It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

1 hour 24 minutes
SOLO: Unpacking That Kikiva TikTok & Filip From MAFS Has Advice For Women
It's a big one today!! Abbie unpacks the Kikiva TikTok live drama, and why a lot of the response online is not only disappointing, but problematic. Plus, Filip from MAFS has been posting some interesting videos, and Abbie brings in a special guest to talk about it.

LINKS:
- Check out Mondrof on IG @mondrof_
- Check out Sam's pod Occasionally Funny
- Follow Sam on IG @sammyystants
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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest: Sam Stanton @sammyystants
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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19 October 2026, 3:00 pm
39 minutes 49 seconds
NMF: An Urchin, A Kiwi Cheater, and An Attempted Mugging
This all-time Euro summer (mis)adventure story proves not only the figurative, but literal, power of female friendship ✊⚢ #ytg

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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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15 October 2026, 2:00 pm
1 hour 8 minutes
BBNO$ On Dating, The Antidepressent Honeymoon Phase, and Being Whatever He Wants
Before sculling a litre of milk on stage with him at Yours & Owls, Abbie brought her friend - Canadian rap icon / internet boyfriend - bbno$ into the studio for a lovely lil chat! They talk about his insane work ethic, dealing with hate online, and why he doesn't really think about masculinity.

LINKS
- Buy tickets to the 'The Internet for Palestine; benefitting PCRF', Nov 7 in LA http://bit.ly/4rT2K3N
- Find all things bbno$ at his website https://bbnomula.com/
- Follow bbno$ on IG @bbnomula
- Follow bbno$ on TT @bbnotiktok
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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guest: bbno$ @bbnomula
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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12 October 2026, 4:00 pm
19 minutes 18 seconds
MICHELLE BUTEAU'S NMF: "This is First Testament Sh*t"
Michelle Buteau loves Australia, but she does NOT love creepy crawlies...

LINKS
- Buy tickets to see Michelle Buteau - The Surviving And Thriving Tour in Brisbane, Sydney and Melbourne: https://michellebuteau.org/tour/
- Watch Survival of the Thickest on Netflix https://www.netflix.com/au/title/81354524?source=35&fromWatch=true
- Follow Michelle on IG @michellebuteau
- Follow Michelle on TikTok @michelle.buteau
- Find all things Michelle on her website https://michellebuteau.org/
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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guests: Michelle Buteau @michellebuteau
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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8 October 2026, 2:00 pm
57 minutes 7 seconds
SOLO: Why The Cornell 7 Are Not Separate From Society
The Cornell 7 case has been dominating headlines and social media feeds. It's equal parts horrific, frustrating an maddening. Abbie deconstructs how misogyny and power structures all intertwine to allow this kind of behaviour, and what men actually need to do to help prevent this.

CW: This episode contains mention of sexual assault, please take care while listening and remember help is always available. You can contact Lifeline 24/7 website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or call them 13 11 14. You can also contact 1800RESPECT any time confidentially at 1800 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au.

LINKS:
- Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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5 October 2026, 2:01 pm
43 minutes 33 seconds
SOLO: I'M BURNT OUT!!! HELP!!
Abbie is trying to get out of burn out land but having adult problems and responsibilities makes it so much harder to recover?? So what the hell do we do divas?? Abbie shares her experience with an ADHD coach and what's helping her at the moment, but let us know in the pod form or in the comments what's been helping you cos god knows we all need it

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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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5 October 2026, 2:00 pm
29 minutes 46 seconds
NMF: Never Trust A Tate Lover
That's right, we're treating you with two eps today!! We thought we're all in need of a classic listener story and this chook's is like something off of Abbie's NMF bingo card!

LINKS:
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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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1 October 2026, 3:30 pm
33 minutes 16 seconds
"How Do I Co-Parent with a 'Boys Don't Cry' Dad?" - Dr Billy Garvey Answers Your Parenting Questions
Even after a big chat on Tuesday, there was so much we didn't get to with Billy. So, we've got him back to answer your questions!

LINKS
- Buy Billy's book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-raising-boys-9781761620850
- Follow Billy on IG @drbillygarvey
- Listen to Billy's podcast Pop Culture Parenting: https://linktr.ee/popcultureparenting
- Learn more about Billy's work at Guiding Growing Minds https://linktr.ee/guidinggrowingminds
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CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guests: Dr Billy Garvey @drbillygarvey
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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1 October 2026, 3:00 pm
1 hour 26 minutes
DR BILLY GARVEY: Raising Boys, Masculinity, and Ending the Cycle of Violence
From the manosphere, to mental health, to sexual assault and family violence - it is more apparent than ever that we must reckon with how boys are being raised, and the damaging behaviours that are normalised. But how do we raise boys into emotionally healthy men? Abbie sits down with developmental paediatrician Dr Billy Garvey to discuss his new book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys. They talk about why rigid masculinity is so dangerous, how parents can create safe spaces for their boys, why aggression in boys is a signal not a problem, and so much more. This is an essential conversation for parents, caregivers, and anyone with young boys in their life.

LINKS
- Buy Billy's book Ten Things I Wish You Knew About Raising Boys: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/ten-things-i-wish-you-knew-about-raising-boys-9781761620850
- Follow Billy on IG @drbillygarvey
- Listen to Billy's podcast Pop Culture Parenting: https://linktr.ee/popcultureparenting
- Learn more about Billy's work at Guiding Growing Minds https://linktr.ee/guidinggrowingminds
- Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
- Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
- Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review
CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guests: Dr Billy Garvey @drbillygarvey
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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28 September 2026, 3:00 pm
19 minutes 1 second
Sage Advice From Granny Bingo
The wonderful ladies of Granny Bingo, Edith and Maureen, stuck around for a special bonus episode where they're doling out their sage wisdom to you the lucky listener!

LINKS
- Watch Another Cuppa on YouTube or ABC iView, and listen on ABC Listen or wherever you get your podcasts
- Follow Granny Bingo on IG @grannybingo
- Follow Granny Bingo on FB https://www.facebook.com/EdithAndMaureen/
- See Granny Bingo live https://www.grannybingo.com.au/
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- Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
- Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review
CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guests: Granny Bingo @grannybingo
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
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24 September 2026, 3:30 pm
30 minutes 33 seconds
GRANNY BINGO'S NMF: Setting Fire To A Lesbian & Retail Wars
Get yourself a piping hot cappuccino and settle in with Australia's favourite women of a certain age, Granny Bingo's Edith Vale & Maureen McGillicuddy!! The ladies tell their own on-stage Nightmare Fuel, and take clear sides when they hear a listener's story.

LINKS
- Watch Another Cuppa on YouTube or ABC iView, and listen on ABC Listen or wherever you get your podcasts
- Follow Granny Bingo on IG @grannybingo
- Follow Granny Bingo on FB https://www.facebook.com/EdithAndMaureen/
- See Granny Bingo live https://www.grannybingo.com.au/
- Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
- Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
- Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review
CREDITS
Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
Guests: Granny Bingo @grannybingo
Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball
It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey
Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
24 September 2026, 3:00 pm
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