Bonjour and WELCOME to your Life Advice / Head Noise episode. 

We have 3 voicemail questions today including: 

A partner who's going away for seven weeks, leaving the listener feeling anxious and uncertain. 

A partner who's been involved in infidelity, and isn't sure what her next step is after kicking him OUT.

And a listener who is travelling overseas before returning to study and unsure if she should be going with her boyfriend or not. 

 If you're looking for guidance on how to navigate the ups and downs of love and relationships, this episode is a must-listen. 

To send in your own question, email [email protected] or submit your voicenote via the website - www.dyfmpod.com 

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I am talking all about self-validation and how it can impact our lives. We often seek validation from external sources, but this can lead to a lack of self-worth and confidence.

I cover  the difference between healthy and unhealthy external validation, and how seeking validation from the wrong places can become an addictive cycle. By being more mindful of our actions and reactions, we can start to build a stronger sense of self and develop healthier relationships.

If you're looking to boost your self-confidence and develop a more positive relationship with yourself, this episode is a must-listen. I share practical tips and insights that can help you start to build a stronger sense of self and develop healthier habits. So, tune in to learn more about the importance of self-validation and how you can start to implement these strategies in your own life.

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This episode is a raw and honest TOUGH LOVE listener advice. 

In this episode, I answer questions around letting go from a relationship that's holding you back and how to approach a potentially toxic friendship. I go into the importance of self-awareness, accountability, and communication in relationships, and how these qualities can help you build stronger, healthier connections with others. 

If you're struggling to move on from a toxic relationship or feeling uncertain about how to approach a complicated friendship, this episode is a must-listen. 

To submit a question, please email [email protected] WOOO 

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In this episode, the speaker delves into the concept of attachment and how it can cause suffering in our lives. We're often told to "let go" or "detach" from things that are causing us pain, but what does that really mean? Is it about caring less or loving less? Not quite. Attachment is not the enemy, but rather our unhealthy attachment styles that can lead to anxiety, fear, and grief.

Attachment is not just about relationships, but also about our attachment to physical objects, places, and even our identities. 

I talk about studies that show the effectiveness of attachment security priming in improving positive emotions and reducing negative emotions. And how we can apply this concept to our own lives by identifying what we're attached to, where we stand in relation to it, and how we can use perspective to change our attachment. 

If you're struggling with attachment and the pain it can cause, this episode is a must-listen. 

Studies cited in episode 
- The effectiveness of attachment security priming in improving positive affect and reducing negative affect: A systematic review. PMID: 32033183

- Long term effects of secure attachment priming on mental health in a stressful period of working adults. DOI  https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-025-07842-8

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In today's episode, I am gonna share with you a tool to help you manage your anxiety, improve your focus, and boost your creativity: the brain dump. This simple technique can help you clear your mind, reduce stress, and feel more in control of your life.

This is an essential tool for tackling anxiety and overwhelm. By writing down everything that's on your mind, you can process your emotions, identify patterns, and create a plan to tackle your tasks and goals. 

By the end of this episode, you'll be equipped with the tools and confidence to take control of your thoughts, emotions, and tasks, and start feeling more calm, focused, and productive.

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In this episode, I give you 10 ways to improve your critical thinking skills and become harder to manipulate, no matter who you are dealing with. 

The ep covers a range of topics, from the dangers of loaded analogies and the importance of distinguishing between familiarity and understanding, to the pitfalls of extreme black and white thinking and the halo effect.

 By the end of the ep you will have a better understanding of how to navigate complex conversations and make more informed decisions.

If you're looking to improve your critical thinking skills and become more confident in confrontation, this episode is a must-listen. So, tune in to this episode and discover how to become a more critical thinker and a more confident, empowered human BEAN.

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Head noise / Advice questions! 

We have: 

1. From olympic medals to starting again
2. Is my best friend gaslighting me?
3. How to feel complete as a person. 
   
   If you would like to send in your life DILEMMA, just email me at [email protected] 
   
   Danke! 

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Feeling Overwhelmed? Discover the 5 Simple Steps to Stop Spiralling!

Have you ever found yourself in a state of emotional overwhelm, feeling like you're spiraling out of control? You're not alone. We've all been there, and it's normal to feel like you're drowning in a sea of stress and anxiety. But it is possible to break free from this cycle and find a sense of calm and clarity.

 In this episode, I share with you five simple yet powerful steps to help you stop spiralling and regain control of your emotions.

Hope you try it and it helps. 
Alexis 

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Welcome to the episode of today! 

We are talking ageing, the fear of ageing, feeling left behind, and that timeline that we all compare ourselves too. How can we overcome that and feel good about the season we are in, and be able to let go of the external pressures and comparisons? 

I have six steps that you can start using TODAY that will help make a difference and leave you feeling more fulfilled in who you are, no matter your age, no matter where you sit currently on this 'timeline'. 

Thank you for tuning in! DANKE 

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Bonjour 

Are you tired of feeling stuck in your potential, constantly thinking about all the things you could do, but never actually taking action? Do you feel like you're waiting for the perfect moment or the right resources to start pursuing your goals? In this ep, I talk about the importance of taking action with the resources you already have, rather than waiting for more knowledge, motivation, or potential.

This episode is all about helping you stop wasting your potential and become a person who actually gets things done. The speaker discusses the difference between what you're capable of doing and what you're actually doing, and how to bridge that gap. You'll learn how to make an inventory of your current capabilities, identify the resources you're not using, and start taking action towards your goals.

Try out the challenge at the end of the episode and start taking action with the resources you already have. 

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Life Advice Episode!

(Trigger warning) In this episode we cover dealing with infant loss and friends and family who did not provide support, how to forgive them? (IF you can forgive them). 

Then we talk about how to take on information from a psychic, is it set in stone? Is it a self fulfilling prophecy? 

Lastly I answer a listener question around learning how to be funny. Is it possible to teach this or is it a personality trait you either have or don't. 

One of the key takeaways from this episode is the importance of self-awareness and being able to read the room. I discuss how humor can be a powerful tool for coping with mental health and building connections with others.

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