen, normal stress turns into shame.

And shame is heavy.

But once you can update the belief underneath it all, you don’t have to “try harder” to feel better. You start responding differently because you’re seeing the situation differently.

Resources Mentioned

• The Difference That Makes the Difference by Josh Davis, PhD and Greg Prosmushkin
• Josh’s website for dads: joshdavisphd.com/dads (Includes a tool where you can “ask the book” questions using AI, created by his co-author Greg.)

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At some point in motherhood, so many of us stop saying yes to ourselves.

Not just to the girls’ night or the bubble bath. But to our feelings. To our opinions. To the quiet voice inside that says, “This doesn’t feel right.”

We tell ourselves we’re being nice. We’re keeping the peace. We’re being the bigger person.

But what if that “niceness” is slowly costing us our identity and our closest relationships?

In this episode, I’m sharing a very personal story about a working relationship that unraveled after years of me silencing myself. I truly believed I was doing the right thing. I thought I was being kind. I thought I was regulating my emotions well.

What I was actually doing was suppressing them.

And suppressed emotions don’t disappear. They build into resentment. They leak out sideways. They slowly erode trust, connection, and self-respect.

If you’ve ever felt resentful but didn’t know why… if you’ve stayed quiet to avoid conflict… if you’ve wondered why you feel unseen or misunderstood… this episode is for you.

In This Episode, We Cover:

• Why “being nice” can quietly damage your relationships
• The difference between emotional regulation and emotional suppression
• How silencing your feelings leads to resentment and disconnection
• What healthy boundaries actually look like (and what they’re not)
• Why honesty builds stronger relationships than fake peace
• How community gives you permission to stop performing and start being authentic

We Also Talk About:

• The 50/50 responsibility in adult relationships
• Why kids get more leeway than adults (and how brain development plays into it)
• How performing for approval keeps you from real connection
• The courage it takes to say, “This doesn’t work for me.”

You can’t regulate emotions you refuse to acknowledge. And you can’t build real relationships on silence.

Saying yes to yourself isn’t selfish. It’s honest.

And honest relationships—the kind where you can say, “That hurt” instead of “I’m fine”—are the ones that create real connection.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Courage to Be Disliked
• Register for the Happy Mom Summit
• Join the No Guilt Mom Inner Circle

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