It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:24 - Q1: Our Texts To Friends Are Going Unanswered—Is This Normal? 

21:34 - Q2: I Put My Foot In My Mouth On The Second Date—Can I Recover From This?

26:05 - Q3: I Like The Guy But Nothing’s Happening—Do You Still Believe “If He Wanted To, He Would”?

46:06 - Q4: His Bathroom Issues Give Me the Ick—Help!

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:49 - Episode 8

11:54 - Episode 9

35:25 - Episode 11

53:57 - Episode 12

1:09:56 - Episode 13

1:21:14 - Predictions

1:22:29 - Shandy Word Watch

1:25:45 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:51 - Episode 1

22:35 - Episode 2

31:32 - Episode 3

39:55 - Episode 4

58:27 - Episode 5

1:09:37 - Episode 6

1:18:22 - Episode 7

1:29:20 - Predictions

1:31:29 - Shandy Word Watch

1:35:09 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help!

24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds?

36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help!

52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap?

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Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatch

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand!

3:20 - What Happened With Sophie

9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood?

15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show?

21:09 - Life After TV

24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo?

29:37 - Ranking Cast Members

30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’?

31:16 - Rapid Fire

38:00 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:45 - Finale Kick Off

25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony

44:19 - Surprise Couple

47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions

49:44 - Who We Would Go For

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help!

16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This?

26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help!

34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help!

44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts!

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! 

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:06 - Episode 6

33:53 - Episode 7

1:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions

1:14:44 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! 

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:16 - Episode 1

26:10 - Episode 2

35:32 - Episode 3

56:14 - Episode 4

1:07:53 - Episode 5

1:19:11 - Who We Would Go For

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Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast!

0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs?

9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More?

11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice

21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous

25:22 - Leaving The House

31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow

39:06 - Would You Rather

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money? And if a family member is addicted to making AI-generated photos of your family, is it worth the awkwardness of saying something? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:54 - Q1: At What Age Can I Stop Sending My Nephews Money?

17:08 - Q2: My Friend Put No Thought Into Setting Me Up—Am I Being Too Sensitive?

33:00 - Q3: My Boyfriend Loves Doing Standup But Keeps Stealing My Jokes—Help!

50:30 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Is Addicted To Making AI-Generated Photos Of Our Family—Help!

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