• 1 hour 13 minutes
    TRISHA PAYTAS: Trolling, Getting Out Of Rock Bottom, and Ethan Klein

    Trisha Paytas is many things... A YouTube icon, an actress, a Broadway performer, a (former) professional rage-baiter... Now, a memoirist. In an Australian podcast exclusive, Abbie sits down with Trisha to discuss her new book 'Crying On The Kitchen Floor', and the ups and downs of her long career in entertainment and on the internet. Trisha talks about the work she had to do to revisit her childhood, the link between self-worth and bad relationships with men, and whether she thinks she's ever been truly 'cancelled'. Plus, Trisha opens up about her and her husband Moses' reactions to the recent revelations from YouTubers (and Trisha's in-laws) Ethan and Hila Klein.


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Guests: Trisha Paytas @trishapaytas

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

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    9 November 2026, 3:00 pm
  • 40 minutes 37 seconds
    NMF: Surviving a Stinky, Steroid-Fuelled, Manosphere Share-House

    It's two of Abbie's favourite topics for a Nightmare Fuel all in one: horrible share-houses AND insecure manosphere freaks!!! Thoughts and prayers to this chook for surviving six months in that hellscape because WOW. There's sharps at the kitchen bench, no bathroom hygiene practices in sight, and some shocking extra details that leave Abbie speechless.


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    5 November 2026, 3:00 pm
  • 5 minutes 38 seconds
    Is This Hard Launch Post Legit?? (LOVE ISLAND GOSS - SPOILER WARNING!!)

    MAJOR POSSIBLE LOVE ISLAND SPOILER WARNING!! It's broken over the last few days that a certain cast member may have posted a hard launch with another Love Islander to a finsta account... Is this legit??


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    5 November 2026, 5:05 am
  • 50 minutes 9 seconds
    "This is the Insecurity Olympics" (LOVE ISLAND RECAPS: Week 2 Episode 7+8)

    We've got a new bombshell this week on Love Island Australia, with Miss New Zealand AKA Sammi! She seems lovely but a bunch of the girls are immediately rude to her for no reason :( Finishing off week 2 strong with more insecurities, a questionable hook-up, a little bit of gaslighting, but also some fabulous conflict resolution so that's something!


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    5 November 2026, 5:00 am
  • 1 hour 6 minutes
    What I Want To Say To Shawnee (LOVE ISLAND RECAPS: Week 2 Episode 5+6)

    Abbie got up at 6am to catch up on Love Island and although we're not at Real Housewives or MAFS levels of drama, things are starting to heat up!! We've got LYING WEIRD MEN, women tearing each other down and insulting each other's appearance, plus jealousy and emotional suppression! WOOHOO! Also, enjoy some deep epiphanies from Amy and Abbie about how the microcosms of reality TV reflect and accentuate heterosexual societal norms tee hee


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    4 November 2026, 7:00 am
  • 1 hour 3 minutes
    SOLO: I Got Hypnotised!! (And I Took Notes)

    ABBIE GOT HYPNOTISED!! She gives Amy a play-by-play of what happened, including some very strange side-effects on the woman hypnotising her (that were actually really helpful for unmasking??). Abbie also reflects on why conventional talk therapy has not always worked for her, how the session helped her approach catastrophizing, hypervigilance, and feeling unsafe in a different way.


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter


    Note: All advice within this podcast is general, and does not take into account your personal situation. Please consult with a healthcare professional before making any decisions about any specific therapies.

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    2 November 2026, 4:00 pm
  • 32 minutes 55 seconds
    The MAGA US mid-term ad attacking childhood sexual assault survivor Amy Acton (ft. Harri James)

    Abbie is joined by friend of the show Harri James discuss the use of Amy Acton’s childhood sexual abuse in a political ad during Ohio’s governor’s race. Drawing on Harry’s own experience as a survivor, they examine the harm caused when trauma is turned into campaign ammunition, the hypocrisy in the reaction from Republicans to the backlash, and the barriers misogynistic abuse creates for women in public life.


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Guest: Harrison James @itsharrijames

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 November 2026, 2:00 pm
  • 27 minutes 35 seconds
    Why Is Nat So Upset (LOVE ISLAND RECAPS: Week 1 Episode 3+4)

    New bombshells, an elimination, and a few almost-correct idioms to round out week 1 of season 8 of Love Island Australia!


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 October 2026, 11:00 pm
  • 42 minutes 49 seconds
    NMF: I dated a man-child who is also a TikTok influencer

    There's weaponised incompetence, and then there's this guy...


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 October 2026, 3:00 pm
  • 43 minutes 18 seconds
    My Love Island Premiere Thoughts (LOVE ISLAND RECAPS: Week 1 Episode 1+2)

    A hot new recaps series just entered the villa... Abbie is here to tell you all you need to know about Season 8 of Love Island Australia! Episodes 1 & 2 we get to know all our islanders and sow the seeds of some drama to come...


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 October 2026, 6:00 am
  • 35 minutes 18 seconds
    BONUS: The "Silent Killer" Cancer Carly Findlay Didn't Know She Had

    CW: This episode contains discussions of cancer, bowel movements, fear of food, and suicide.


    In 2024, appearance activist Carly Findlay thought she just had a gastro bug, or maybe IBS. One person told her she might even have caught dysentery on holiday. Five months later she was in hospital being told she had ovarian and endometrial cancer. Carly tells Abbie about her journey from mystery symptoms to diagnosis, surgery and gruelling treatment. Now cancer-free, Carly is an ambassador for Frocktober, an organisation raising awareness for ovarian and endometrial cancer, and raising money for critical research into this silent killer.


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    Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield

    Guests: Carly Findlay @carlyfindlay

    Executive Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball @amy.kimball

    It's A Lot Social Media Manager: Julia Toomey

    Social Media and Marketing Strategist: Elizabeth Baxter

    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 October 2026, 3:00 pm
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