Welcome to 'Awakening with Oliver'! I'm your host, Oliver, and I'm excited to share this powerful conversation with my special guest, Venus.
Are you tired of feeling silenced and stuck, unable to express your true emotions? Venus and I are here to help you break free and find your authentic voice!

In this episode, we'll explore the importance of embracing your emotions and speaking your truth. You'll learn how to tap into your inner strength, overcome self-doubt, and unleash your unique voice to the world.

Get ready to rise above the noise and make your mark! Join us on this transformative journey as we dive into the world of emotions, self-expression, and empowerment.


Episode Outline: "Awake with Oliver"
Chapters:

00:00 Intro 
00:46 I wouldn't say I like the Government 
02:35 Emotions 
06:25 Growing Up, I Was Always Told No
12:43 Masculine and Feminine 
16:05 You Can Make a Choice 
19:26 Break the Cycle 
25:36 How Do You Treat People You Said No To? 
26:55 You Just Wanted to Be Heard 
29:09 Trials and Errors Observing People
34:22 Being Heard Is a Basic Need
39:03 Don't Blame Other People
40:41 True Rage
41:50 Suppression of Anger



They discuss
1. The importance of acknowledging and understanding emotions, which is a recurring theme throughout the episode.
2. Personal experiences of being told "no" during their childhood and how it shaped their perspective on life.
3. The concept of masculine and feminine energies and their roles in personal growth and relationships (
4. The importance of recognizing personal choices and taking responsibility for one's life 
5. Guidance on how to break free from patterns and cycles that hold us back 
6. The importance of treating others with respect, especially those we disagree with.
7. The Need to Be Heard: Highlights the fundamental human need to be heard and understood.
8. Share insights gained from observing people and their behaviors 
9. The Importance of Being Heard: Reiterates the significance of being heard and validated in our personal and professional lives.
10.  The need to take personal responsibility and avoid blaming others for our circumstances.
11. Explores the concept of true rage and its differences from other forms of anger 
12.  The potential consequences of suppressing anger and the importance of addressing it in a healthy manner.


Guest Bio 

Venus/Dayna has studied in the fields of yoga, Tantra yoga, sexual shamanism, and tantric massage while traveling the world the past 10 years. She spends her time creating intimacy wherever she goes & stays deeply connected to herself & the Earth's rhythms. She offers 1:1 coaching & bodywork sessions and group workshops where she currently lives in the West of Ireland.

Links:

@venusian_magic
[email protected]


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In this episode of Awaken with Oliver, Oliver dives deep with Kai into the transformative power of being witnessed and how it opens us up to personal growth and healing. From the importance of authenticity to the value of receiving support, each section uncovers how being truly seen by others influences our belief systems and brings forth personal healing. We discuss how completing what you've started, embracing vulnerability, and understanding the concept of witnessing can lead to a profound inner shift. Tune in as we explore why being witnessed matters and how it connects to the heart's deepest desires for connection and validation.


They discussed:
*The Power of Being Witnessed
*Personal Healing and Growth
*Self-Belief System Transformation
*Benefits of Vulnerability and Witnessing
*Inner Healing and Self-Discovery

Kaï Sunrise is an interdisciplinary artist who explores through and with many realms of being. Born in Montreal, Quebec and infused with years living in Massachusetts, New York and Hawaii, Kaï has been shaped by all the places she has lived. She is presently settled and rooting into the Outaouais region of western Quebec. Kaï is a mover, dancer, vocalist, painter, writer, energy worker, mystical clown, creator of rituals, change maker, storyteller, thinker, explorer and playmate. 
Her journey of becoming an Intuitive Healing-Artist has been a wild and enlivening one. The elemental wilderness of the Hawaiian islands and her four main spiritual teachers Xi Earthstar, Vasant Swaha, Jennifer Ashira Ra, and Scott Hamilton,  initiated her into her extraordinary abilities to use sound and energy for healing the body. 

https://popsend.com/cosmicswell

Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction – Setting the stage for exploring the power of being witnessed.
01:45 - Enormous Power of Being Yourself – Discovering the strength in authenticity.
05:54 - The Power of Completing What You've Started – Why finishing matters for self-worth.
07:49 - Open to Receiving – Embracing support and help from others.
10:53 - Be Open to Your Healing – Allowing oneself to heal by being seen.
12:05 - The True Power of Being Witnessed – Understanding the impact of feeling truly seen.
14:50 - Recreating Physical Witnessing – Methods to feel connected and seen in life.
20:41 - Understanding the Concept of Being Witnessed – Exploring the depth of witnessing.
24:15 - Is It a Choice to Be Witnessed? – Examining how we choose to be seen or hidden.
26:26 - People’s Preference for Being Witnessed – Discussing the need for different witnessing types.
30:19 - What Does the Witnessing Do? – How witnessing changes us at a deep level.
33:30 - Think About It! Say It Out! – Verbalizing and acknowledging.
37:53 - Connection of Being Witnessed with Our Heart – How witnessing resonates with our emotions.


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In this episode of Awake with Oliver, hosts Oliver and Olile dive into the journey of self-awareness, exploring how it nurtures harmonious relationships and a life of simplicity. Join them as they uncover insights on cultivating balance, building authentic connections, and embracing a fulfilling life of purpose and mindfulness.

Ollie is a musician, instrumentalist and yoga & meditation guide. Interested in expanding our consciousness and finding where we are the same, not different. Spirituality has always been a big theme in his life, and music and poetry fuells his communication with himself, and ultimately life.  He shares sounds and words under the names Shylo Surreal & ollyjii 

Ig: @ollyjii @shylosurreal

Chapters:

00:00 Intro
01:09 Letting Go 
02:28 Understanding Different Personalities & How to Treat People 
06:12 No Right, No Wrong 
14:27 Embracing Change 
16:47 The Concept of Home
18:38 Clearing Your Mind 
19:13 The Value of Simplicity & Accessibility 
20:07 Simplifying Your Life 
26:00 Interconnectedness with Nature


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In this episode, Oliver and Naiko Jacques dive into the profound journey of self-reliance, interdependence, and the unique challenges of a twin flame connection. Naiko reflects on his personal growth through inner work, his experiences with a twin flame, and the role of embracing both independence and interdependence in relationships. Together, they explore how deeply understanding oneself and letting go of societal pressures can lead to a fulfilling life.

They discuss:

• The twin flame journey and its impact on self-awareness
• Navigating the balance between independence and interdependence
• The importance of venting and talking things through for emotional health
• Embracing vulnerability in personal growth
• How childhood patterns shape our adult relationships
• Understanding masculine and feminine energies and their natural flow
• Moving beyond societal norms and creating relationships that align with personal values

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Interested in learning how to take control of your mindset and build a fulfilling life? Check out Oliver’s free course: http://www.talkwitholiver.com

In this episode, Oliver sits down with Naiko, an artist and songwriter, to delve into the complexities of ego, self-discovery, and inner healing. They explore how our dreams can often be rooted in trauma responses, the significance of questioning emotions, and why embracing ego in the right context is key to thriving in life. Naiko shares insights on overcoming conditioning, the value of alignment, and how manifestation becomes effortless when we release inner resistance.

They discuss:

• The dual nature of ego: fuel for personal drive or a potential driver leading to imbalance
• Techniques for identifying the root of emotional triggers and taking ownership of one’s healing journey
• How dreams can be compensation for unmet needs or unresolved traumas
• The flowchart method for internal questioning to reach core truths
• Stories of trusting intuition and life-changing moments, like Oliver and Naiko's chance encounter
• Practical steps to navigate through emotional resistance and develop self-alignment
• How to harness confidence without allowing insecurity to overpower relationships
• The importance of feeling connected with everything around you for a fulfilling experience of life

Naiko also shares his journey from busking in London to pursuing a master's in songwriting, shedding light on how creative fulfillment and emotional balance intersect.

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In this episode of Awaken with Oliver, Oliver speaks with Yhonet, a performer and healer, about the power of vulnerability, emotional healing, and creative self-expression. Together, they explore the importance of embracing your true self, facing fears, and finding strength in moments of emotional release. They reflect on personal stories of growth, the freedom that comes from sharing authentically, and how vulnerability can serve as a catalyst for both individual and collective healing.

They discuss:

• The importance of creative expression and how it helps us reconnect with our authentic selves.
• The role of vulnerability in emotional release and how it can lead to personal breakthroughs.
• Overcoming the fear of judgment and criticism when sharing your creativity with the world.
• The emotional impact of protests and how they connect to a deeper sense of identity and belonging.
• The power of crying as a form of healing and rebuilding inner strength.
• How embracing discomfort in difficult conversations can lead to growth and understanding.

Key highlights:
[00:04:09] Importance of embracing inner child.

[00:05:59] Creative expression and self-worth.

[00:09:14] Vulnerability in singing online.

[00:14:36] Crying as a source of power.

[00:19:40] Empowerment through expressing desires.

[00:23:50] Agreeing to disagree in life.

[00:27:04] Engaging through differing perspectives.

[00:32:00] Personal experience in conversations.

[00:35:17] Depth in Conversations.

[00:39:29] Challenging communication and ego.

[00:45:06] Soul expression and creativity.

About Yhonet
Yhonet Garcia is a singer songwriter from Venezuela based in Bristol. Her songs are a reflection of her healing journey, proving to be soothing and calming for those who listen. Gentle finger picking style mixed with South American rhythms, she channels songs from her heart and spirit to offer guidance and healing to others. Her main passion is working with the Voice and Creative Embodiment as a means to reclaim our inner power and self-expression.

Resources:
You can connect with Yhonet on:
IG @yhonetcreative and website https://www.creativejourney.art

Explore Yhonet’s work:
Performance events in Bristol:

• Bristol Farm Vegan Queen V & Ellumin Album Release – Sunday, 27th, 2-7 PM
• Bristol Lord's Chapel Women’s Gathering – Sunday, 27th

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In this episode of Awaken with Oliver, Oliver speaks with Shefali about the challenges of dating, the pressure of finding "the one," and the importance of showing up authentically. 
They discuss the pitfalls of seeking external validation in relationships and the transformative power of self-love and acceptance. They explore the concept of alignment in relationships, using the analogy of shopping for the perfect Gucci bag, and how continuous self-improvement can lead to more fulfilling connections. 
The conversation also touches upon the importance of having a personal toolkit for navigating emotional overwhelm and staying present.

Key Highlights
00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:21 - The Concept of Alignment in Dating
00:02:16 - Rethinking "The One"
00:03:30 - Identifying Key Traits in Partners
00:05:12 - The Dilemma of Continuous Searching
00:07:36 - The Reality of Relationships
00:12:06 - The Dangers of Hiding Traits
00:17:11 - The Impact of ADHD on Relationships
00:19:49 - Embracing Individuality
00:23:02 - The Power of Synchronicity
00:37:02 - Finding Joy in Life
00:38:30 - The Power of Simple Joys

Resources:

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In this episode of Awaken with Oliver, Oliver speaks with Parm, a yoga instructor, about the importance of self-regulation, listening to your body, and finding balance in a world saturated with external stimuli. They discuss the detrimental effects of constant social media consumption, the wisdom inherent in our bodies, and the power of prioritizing self-care practices like meditation, yoga, and breathwork. They also explore the societal impact of stress, the responsibility of individuals in creating positive change, and the importance of questioning societal norms.

They discuss:

• The limitations of the mind's desires versus the body's capacity.
• The impact of social media and constant stimulation on our nervous systems.
• The importance of detoxing from external noise and tuning into the body's wisdom.
• Practical strategies for self-regulation, including breathwork, yoga, and meditation.
• The connection between stress, societal aggression, and the importance of generational healing.
• The role of whistleblowers and individual responsibility in creating a positive society.
• The power of leading by example and focusing on local change.
• The importance of respecting personal boundaries and saying no.
• How perfectionism and other emotional patterns can be addressed through self-awareness.
• The impact of significant societal figures and the importance of internal stability.

Key Highlights
[00:00:00] - Intro
[00:00:26] - Taking Responsibility for Emotions
[00:04:42] - Mental Noise and Self-Regulation
[00:07:07] - Emotional Overload
[00:11:54] - Practices for Self-Regulation
[00:16:12] - Youth and Social Change
[00:19:11] - The Impact of Online Culture
[00:24:29] - Whistleblowers and Accountability
[00:30:31] - Breaking Generational Cycles
[00:39:30] - The Importance of Stability
[00:42:21] - Free Guide for Stress Management

Resources:
Connect with Parm:
Website: https://www.parmsyoga.com
Free Stress Management Guide: https://www.parmsyoga.com/resources/overcome-stress-and-anxiety/

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In this episode, Oliver is joined by Claire, a coach and expert in energy work, to explore the power of energy and its effects on personal growth and manifestation. They discuss their experiences at the Medicine Festival, the nature of healing and expansion, and the importance of connection. Claire shares tips on enhancing experiences, the benefits of energy work, and techniques for using energy in manifestation practices. They also talk about spiritual growth, listening to your body, and how these practices contribute to a fulfilling life. 

They discuss:

• The importance of love and connection in human life
• Different approaches to healing and personal growth
• The power of energy work and releasing stored emotions
• The importance of being present and connecting with one's higher self
• Techniques for raising your vibration and energy
• The physical and energetic benefits of elevated consciousness
• The importance of self-awareness in personal growth
• The cyclical nature of spiritual growth and the importance of consistency

Claire shares her experience of maintaining a consistent spiritual practice, emphasizing how this long-term commitment has allowed her to maintain a high vibration and overall well-being.

Key highlights:

[00:00:26] Claire's perspective on fear and energy attraction

[00:01:01] The superficiality of wealth without love

[00:03:11] The contrast between festival experiences and normal life

[00:04:42] Claire's new understanding of healing and personal growth

[00:10:41] Claire's insights on expansion versus healing

[00:16:31] Claire's recent personal transformation and letting go of limiting beliefs

[00:21:58] The true nature of success and compensation

[00:24:00] Introduction to energy work and its benefits

[00:24:53] The importance of recognizing signs and flowing with life's journey

[00:32:20] The effects of elevated consciousness on energy levels and manifestation

[00:35:55] How the body naturally maintains energy even during challenges

[00:39:57] The health benefits of maintaining high energy and consciousness

[00:41:02] The importance of self-awareness in personal growth

[00:44:38] The cyclical nature of spiritual growth and the importance of consistency

Resources:
Connect with Claire:
https://linktr.ee/clairedore
https://www.facebook.com/claire.dore
 http://www.instagram.com/thewildwomanceo
https://youtube.com/@THEWildWomanceo
 
https://www.tiktok.com/@thewildwomanceo

Medicine Festival: https://medicinefestival.com/

Claire's new offering: 90-minute one-on-one sessions to support people in feeling elevated energy

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In this episode, Oliver is joined by Himmatt, a life coach and spiritual seeker, to explore the complex balance between entrepreneurship, personal growth, and spiritual awareness. Himmatt shares valuable insights on embracing life's challenges, maintaining equilibrium, and the crucial role of self-awareness in navigating our personal and professional journeys.

They discuss:

• The cyclical nature of entrepreneurial drive and spiritual awakening
• The concept of "coming home" in the entrepreneurial journey
• Balancing material success with spiritual growth and personal happiness
• The importance of awareness and consciousness in decision-making
• The role of spirituality in navigating the ups and downs of business
• Learning to enjoy both the highs and lows of the entrepreneurial journey
• The impact of social media influence on society
• The importance of intention and commitment in achieving goals
• The role of family structure and parenting in personal development
• The power of living in the present moment

They share philosophical and spiritual concepts, illustrating the link between business success and personal growth. 

Key highlights:

[00:00:00] Introduction to the entrepreneurial drive and its challenges

[00:07:51] Balancing material success with spiritual awareness

[00:10:42] The importance of maintaining drive without losing oneself

[00:18:47] The role of spirituality in navigating entrepreneurial challenges

[00:24:34] The importance of awareness and consciousness in decision-making

[00:27:46] The importance of being both "the lion and the lamb" in life

[00:28:24] How our intentions shape our reality and future

[00:29:21] The role of commitment and belief in achieving success

[00:41:01] The power of conspiracy theories and external influences

[00:43:14] The importance of family structure and parenting

[00:46:54] Overcoming the fear of death and embracing life

Resources:

While no specific resources were mentioned in the transcript, the discussion touches on concepts from various spiritual and entrepreneurial philosophies, including:

• The Hero With a Thousand Faces Quotes Joseph Campbell- https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/588138.The_Hero_With_a_Thousand_Faces

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In this episode, Oliver is joined by Josh Paul to discuss burnout, work-life balance, and personal growth through psychedelic experiences. Josh shares insights on managing a busy schedule, the benefits of a healthy work-life balance, and how late-night work affects creativity. They also explore understanding one’s body and boundaries and the impact of substances on consciousness. 

They discuss:

• The challenges of burnout and managing a busy schedule
• The importance of a healthy work-life balance
• How entrepreneurs and creatives often work during nighttime hours
• The process of learning about one's own body and boundaries
• The effects of different substances on consciousness and perception
• The importance of sleep, diet, and exercise for overall wellbeing
• The practice of meditation and its benefits for mental clarity

They further discuss the crucial role of sleep, diet, and exercise in overall well-being. The conversation also explores energy, manifestation, and synchronicity concepts, sharing personal accounts and theories about how these forces might operate in daily life.

Key highlights:

[00:00:00] Introduction to burnout and its effects on productivity

[00:03:19] Benefits of mindfulness and being present rather than just staying busy

[00:07:31] How nighttime can be a productive period for creatives and entrepreneurs

[00:11:02] Benefits of maintaining health through vitamins, fasting, and sleep

[00:14:25] The gradual process of lifestyle changes and their compounding effects

[00:15:32] Oliver's experience with LSD in Portugal and its impact on his worldview

[00:20:59] The realization and acceptance of personal responsibility and independence

[00:25:38] Effects of uncontrolled or excessive thinking

[00:31:17] How meditation and breath work release stored mental and emotional energy

[00:37:56] How certain events seem to align in unexpected and significant ways

[00:41:37] The importance of having clear goals to align with positive energy

Resources:

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