America’s Leading Mid-Life Dating and Relationship Coach

One of the most powerful things about being a human is that we have choices to make in every aspect of our lives.
If you’re feeling hopeless about dating, I invite you to make a choice about how much negativity you watch or listen to online.
Everyone has an opinion on every topic imaginable and if you CHOOSE to fill your mind with all the negative aspects of dating, that’s exactly what you’re inviting into your world.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about choosing to ignore the dating disaster negativity and embracing how dating can be a fun, positive experience.
Let’s talk about…Why Does Love Feel So Hopeless?
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In this episode I’m helping a listener, Jay, who wants to have a loving, long term relationship but feels his time is running out to find that special woman.
We talk about the ways he ‘puts himself out there,’ how he socializes, and what his experiences with online dating were like.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to stay positive about finding love when it feels like you’re trying everything and you still don’t have that special person.
Let’s talk about…Man Who Seeks Love Who Needs Brotherly Advice
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Why can’t we keep the honeymoon phase of a new relationship going longer?
Why do we seem to fall into a trap of having this phase and these feelings for only a short time before “real life” sets in?
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what defines emotional and spiritual relationships and why very few people are good at examining their emotions.
Let’s talk about…Can I Get A Man To Open Up Emotionally?
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In today’s world, women are able to take care of themselves financially. Gone are the days of the 1950s when women couldn’t buy their own home or get a credit card in their own name.
With this empowerment, it’s no surprise that women are also more vocal about what they want in a relationship. Casual sex is great if that’s what both adults want.
But long term relationships take more time to cultivate and these keys will help you build a strong foundation.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why it’s important to know what type of relationship you want and why there’s no harm in planning a future together.
Let’s talk about…Jonathon’s 3 Golden Keys for Relationship Success
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Psychics are not all created equally. Some do care about their clients and will use their intuition for good and others will give random answers just to make a buck.
However, it’s less about the accuracy of the psychic and more about the willingness to be honest about what you truly want in your life.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how intuitives/psychics work and how they can lay out the possibilities for us that were hidden from view.
Let’s talk about…Can A Psychic Predict Your Love Life?
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What types of men are you finding out in the dating world? Are they looking for a long-term commitment? Or are they just looking to fill a temporary void in their lives?
There are 3 general categories that people fall into when it comes to relationships and YOU get to decide which one you want in your life.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why chemistry does NOT equal relationship success and what it means to be a “grower/builder”.
Let’s talk about…If A Man Has THIS He’s More Likely To Fall In Love
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The whole dating process has changed considerably over the years and you’d think with the advent of dating apps, that dating would be easier, right?
Dating is hard, I’m not going to sugar coat it. But so is losing weight or quitting smoking and I think we can agree that those are worthwhile goals.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being consistent in the dating process and how to find fun in dating instead of letting it wear you down.
Let’s talk about…Dating is Hard but Love is Easy
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I’m pleased to have my friend, author and life coach Marni Battista, on this episode today and we’re here to share a secret…
There are good men to date all around you.
There’s no secret island where they’re all kept. They are not in fear of extinction.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how dating is so much more than strategies and which dating apps are the best.
Let’s talk about…Do THIS to Manifest an Amazing Man to Love
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Insecure love often feels like a roller coaster, with plenty of highs and lows. Healthy love is steady and safe, like floating on a still pond.
Without drama and emotional turmoil, healthy love might feel boring, especially if you have bought into the idea that intense chemistry equals a strong relationship.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how healthy love allows you to find peace and grow emotionally while feeling safe and secure.
Let’s talk about…Why Healthy Love Can Feel So Boring
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How many times in the past have you experienced taking your partner for granted? Or maybe it was reversed, where you thought your partner was just along for a ride instead of really deepening your relationship.
Being intentional is how you will find the partner and relationship that you desire.
It’s not about going through the motions of dating; it’s about knowing in your soul what you want in life and learning how to express that to the men you meet in the dating scene.
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about setting intentions about the type of relationship we want and knowing how to uphold that high standard.
Let’s talk about…9 Keys To An Intentional Approach To Love
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Think back to your childhood. I bet you were raised with the traditional gender roles of the men are hunters and the women are nurturers. Also included in that narrative was the idea that men shouldn’t show emotions or they would be labeled a ‘sissy’.
When you throw in socialization, cultural and religious differences, it’s no wonder so many of us grew up not knowing what a healthy relationship looked like!
Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how our old scripts from growing up combined with our external environment plus parental expectations shape our beliefs about relationships.
Let’s talk about…5 Feminine Skills That Instantly Turns a Man On
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