THE REAL SEX EDUCATION

Diggory Waite is joined by accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell to give you the sex education you never got at school. But, unfortunately for Diggory, Cate is also his mum.

  • 29 minutes 1 second
    S7 Ep10: What contraception should I be using?

    Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son, Diggory Waite, chat about the groundbreaking work of William Masters and Virginia Johnson, the pioneers of human sexuality research. They discuss how their unconventional experiments—often involving themselves—shaped modern understanding of sexual behaviour.


    Then, Cate and Diggory answer listener questions, tackling topics like non-hormonal contraception options that minimise discomfort, and whether fluctuating "hard-soft" erections are something to worry about.


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7

    -      Our email: [email protected]

    -      Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


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    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    19 September 2024, 5:10 am
  • 28 minutes 28 seconds
    S7 Ep9: Can long distance work?

    Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite respond to listener questions including how to make long distance relationships work and why one might always pee when they play with their clitoris.


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 

    -Our email: [email protected]

    -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    13 September 2024, 5:09 am
  • 30 minutes 58 seconds
    S7 Ep8: Are we too old for sex?

    Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell, along with her son Diggory Waite, responds to a listener questioning whether he and his wife are 'too old' for sex, and to another listener seeking advice on how to masturbate without relying on pornographic videos, erotic literature, or audio content.


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 

    -Our email: [email protected]

    -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    6 September 2024, 5:08 am
  • 26 minutes 23 seconds
    S7 Ep7: How do I get a girlfriend?

    Accredited sex and relationship therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions like how do I get a girlfriend not in clubs, pubs or bars, why one's clit might be sore and if it's okay to not be into casual sex...


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 

    -Our email: [email protected]

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    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    30 August 2024, 5:07 am
  • 37 minutes 39 seconds
    S7 Ep6: Should I help boyfriend explore his new bisexual side?

    Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite answer listener questions including how to help one's boyfriend who wants to try having sex with men and how to remove power dynamics from sex...


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 

    -Our email: [email protected]

    -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    23 August 2024, 5:06 am
  • 33 minutes 37 seconds
    S7 Ep5: Why are young people having less sex?

    Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite discuss reports that sexual content in top films has dropped since the 2000s, outline the context surrounding the world at the moment and attempt to answer why this, as a recent study claims, means young people are having less sex?


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7

    -      Our email: [email protected]

    -      Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    13 June 2024, 4:05 am
  • 29 minutes 52 seconds
    S7 Ep4: "Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker?"

    Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite take listeners questions including:


    • Should I lose my virginity to a sex worker?
    • Why does it hurt when I use my dildo?
    • And how to control ejaculation, increase duration, and mind control?


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7

    -      Our email: [email protected]

    -      Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    6 June 2024, 4:04 am
  • 33 minutes 12 seconds
    S7 Ep3: Baby Voice: Why do we do it with our PARTNERS!?

    Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory talk all things baby voice - why do we do it to babies? Why do we do it with partners and why is it so cringey to witness? They also take questions from listeners about suggestions for books on different relationship types and how to deal with softer erections?


    Check out Ms Rachel's TikTok here - https://www.tiktok.com/@msrachelforlittles?lang=en


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7

    -      Our email: [email protected]

    -      Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


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    30 May 2024, 4:03 am
  • 42 minutes 54 seconds
    S7 Ep2: SHOCKING New Guidance on Sex Education in England

    *TRIGGER WARNING* This podcast contains discussion about suicide and sexual assault.


    Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and son Diggory Waite discuss new guidance from the UK Government for schools in England, advising teachers not to give sex education to children under 9 and to not teach students about gender identity.


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7

    -      Our email: [email protected]

    -      Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


    The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast


    Resources:


    File on 4 - Sex education: Too much too young? - https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001lqnk 

    The Genderbread Person - https://www.itspronouncedmetrosexual.com/2018/10/the-genderbread-person-v4/

    Understanding the Complexities of Gender: Sam Killermann at TEDxUofIChicago - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NRcPXtqdKjE&t=523s&ab_channel=TEDxTalks  

    Good Morning Britain & Restrictions on Gender and Identity Being Taught in Schools - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6dAmlzAyeI&ab_channel=GoodMorningBritain 


    Sexual Assault Support Links:

    · Rape Crisis has a helpline, open from 12-14.30h and 19-21.30h: 0808 802 9999

    · Safeline 0808 800 5005

    · Support for Survivors

    · Black Women’s Rape Action has a helpline, open Monday – Friday, 13-16.30h: 020 7482 2496


    Suicide Support Links

    https://listeningplace.org.uk/

    https://www.samaritans.org/

    https://www.nhs.uk/mental-health/feelings-symptoms-behaviours/behaviours/help-for-suicidal-thoughts/


    LGBTQ+ Support Links

    https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/lgbtqia-mental-health/useful-contacts/



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    23 May 2024, 4:02 am
  • 34 minutes 45 seconds
    S7 Ep1: What can Dua Lipa teach us about dating?

    Diggory Waite puts the lyrics of Dua Lipa's song 'Anything for Love' to his mother, accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell. Together, they discuss commitment issues, generational differences in dating and what you can do if you're struggling to find love.


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7 

    -Our email: [email protected]

    -Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


    The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast


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    16 May 2024, 4:01 am
  • 33 minutes 29 seconds
    S6 Ep20: "How do I make a girl squirt?"

    Accredited sex and relationships therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite answer listener questions around squirting, not being able to orgasm from intercourse as a woman and why some straight men are attracted to trans-women with penises.


    Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:


    -      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7

    -      Our email: [email protected]

    -      Our DMs on Instagram, TikTok or X – we’re @thersepod


    Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening or watching.


    All advice given on the podcast is for general use and educational purposes only. For individual medical diagnoses we always recommend seeing a professional.


    Resources referenced:

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8035091/


    The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast


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    9 May 2024, 4:20 am
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