It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA?

21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife?

30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help!

43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help!

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Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the second half of the season, episodes 6-9! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:02 - Episode 6

35:28 - Episode 7

48:33 - Episode 8

1:01:15 - Episode 9

1:23:46 - Who We Would Go For

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Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the first half of the season, episodes 1-5! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix

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0:00 - Housekeeping

3:22 - Episode 1

20:29 - Episode 2

32:09 - Episode 3

46:55 - Episode 4

1:13:56 - Episode 5

1:29:41 - Predictions

1:30:46 - Who We Would Go For

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Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the REUNION!

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0:00 - Housekeeping

1:49 - Libby & Andrew

8:27 - Vanelle & Jorge

14:59 - Pfeifer & Derrick

17:02 - Theresa & John

34:09 - Leah & Chris

42:06 - Vanessa & Logan

46:15 - Best Dressed

46:36 - Who We Would Go For

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Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the second batch, episodes 6 & 7, as well as the FINALE! 

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:07 - Theresa & John

35:14 - Pfeifer & Derrick

47:54 - Leah & Chris

51:17 - Libby & Andrew

1:04:15 - Vanessa & Logan

1:22:10 - Overall Thoughts

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Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the first batch, episodes 1-5! 

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping & Introduction

7:22 - Theresa & John

20:49 - Libby & Andrew

34:39 - Vanelle & Jorge & Justin

59:00 - Pfeifer & Derrik

1:02:23 - Joleen & West

1:02:36 - Leah & Chris

1:06:06 - Vanessa & Logan

1:18:24 - Who We Would Go For

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Just 3 days before its scheduled premiere, The Bachelorette Season 22 starring Taylor Frankie Paul was abruptly cancelled. Many of you wanted to hear Shandy's take on the news and the shocking reason why. So today, in lieu of the Bachelorette Premiere recap that was meant to drop today, they're answering your burning questions Q&A style.

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0:00 - Housekeeping

2:23 - Shandy’s Honest Thoughts When Taylor Was Announced As Bachelorette

12:15 - How Did ABC Rationalize Casting Taylor?

19:10 - Did You See This Coming?

19:38 - Were You Looking Forward To Recapping Taylor’s Season?

20:07 - Thoughts On Whether Or Not Dakota “Instigated” And Strategized The Video Release

21:16 - Could Taylor’s Behavior Be “Reactive Abuse”?

24:32 - Do You Think Dakota Got Paid For The Video?

27:26 - How Much Do You Hold Jesse Palmer Responsible For His Complicity?

29:58 - How Do You Think This Situation Would Be Treated Differently If Taylor Were A Man?

31:27 - Do You Think The Show Owes The Men An Apology?

34:46 - Do You Think The Season Will Air At A Later Date?

38:40 - Did Shandy See The Premiere Screener And If So, Thoughts?

51:40 - How Do You Think The Men Feel?

55:07 - Who *Should* The Show Have Chosen?

56:51 - “How Bad Of A Person Does It Make Me That I Still Want To Watch The Season?”

57:21 - Do You Think All Of This Was A Ploy?

59:43 - Can The Franchise Recover From This? 

1:05:09 - Has Modern Dating Culture Outgrown ‘The Bachelor’?

1:05:47 - How Does A Sudden Pivot Like This Affect Dear Shandy/Podcasts?

1:07:46 - “Do You Feel This Is Good, To Not Give Trash Humans A Platform?”

1:11:34 - Overall Thoughts On Taylor Frankie Paul

1:14:50 - Deep Down Is Shandy Relieved?

1:15:41 - Was Casting Taylor Frankie Paul A Mistake?

1:15:50 - What Show Is Shandy Recapping Instead?

1:17:13 - Would You Recap Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives?

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your elderly dad is juggling two girlfriends, is it acceptable to refuse to meet them? When your stepmom "forgets" your rule around holiday travel, is it better to hold firm or just keep the peace? Your boyfriend tells you you're perfect but also says he isn't "obsessed"—what's your next move? Finally, if you did a sizable favor for a friend and she never even bought you a meal as thanks, does confronting her make *you* the A-hole?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:45 - Q1: My Elderly Dad Is Juggling Two “Girlfriends”—Help!

9:47 - Q2: My Stepmom Is Ignoring My Holiday Travel Boundaries—Help!

18:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend Tells Me I’m Perfect But Also Says He Isn’t “Obsessed” With Me

34:34 - Q4: My Longtime Friend Did Nothing To Acknowledge The Favor Gave Her—AITA For Confronting Her?

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Reunion for Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:43 - Reunion Kick Off

5:02 - Christine & Vic

8:12 - Amber & Jordan

15:29 - Bri & Connor

19:47 - S8’s Sara & Joey

20:43 - Jessica & Chris

33:59 - Emma & Mike

42:54 - Ashley & Alex

59:14 - Brittany & Devonta

1:12:33 - S4’s Bliss & Zach

1:17:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed

1:18:53 - Overall Thoughts

1:19:46 - Who We Would Go For

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Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Season 10 Finale of Netflix's Love Is Blind!

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Coming soon

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Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today is a 2-for-1 as Shandy breaks down both the Finale and Reunion! 

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:41 - Finale

16:50 - Fire Of Truth

27:45 - Reunion

49:59 - Best Dressed

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