• 43 minutes 25 seconds
    The psychology of becoming a luckier person (8 steps)

    In this episode, I delve into the psychology of luck and give you some practical tips on how to become a luckier person. I talk about the concept of beginner's luck to reframing failures, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you shift your mindset and attract more good fortune into your life.

    I also touch on a study on the psychology of luck, which demonstrates that people who believe they are lucky tend to have higher levels of optimism, hope, and confidence in achieving their goals.

    Tune in to this episode to discover the eight points that will help you become a luckier person. From reframing failures to cultivating a positive attitude, this episode is packed with practical advice that will leave you feeling motivated and empowered to take control of your luck.

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    3 August 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 32 minutes 27 seconds
    How to help someone out of a coercive controlling relationship

    In this head noise episode, I respond to a listeners question around coercive control and I go further in depth, covering the complex and often subtle signs of coercive control in relationships, and offers guidance on how to support loved ones who may be experiencing it. Coercive control is a form of psychological abuse that can be just as damaging as physical violence, and it's essential to recognise the signs and take action.

    I share advice on how to approach conversations with loved ones who may be experiencing coercive control, including how to bring up the topic gently and avoid being judgmental or accusatory. This is focused on providing them with opportunities to regain their independence and autonomy.

    If you or someone you know is experiencing coercive control, this episode is a must-listen.  By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of coercive control and learn how to support those affected by it.

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    30 July 2026, 2:05 pm
  • 24 minutes 36 seconds
    Should you have single time in between relationships?

    In today's episode (a specialized head noise ep), I go into the importance of having a gap between relationships,  the benefits of taking time to heal and focus on personal growth before jumping into a new partnership. 

    Key takeaways from this episode include the importance of recognising patterns in relationships, learning to provide your own happiness, and developing emotional resilience. 

    If you're someone who's struggling to move on from a past love or finds themselves constantly jumping from one relationship to another, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to learn how to break the cycle of rebound relationships and cultivate a healthier approach to love and relationships.

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    30 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 39 minutes 8 seconds
    The neuroscience of intrusive thoughts - How to manage them and what they mean

    Intrusive thoughts - those unwanted, distressing, and often disturbing mental images or urges that pop into our minds without warning. They're a common experience for most people, but for some, they can be debilitating and all-consuming. In this episode, I take you through the neuroscience behind intrusive thoughts, exploring what they are, why they happen, and how to deal with them.

    Intrusive thoughts are not just random occurrences; they're a natural response to our brain's threat detection system, which is always on the lookout for potential dangers. This system can sometimes get a bit creative, leading to hypothetical scenarios that may seem disturbing or violent.

    I also go into the difference between intrusive thoughts and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), where these thoughts can become all-consuming and lead to compulsive behaviors. T

    By the end of the episode, you will have a better grasp of the neuroscience behind intrusive thoughts and some practical tips on how to deal with them.

     

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    28 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 40 minutes 12 seconds
    Things to do to 'unrot' your brain

    In today's episode, I'm going to take you through 16 actionable tips to help you "unrot" our brains, including doing a daily brain training game, carrying a book or kindle, and setting a time limit on passive social media consumption. These tips are designed to be achievable and accessible, making it easier for us to make positive changes in our lives.

    If you're feeling stuck or struggling with brain rot, this episode is a must-listen to help you take control of your mental health and cognitive abilities. So, tune in to learn how to unrot your brain and start living a more fulfilling life.

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    23 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 31 minutes 44 seconds
    Understanding the Neuroscience of Mental Fatigue - Why You Lack Motivation (it is not 'Lazy')

    In this ep I talk about the complex world of cognitive fatigue, going into the neuroscience behind why we feel drained, demotivated, and disconnected from life. We're not just talking about being tired, but a state of being that's often misunderstood. 

    This ep also covers the intricate mechanisms behind our brain's response to stress, inflammation, and disrupted circadian rhythms, the difference between being tired and being fatigued, and how fatigue is a biological response that's not just about sleepiness or physical exhaustion.

    I also cover the role of dopamine, inflammation, and circadian rhythms in contributing to fatigue, as well as the importance of sleep quality, physical activity, and mental stimulation in maintaining our energy levels. Also the impact of phone addiction, social media, and multitasking on our mental fatigue, highlighting the need for a more mindful approach to our digital lives.

    If you're feeling drained, demotivated, or disconnected from life, this episode is a must-listen. I offer practical advice and insights to help you understand the neuroscience behind cognitive fatigue and provides tools for making positive changes to improve your mental well-being. 

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    20 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 32 minutes 52 seconds
    How to Deal With a Partner Who is Weaponising Incompetence + More (Head Noise)

    Welcome to your Head Noise Episode where we cover all kinds of questions from YOU. 

    Today I cover 4 questions, topics range from dealing with a partner who is refusing to pull his weight, choosing between your home town that you love or moving away to find love, timing dating someone new and more. 

    To have your questions answered, send your question to [email protected] 
    Danke!

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    16 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 43 minutes 30 seconds
    Understanding the Neuroscience of Low Self Esteem and How to Improve it

    In this episode, we explore the neural basis of self-esteem and low self-esteem. With a focus on the brain's physical changes that can impact our moods and self-perception, this episode will help you understand the complex relationship between our brains and our sense of self-worth.

    The episode also covers the importance of affect regulation, pride, and self-talk in building high self-esteem. How to manage and respond to emotions, identify your strengths, and how to cultivate positive self-talk.

    If you're struggling with low self-esteem or simply want to understand the science behind this complex topic, this episode will be helpful! 

    Danke for listening. 

     

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    13 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 42 minutes 39 seconds
    Survivorship Bias - What it Can Teach You About Planning Ahead For Success

    In this episode, i talk about the concept of survivorship bias, a logical error that occurs when we focus on successful outcomes and ignore failures, leading to skewed conclusions. This phenomenon is all too common in our daily lives, from the way we perceive success stories to the way we make decisions about our own futures.

    Something to learn from this episode is the importance of considering the entire data set when making decisions. We need to look at both the successes and failures, and not just focus on the former. We need to be aware of our own biases and to take calculated risks, rather than relying on the idea that hard work alone will guarantee success.

    If you're looking to make more informed decisions and avoid the pitfalls of survivorship bias, this episode is a must-listen. By the end of this episode, you'll have a better understanding of how to navigate the complexities of success and failure, and how to make choices that serve you best.

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    9 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 40 minutes 43 seconds
    Ten Ways to Fall in Love With Your Life Again

    In this episode, I share 10 ways to fall in love with your life again, from rethinking the first three minutes of your day to becoming an expert in a new topic each month. We are going on a journey to rediscover the joy in everyday moments.

    One of the key takeaways from this episode is the idea that happiness is not just about achieving big milestones, but also about finding joy in the small, everyday moments.  

    If you're feeling stuck or disconnected from your life, this episode is a must-listen.  So, take a few minutes to listen to this episode and discover the simple yet powerful ways to fall in love with your life again.

    Danke and enjoy!

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    6 July 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 26 minutes 3 seconds
    Did I destroy my marriage?, Avoiding Interactions and Hugs (head noise)

    Welcome to head noise. (I know I am a day late)

    In this episode we cover 

    • What to do when you leave a marriage and then your partner makes all the changes you wanted them to make while you were together, in order to get back with you.
    • How to deal with narcissistic mother in law and her friends.
    • And how to navigate fears around pregnancy and deciding if it is the path you want to go on. 

    If you would like to send in your question, email at [email protected] 

    Danke!

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    3 July 2026, 2:00 pm
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