Unleash The Man Within

Sathiya Sam

Porn addiction recovery, sexual integrity, and healthy manhood in the 21st century.

  • 54 minutes 44 seconds
    1093 - Paul Hutchinson: "Hollywood Tried To Bury This Story"

    In this conversation, Paul Hutchinson, the executive producer of 'Sound of Freedom', shares insights into the making of the film, the challenges faced in bringing awareness to child trafficking, and the deep connections between pornography and trafficking. He discusses his personal journey, motivations for his work, and the importance of healing and integrity in combating these issues. The conversation emphasizes the need for personal transformation and the ripple effect of individual actions on society.

     

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) The Impact of Sound of Freedom
    • (03:13) Behind the Scenes of Child Rescue Missions
    • (05:47) The Pushback from Media and Hollywood
    • (09:01) The Link Between Pornography and Trafficking
    • (12:08) Personal Motivations and Experiences
    • (15:00) The Emotional Toll of Rescue Missions
    • (17:53) Healing and Moving Forward
    • (26:37) Healing Through Addiction and Misbehavior
    • (29:09) Neuroplasticity and Childhood Trauma
    • (31:30) The Role of Psychedelics in Healing
    • (35:52) Transformative Experiences and Redemption
    • (38:48) Living a Dual Life: Parties and Missions
    • (42:53) Listening to the Heart: A New Approach
    • (45:19) Tension Transfer and Personal Responsibility
    • (50:04) The Man in the Mirror: Personal Transformation
    • (50:35) Future Aspirations and New Projects
    9 February 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 13 minutes 52 seconds
    1092 - 10 Lessons From 10 Years of Freedom

    In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam reflects on his ten-year journey of freedom from pornography, sharing ten hard-earned lessons that he wishes he had understood sooner. He emphasizes that willpower is overrated and that true freedom is built before temptation arises. Sathiya discusses how pornography was merely a symptom of deeper issues, highlighting the importance of addressing root causes rather than just the behavior itself. He also stresses that spiritual disciplines alone are not sufficient for recovery; they must be complemented by practical systems and skills. Throughout the episode, he shares insights on the significance of community, accountability, and the need for a stable environment to foster long-term recovery.

     

    Chapters:

    • (00:00) Introduction: 10 Years of Freedom
    • (01:45) Lesson 1: Willpower is Overrated 
    • (02:27) Lesson 2: Porn as a Symptom
    • (03:46) Lesson 3: Spiritual Disciplines Aren't Enough
    • (05:42) Lesson 4: Isolation vs. Connection
    • (06:40) Lesson 5: The Importance of Brotherhood
    • (07:39) Lesson 6: Environment Over Discipline
    • (08:38) Lesson 7: Stability Over Intensity
    • (09:37) Lesson 8: Growth and New Vulnerabilities
    • (10:35) Lesson 9: Identity vs. Behavior
    • (11:34) Lesson 10: Freedom as a Responsibility
    6 February 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 19 minutes 18 seconds
    1091 - 10 Years Clean + 1 Million Downloads (Here's The Full Story)

    In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, host Sathiya Sam reflects on his transformative journey from a decade-long struggle with pornography addiction to achieving over one million downloads of his podcast. He shares the pivotal moments that led to his recovery, emphasizing that it wasn't sheer willpower or discipline that made the difference, but rather a shift in mindset and the establishment of supportive systems. Sathiya recounts his early experiences with pornography, the challenges he faced during his university years, and the realization that he needed to change the systems in his life that perpetuated his addiction. He highlights the importance of community support and the role it played in his healing process, ultimately leading him to help others facing similar struggles.

     

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) Introduction: A Journey of Transformation
    • (01:44) The Early Struggles with Addiction
    • (04:33) Shifting Mindsets: Asking the Right Questions
    • (06:27) Building a Supportive Community
    • (09:39) Celebrating Milestones: 10 Years Clean
    • (12:28) The Giveaway: A Call to Action
    • (13:27) The Reality of Freedom: Ongoing Challenges
    • (18:43) The Importance of Brotherhood in Recovery
    4 February 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 59 minutes 44 seconds
    1090 - Veteran Explains: "PTSD Isn’t What You Think It Is" | Ft. Jeremy Stalnecker

    In this conversation, Jeremy Stalnecker discusses the impactful work of Mighty Oaks, a program dedicated to serving veterans and first responders. He shares insights into the challenges faced by these individuals, particularly regarding trauma and mental health. The program emphasizes the importance of faith, community, and personal testimonies in the healing process. Jeremy highlights the need for aftercare and ongoing support to ensure lasting change, as well as the significance of finding one's identity in Christ. The discussion underscores the transformative power of hope and healing through shared experiences and faith-based support.

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) Introduction to Mighty Oaks and Its Impact
    • (02:11) Understanding the Mighty Oaks Program
    • (05:34) The Need for Healing in Veterans
    • (09:20) Identifying Signs of Trauma and Need for Help
    • (12:20) Moving Beyond Trauma: A New Perspective
    • (19:20) The Role of Identity in Healing
    • (25:02) The Five-Day Intensive: A Transformative Experience
    • (30:34) The Power of Personal Testimony
    • (31:39) Integrating Faith and Legacy
    • (34:02) Transforming Identity Through the Gospel
    • (36:04) Coping Mechanisms: Pornography and Alcohol
    • (39:20) The Role of Community in Recovery
    • (40:28) Identifying Success Factors in Transformation
    • (41:52) Aftercare: Sustaining Momentum Post-Program
    • (52:57) Surprises in the Journey of Healing
    2 February 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 10 minutes 56 seconds
    1089 - If It’s Easy, You Don’t Want It Enough

    In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam discusses the challenges of maintaining motivation, especially as the initial enthusiasm of New Year's resolutions begins to fade. He introduces the concept of the 'February fizzle' and emphasizes the importance of understanding one's 'why' behind personal goals. Sathiya also provides strategies for sustaining motivation, including the need for community support and resilience in the face of challenges.

     

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) The Challenge of Motivation
    • (02:54) Understanding the February Fizzle
    • (05:42) Finding Your Why
    • (08:49) Strategies for Sustaining Motivation
    1 February 2026, 12:00 am
  • 11 minutes 47 seconds
    1088 - Q&A: I've Been Watching AI Porn For Years, How Do I Quit For Good?

    In this episode, Sathiya addresses a listener's struggle with AI-generated pornography, exploring the underlying issues of desire, rejection, and the need for connection. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's desires, the pain-pleasure principle in overcoming addiction, and the necessity of community and professional help in the recovery process. Sathiya also warns about the dangers of AI pornography and encourages listeners to take drastic steps towards healing and recovery.

     

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) Introduction to AI and Its Impact
    • (01:25) Listener's Struggle with AI Pornography
    • (02:48) Understanding Desire and Rejection
    • (06:04) The Pain-Pleasure Principle in Recovery
    • (08:37) The Importance of Community and Professional Help
    • (10:38) Predictions on AI Pornography and Its Consequences
    30 January 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 7 minutes 18 seconds
    1087 - The Silent Trap That Stops Men Right Before They Win

    In this episode, Sathiya discusses the silent trap that many men face when trying to quit pornography. He emphasizes the importance of identity in recovery, explaining how feelings of unworthiness can lead to self-sabotage. By understanding one's identity in Christ, individuals can overcome these feelings and achieve true freedom. Sathiya encourages listeners to rely on God for their recovery and to commit their works to Him for success.

     

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) Understanding the Silent Trap
    • (01:26) The Importance of Identity in Recovery
    • (06:00) Relying on God for True Freedom
    28 January 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 1 hour 1 minute
    1086 - Jenna Riemersma: Why Jesus’ Approach to Sin Feels Backwards

    In this conversation, Sathiya and Jenna Riemersma explore the integration of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy with faith-based perspectives. Jenna discusses the concept of 'parts' within ourselves, the importance of compassion in healing, and how to approach our internal struggles with curiosity rather than control. They also delve into Jenna's new book, 'Move Toward', which provides practical tools for self-awareness and emotional healing.

     

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    Chapters:

    • (0:00) Introduction to IFS and Faith Integration
    • (02:02) Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS)
    • (10:01) The Importance of Compassion in IFS
    • (19:27) Transforming Control into Compassion
    • (29:09) The Role of God in IFS Work
    • (32:41) Understanding the Burdened Spiritualizer Part
    • (37:31) The Heart Behind “Move Toward”
    • (45:15) The Three-Step IFS Tool: Notice, No, Need
    • (55:27) Moving Toward Ourselves with Compassion
    • (59:19) Next Steps and Resources for Transformation
    26 January 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 9 minutes 26 seconds
    1085 - Stop Waiting for the Perfect Moment

    In this episode, Sathiya discusses the balance between waiting on God's timing and taking proactive action in life. He emphasizes the dangers of perfectionism leading to procrastination and encourages listeners to take imperfect action towards their goals. Using scripture and personal anecdotes, Sathiya provides insights on how to navigate the tension between patience and proactivity, ultimately guiding listeners towards personal growth and integrity.

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) The Tension Between Waiting and Action
    • (03:40) Understanding the Problem
    • (08:34) Overcoming Perfectionism and Procrastination
    25 January 2026, 12:00 am
  • 9 minutes 16 seconds
    1084 - Should You Give Up Sex To Quit Porn?

    In this episode, Sathiya discusses the relationship between quitting pornography and sexual activity within marriage. He addresses common concerns about performance anxiety and the importance of intimacy in the healing process. Through personal anecdotes and insights from coaching experiences, Sathiya emphasizes that sexual connection can be beneficial during recovery, provided it is approached with honesty and openness. He also introduces techniques like Sensate Touch to help couples rebuild intimacy in a healthy way.

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) Introduction to Freedom from Pornography
    • (00:56) The Impact of Quitting Pornography
    • (02:47) The Role of Sexual Intimacy in Recovery
    • (05:08) Addressing Performance Anxiety
    • (08:02) Building Intimacy Through Sensate Touch
    23 January 2026, 1:00 pm
  • 10 minutes 28 seconds
    1083 - How To Optimize Your Brain For Freedom From Pornography

    In this episode, Sathiya discusses the importance of optimizing the brain to achieve freedom from pornography addiction. He explains the detrimental effects of pornography on the brain, including desensitization, sensitization, hypofrontality, and reduced stress response. Sathiya emphasizes the power of neuroscience principles, such as the idea that neurons that fire together wire together, and provides practical strategies for breaking the cycle of addiction. He also highlights the significance of optimizing sleep to enhance brain health and decision-making capabilities.

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    Chapters:

    • (00:00) Understanding the Brain's Role in Habits
    • (02:48) The Effects of Pornography on the Brain
    • (04:35) Rewiring the Brain: Breaking Associations
    • (07:57) Disrupting Circuits: Taking Action for Change
    • (10:22) Optimizing Sleep for Brain Health
    21 January 2026, 1:00 pm
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