We were screaming SO loud at this NMF that Mr Walter got up to check we were okay #ally

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CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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CW: This episode contains discussions of mental ill-health, chronic illness, and suicidality. If this raises any issues for you help is available 24/7 via Lifeline at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14, as well as Beyond Blue at 1300 224 636 or https://www.beyondblue.org.au.

At just 16 years old Lily Schubert got sick, eventually receiving a diagnosis of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis. She was forced to drop out of school and was bedbound for six years. Her condition worsened to the point that even small exposures to light, sound, or touch would cause severe crashes. As her symptoms started to improve, she started documenting her life on TikTok, with videos of her 'firsts' reaching millions of people around the world. Lily sits down with Abbie to talk about the reality of living with ME, what helped her get through her darkest days, and why she doesn't subscribe to the 'gratitude' narrative.

LINKS

• Follow Lily on TikTok @lilygschubert
• Follow Lily on Instagram @lilygschubert
• Lily's website http://lilyschubert.com/
• Read Lily's Substack https://substack.com/@lilyschubert
• See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
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CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Lily Schubert @lilygschubert

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Andrew and Tristan Tate were arrested in Florida last week, and are facing extradition to the UK to face 38 additional charges. The Tate brothers deny any wrongdoing. Abbie and Amy are breaking down what happens next, but not before a big long rant about why the discourse around reactions to the arrest is so cooked.

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
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• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS 

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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CW: This episode contains mention of animal cruelty.

This NMF had our jaws ON THE FLOOR!!! Still in shock tbh... This is why you never go to a party alone.

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
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• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's been a minute since Abbie's been on the mic solo, so it's time for a little life update, mental health check in, and Abbie randomly remembering she got in touch with someone from her past...

NOTE: If any content in this episode raises issues for you, please remember that help is always available. Contact Lifeline on 13 11 14, or visit www.lifeline.org.au for 24/7 help. You can also contact Beyond Blue on 1300 22 4636 or visit www.beyondblue.org.au. If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000.

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
• Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
• Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS 

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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It's our first Nightmare Fuel from our new Reddit page!! This group chat drama story's got everything with mentions of the 4B movement, looksmaxxing, birth rates and more...

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
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• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Endometriosis awareness is higher than it's ever been, but why is there still so much that's missing from common knowledge?? Abbie sits down with Prof Jason Abbott, one of Australia's leading experts in endometriosis, pelvic pain, and menstrual disorders. They discuss uncommon endo symptoms, treatment, the latest research, and answer some of your burning questions about the condition.

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
• National Endometriosis Clinical and Scientific Trials Registry and Biorepository (NECST) - https://www.unsw.edu.au/research/necstnetwork/registry
• UNSW Ainsworth Endometriosis Research Institute (AERI) - https://www.unsw.edu.au/institutes/aeri
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CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Professor Jason Abbott

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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We've got something a bit different for you! Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie and Aleks are unpacking an email from a chook who was after some advice about her relationship.

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
• Learn more about Aleks Trkulja https://linktr.ee/ThePleasureCentre
• Follow Aleks on IG @_thepleasurecentre
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• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Aleks Trkulja @_thepleasurecentre

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be talking all about TRAUMA BONDS! What are they? Does it always mean you're in an abusive relationship? What can you do to break the cycle?

If this episode has raised any issues, please know that help is always available. You can contact 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732 or visit 1800respect.org.au. Full Stop Australia also provides 24/7 support online at fullstop.org.au/ or by calling 1800 385 578. If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger, call 000.

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
• Learn more about Aleks Trkulja https://linktr.ee/ThePleasureCentre
• Follow Aleks on IG @_thepleasurecentre
• Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
• Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Aleks Trkulja @_thepleasurecentre

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we have not one but TWO amazing episodes with sex, relationship, body image and trauma therapist (AND Abbie's dear friend) Aleks Trkulja! In this ep Aleks will be answering some of your burning questions about navigating different sex drives, unmasking during sex, and feeling embarrassed about initiating sex.

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
• Learn more about Aleks Trkulja https://linktr.ee/ThePleasureCentre
• Follow Aleks on IG @_thepleasurecentre
• Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
• Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Guest: Aleks Trkulja @_thepleasurecentre

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A short and not-so-sweet horror story about a woman who just won't leave this chook and her family alone!!

LINKS

• See Abbie on tour! https://linktr.ee/abbiechatfieldlovesmen
• Send us your thoughts, topic suggestions, NMFs and more: https://forms.gle/S5Pf327SmVnnC8CE9
• Check out @itsalotpod on IG at https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram.
• Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review

CREDITS

Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.